I have bulmia and i am a big girl. Ive been dating but i really struggle with a bloke being too into me. I feel trapped when they are so full on with txting me and wouldnt someone without bulmia find this lovely and not stressful like me? Also i find it such a turn off when a bloke says he likes big women. im disgusted with myself so how can i like a bloke who finds me attractive. Is this all bulmia talking or is this something other women without eating disorders feel also? I find i have to get out of the dating when they keep giving me lots of attention and compliments and im not so into them. i really would like some advice as i cant cope with dating as i get so stressed out.Bulimia and dating: advice please?
i think you need to get over your bulimia before you start dating! im an expert on anorexia and bulimia you need to get help. im not them kinda people who says get help your stupid. i know what your going through. but i don't think anythings going to work if your going to continue to feel like this when you date XD hope this helps your situation
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Need some dating advice. NOW?
My girlfriend and I have been together for two months now, and have decided to consummate our relationship. We have discussed precautions, and I feel we have taken everything very seriously.
Last night, she asked me if I would take a suggestion. We had been making out, and I was almost certain it would be “our” night. She jumped up, went into the other room, and rolled a large map of the United States, with weather-related magnets all over it (sun, “H”s and “L”s, storm clouds, etc.). She asked me to stand in front of it, and begin to give the weather forecast to her. Obviously, I wasn’t prepared for this, so I began to ad-lib it. As I progressed, she asked me to replace any instance where I might say the words “San Diego” (where we live) with “our bedroom”. For example, she asked me to say, “Today, it will be very hot and moist...in our bedroom”. The more I talked, the more obviously aroused she became.Need some dating advice. NOW?
Only some kind of a twisted freak would even come up with this idea.Need some dating advice. NOW?
You got a kinky one, there!
Turnabout is fair play - she now needs to do the full sports report nude, including the stupid sports like womens basketball.
You weren't complaining when you did this for me when we were together, stop tryng to act like you didn't like it too %26gt;:-)
i just want to know why she waited two months to bring this up...i think i'll ';borrow'; the idea...
this is obviously from the head of a psycho, a psycho GENIOUS
She is a very playful and creative woman. She's a keeper! You'll get used to it, really. That's no reason to be humiliated, it's a game. She's really into you, can you tell?
I would highly doubt she's going to want you to do this EVERY time you have sex. As long as the sex was good, I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Now...if she tries to get you to be the weather girl next time, then you may have a problem.
Next time darling - I would suggest letting your fingers do the ROAMING
Works for me anyway
Think yourself lucky you don't live in Alaska
Next time just videotape it. That way she can watch it before you guys copulate.
She likes fantasies, just let her know your not into it all the time.
Sounds hot.. can you introduce me to her?
That's slightly bizarre! If it makes you feel humiliated, you need to tell her that. I'm sure you'll work out something that is comfortable and exciting for both of you.
Just bring your Bert and Ernie costumes next time so she knows how you roll.
Just be like: I'll show your exosphere a high pressure system. And then you can bathe in my jet stream.
Last night, she asked me if I would take a suggestion. We had been making out, and I was almost certain it would be “our” night. She jumped up, went into the other room, and rolled a large map of the United States, with weather-related magnets all over it (sun, “H”s and “L”s, storm clouds, etc.). She asked me to stand in front of it, and begin to give the weather forecast to her. Obviously, I wasn’t prepared for this, so I began to ad-lib it. As I progressed, she asked me to replace any instance where I might say the words “San Diego” (where we live) with “our bedroom”. For example, she asked me to say, “Today, it will be very hot and moist...in our bedroom”. The more I talked, the more obviously aroused she became.Need some dating advice. NOW?
Only some kind of a twisted freak would even come up with this idea.Need some dating advice. NOW?
You got a kinky one, there!
Turnabout is fair play - she now needs to do the full sports report nude, including the stupid sports like womens basketball.
You weren't complaining when you did this for me when we were together, stop tryng to act like you didn't like it too %26gt;:-)
i just want to know why she waited two months to bring this up...i think i'll ';borrow'; the idea...
this is obviously from the head of a psycho, a psycho GENIOUS
She is a very playful and creative woman. She's a keeper! You'll get used to it, really. That's no reason to be humiliated, it's a game. She's really into you, can you tell?
I would highly doubt she's going to want you to do this EVERY time you have sex. As long as the sex was good, I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Now...if she tries to get you to be the weather girl next time, then you may have a problem.
Next time darling - I would suggest letting your fingers do the ROAMING
Works for me anyway
Think yourself lucky you don't live in Alaska
Next time just videotape it. That way she can watch it before you guys copulate.
She likes fantasies, just let her know your not into it all the time.
Sounds hot.. can you introduce me to her?
That's slightly bizarre! If it makes you feel humiliated, you need to tell her that. I'm sure you'll work out something that is comfortable and exciting for both of you.
Just bring your Bert and Ernie costumes next time so she knows how you roll.
Just be like: I'll show your exosphere a high pressure system. And then you can bathe in my jet stream.
I need dating advice badly...?
ok i'm 15, about 7 months ago i dated this guy named ';M'; ( tahts what we'll call him for now) M and I were like .. amazing together, but then we broke up... for no good reason i'm not really sure what happen. then a few months after that we ';sexted'; and got caught, so our parents hate us. now it's been about 6 months, and I'm dating this guy named ';D'; and we're really happy, atleast he is... like he's SOO sweeet and wouldnt do anything to hurt me, but he's kinda boring and obsessive.. ';M'; called me today and confessed himself about how he REALLY likes me ... and wants to get back together. but my parents hate him and his hate me.. idk what to do, breaking up with ';D'; would be devistating for him... and ';M'; would lead to problems with my family, but i like ';M'; more. i think. he's just more fun, and i'm just so dang confused. i need DESPERATE HELP!I need dating advice badly...?
well fiine someone else then break up with D and say no to MI need dating advice badly...?
i think what you should do is break up with both of them! wait and find someone that will be the best for you and remember, don't rush things!
Parents are a good judge of character at times, if they don't like M then you probably shouldn't be with him. And you need to break it off with D because you still have feelings for M and that's not fair to D. It sounds like you need to stay single for awhile! Just take some time to yourself, you don't need a man to complete you! and your so young don't worry about boys right now!!!!!!!!!
If you really like ';M'; more then go for him, cause even if both of the parents dislike you it shouldn't matter as long as there son is happy they should be happy and the same goes for your parents. so don't worry about what they have to think just follow your heart is the best thing to do i hope i helped and good luck!
i think regardless of parents you shudnt let that get in the way.
you should just break up with D and go back out with M.
clearly M makes you happier so go for him.
who cares what parents think and im SURE they dont hate you and theyll forget about that and put it in the past and move on %26amp; end up loving you both =)
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Well, I think you should break up with D, because clearly you don't like him as much as he likes you. Just say you need some time away. And I think you should see what happens with M. I don't think you should get back together with M right away.. or D will know why you really dumped him. So i say stay single for a couple days at least.. and see what M does.. and if you really want to be with him !
You like M because he is the bad boy. You like D because he makes you feel secure. Trust me, I know you hate to hear this but you are so young to be so serious. Just be single and enjoy your teen years. flirt with whomever you want(just be safe) and have fun. trust me when you get into your twenties those relationships will make you laugh.
Tell them both you want to be friends.
Your parents are only trying to look out for you-just be careful next time you are doing those things. Your parents were young once too so they know more than you think.
Your desperate all right.
Your dating a guy who is obsessive and boring so you won't be alone and/or so his feelings won't be hurt.How PATHETIC is that hon?
You and ';M'; shot your wad by being trashy and ';sexting';.No wonder your parents hate him and his hate you.Neither set of parents want to become GRAND parents!
You need to STOP dating until your parents say it is ok and then it needs to be with a guy you date because he is a good decent human being and because you like him,NOT because you just have to have a b/f and anyone will do or date a guy because you feel sorry for him.That is so loserish.natural cosmetics
well fiine someone else then break up with D and say no to MI need dating advice badly...?
i think what you should do is break up with both of them! wait and find someone that will be the best for you and remember, don't rush things!
Parents are a good judge of character at times, if they don't like M then you probably shouldn't be with him. And you need to break it off with D because you still have feelings for M and that's not fair to D. It sounds like you need to stay single for awhile! Just take some time to yourself, you don't need a man to complete you! and your so young don't worry about boys right now!!!!!!!!!
If you really like ';M'; more then go for him, cause even if both of the parents dislike you it shouldn't matter as long as there son is happy they should be happy and the same goes for your parents. so don't worry about what they have to think just follow your heart is the best thing to do i hope i helped and good luck!
i think regardless of parents you shudnt let that get in the way.
you should just break up with D and go back out with M.
clearly M makes you happier so go for him.
who cares what parents think and im SURE they dont hate you and theyll forget about that and put it in the past and move on %26amp; end up loving you both =)
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Well, I think you should break up with D, because clearly you don't like him as much as he likes you. Just say you need some time away. And I think you should see what happens with M. I don't think you should get back together with M right away.. or D will know why you really dumped him. So i say stay single for a couple days at least.. and see what M does.. and if you really want to be with him !
You like M because he is the bad boy. You like D because he makes you feel secure. Trust me, I know you hate to hear this but you are so young to be so serious. Just be single and enjoy your teen years. flirt with whomever you want(just be safe) and have fun. trust me when you get into your twenties those relationships will make you laugh.
Tell them both you want to be friends.
Your parents are only trying to look out for you-just be careful next time you are doing those things. Your parents were young once too so they know more than you think.
Your desperate all right.
Your dating a guy who is obsessive and boring so you won't be alone and/or so his feelings won't be hurt.How PATHETIC is that hon?
You and ';M'; shot your wad by being trashy and ';sexting';.No wonder your parents hate him and his hate you.Neither set of parents want to become GRAND parents!
You need to STOP dating until your parents say it is ok and then it needs to be with a guy you date because he is a good decent human being and because you like him,NOT because you just have to have a b/f and anyone will do or date a guy because you feel sorry for him.That is so loserish.
I need dating advice!?
my BEST guy friend ( the guy i like )and i have been flirting alot lately.. everyone says that he likes me so i got his best friend which is also one of my good friends to hook us up at first the guy i like said he dusnt know if hed go out with me then just today he told his friend that he dusnt want our friendship to be ruined then he said that he wouldnt want what happened to me and his other friend who used to be dating to happen to us.. so idk what to do.. i want him to kno that i like him way more than his friend and i know that the same thing wouldnt happen but idk what to do HELP ME!?I need dating advice!?
dont kno what to say cause im in the same situation. but i guess you could just go for it. you should stilll talk to each other afterwords if your best friends.
dont kno what to say cause im in the same situation. but i guess you could just go for it. you should stilll talk to each other afterwords if your best friends.
I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
okay i'm 18 and moving to san francisco in a couple of days to go 2 school. I am very good at giving relationship advice. I give relationship advice to all my friends, it almost seems like I know men and women when it comes to relationships like the back of my hand. The thing is that I have had the worst luck with relationships and can't seem to find someone. I have been single for a year. I consider myself to be an attractive person with a great personality, I wear nice clothing and present myself in a professional mature way, but why is it that I can't seem to find a date. I always seem to attract the losers with no brains that will come up to anyone. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong!I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
6th grade dating advice?
o.k i am in 6th grade i am 11 i skipped a grade. Now when I was new in the beginning of the year i was stupid i tried to be teachers pet this guy named Will liked me wanted my cell number me avoiding him he went out with a 7th grader stupid me really liked him so now he broke up few more weeks of skool I keep dreaming about aking him out but just can't so don't know what to do he hardly ever talks to me because I was dorky now i am pretty cool I don't talk lay back dress cool but he dresses cool but can talk i cant dont know what to say older girls are mean never talk to me so what do i do? I really really like him a lot never told any1 i did though plus there is this other girl really ugly but every1 likes her cause she cries and is dramatic she now is single so i got to hurry. I am the prettyest 1 in my class 1 is an indian and 1 has zits they ar ugly so help i really really like him before other girl gets him what to do?6th grade dating advice?
let me lay u out on somthin i herd that if u go up to a boy kid and hes talking to his freinds u can ask them or if that dosent work you can be really flirty is he in ur class if so u can go up to him and act all flirty if that dosent work just call me or just email me!6th grade dating advice?
