Lesbian dating advice?

I am just looking for an opinion. I am kind of inexperienced in dating. It took me a while to find a potential girlfriend after coming out. Well I was starting to get to know this girl, and it seemed to be going ok. We had just met a little while earlier. I was texting her a lot and asking her to hang out a lot. She didnt seem to mind it at the time, but later on, I asked her for an opinion on whether she thought I was strange. She said that she thought I was too clingy. She thought it was weird that I was that clingy in the beginning. I got advice from my straight friends, and they were kind of pressuring me into getting to know her faster, and saying if I didnt she would only consider me a friend and that it. She seems to be over it, and wants to chill again, she just said that when I meet new women not to act that way because its a turn off. What is everyone elses opinion? Do you enjoy the attention, or does it get annoying?Lesbian dating advice?
She's correct. I used to be like you. After dating too many girls and not understanding why things weren't working out, I decided to change and do things differently. Now, I have my friends that I spend a great deal of my time with and I'm more conscious of how often I contact my lover.Lesbian dating advice?
Everything in moderation is the key. Never ask a person if they think you are strange, never text someone more than once a day. Attention is nice, like sending flowers (not often though). Listening to a woman is the best form of attention. Listening and letting her talk about herself. You are being too clingy for most of the population, but some ladies like that. Suss out the reactions you get. Move slow enough not to scare someone, but fast enough that they know you are interested. Then sit back and examine their reactions.
It could get annoying. The most unattractive thing about a person is them being desperate.
I think you should not be to clingy
I think your friends are right, in that you should have probably made a move, yes. However, she's also correct in that you shouldn't become to clingy. Don't avoid the natural progression of things, going on dates, becoming closer, etc.





Attention is good, until it becomes too much. There's a time and place for a lot of attention, and when you just meet someone, it's not really the best time for it. That's just my opinion though.