Girls dating advice...help!!!!?

ok so my question is simple-when a guy tells you that they like you and all that, but you tell them u only like em as friends, do u feel akward when u see them after that??? when i tell a girl i like them, and they dont really like me back like that, i get kinda butterflies in my stomach when i see her after that because i know she knows i like her?? do girls feel the same way??? is it weird knowing a guy likes you, but you dont like em.?? help, thanksGirls dating advice...help!!!!?
yes. it's awkward because you're afraid you might have hurt their feelings. and then you feel bad.





i think you should just act like nothing happened in the sense that you should act just like you did before you told them.


they just want things to be back the way things were. girls don't want any tension between them (you).





if you want you can explain to them and be like 'hey. i understand that you don't like me. and that's cool. i just don't want things to be awkward. ok?' and then after their response suggest a fun, carefree activity you can do together, to kind of relieve the tension.Girls dating advice...help!!!!?
yeah, it's sort of weird-- most of the time we will try to avoid you, and try not to say the wrong thing because we might lead you on or hurt your feelings
Yeah, they feel awkward and guilty, because they don't know if what they said hurt your feelings or not.