You are kinda self absorbed... That may be why he doesn't like you. other than that I couldn't really understand what you were saying.
you should try to talk to him more like on aim or something and get to know him better. make sure he is the one you have been looking for before you try to ask him out. boys are immature and it takes a while for them to mature and change. at first when you didnt like him and he knew, he moved on and went out with someone else. boys are like that. but yeah, try talking to him more and be a little flirty so he'll get the hint that you like him again. best of luck to you =]
let me lay u out on somthin i herd that if u go up to a boy kid and hes talking to his freinds u can ask them or if that dosent work you can be really flirty is he in ur class if so u can go up to him and act all flirty if that dosent work just call me or just email me!6th grade dating advice?
You are kinda self absorbed... That may be why he doesn't like you. other than that I couldn't really understand what you were saying.
you should try to talk to him more like on aim or something and get to know him better. make sure he is the one you have been looking for before you try to ask him out. boys are immature and it takes a while for them to mature and change. at first when you didnt like him and he knew, he moved on and went out with someone else. boys are like that. but yeah, try talking to him more and be a little flirty so he'll get the hint that you like him again. best of luck to you =]
I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
hahaha. But, seriously, I need some help with something.
(there's kinda of a LOT to read but just please read it all)
Okay, I just started high school about a month ago. I met this girl that I had noticed once in June (when I was taking this other class), and I started to like her. She's very cute, shes a great taste in music, and a cool style. Well, I asked her out (on Facebook, yes I'm a dumbass) and she said yes. So, I'm all happy about this, and then a week later we go on a ';official date';. Well..... It doesn't go great, and the problem is that we didn't talk enough. So, that night (again: on facebook [lol]) she tells me that maybe we should just be friends for a little while to help get to know each other better...... that was two weeks ago... we're not dating. So, it's not that we haven't been talking like at all! but, it's just like.... I don't know if she likes me, and I don't want to get to hung over her. So, what should I do to really figure this out? I still like her, but I don't know if she does.
Please help any way you can. :)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
Just take it easy and get to know her. The best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Just be there for her and she will eventually come around. =)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
well, all you have to do is just ask her if she likes you. flirt with her. text her cute text messages.
:)
if she doesnt like you, THEN, there is other fish in the sea. (;
(there's kinda of a LOT to read but just please read it all)
Okay, I just started high school about a month ago. I met this girl that I had noticed once in June (when I was taking this other class), and I started to like her. She's very cute, shes a great taste in music, and a cool style. Well, I asked her out (on Facebook, yes I'm a dumbass) and she said yes. So, I'm all happy about this, and then a week later we go on a ';official date';. Well..... It doesn't go great, and the problem is that we didn't talk enough. So, that night (again: on facebook [lol]) she tells me that maybe we should just be friends for a little while to help get to know each other better...... that was two weeks ago... we're not dating. So, it's not that we haven't been talking like at all! but, it's just like.... I don't know if she likes me, and I don't want to get to hung over her. So, what should I do to really figure this out? I still like her, but I don't know if she does.
Please help any way you can. :)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
Just take it easy and get to know her. The best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Just be there for her and she will eventually come around. =)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
well, all you have to do is just ask her if she likes you. flirt with her. text her cute text messages.
:)
if she doesnt like you, THEN, there is other fish in the sea. (;
Guys: any dating advice...?
okay i''m in the 8th grade and all my friends are saying that i should've had a boyfriend already. they say that a guy would love to be dating a tall,slender,long-legged,blue-green eyed beauty.but the thing is is that there is just not a good selection of guys. in middle school everyone knows everyone. and i've been trying to tell them that dating in middle school isn't important because: the guy doesn't have a car.he doesn't have a job. and the latest he could stay out on a date is 10:30.
but any way guys,any dating advice for when i'm in high school?Guys: any dating advice...?
when you enter high school don't be afraid to ask someone out that you find a attractive. and don't just look for guys that you find cute look for smart and level headed guys. i'm in 8th grade also and i know guys and your right middle school guys are immature so its good to wait till high school.Guys: any dating advice...?
so simple just choose the guy to whom u want to date than ask him for some kind of notes and than say him that u could not understand few things and than just call him 2 ur home or any where and than change the topic.
And start talking some thing about love and all this stuff it will bring u to the successfull date.
Your friends are just expressing surprise at the fact that you're not surrounded by boys... or maybe taking a subtle dig at you, trying to make you think there's something wrong with you. There's not. You'll know when you're ready to date, so don't feel rushed. 8th-grade boys are probably too scared to ask you out anyway.
You're also right that dating in middle school doesn't mean much. You won't go out on unsupervised dates, so it's a stretch to even call it ';dating';.
As far as advice for dating in high school, just remember that most people find the love of their lives *after* high school. You'll have crushes; you'll fall in love; but don't start thinking that anyone you meet in high school is your one-and-only.
but any way guys,any dating advice for when i'm in high school?Guys: any dating advice...?
when you enter high school don't be afraid to ask someone out that you find a attractive. and don't just look for guys that you find cute look for smart and level headed guys. i'm in 8th grade also and i know guys and your right middle school guys are immature so its good to wait till high school.Guys: any dating advice...?
so simple just choose the guy to whom u want to date than ask him for some kind of notes and than say him that u could not understand few things and than just call him 2 ur home or any where and than change the topic.
And start talking some thing about love and all this stuff it will bring u to the successfull date.
Your friends are just expressing surprise at the fact that you're not surrounded by boys... or maybe taking a subtle dig at you, trying to make you think there's something wrong with you. There's not. You'll know when you're ready to date, so don't feel rushed. 8th-grade boys are probably too scared to ask you out anyway.
You're also right that dating in middle school doesn't mean much. You won't go out on unsupervised dates, so it's a stretch to even call it ';dating';.
As far as advice for dating in high school, just remember that most people find the love of their lives *after* high school. You'll have crushes; you'll fall in love; but don't start thinking that anyone you meet in high school is your one-and-only.
Bulimia and dating: advice please?
I have bulmia and i am a big girl. Ive been dating but i really struggle with a bloke being too into me. I feel trapped when they are so full on with txting me and wouldnt someone without bulmia find this lovely and not stressful like me? Also i find it such a turn off when a bloke says he likes big women. im disgusted with myself so how can i like a bloke who finds me attractive. Is this all bulmia talking or is this something other women without eating disorders feel also? I find i have to get out of the dating when they keep giving me lots of attention and compliments and im not so into them. i really would like some advice as i cant cope with dating as i get so stressed out.Bulimia and dating: advice please?
i think you need to get over your bulimia before you start dating! im an expert on anorexia and bulimia you need to get help. im not them kinda people who says get help your stupid. i know what your going through. but i don't think anythings going to work if your going to continue to feel like this when you date XD hope this helps your situationnatural cosmetics
i think you need to get over your bulimia before you start dating! im an expert on anorexia and bulimia you need to get help. im not them kinda people who says get help your stupid. i know what your going through. but i don't think anythings going to work if your going to continue to feel like this when you date XD hope this helps your situation
Need some dating advice. NOW?
My girlfriend and I have been together for two months now, and have decided to consummate our relationship. We have discussed precautions, and I feel we have taken everything very seriously.
Last night, she asked me if I would take a suggestion. We had been making out, and I was almost certain it would be “our” night. She jumped up, went into the other room, and rolled a large map of the United States, with weather-related magnets all over it (sun, “H”s and “L”s, storm clouds, etc.). She asked me to stand in front of it, and begin to give the weather forecast to her. Obviously, I wasn’t prepared for this, so I began to ad-lib it. As I progressed, she asked me to replace any instance where I might say the words “San Diego” (where we live) with “our bedroom”. For example, she asked me to say, “Today, it will be very hot and moist...in our bedroom”. The more I talked, the more obviously aroused she became.Need some dating advice. NOW?
Only some kind of a twisted freak would even come up with this idea.Need some dating advice. NOW?
You got a kinky one, there!
Turnabout is fair play - she now needs to do the full sports report nude, including the stupid sports like womens basketball.
You weren't complaining when you did this for me when we were together, stop tryng to act like you didn't like it too %26gt;:-)
i just want to know why she waited two months to bring this up...i think i'll ';borrow'; the idea...
this is obviously from the head of a psycho, a psycho GENIOUS
She is a very playful and creative woman. She's a keeper! You'll get used to it, really. That's no reason to be humiliated, it's a game. She's really into you, can you tell?
I would highly doubt she's going to want you to do this EVERY time you have sex. As long as the sex was good, I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Now...if she tries to get you to be the weather girl next time, then you may have a problem.
Next time darling - I would suggest letting your fingers do the ROAMING
Works for me anyway
Think yourself lucky you don't live in Alaska
Next time just videotape it. That way she can watch it before you guys copulate.
She likes fantasies, just let her know your not into it all the time.
Sounds hot.. can you introduce me to her?
That's slightly bizarre! If it makes you feel humiliated, you need to tell her that. I'm sure you'll work out something that is comfortable and exciting for both of you.
Just bring your Bert and Ernie costumes next time so she knows how you roll.
Just be like: I'll show your exosphere a high pressure system. And then you can bathe in my jet stream.
Last night, she asked me if I would take a suggestion. We had been making out, and I was almost certain it would be “our” night. She jumped up, went into the other room, and rolled a large map of the United States, with weather-related magnets all over it (sun, “H”s and “L”s, storm clouds, etc.). She asked me to stand in front of it, and begin to give the weather forecast to her. Obviously, I wasn’t prepared for this, so I began to ad-lib it. As I progressed, she asked me to replace any instance where I might say the words “San Diego” (where we live) with “our bedroom”. For example, she asked me to say, “Today, it will be very hot and moist...in our bedroom”. The more I talked, the more obviously aroused she became.Need some dating advice. NOW?
Only some kind of a twisted freak would even come up with this idea.Need some dating advice. NOW?
You got a kinky one, there!
Turnabout is fair play - she now needs to do the full sports report nude, including the stupid sports like womens basketball.
You weren't complaining when you did this for me when we were together, stop tryng to act like you didn't like it too %26gt;:-)
i just want to know why she waited two months to bring this up...i think i'll ';borrow'; the idea...
this is obviously from the head of a psycho, a psycho GENIOUS
She is a very playful and creative woman. She's a keeper! You'll get used to it, really. That's no reason to be humiliated, it's a game. She's really into you, can you tell?
I would highly doubt she's going to want you to do this EVERY time you have sex. As long as the sex was good, I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Now...if she tries to get you to be the weather girl next time, then you may have a problem.
Next time darling - I would suggest letting your fingers do the ROAMING
Works for me anyway
Think yourself lucky you don't live in Alaska
Next time just videotape it. That way she can watch it before you guys copulate.
She likes fantasies, just let her know your not into it all the time.
Sounds hot.. can you introduce me to her?
That's slightly bizarre! If it makes you feel humiliated, you need to tell her that. I'm sure you'll work out something that is comfortable and exciting for both of you.
