Dating advice.... I'm confused, please help me :(?

Brief history on me....


I have two kids and I am just getting out a a long term relationship. I was married for a little over three years, so I'm not quite knowledgeable on dating any more.





I have this friend named Larry. He was and might still be head over heals for my sister Liz before we met. I talked to him online for a little bit before we actually met. We just recently started hanging out and I REALLY like him. He's not my usual taste in guys but I do find him attractive (personality and looks).


We are still getting to know each other. Well this weekend I went to hang out with him. He REALLY wanted to go play beer pong with his friends at some girls house. I didn't really want to go but he insisted. Well while I was there, my sister came up to me and told me that Larry was and still is sleeping with the female that lived there. I'm not dating Larry, but we are sleeping together. So I think I have no right to get upset, but I did. He took me to his F*** buddies house to hang out with! Well naturally when we left I asked him about it and he was mad that my sister told me, but he did admit it. He did say that he was drunk and he really wasn't interested in her and that she really is just a friend. He also said he didn't know what the big deal was because he's not dating me or her. Well when I got home and he left, I thought about the situation. I called him up and asked him if he really did like me or if he hung out with me for different reasons... He said his normal bit and told me if he didn't like me he wouldn't talk to me on the phone every day. I told him that he wasn't really answering my question, and he said he does like me but he odesn't know to what extent. So I asked him if the situation was flipped and I took him to some guys house that I had slept with would he be just as upset as me as I was with him. He said no. I immediately felt rejected. I realized that I like him more then he does me, and now I'm wondering if his intentions are the same as mine. I don't want to get hurt, but I also don't want to cut him. I can't just be friends with him now, and hang out like normal, because I really like him. I'm scared if I stay in this situation and just wait for him to come around that I'll fall more for him and find out my worries were true. But I also don't want to read into his reaction or what he says to me either, and find out that my worries are false. We've only really hung out alone together twice now. but we talk on the phone everyday about 3 times a day. so it's not too physical (all though both times we hung out, we had sex) both times we hung out they were over night.... Help me, I'm confused.Dating advice.... I'm confused, please help me :(?
Woah, thats a crazy situation there, but if i were you, i would forget about this guy, This guy just wants sex, he even wants your sister and if this guy sleeps with another woman in her house, ';ding ding ding'; alarm bells ringing there.





So get out of that situation asap and find some1 who really cares about you and not use you as a ';sex toy';.





Hope it helps and good luck with the sticky situation you have here.