Dating advice: am i being a doormat? HELP?

so, i've been kind of dating this guy since december. we were friends with benefits for a while, but it turned seroius around may til august. things were going well, and he always says nice tthings, but he kind of does douch-ey things which worry me. i don't want to be clingy, and i don't want to be naggy, so i dont' want to ask him why and how he feels. i moved 6 hrs away last week, and we had sex the night before i left. it was a romantic night, and he gave me a gift.the next day, he does not call me. i was a bit hurt and weirded out that he did not want to know how i was doing. he didn't call me for the next few days. i caleld him saturday, he called me back twice. and finally we talked sunday night for an hour and a half. he says ';i mis you baby i'll call you tomorrow'; and then no call the next day. he finally aims me two days later and i'm just actin nonchalant and distant. then he tells me hesgoing to lunch with his ex girlfreind who is his ';best friend'; but she has a boyfriend she lives with. but it still makes me nervous. i haven't called him because i want to see if he actually cares and will call me. am i being a doormat by not mentioning it? shold i mention the not calling me when he says he will? or what? i don't care if we don't atlk, but i hate it when he lies about stupid things. and not calling after sex is rude isn't it?Dating advice: am i being a doormat? HELP?
unfortunatley.. you can't say anything because he's not your boyfriend. and if you were to be in a relationship with him tell him you'd appreciate it if he would call you when he says. now if he still doesn't its up to you whether or not you want to deal with it. he won't change because you say so.Dating advice: am i being a doormat? HELP?
This is why it is best to wait until you are married.