Just bring your Bert and Ernie costumes next time so she knows how you roll.
Just be like: I'll show your exosphere a high pressure system. And then you can bathe in my jet stream.
I need dating advice badly...?
ok i'm 15, about 7 months ago i dated this guy named ';M'; ( tahts what we'll call him for now) M and I were like .. amazing together, but then we broke up... for no good reason i'm not really sure what happen. then a few months after that we ';sexted'; and got caught, so our parents hate us. now it's been about 6 months, and I'm dating this guy named ';D'; and we're really happy, atleast he is... like he's SOO sweeet and wouldnt do anything to hurt me, but he's kinda boring and obsessive.. ';M'; called me today and confessed himself about how he REALLY likes me ... and wants to get back together. but my parents hate him and his hate me.. idk what to do, breaking up with ';D'; would be devistating for him... and ';M'; would lead to problems with my family, but i like ';M'; more. i think. he's just more fun, and i'm just so dang confused. i need DESPERATE HELP!I need dating advice badly...?
If you really like ';M'; more then go for him, cause even if both of the parents dislike you it shouldn't matter as long as there son is happy they should be happy and the same goes for your parents. so don't worry about what they have to think just follow your heart is the best thing to do i hope i helped and good luck!I need dating advice badly...?
Your desperate all right.
Your dating a guy who is obsessive and boring so you won't be alone and/or so his feelings won't be hurt.How PATHETIC is that hon?
You and ';M'; shot your wad by being trashy and ';sexting';.No wonder your parents hate him and his hate you.Neither set of parents want to become GRAND parents!
You need to STOP dating until your parents say it is ok and then it needs to be with a guy you date because he is a good decent human being and because you like him,NOT because you just have to have a b/f and anyone will do or date a guy because you feel sorry for him.That is so loserish.
i think regardless of parents you shudnt let that get in the way.
you should just break up with D and go back out with M.
clearly M makes you happier so go for him.
who cares what parents think and im SURE they dont hate you and theyll forget about that and put it in the past and move on %26amp; end up loving you both =)
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well fiine someone else then break up with D and say no to M
You like M because he is the bad boy. You like D because he makes you feel secure. Trust me, I know you hate to hear this but you are so young to be so serious. Just be single and enjoy your teen years. flirt with whomever you want(just be safe) and have fun. trust me when you get into your twenties those relationships will make you laugh.
Tell them both you want to be friends.
Your parents are only trying to look out for you-just be careful next time you are doing those things. Your parents were young once too so they know more than you think.
i think what you should do is break up with both of them! wait and find someone that will be the best for you and remember, don't rush things!
Well, I think you should break up with D, because clearly you don't like him as much as he likes you. Just say you need some time away. And I think you should see what happens with M. I don't think you should get back together with M right away.. or D will know why you really dumped him. So i say stay single for a couple days at least.. and see what M does.. and if you really want to be with him !
Parents are a good judge of character at times, if they don't like M then you probably shouldn't be with him. And you need to break it off with D because you still have feelings for M and that's not fair to D. It sounds like you need to stay single for awhile! Just take some time to yourself, you don't need a man to complete you! and your so young don't worry about boys right now!!!!!!!!!
If you really like ';M'; more then go for him, cause even if both of the parents dislike you it shouldn't matter as long as there son is happy they should be happy and the same goes for your parents. so don't worry about what they have to think just follow your heart is the best thing to do i hope i helped and good luck!I need dating advice badly...?
Your desperate all right.
Your dating a guy who is obsessive and boring so you won't be alone and/or so his feelings won't be hurt.How PATHETIC is that hon?
You and ';M'; shot your wad by being trashy and ';sexting';.No wonder your parents hate him and his hate you.Neither set of parents want to become GRAND parents!
You need to STOP dating until your parents say it is ok and then it needs to be with a guy you date because he is a good decent human being and because you like him,NOT because you just have to have a b/f and anyone will do or date a guy because you feel sorry for him.That is so loserish.
i think regardless of parents you shudnt let that get in the way.
you should just break up with D and go back out with M.
clearly M makes you happier so go for him.
who cares what parents think and im SURE they dont hate you and theyll forget about that and put it in the past and move on %26amp; end up loving you both =)
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well fiine someone else then break up with D and say no to M
You like M because he is the bad boy. You like D because he makes you feel secure. Trust me, I know you hate to hear this but you are so young to be so serious. Just be single and enjoy your teen years. flirt with whomever you want(just be safe) and have fun. trust me when you get into your twenties those relationships will make you laugh.
Tell them both you want to be friends.
Your parents are only trying to look out for you-just be careful next time you are doing those things. Your parents were young once too so they know more than you think.
i think what you should do is break up with both of them! wait and find someone that will be the best for you and remember, don't rush things!
Well, I think you should break up with D, because clearly you don't like him as much as he likes you. Just say you need some time away. And I think you should see what happens with M. I don't think you should get back together with M right away.. or D will know why you really dumped him. So i say stay single for a couple days at least.. and see what M does.. and if you really want to be with him !
Parents are a good judge of character at times, if they don't like M then you probably shouldn't be with him. And you need to break it off with D because you still have feelings for M and that's not fair to D. It sounds like you need to stay single for awhile! Just take some time to yourself, you don't need a man to complete you! and your so young don't worry about boys right now!!!!!!!!!
I need dating advice!?
my BEST guy friend ( the guy i like )and i have been flirting alot lately.. everyone says that he likes me so i got his best friend which is also one of my good friends to hook us up at first the guy i like said he dusnt know if hed go out with me then just today he told his friend that he dusnt want our friendship to be ruined then he said that he wouldnt want what happened to me and his other friend who used to be dating to happen to us.. so idk what to do.. i want him to kno that i like him way more than his friend and i know that the same thing wouldnt happen but idk what to do HELP ME!?I need dating advice!?
dont kno what to say cause im in the same situation. but i guess you could just go for it. you should stilll talk to each other afterwords if your best friends.
dont kno what to say cause im in the same situation. but i guess you could just go for it. you should stilll talk to each other afterwords if your best friends.
I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
hahaha. But, seriously, I need some help with something.
(there's kinda of a LOT to read but just please read it all)
Okay, I just started high school about a month ago. I met this girl that I had noticed once in June (when I was taking this other class), and I started to like her. She's very cute, shes a great taste in music, and a cool style. Well, I asked her out (on Facebook, yes I'm a dumbass) and she said yes. So, I'm all happy about this, and then a week later we go on a ';official date';. Well..... It doesn't go great, and the problem is that we didn't talk enough. So, that night (again: on facebook [lol]) she tells me that maybe we should just be friends for a little while to help get to know each other better...... that was two weeks ago... we're not dating. So, it's not that we haven't been talking like at all! but, it's just like.... I don't know if she likes me, and I don't want to get to hung over her. So, what should I do to really figure this out? I still like her, but I don't know if she does.
Please help any way you can. :)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
well, all you have to do is just ask her if she likes you. flirt with her. text her cute text messages.
:)
if she doesnt like you, THEN, there is other fish in the sea. (;I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
Just take it easy and get to know her. The best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Just be there for her and she will eventually come around. =)
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Okay, I just started high school about a month ago. I met this girl that I had noticed once in June (when I was taking this other class), and I started to like her. She's very cute, shes a great taste in music, and a cool style. Well, I asked her out (on Facebook, yes I'm a dumbass) and she said yes. So, I'm all happy about this, and then a week later we go on a ';official date';. Well..... It doesn't go great, and the problem is that we didn't talk enough. So, that night (again: on facebook [lol]) she tells me that maybe we should just be friends for a little while to help get to know each other better...... that was two weeks ago... we're not dating. So, it's not that we haven't been talking like at all! but, it's just like.... I don't know if she likes me, and I don't want to get to hung over her. So, what should I do to really figure this out? I still like her, but I don't know if she does.
Please help any way you can. :)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
well, all you have to do is just ask her if she likes you. flirt with her. text her cute text messages.
:)
if she doesnt like you, THEN, there is other fish in the sea. (;I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
Just take it easy and get to know her. The best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Just be there for her and she will eventually come around. =)
I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
okay i'm 18 and moving to san francisco in a couple of days to go 2 school. I am very good at giving relationship advice. I give relationship advice to all my friends, it almost seems like I know men and women when it comes to relationships like the back of my hand. The thing is that I have had the worst luck with relationships and can't seem to find someone. I have been single for a year. I consider myself to be an attractive person with a great personality, I wear nice clothing and present myself in a professional mature way, but why is it that I can't seem to find a date. I always seem to attract the losers with no brains that will come up to anyone. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong!I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
6th grade dating advice?
o.k i am in 6th grade i am 11 i skipped a grade. Now when I was new in the beginning of the year i was stupid i tried to be teachers pet this guy named Will liked me wanted my cell number me avoiding him he went out with a 7th grader stupid me really liked him so now he broke up few more weeks of skool I keep dreaming about aking him out but just can't so don't know what to do he hardly ever talks to me because I was dorky now i am pretty cool I don't talk lay back dress cool but he dresses cool but can talk i cant dont know what to say older girls are mean never talk to me so what do i do? I really really like him a lot never told any1 i did though plus there is this other girl really ugly but every1 likes her cause she cries and is dramatic she now is single so i got to hurry. I am the prettyest 1 in my class 1 is an indian and 1 has zits they ar ugly so help i really really like him before other girl gets him what to do?6th grade dating advice?
let me lay u out on somthin i herd that if u go up to a boy kid and hes talking to his freinds u can ask them or if that dosent work you can be really flirty is he in ur class if so u can go up to him and act all flirty if that dosent work just call me or just email me!6th grade dating advice?
You are kinda self absorbed... That may be why he doesn't like you. other than that I couldn't really understand what you were saying.
you should try to talk to him more like on aim or something and get to know him better. make sure he is the one you have been looking for before you try to ask him out. boys are immature and it takes a while for them to mature and change. at first when you didnt like him and he knew, he moved on and went out with someone else. boys are like that. but yeah, try talking to him more and be a little flirty so he'll get the hint that you like him again. best of luck to you =]natural cosmetics
let me lay u out on somthin i herd that if u go up to a boy kid and hes talking to his freinds u can ask them or if that dosent work you can be really flirty is he in ur class if so u can go up to him and act all flirty if that dosent work just call me or just email me!6th grade dating advice?
You are kinda self absorbed... That may be why he doesn't like you. other than that I couldn't really understand what you were saying.
you should try to talk to him more like on aim or something and get to know him better. make sure he is the one you have been looking for before you try to ask him out. boys are immature and it takes a while for them to mature and change. at first when you didnt like him and he knew, he moved on and went out with someone else. boys are like that. but yeah, try talking to him more and be a little flirty so he'll get the hint that you like him again. best of luck to you =]
Parents and dating advice?
I was wondering what ya'll thought of this situation. I'm 18 yrs old, living with my parents and they pay for my college tuition. So, I'm in the whole 'i live under their roof, i follow their rules' thing. The problem is that they started to tell me a few months ago that they don't want me to be in a committed relationship with anyone. They said that I should just date around, be single, and have friends, but not to be commited to one person, and that my focus should be on school. So, question: does that make any type of sense to you at all? I personally don't see the point of dating if I can't be in a relationship. And I tried talking to my parents about this and it does no good. Oh, and I'm not gonna move out cuz I'm 18 and dont like their rules - can't afford that at all and don't think its worth it.Parents and dating advice?
All Ur parents are saying in a nut shell... is...
Plzzzz after all this time of raising u.. spending all this money.. watching u grow.. plzz... don't get into a relationship where u quit school or get pg and it is all out the door..
