I've been friends with this totally perfect guy for a few months now and the entire time I've been interested in making something more of it, recently I made a move and he was kinda skeptical about it claiming to have 'never really thought about it before' and saying that he's just a normal straight guy but he's agreed to go out on ONE date with me:
problem is I don't know what to talk about, we already know each other as friends and I don't want him to think that this is just a normal two friends together type thing - otherwise he'll just think that our relationship can't go further than just being friends. So I was hoping that people might have some conversation advice for me.Gay dating advice anyone?
I think casual is the way to go. If I were in your spot, I would do something that 2 friends would do. This way, it feels the same as any other time you guys have hung out, and he won't feel uncomfortable. I know you said you want to do something different, but I'm wondering if something out of the realm of what he's used to would be too much for him. As far as him mistaking the date as a friends night out, he knows its a date and that you're interested in taking the relationship further because he agreed to a date. As far as conversation, same idea. Keep the conversation casual: school, work, hobbies, what you've each been up to lately, news, movies, sports, etc...
Suggestions for places to go: a casual dinner, a movie, a hiking trip, something like that.
Have a great time and I hope this helped.Gay dating advice anyone?
man leave him alone we dont need another gay guy in dis world!
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