I know they love u.. and u are on the right road.. they don't want to see u loose focus..
just try to see it from their eyes for a second....
they are not saying not to date..
good luck on Ur education and Ur future..Parents and dating advice?
My parents are like that, they always ask if there are guys attracted to me, if there are some trying to court me, they are so excited to know about it. But they don't want me to be involved in a boyfriend relationship. I always thought why.
Then i got to college, they always tell me to concentrate first on school just study hard first, only friends are accepted. But one day i fell inlove with a guy on my class, i was afraid to tell my dad coz i knew he'd be frustrated. so what i did is, i told my sister since i have same school with her, she's like my bestfriend. My bf remained a secret. Until i got caught with my brother, then he told my dad about it. Oh men, i was in a HOT SEAT. I cried of course...But I couldn't stand my Dad mad and upset at me, so i decided a breakup.
I kept my sadness to myself, after few days, I couldn't resist my love seeing him in my class, so we reconsidered our relationship again, but knowing limitations so not to be seen...
I know that they just don't want me to end up undergraduate and be married at young age. They always want the best for us of course.
But I made a promise to myself, I will finish my studies, with my boyfriend, so that way, i can show my parents, that I did handle myself in a relationship very well, and they will realize they were wrong.
And now i did it! I'm a graduate and I'm working!
So All I can Say is, it's all a matter of choice, and the way to handle it, just be careful..
Sorry if it's too long..but thanx for reading anyway..
GoodLUCK!!!
i'm sure what they mean is just date around, don't try to get too close for such things like marriage or REAL relationship
don't ask me, lol but that's def. what they're thinking
why is that though, have you not dated anyone much before?
that might be a reason they want you to
because if you haven't dated in the past, then it's reasonable they tell you that your first mate you shouldn't really get close to and marry.
It's probably because they came from an era when you dated several people at once but it wasn't considered promiscuous because women were less pressured to ';put out.';
They know that today the pressure on a young girl is to give it up and do it a lot quicker. They also know young men of today. Young men know that a serious, commited relationship is a lot more conducive to the prospects of sex. Your parent's are just trying to look out for you. I'm only in my twenties, but looking back I can't believe how naive my gfs were and how even more naive some of the girls are becoming now.
All Ur parents are saying in a nut shell... is...
Plzzzz after all this time of raising u.. spending all this money.. watching u grow.. plzz... don't get into a relationship where u quit school or get pg and it is all out the door..
I know they love u.. and u are on the right road.. they don't want to see u loose focus..
just try to see it from their eyes for a second....
they are not saying not to date..
good luck on Ur education and Ur future..Parents and dating advice?
My parents are like that, they always ask if there are guys attracted to me, if there are some trying to court me, they are so excited to know about it. But they don't want me to be involved in a boyfriend relationship. I always thought why.
Then i got to college, they always tell me to concentrate first on school just study hard first, only friends are accepted. But one day i fell inlove with a guy on my class, i was afraid to tell my dad coz i knew he'd be frustrated. so what i did is, i told my sister since i have same school with her, she's like my bestfriend. My bf remained a secret. Until i got caught with my brother, then he told my dad about it. Oh men, i was in a HOT SEAT. I cried of course...But I couldn't stand my Dad mad and upset at me, so i decided a breakup.
I kept my sadness to myself, after few days, I couldn't resist my love seeing him in my class, so we reconsidered our relationship again, but knowing limitations so not to be seen...
I know that they just don't want me to end up undergraduate and be married at young age. They always want the best for us of course.
But I made a promise to myself, I will finish my studies, with my boyfriend, so that way, i can show my parents, that I did handle myself in a relationship very well, and they will realize they were wrong.
And now i did it! I'm a graduate and I'm working!
So All I can Say is, it's all a matter of choice, and the way to handle it, just be careful..
Sorry if it's too long..but thanx for reading anyway..
GoodLUCK!!!
i'm sure what they mean is just date around, don't try to get too close for such things like marriage or REAL relationship
don't ask me, lol but that's def. what they're thinking
why is that though, have you not dated anyone much before?
that might be a reason they want you to
because if you haven't dated in the past, then it's reasonable they tell you that your first mate you shouldn't really get close to and marry.
It's probably because they came from an era when you dated several people at once but it wasn't considered promiscuous because women were less pressured to ';put out.';
They know that today the pressure on a young girl is to give it up and do it a lot quicker. They also know young men of today. Young men know that a serious, commited relationship is a lot more conducive to the prospects of sex. Your parent's are just trying to look out for you. I'm only in my twenties, but looking back I can't believe how naive my gfs were and how even more naive some of the girls are becoming now.
I need dating advice please??
I met this guy about a month ago. His feelings for me grew fast as mine with him. However....he ended a relationship about a month ago. And he is not ready to commit to anyone. He has been talking to other girls as well. I have not slept with him and dont plan on it until I am really with him. In the meantime, it hurts me to know he is dating. I told him we should not talk and he was devestated. I told him until he figures things out and wants to focus on me, to call me. Did I do the right thing?? He said he felt sick when I told him this.
Also, do you think he is thinking about me? Will I ever hear from him again??I need dating advice please??
You did the right thing. You cannot force a commitment from a guy. He must realize that he wants to commit to you. In the meantime, start dating other guys. Trust me, he is not sitting at home mopping and missing you. So, get out and have fun.I need dating advice please??
So you met a month ago and broke up a month ago.
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He sounds like he just wants to play the field and that is ok.
You did the correct thing by telling him that.
He just felt sick because he thought you would never say that and would always be there for him to fall back on. I bet now he thinks of you quite often and compares you to the girls he talks to.
I would not count on hearing from him again
because he thinks you know his little game and he will be too embarassed.
Also, do you think he is thinking about me? Will I ever hear from him again??I need dating advice please??
You did the right thing. You cannot force a commitment from a guy. He must realize that he wants to commit to you. In the meantime, start dating other guys. Trust me, he is not sitting at home mopping and missing you. So, get out and have fun.I need dating advice please??
So you met a month ago and broke up a month ago.
mmmmmmm
He sounds like he just wants to play the field and that is ok.
You did the correct thing by telling him that.
He just felt sick because he thought you would never say that and would always be there for him to fall back on. I bet now he thinks of you quite often and compares you to the girls he talks to.
I would not count on hearing from him again
because he thinks you know his little game and he will be too embarassed.
Need Serious Dating Advice?
okay so i went to homecoming with this guy and he used to really like me but at the time i did not have the same feelings so it never led into anything but oddly and randomly i was looking at some old pics of him from homecoming and ect. and btw he is a year younger than me and i think the main reason i did not like him be4 was cuz he looked too young as well and idk but now he looks alittle older and he is very attractive to me but the ony problem is he already likes this other girl and i don't know what is going on between them anymore cuz we dont talk as much as weused to but i think theres still a chance for me to squeeze in and mybe something might happen i atleast wanna be friends again were more of aqquanitinces now i know where he usually hangs out at school but the real question is how do i start that cnvo with him when there are a ton of ppl around btw its at school at lunch time and what do i even say to start out with since i kinda let the friendship fade? any ideas?Need Serious Dating Advice?
i would start with the common....so what have you been up to lately? and see where it takes you from there...tell him that you want to catch up and maybe hang out sometime after school or on the weekend, that would give you more than enough time to talk to him and find out what he feels for you. Hope it all works out!Need Serious Dating Advice?
Be casual about things. Say morning, hi!, greet him, make small talk. You'll need time to catch up a little. Find out if he's in a serious relationship first before you do anything though. If he is in a relationship then maybe you two could just be friends again :) You could invite him over to hang out sometimes and all that. If he's single, then you can hint that you like him :) Hope that helped :)
just say hi, whats up. how have you been and let it go from there, dont worry. if he is interested he will talk to you.
i would start with the common....so what have you been up to lately? and see where it takes you from there...tell him that you want to catch up and maybe hang out sometime after school or on the weekend, that would give you more than enough time to talk to him and find out what he feels for you. Hope it all works out!Need Serious Dating Advice?
Be casual about things. Say morning, hi!, greet him, make small talk. You'll need time to catch up a little. Find out if he's in a serious relationship first before you do anything though. If he is in a relationship then maybe you two could just be friends again :) You could invite him over to hang out sometimes and all that. If he's single, then you can hint that you like him :) Hope that helped :)
just say hi, whats up. how have you been and let it go from there, dont worry. if he is interested he will talk to you.
Need some dating advice from some guys point of view? Please?
Ok there's this guy hes divorced owns his own business and has been flirting with me. Every time i go to his place of business he always stands as close to me as possible winks at me all the time and things like that. The last time i went there we were standing outside and I kinda on purpose bumped into him with my shoulder into his and stopped then he put his hand on my back and well was kinda rubbing my back until I moved after a few minutes later. Then later we were standing next to each other and it almost kinda felt like he wanted to ask me something but was to scarred i don't know. I have been divorced for years now and have been out of the dating scene for a long time so im just really confused cause why wont he ask me out? Im pretty sure he knows im single cause i wouldn't keep coming back to his business and flirting back if i wasn't right? So i send him a funny picture text but have heard nothing back yet but i am going there on friday so what should i do? Do you guys think he wants to ask me out and is just scarred or is he just playing me? Cause im really starting to like him. So guys do you think if i wait for him to ask me out ill be waiting for ever? Im lost and need help especially from a guys point of view thanks.Need some dating advice from some guys point of view? Please?
He's just as scared as you are. In fact, he seems even more scared.
I would bet that he is just worried. Next time he looks like he wants to ask you something, ask him out.
But, as with almost no cases I have been witness of, he might have a girlfriend and be playing you and he doesn't want her to find out. But that is not likely, because he might be thinking the same about you. But it's most likely not that. He seems to decent to me.Need some dating advice from some guys point of view? Please?
Just mess with him like hes messing with you. Dont get your hopes up, you never know what he really wants. If he shows you that he really wants something serious then go for it. But do NOT get your hopes up.
Ok, being out of ';the game'; for a long time makes guys feel like we did when we STARTED dating. Do him a favor and ask him out on friday when you go see him, take the pressure off. Good luck. Oh and by the way yea it defiantly sounds like he wants to ask you out so I doubt he would say no if you asked him.
Listen up woman we are not in the 30's anymore ask the guy out. he probably is just as nervous as a rabbit in a lions den.actually sounds like u both are nervous just waitin for one another to put the moves on.If hes winkin at u and makin physical contact he likes u take charge woman and get ur man.
It sounds like he likes you. He's displayed some very obvious signs from what you've described here. I don't know many guys who would rub a girl's back for a few minutes if they didn't like her.
I think that when you go there on Friday you should just tell him you like him. Don't wait for him to say anything because the chances are that he probably won't, since he hasn't said anything so far. You're asking if you'll be waiting forever for him to ask you out. I can't answer that question because I have no idea if he will ever ask you out or not, and you don't have any idea either, right? So I think the best decision would be to ask him out yourself. If he isn't interested in you, who cares? There's plenty of other guys out there. And you have nothing to feel bad about since he displayed some very realistic signs that he may be into you.
But really, from what I've read here, I'd be really suprised if he didn't like you. So I say go for it, what have you got to lose? You say you haven't been in the dating scene for a long time and maybe this is why, because you're worried about making a move on a guy. Some men are shy, that's just the way it is, but I believe you can do it. Once you've asked him out you'll be suprised how easy it was.
Sounds to me like he does want to ask you out, but he probably hasn't yet because he may be nervous about what you will say. Generally, guys take a while to ask a girl out because they find them intimidating because they fear rejection.
If I were you I would wait for him to ask you out, I would give it at least one more week.
He's obviously an Intelligent or Intelligent man since he owns his own Business.
Take it from me, smart men tend to over think the entire situation.
The physical contact, and flirting, etc.. are all really obvious signs he wants to take it to a higher level, he's just scared or unsure.
What you can do is to try to be less intimidating. Come in all sick and see what he does to cheer you up. Or even better, break the ice yourself. Ask him out. Even though this tends to catch guys off guard it usually works.
The important thing is that you at least do SOMETHING, instead of staying in this flirty-phase.
For better or worse, take a dive, see where you end up.
good luck.
It sounds to me that he might be unsure of where you are right now in terms of ready %26amp; willing to take on a new relationship...especially when you yourself said it's been so long since you been on the dating scene...maybe the subtle flirting you two do isn't enough of a hint. Drop him your number (that'll let him know) or better yet, go out on a limb and ask for his. See how things progress from there. Overall, be a little more aggressive in your actions... put it out there clearly that you are *interested* :) You never know if you don't try, right?
why dont you last him to lunch or something sometime.
Aawww...you sound like a teenager having her first crush! I'd say he's testing the waters, looking for a response from you so he'll know if you're available. He's probably being cautious because he doesn't know if you're involved in a relationship. He obviously is attracted to you, so if you feel the same way about him, let him know. Either flirt back or ask him out.
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Keep in mind that he may have been out of the dating scene just as long as you have or longer, so he may be just as nervous as you are or more nervous. When men always do the asking, they face the risk of rejection every time, and women are far more likely to say no than men are. That's why I suggested asking him out. You know he'll say yes.
I also agree with the other answerer who said that if he's an intelligent man he probably overthinks things. I hate to sound immodest, but I'm very intelligent and I overthink everything. He's probably made himself a nervous wreck trying to find the right words to say to you and he's still afraid they'll come out wrong. You'd be doing him a huge favor by asking him and taking the burden off of him.
Are you SURE that he is divorced and not in a relationship? IF so...he's waiting for you to say ';I'd like to get together';.
From how it looks from what you typed, I don't think he knows your single. I have a friend like him, incase it's the other option. His name's Kevin, and even though he's outgoing and flirty, he will never, ever ask a girl out himself. You have to set him up or she has to say something. He could be really much like him, so you might have to say.. would you like to go somewhere after work to get him to grow the courage to say yes. Either that, or he thinks he doesn't have a chance, or thinks your not single. I don't think he's playing you, most likely. Doesn't seem like it. Hope I helped. Answer my question, too please..
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He's just as scared as you are. In fact, he seems even more scared.
I would bet that he is just worried. Next time he looks like he wants to ask you something, ask him out.
But, as with almost no cases I have been witness of, he might have a girlfriend and be playing you and he doesn't want her to find out. But that is not likely, because he might be thinking the same about you. But it's most likely not that. He seems to decent to me.Need some dating advice from some guys point of view? Please?
Just mess with him like hes messing with you. Dont get your hopes up, you never know what he really wants. If he shows you that he really wants something serious then go for it. But do NOT get your hopes up.
Ok, being out of ';the game'; for a long time makes guys feel like we did when we STARTED dating. Do him a favor and ask him out on friday when you go see him, take the pressure off. Good luck. Oh and by the way yea it defiantly sounds like he wants to ask you out so I doubt he would say no if you asked him.
Listen up woman we are not in the 30's anymore ask the guy out. he probably is just as nervous as a rabbit in a lions den.actually sounds like u both are nervous just waitin for one another to put the moves on.If hes winkin at u and makin physical contact he likes u take charge woman and get ur man.
It sounds like he likes you. He's displayed some very obvious signs from what you've described here. I don't know many guys who would rub a girl's back for a few minutes if they didn't like her.
I think that when you go there on Friday you should just tell him you like him. Don't wait for him to say anything because the chances are that he probably won't, since he hasn't said anything so far. You're asking if you'll be waiting forever for him to ask you out. I can't answer that question because I have no idea if he will ever ask you out or not, and you don't have any idea either, right? So I think the best decision would be to ask him out yourself. If he isn't interested in you, who cares? There's plenty of other guys out there. And you have nothing to feel bad about since he displayed some very realistic signs that he may be into you.
But really, from what I've read here, I'd be really suprised if he didn't like you. So I say go for it, what have you got to lose? You say you haven't been in the dating scene for a long time and maybe this is why, because you're worried about making a move on a guy. Some men are shy, that's just the way it is, but I believe you can do it. Once you've asked him out you'll be suprised how easy it was.
Sounds to me like he does want to ask you out, but he probably hasn't yet because he may be nervous about what you will say. Generally, guys take a while to ask a girl out because they find them intimidating because they fear rejection.
If I were you I would wait for him to ask you out, I would give it at least one more week.
He's obviously an Intelligent or Intelligent man since he owns his own Business.
Take it from me, smart men tend to over think the entire situation.
The physical contact, and flirting, etc.. are all really obvious signs he wants to take it to a higher level, he's just scared or unsure.
What you can do is to try to be less intimidating. Come in all sick and see what he does to cheer you up. Or even better, break the ice yourself. Ask him out. Even though this tends to catch guys off guard it usually works.
The important thing is that you at least do SOMETHING, instead of staying in this flirty-phase.
For better or worse, take a dive, see where you end up.
good luck.
It sounds to me that he might be unsure of where you are right now in terms of ready %26amp; willing to take on a new relationship...especially when you yourself said it's been so long since you been on the dating scene...maybe the subtle flirting you two do isn't enough of a hint. Drop him your number (that'll let him know) or better yet, go out on a limb and ask for his. See how things progress from there. Overall, be a little more aggressive in your actions... put it out there clearly that you are *interested* :) You never know if you don't try, right?
why dont you last him to lunch or something sometime.
Aawww...you sound like a teenager having her first crush! I'd say he's testing the waters, looking for a response from you so he'll know if you're available. He's probably being cautious because he doesn't know if you're involved in a relationship. He obviously is attracted to you, so if you feel the same way about him, let him know. Either flirt back or ask him out.
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Keep in mind that he may have been out of the dating scene just as long as you have or longer, so he may be just as nervous as you are or more nervous. When men always do the asking, they face the risk of rejection every time, and women are far more likely to say no than men are. That's why I suggested asking him out. You know he'll say yes.
I also agree with the other answerer who said that if he's an intelligent man he probably overthinks things. I hate to sound immodest, but I'm very intelligent and I overthink everything. He's probably made himself a nervous wreck trying to find the right words to say to you and he's still afraid they'll come out wrong. You'd be doing him a huge favor by asking him and taking the burden off of him.
Are you SURE that he is divorced and not in a relationship? IF so...he's waiting for you to say ';I'd like to get together';.
From how it looks from what you typed, I don't think he knows your single. I have a friend like him, incase it's the other option. His name's Kevin, and even though he's outgoing and flirty, he will never, ever ask a girl out himself. You have to set him up or she has to say something. He could be really much like him, so you might have to say.. would you like to go somewhere after work to get him to grow the courage to say yes. Either that, or he thinks he doesn't have a chance, or thinks your not single. I don't think he's playing you, most likely. Doesn't seem like it. Hope I helped. Answer my question, too please..
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Need some dating advice..?
Kind of long..but I need some advice!?
I've been talking to this guy..mainly texting him. We were friends a long time ago and just recently hooked up again and have been hanging out on weekends we are both free. We are both divorced. I really like this guy - but I'm so confused. He moved out of state and when he moved back, he moved into his ex-wifes home and is renting the basement from her. They have 3 children - he did this to help out with his kids, this was before I began talking to him. He says they are like best friends, but recently had another falling out and he will be buying his own place soon.
We text daily - but when he says he's going to call me, there's always an excuse. I've told him to be honest with me and tell me if he doesn't want to talk to me-but he always says he does want to talk to me. I'm trying to be straight forward, open and honest. He does take care of the kids a lot of the time as he and his ex work opposite 12 hour shifts.
I don't really know what I'm asking..just for some advice, I don't know if this is a good situation for me to be involved in...because it makes me uncomfortable knowing he's living with his ex, but then yet he's with his kids.. But at the same time, I want to understand his situation more and that's why I would rather talk on the phone between our weekends instead of texting.. because thru text, you can't get to know a person...
I get confused as to whether or not he likes me and wants to get to know me. He did ask me to come over the other night, but I won't go there because of his ex, even tho she was working. Just doesn't feel right going there. I also don't know that I should be getting into a relationship quite yet because I am recently divorced (and I have 2 kids), but it drives me nuts when he can't call me... what am I doing...?!%26gt;!?! Need some dating advice..?
ok ride it out if it stays like this give in
I've been talking to this guy..mainly texting him. We were friends a long time ago and just recently hooked up again and have been hanging out on weekends we are both free. We are both divorced. I really like this guy - but I'm so confused. He moved out of state and when he moved back, he moved into his ex-wifes home and is renting the basement from her. They have 3 children - he did this to help out with his kids, this was before I began talking to him. He says they are like best friends, but recently had another falling out and he will be buying his own place soon.
We text daily - but when he says he's going to call me, there's always an excuse. I've told him to be honest with me and tell me if he doesn't want to talk to me-but he always says he does want to talk to me. I'm trying to be straight forward, open and honest. He does take care of the kids a lot of the time as he and his ex work opposite 12 hour shifts.
I don't really know what I'm asking..just for some advice, I don't know if this is a good situation for me to be involved in...because it makes me uncomfortable knowing he's living with his ex, but then yet he's with his kids.. But at the same time, I want to understand his situation more and that's why I would rather talk on the phone between our weekends instead of texting.. because thru text, you can't get to know a person...
I get confused as to whether or not he likes me and wants to get to know me. He did ask me to come over the other night, but I won't go there because of his ex, even tho she was working. Just doesn't feel right going there. I also don't know that I should be getting into a relationship quite yet because I am recently divorced (and I have 2 kids), but it drives me nuts when he can't call me... what am I doing...?!%26gt;!?! Need some dating advice..?
ok ride it out if it stays like this give in
Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?
My boyfriend of two months says all these sweet things to me all the time and he's a sweet guy and everthing but i don't think i fully trust him yet...what can i do to start trusting him more because he's never given me a reason to not trust him i have trouble trusting people. He talks of marriage and how for his birthday he's going to give me an engagement ring because he says he doesnt need a present hes got me....i'm so confused of my feelings...is it too soon for him to have already said he loves me??Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?
Your man might be trying to control ye woman. Thoust should let not get too emotional i would ever so suggest.Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?
trust your instincts first. i think there might be something up with him. maybe he doesnt know what true love is, but my friend's parents dated for a week before marrying. now they have been together for 20 years .
He's not serious. He's saying what he thinks that you want to hear so that he could have control over the relationship. Politely but firmly tell him that it's too soon to be taking about marriage and that this relationship will go slow. You are confused about your feelings and you don't trust him yet because your instincts is already warning you that this guy is trouble. If he doesn't want to slow down or if he pressures you to do anything, get out and don't regret it.
Yes it is way too soon to talk about love and marriage. Trust takes time as does love.
He might actually love you. And if he does that's fine. But trust your feelings. Your intuition. I believe trust is earned, its not given away. Take your time - marriage is suppose to be forever.
There are people who have been married over ten years that the guy popped the question on the second date. Gene Simmons of the rock group Kiss has been living with a woman for over 20 years and has several kids with her but they're not married.
Length of time before you know someone as far as getting married is not really relevant to whether or not it's right, what typically counts is whether things do seem to be right. Personally I think that before two people get married they should live together at least six months. This gives them an opportunity to discover what the other person is like. It can take up to six months for people to 'drop their shields' and you then find out what they're really like. (It's almost impossible to keep up a facade that long, which is why the 6-month period is recommended.)natural cosmetics
Your man might be trying to control ye woman. Thoust should let not get too emotional i would ever so suggest.Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?
trust your instincts first. i think there might be something up with him. maybe he doesnt know what true love is, but my friend's parents dated for a week before marrying. now they have been together for 20 years .
He's not serious. He's saying what he thinks that you want to hear so that he could have control over the relationship. Politely but firmly tell him that it's too soon to be taking about marriage and that this relationship will go slow. You are confused about your feelings and you don't trust him yet because your instincts is already warning you that this guy is trouble. If he doesn't want to slow down or if he pressures you to do anything, get out and don't regret it.
Yes it is way too soon to talk about love and marriage. Trust takes time as does love.
He might actually love you. And if he does that's fine. But trust your feelings. Your intuition. I believe trust is earned, its not given away. Take your time - marriage is suppose to be forever.
There are people who have been married over ten years that the guy popped the question on the second date. Gene Simmons of the rock group Kiss has been living with a woman for over 20 years and has several kids with her but they're not married.
Length of time before you know someone as far as getting married is not really relevant to whether or not it's right, what typically counts is whether things do seem to be right. Personally I think that before two people get married they should live together at least six months. This gives them an opportunity to discover what the other person is like. It can take up to six months for people to 'drop their shields' and you then find out what they're really like. (It's almost impossible to keep up a facade that long, which is why the 6-month period is recommended.)
I need dating advice, on what to do in this situation?
We went out on one date she brought her kids and they all had fun even her she called me like everyday that next week. Then we made plan on her next date and she stood me up. Then she called Monday to apologize to me and told me she took her kid to the hospital. Then she told me she misses me. So I let her decided to give her another chance. So it was tonight... She told me her mom was going to watch her kids and then she called me and told me her mom was acting goofy and she probably wasn鈥檛 going to be able to go out. I was cool at least you canceled out this time. Well she told me she was going to put kid to bed and call me right back and 4 hours later she still hasn鈥檛 called. I don鈥檛 know what to do? Am I wasting my time? Is she trying to tell me to get lost? I don鈥檛 know should I confront her in a nice way of course? Any tips, advice, or suggestions would greatly be appreciated.I need dating advice, on what to do in this situation?
I've noticed this sort of thing happens for various reasons. Sometimes, especially with women who have kids, things become hairy at different times. You can ask her about it in a nice way, but presume that maybe for right now she's overwhelmed and might have to back off or has changed her mind. Keep looking around and if she gets back to you, then accept that. Don't take it personally and don't criticize her about it, the fact that you're willing to accept that she's got problems will probably make her more likely to be interested in you.
I've noticed this sort of thing happens for various reasons. Sometimes, especially with women who have kids, things become hairy at different times. You can ask her about it in a nice way, but presume that maybe for right now she's overwhelmed and might have to back off or has changed her mind. Keep looking around and if she gets back to you, then accept that. Don't take it personally and don't criticize her about it, the fact that you're willing to accept that she's got problems will probably make her more likely to be interested in you.
A little dating advice please?
I met this girl, and we arranged to go out a couple of times and each time she was late. Then she asked me a question by tex, which I replied and then it took her days to respond, only to tell me later she had problems, with her phone. I didn't believe her and dumped her by never replying again. What do you think?A little dating advice please?
Lol. You dumped her by never replying? What a manly choice!A little dating advice please?
em why did you do that?!
how insecure are you?!
apologise to this girl right now
i think if you like her that you should give her a chance bro...if anythand maybee you will have a fun ntime
Lol. You dumped her by never replying? What a manly choice!A little dating advice please?
em why did you do that?!
how insecure are you?!
apologise to this girl right now
i think if you like her that you should give her a chance bro...if anythand maybee you will have a fun ntime
Help me, Dating advice?
Hey, I'm in 7th grade and am currently dating this one girl (we have gone out and stuff but never kissed) but I sorta like this other girl, we were texting for like 3 hours last night and she told me that she likes me... My girlfriend is really cool, we have alot in common, and we are both REALLY smart. The other girl is AWESOME too and she plays the same instrument as me, and her uncle is a famous football player(not that that matters) I know that if I end it with my girlfriend then we will still be friends, we always have been. I just really like them both... HelpHelp me, Dating advice?
just wondering but is your last name dyer?
ok anyways just go with your heart dont go with a girl for what she has or dosent have, go with her because you have a connection and you love her, and what ever you do dont cheat on them, we have very fragile hearts and cant take everything that comes with being cheated on.
just wondering but is your last name dyer?
ok anyways just go with your heart dont go with a girl for what she has or dosent have, go with her because you have a connection and you love her, and what ever you do dont cheat on them, we have very fragile hearts and cant take everything that comes with being cheated on.
I need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
i am a 13 year old girl and I need help with a guy! there is this cute guy on my street......well, i think he is cute, but my 2 best friends don't, they think he is ugly. He is a whole year younger than me. i am going into 8th grade, and he is going into 7th grade. i am small so it looks like i am younger, and i do not have a problem with going out with somebody younger, but others do and idk wut to do. I am fine when I am talking to him or even if we were to go out with him or any guy that is like that. if i go out with him, idk wut my friends will say. he comes to my house 2 or 3 times a day, ether asks my sisters or brother, (when they are outside) if i am home or, if i am home we just talk in my front yard. he told me yesterday that he was having a party 2day, but then he came over 2day and made it official and told me wut time. (I want to go to the St. Chris festival with all my friends, but I need a ride. if I don鈥檛 go to the festival,) and decide to go to his house, would I just, like, knock on the door(I don鈥檛 know his parents at all, I have no idea even wut they look like), and I don鈥檛 think I know anyone who is going, should I go to the party, or if he asks me out, wut do I say, I do not want my friends to think I am a loser by going out with a guy that they think is ugly and is younger than me, and idk if I like him, idk if I want him to be one of those friends that I can just go to and talk about ANY problem that I ever have, or if I want him to be my boyfriend?!!!!!!!! And If I do go out with him, and then we brake-up, can we still be super good friends and can I tell him everything that is going on in my life and can just go to and talk about ANY problem that I ever have. PLEAZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZE HELP MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
ok i may be answering this way to late but i can tell u that if u like him he must be cute and you shouldn't worry what your friends think of him so if you like him go for it!!!!! and a quick P.S your avatar looks cute too!!!!LOLI need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
your 13 help yourself and stop thinking of men. think of school and how you want to be successful. DUH
ok i may be answering this way to late but i can tell u that if u like him he must be cute and you shouldn't worry what your friends think of him so if you like him go for it!!!!! and a quick P.S your avatar looks cute too!!!!LOLI need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
your 13 help yourself and stop thinking of men. think of school and how you want to be successful. DUH
I need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
few exceptions here or there (small fights and such) but for the most part good. Then all of a sudden he broke up with me without any real explanation. my feeling is that it was due to pressure from his friends to not be ';held down'; and all that stupid ****. I also kinda suspect he cheated on me, but its not for sure, its just a feeling.But anyways I was pissed and really hurt but then eventually got over it. Then a few months ago we began talking again he apologized for acting like a jerk and all of a sudden we started hanging out together then we began hooking up also pretty much everytime we see eachother, having sex regularly. He has recently mentioned being interested in being exclusive again and I would be interested in it aswell because i really feel a connection with him but i can not and will not have my heart broken again... but he seems like he has changed and grown up... is it worth risking getting my heart broken again?I need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
u seem like a really nice person so i think u can do better then this guy he proberly only come backk for sex so dump him and move on u deserse so much better this guy seems like a jerk and he has hurt u onse do u think u deserve it again coz i dont think so theres ur perfect guy out there and i dont think its himI need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
Nope keep running, in his head he has escaped a relationship now gets the cake when he wants it and don't get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with a booty call, but he now knows that he can mess you about and get you back.
Be brave, have some fun but he isn't a lifer!!natural cosmetics
u seem like a really nice person so i think u can do better then this guy he proberly only come backk for sex so dump him and move on u deserse so much better this guy seems like a jerk and he has hurt u onse do u think u deserve it again coz i dont think so theres ur perfect guy out there and i dont think its himI need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
Nope keep running, in his head he has escaped a relationship now gets the cake when he wants it and don't get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with a booty call, but he now knows that he can mess you about and get you back.
Be brave, have some fun but he isn't a lifer!!
Single parent dating advice?
I only dated 2 guys since my divorce (7 yrs ago). It seems my son does not like anyone I date. If he gets a feeling that someone is interested in me ( a guy friend or a stranger) he will either call them out and tell them to stay away from me or embarrass me by saying ';My mom likes you!!'; (even if I don't like the guy). My son is 8. Im now in another relationship and it was going really well at first. he and my son even got along for a bit but now the guy is having second thoughts becuase my son is acting up again. What do I do? i've tried talking to my son. but it doesn't seem to work. Single parent dating advice?
bottom line.. build a relationship with the man first... your son should not even be meeting these guys and until you are damn sure they are the right one.. everything after that will work itself out.. you will be more confident in tlaking to your son about meeting this guy that makes you so happy.. etc.. good luckSingle parent dating advice?
First of all, I have dated a few guys since my divorce and my child has never met any of them because i never intro her to them.
I want to develop the relationship before I bring her into it.
Give the relationship time, dont just bring the guy home.
Keep your son out of your private life unless there is a future with a new guy.
bottom line.. build a relationship with the man first... your son should not even be meeting these guys and until you are damn sure they are the right one.. everything after that will work itself out.. you will be more confident in tlaking to your son about meeting this guy that makes you so happy.. etc.. good luckSingle parent dating advice?
First of all, I have dated a few guys since my divorce and my child has never met any of them because i never intro her to them.
I want to develop the relationship before I bring her into it.
Give the relationship time, dont just bring the guy home.
Keep your son out of your private life unless there is a future with a new guy.
Help me, Dating advice?
Hey, I'm in 7th grade and am currently dating this one girl (we have gone out and stuff but never kissed) but I sorta like this other girl, we were texting for like 3 hours last night and she told me that she likes me... My girlfriend is really cool, we have alot in common, and we are both REALLY smart. The other girl is AWESOME too and she plays the same instrument as me, and her uncle is a famous football player(not that that matters) I know that if I end it with my girlfriend then we will still be friends, we always have been. I just really like them both... HelpHelp me, Dating advice?
just wondering but is your last name dyer?
ok anyways just go with your heart dont go with a girl for what she has or dosent have, go with her because you have a connection and you love her, and what ever you do dont cheat on them, we have very fragile hearts and cant take everything that comes with being cheated on.
just wondering but is your last name dyer?
ok anyways just go with your heart dont go with a girl for what she has or dosent have, go with her because you have a connection and you love her, and what ever you do dont cheat on them, we have very fragile hearts and cant take everything that comes with being cheated on.
I need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
i am a 13 year old girl and I need help with a guy! there is this cute guy on my street......well, i think he is cute, but my 2 best friends don't, they think he is ugly. He is a whole year younger than me. i am going into 8th grade, and he is going into 7th grade. i am small so it looks like i am younger, and i do not have a problem with going out with somebody younger, but others do and idk wut to do. I am fine when I am talking to him or even if we were to go out with him or any guy that is like that. if i go out with him, idk wut my friends will say. he comes to my house 2 or 3 times a day, ether asks my sisters or brother, (when they are outside) if i am home or, if i am home we just talk in my front yard. he told me yesterday that he was having a party 2day, but then he came over 2day and made it official and told me wut time. (I want to go to the St. Chris festival with all my friends, but I need a ride. if I don鈥檛 go to the festival,) and decide to go to his house, would I just, like, knock on the door(I don鈥檛 know his parents at all, I have no idea even wut they look like), and I don鈥檛 think I know anyone who is going, should I go to the party, or if he asks me out, wut do I say, I do not want my friends to think I am a loser by going out with a guy that they think is ugly and is younger than me, and idk if I like him, idk if I want him to be one of those friends that I can just go to and talk about ANY problem that I ever have, or if I want him to be my boyfriend?!!!!!!!! And If I do go out with him, and then we brake-up, can we still be super good friends and can I tell him everything that is going on in my life and can just go to and talk about ANY problem that I ever have. PLEAZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZE HELP MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
ok i may be answering this way to late but i can tell u that if u like him he must be cute and you shouldn't worry what your friends think of him so if you like him go for it!!!!! and a quick P.S your avatar looks cute too!!!!LOLI need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
your 13 help yourself and stop thinking of men. think of school and how you want to be successful. DUH
ok i may be answering this way to late but i can tell u that if u like him he must be cute and you shouldn't worry what your friends think of him so if you like him go for it!!!!! and a quick P.S your avatar looks cute too!!!!LOLI need dating advice from both guys and girls!!!!?
your 13 help yourself and stop thinking of men. think of school and how you want to be successful. DUH
I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?
Im 17, I used to be over weight as a kid, and ever since highschool, ive had quite a transformation, i used to be the girl, people had crushes on but wouldnt admit it, now i'm the girl, thats ';hot and intimidating'; so they stay away people usually think im dating someone, well thats what guys i've lucky gotten close to tell me. Anyways, i met this guy online, and we texted for quite sometime, decided we would hang out, and we had alot of chemistry,he told me he liked me, and i did as well, so he calls me baby, and cute things like that, meets my mom, asks me to homecoming, and one day we made plans, he was supposed to call at 2, ended up not calling for a week, he was ';grounded';. Next we talk on the phone again he ';misses me'; and hangs out with a friend of mine, tells her he's falling for me, and she confesses to me he's had a gf this whole time, he's just ';using her'; and what he really wants is me. what would you do/say, ialready confronted him and he said sorry for not telling me.I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?
I think you should be careful because if he could play that girl, he can easily play you.I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?
It doesnt matter what you do. It's highschool. You won't remember this in ten years unless he knocks you up and you end up stuck with him. Use protection.
Kinda scary he might have been falling fr her at first than changed to u. He could do that to u. (btw- dont find people on line it isnt to safe) But he might actuallt be in to u. but will he find someone else?
.Real bad start for a relationship
Dump him. Who's to say he wont cheat on you? If you have problems meeting someone in your school then your probably not showing interest in them.
he's an *** hole for not telling u
hes not worthy of u and if he's ';using'; his gf what makes u think he wont ';use'; u
Forget about him! -- I know this may hurt but -- He does NOT care for you!! Why else would he be with another girl?? -- He is just bored and is a low-life rat. Plain and Simple.
he is a two timing lier dump him and move on million of guys out there need a good girl ..
Once a cheater always a cheater. You are young and you have MANY MANY years to decide on a guy. dont get hung up on one loser that you dont even seem to ';love'; yet.
That's not right. You should stop dating him. I know he may use pretty words and huge apologies to make you feel like he's REALLY sorry, but it's most likely fake. Even if he likes you a lot, he shouldn't have been cheating on you no matter what. And if he did it once, he could do it again. The choice is yours, but be prepared, because there's a possibility you could get really hurt. I don't mean to put you down, or sound hateful toward him, I just care and from what it sounds like, he's not the one.
Best wishes,
Serena =]
Dump the jerk. If he's been lying about having a girl friend for this long of time in which he was trying to get you as a girlfriend then he's TROUBLE!!!!! He's just playing dangerous games and you should be not part of it.
';hot n intimidating'; gurl dont need stupid boy like dat..just ignore him coz if he meet wit someone whois hotter maybe he'll do it all over again..he telling your friends about his gurlfriend is all part of his plan...he's a player...y dont u brake him in his own game..
sounded like a great guy until you mentioned ';using her';. remember, if he could do that to her, he could do that to you too. because you've met him online, and don't know him well in context of his life, school etc, you should be careful about him. if he liked you enough, he could've just send you an email or SOMETHING during that whole week he was 'grounded'.
i guess you can take a chance with him, but if he starts being flaking and pulling excuses again, drop him!
just remember, if he did it once, he could do it twice - or more.
good luck and be safe!
Do whatever you think is right. Don't kid yourself though, if he's already lied once he may do it again.
You may need to wait while he ties up loose end with his current girlfriend.
However you two want to be together, go for it.
鈾ump him because that is so mean to do to the other girl! 鈾?br>
He sounds hot though! :)
I think you should be careful because if he could play that girl, he can easily play you.I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?
It doesnt matter what you do. It's highschool. You won't remember this in ten years unless he knocks you up and you end up stuck with him. Use protection.
Kinda scary he might have been falling fr her at first than changed to u. He could do that to u. (btw- dont find people on line it isnt to safe) But he might actuallt be in to u. but will he find someone else?
.Real bad start for a relationship
Dump him. Who's to say he wont cheat on you? If you have problems meeting someone in your school then your probably not showing interest in them.
he's an *** hole for not telling u
hes not worthy of u and if he's ';using'; his gf what makes u think he wont ';use'; u
Forget about him! -- I know this may hurt but -- He does NOT care for you!! Why else would he be with another girl?? -- He is just bored and is a low-life rat. Plain and Simple.
he is a two timing lier dump him and move on million of guys out there need a good girl ..
Once a cheater always a cheater. You are young and you have MANY MANY years to decide on a guy. dont get hung up on one loser that you dont even seem to ';love'; yet.
That's not right. You should stop dating him. I know he may use pretty words and huge apologies to make you feel like he's REALLY sorry, but it's most likely fake. Even if he likes you a lot, he shouldn't have been cheating on you no matter what. And if he did it once, he could do it again. The choice is yours, but be prepared, because there's a possibility you could get really hurt. I don't mean to put you down, or sound hateful toward him, I just care and from what it sounds like, he's not the one.
Best wishes,
Serena =]
Dump the jerk. If he's been lying about having a girl friend for this long of time in which he was trying to get you as a girlfriend then he's TROUBLE!!!!! He's just playing dangerous games and you should be not part of it.
';hot n intimidating'; gurl dont need stupid boy like dat..just ignore him coz if he meet wit someone whois hotter maybe he'll do it all over again..he telling your friends about his gurlfriend is all part of his plan...he's a player...y dont u brake him in his own game..
sounded like a great guy until you mentioned ';using her';. remember, if he could do that to her, he could do that to you too. because you've met him online, and don't know him well in context of his life, school etc, you should be careful about him. if he liked you enough, he could've just send you an email or SOMETHING during that whole week he was 'grounded'.
i guess you can take a chance with him, but if he starts being flaking and pulling excuses again, drop him!
just remember, if he did it once, he could do it twice - or more.
good luck and be safe!
Do whatever you think is right. Don't kid yourself though, if he's already lied once he may do it again.
You may need to wait while he ties up loose end with his current girlfriend.
However you two want to be together, go for it.
鈾ump him because that is so mean to do to the other girl! 鈾?br>
He sounds hot though! :)
I need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
few exceptions here or there (small fights and such) but for the most part good. Then all of a sudden he broke up with me without any real explanation. my feeling is that it was due to pressure from his friends to not be ';held down'; and all that stupid ****. I also kinda suspect he cheated on me, but its not for sure, its just a feeling.But anyways I was pissed and really hurt but then eventually got over it. Then a few months ago we began talking again he apologized for acting like a jerk and all of a sudden we started hanging out together then we began hooking up also pretty much everytime we see eachother, having sex regularly. He has recently mentioned being interested in being exclusive again and I would be interested in it aswell because i really feel a connection with him but i can not and will not have my heart broken again... but he seems like he has changed and grown up... is it worth risking getting my heart broken again?I need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
u seem like a really nice person so i think u can do better then this guy he proberly only come backk for sex so dump him and move on u deserse so much better this guy seems like a jerk and he has hurt u onse do u think u deserve it again coz i dont think so theres ur perfect guy out there and i dont think its himI need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
Nope keep running, in his head he has escaped a relationship now gets the cake when he wants it and don't get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with a booty call, but he now knows that he can mess you about and get you back.
Be brave, have some fun but he isn't a lifer!!
u seem like a really nice person so i think u can do better then this guy he proberly only come backk for sex so dump him and move on u deserse so much better this guy seems like a jerk and he has hurt u onse do u think u deserve it again coz i dont think so theres ur perfect guy out there and i dont think its himI need dating advice.... I was going out with a guy for about 6 months everything was going fairly well with a
Nope keep running, in his head he has escaped a relationship now gets the cake when he wants it and don't get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with a booty call, but he now knows that he can mess you about and get you back.
Be brave, have some fun but he isn't a lifer!!
Single parent dating advice?
I only dated 2 guys since my divorce (7 yrs ago). It seems my son does not like anyone I date. If he gets a feeling that someone is interested in me ( a guy friend or a stranger) he will either call them out and tell them to stay away from me or embarrass me by saying ';My mom likes you!!'; (even if I don't like the guy). My son is 8. Im now in another relationship and it was going really well at first. he and my son even got along for a bit but now the guy is having second thoughts becuase my son is acting up again. What do I do? i've tried talking to my son. but it doesn't seem to work. Single parent dating advice?
Keep your son out of your private life unless there is a future with a new guy.Single parent dating advice?
bottom line.. build a relationship with the man first... your son should not even be meeting these guys and until you are damn sure they are the right one.. everything after that will work itself out.. you will be more confident in tlaking to your son about meeting this guy that makes you so happy.. etc.. good luck
First of all, I have dated a few guys since my divorce and my child has never met any of them because i never intro her to them.
I want to develop the relationship before I bring her into it.
Give the relationship time, dont just bring the guy home.
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Keep your son out of your private life unless there is a future with a new guy.Single parent dating advice?
bottom line.. build a relationship with the man first... your son should not even be meeting these guys and until you are damn sure they are the right one.. everything after that will work itself out.. you will be more confident in tlaking to your son about meeting this guy that makes you so happy.. etc.. good luck
First of all, I have dated a few guys since my divorce and my child has never met any of them because i never intro her to them.
I want to develop the relationship before I bring her into it.
Give the relationship time, dont just bring the guy home.
Need some dating advice.... real bad.?
i've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, and i know i loved him at some point, though i think it might be starting to fade. I'm going off to college in the fall and i'll be more than 3 hours away from him. On top of that, i'm starting to like someone else. I don't necessarily want to give up on this because he's such a sweet guy, but we've been arguing more and i get increasingly annoyed with him, and the spark is fading. should i break it off, or keep it going for now?Need some dating advice.... real bad.?
your going to find someone else at the new school so just break it off with him as gently as you can. Believe me it's better than being a cheater. You should really wait and stay single until you move for your sake and for the sake of other guys who have feelings just like you do.Need some dating advice.... real bad.?
It's kind of a matter of do you want to leave things on semi-good terms with him, or do you want to wait until it gets to the point that you just can't stand each other anymore?
Also, if your only motivation for staying with him is that you don't want to be alone, that's not a good enough reason lol.
Keep in mind, this could just be a rough patch. Most relationships get a little rocky as you come closer to the 1 year mark, and that's normal, but the determining factor as to whether or not you should be a couple still is how willing you are to work through it.
From the sounds of things, you aren't too willing, so it may be best for both of you if you went your sperate ways.
Good luck!
I think the two of you are just going through a tough time, maybe it's too soon to break it off. The best thing you can do is call him and tell him you have something important to talk about, meet up with him and tell him exactly how you feel and ask him what he thinks of you.
Maybe the two of you need to try to work things out, if you think the spark is fading there's only 2 things you can do. You can try to get it back by having a serious talk with him and try to work things out, if that doesn't work then break it off.
This kind of stuff happens to everyone, some people start to like each other but in the end things just don't work out, not everyone gets along.
You can make the best decision for your self, good luck.
Break up the sooner the better if you say that the spark has left then it probably means the love has left too there's no point in staying with him if you don't love him anymore also this guy you say you do like might be the 1 for you go out with himand see if you feel the magic if not there's many guys to go around
Sounds like to me you already know the answer to your own question. You just feel bad for him and so you want someone to tell you to stay with him even though you are ready to end it. I wouldn't break up with him for someone else...but if you don't feel like you two aren't right for each other then I guess it's time to end it before you go off to school
honestly you know in your heart the answer..if you already have feelings for someone else then you think your really in love..? true is curiosity or lust maybe but obviously your not completely satisfied in a relationship to second guess..i think you should just tell your boyfriend you would like a open relationship when your away at school and that your open to dating other people until your back home..it will be less stress, and help you to start dating but then you always have someone to visit :) good luck
You should break it off. You are going off to college and you don't need to be worrying about him while you are there. College is a great experience and you should enjoy it. You are young, you will find love again and again and again and well you get the point. Good luck with everything!
Break it off. If you like/have began communicating with someone else, it's obvious your feelings aren't as strong for your bf as they were before plus you're about to leave for college and you guys are arguing more often. Why put yourself through the stress/drama?
Well the spark is gone and your love has faded because you have already found another interest. Shame on you. How would you feel if the role was reversed. It kills me when people ask these types of questions when all you have to do is put on the others persons shoes...How would you feel????
break it off. there is no point is stringing a guy along if you know deep down its not going anywhere. and it seems to me like you didnt love him at all if youve only been going out for 8 months and are already ';done'; with him.
good luck though, i know breakups are hard...
Let him go.
That's why you guys are fighting so much now. You both know it should be over, but neither of you wants to be the one to say it.
Make a clean break. That way you can enter college with a completely clean slate and no loose strings. You'll enjoy college more.
Sounds like you might want him as a back up...
If so, how would you feel if he did it to you?
But do whats best for you both, maybe take a break.
Good Luck!!
break it off. the longer you stay in the relationship, the worst for u and the more hurt for him.
you should break it off, you will be going to college and you will be meeting a lot of people there, trust me your life will change in college...
Its gonna get to the point where you realize that it is just not gonna work out, but id wait till that happens
follow ur heart why waste time bein unhappy when you know theres more out there and if u dont have feelings for him it shouldnt be hard
Break it off..
it'll hurt more if you keep it going.
dump the niqqa!
your going to find someone else at the new school so just break it off with him as gently as you can. Believe me it's better than being a cheater. You should really wait and stay single until you move for your sake and for the sake of other guys who have feelings just like you do.Need some dating advice.... real bad.?
It's kind of a matter of do you want to leave things on semi-good terms with him, or do you want to wait until it gets to the point that you just can't stand each other anymore?
Also, if your only motivation for staying with him is that you don't want to be alone, that's not a good enough reason lol.
Keep in mind, this could just be a rough patch. Most relationships get a little rocky as you come closer to the 1 year mark, and that's normal, but the determining factor as to whether or not you should be a couple still is how willing you are to work through it.
From the sounds of things, you aren't too willing, so it may be best for both of you if you went your sperate ways.
Good luck!
I think the two of you are just going through a tough time, maybe it's too soon to break it off. The best thing you can do is call him and tell him you have something important to talk about, meet up with him and tell him exactly how you feel and ask him what he thinks of you.
Maybe the two of you need to try to work things out, if you think the spark is fading there's only 2 things you can do. You can try to get it back by having a serious talk with him and try to work things out, if that doesn't work then break it off.
This kind of stuff happens to everyone, some people start to like each other but in the end things just don't work out, not everyone gets along.
You can make the best decision for your self, good luck.
Break up the sooner the better if you say that the spark has left then it probably means the love has left too there's no point in staying with him if you don't love him anymore also this guy you say you do like might be the 1 for you go out with himand see if you feel the magic if not there's many guys to go around
Sounds like to me you already know the answer to your own question. You just feel bad for him and so you want someone to tell you to stay with him even though you are ready to end it. I wouldn't break up with him for someone else...but if you don't feel like you two aren't right for each other then I guess it's time to end it before you go off to school
honestly you know in your heart the answer..if you already have feelings for someone else then you think your really in love..? true is curiosity or lust maybe but obviously your not completely satisfied in a relationship to second guess..i think you should just tell your boyfriend you would like a open relationship when your away at school and that your open to dating other people until your back home..it will be less stress, and help you to start dating but then you always have someone to visit :) good luck
You should break it off. You are going off to college and you don't need to be worrying about him while you are there. College is a great experience and you should enjoy it. You are young, you will find love again and again and again and well you get the point. Good luck with everything!
Break it off. If you like/have began communicating with someone else, it's obvious your feelings aren't as strong for your bf as they were before plus you're about to leave for college and you guys are arguing more often. Why put yourself through the stress/drama?
Well the spark is gone and your love has faded because you have already found another interest. Shame on you. How would you feel if the role was reversed. It kills me when people ask these types of questions when all you have to do is put on the others persons shoes...How would you feel????
break it off. there is no point is stringing a guy along if you know deep down its not going anywhere. and it seems to me like you didnt love him at all if youve only been going out for 8 months and are already ';done'; with him.
good luck though, i know breakups are hard...
Let him go.
That's why you guys are fighting so much now. You both know it should be over, but neither of you wants to be the one to say it.
Make a clean break. That way you can enter college with a completely clean slate and no loose strings. You'll enjoy college more.
Sounds like you might want him as a back up...
If so, how would you feel if he did it to you?
But do whats best for you both, maybe take a break.
Good Luck!!
break it off. the longer you stay in the relationship, the worst for u and the more hurt for him.
you should break it off, you will be going to college and you will be meeting a lot of people there, trust me your life will change in college...
Its gonna get to the point where you realize that it is just not gonna work out, but id wait till that happens
follow ur heart why waste time bein unhappy when you know theres more out there and if u dont have feelings for him it shouldnt be hard
Break it off..
it'll hurt more if you keep it going.
dump the niqqa!
Need College dating advice?
im a male freshman in college, and i met this girl who is very pretty, but i definitely believe that personality is wayyy more important than just looks.
so i want to get to know this girl better.
the way our first time hanging out goes like this: I told her i was stressed out from school/ home, which is why i havent saying hi to her when i see her. her response, much to my surprise, was that '; i can help you with homework if that makes you feel better :)';
soooo, as a result, we hung out last week doing homework for a little bit.
and this weekend we are doing the same, because i have a test coming up in a class im bad at, and she said she would help me study if i want her to.
the thing that gets me is, we RARELY see eachother, and when we do, its only for like 10 seconds in between classes, b/c our schedules are different, so its not like we know that much about eachother, and she has plenty other guy friends, but she has agreed for now 2 times to do homework with me.
why do you think that iS???Need College dating advice?
I have a freshman daughter in college right now. And telling you she would help with homework is something she would do- and it not mean anything else but a friend helping out a friend.
You both should still have the weekends to get together. Ask her to meet you for lunch. Ask her out for coffee or an event on campus. See if she can go to coffee with you after studying-so you can talk.
so i want to get to know this girl better.
the way our first time hanging out goes like this: I told her i was stressed out from school/ home, which is why i havent saying hi to her when i see her. her response, much to my surprise, was that '; i can help you with homework if that makes you feel better :)';
soooo, as a result, we hung out last week doing homework for a little bit.
and this weekend we are doing the same, because i have a test coming up in a class im bad at, and she said she would help me study if i want her to.
the thing that gets me is, we RARELY see eachother, and when we do, its only for like 10 seconds in between classes, b/c our schedules are different, so its not like we know that much about eachother, and she has plenty other guy friends, but she has agreed for now 2 times to do homework with me.
why do you think that iS???Need College dating advice?
I have a freshman daughter in college right now. And telling you she would help with homework is something she would do- and it not mean anything else but a friend helping out a friend.
You both should still have the weekends to get together. Ask her to meet you for lunch. Ask her out for coffee or an event on campus. See if she can go to coffee with you after studying-so you can talk.
A little dating advice, is this normal?
I've only been in one relationship so I wouldn't exactly call myself a pro. I'm just starting to see someone else but I am pretty sure that he is making some bizarre requests and I am not exactly sure if i should get out before its too late.
First request is that my bra and underwear match at all times. Ok, I can kinda understand this one since he does seem a little OCD.
Second request is that I write him letters and send it to him in the mail. I TOTALLY do not get this one, seriously WTF....
what do you suggest?A little dating advice, is this normal?
that's a bit strange...
actually it's very strange
sounds like a creeper alert to meA little dating advice, is this normal?
First, well i think for a guy it shouldn't really matter that your bra and underwear match (for guys we just want to see you in it lol. less is more).
Second, that's just stupid. Tell him text or pick up the phone. I mean does he need hand written proof you two are dating? WTF
He is a freak. His controlling nature should give you nightmares. What is next? You are in for unforeseen events with this dude. Run!
That's creepy. Seriously, get out.
Get rid of that whacko.
just talk to him about it.
ask him why %26amp; to pay for the stamps
this is not normal. and he is a creeper
run
Definite nut case... get out of there, he'll only get weirder!
First request is that my bra and underwear match at all times. Ok, I can kinda understand this one since he does seem a little OCD.
Second request is that I write him letters and send it to him in the mail. I TOTALLY do not get this one, seriously WTF....
what do you suggest?A little dating advice, is this normal?
that's a bit strange...
actually it's very strange
sounds like a creeper alert to meA little dating advice, is this normal?
First, well i think for a guy it shouldn't really matter that your bra and underwear match (for guys we just want to see you in it lol. less is more).
Second, that's just stupid. Tell him text or pick up the phone. I mean does he need hand written proof you two are dating? WTF
He is a freak. His controlling nature should give you nightmares. What is next? You are in for unforeseen events with this dude. Run!
That's creepy. Seriously, get out.
Get rid of that whacko.
just talk to him about it.
ask him why %26amp; to pay for the stamps
this is not normal. and he is a creeper
run
Definite nut case... get out of there, he'll only get weirder!
I need dating advice! please please please help!?
ok so i have this friend. actually best friend. and the other night we hung out for a while just the 2 of us. he was kinda flirty i guess. then we met up with some other friends. after, when wed all gone back to our own houses we were texting and asking each other ?s. %26amp; he asked me who i would make out with. i jokingly said umm.. probably you. ha really though idk. and he was like really? cause ... nvm. and i was like what? you have to tell me! and he said he would m/o with me too. so i asked him what this meant for us. and at first we talked about how whatever we did we would do it in secret, because we didnt want people talking about us. and then he said ';i think it would be good bcuz we both wouldnt tell anyone %26amp; weve both never madeout, so thats why i said you'; then we talked for a little while more and the conversation ended with him saying well i guess were just friends for now. %26amp; we havent talked about it since. what does this mean %26amp; what should i do?? please help i really like this guy!
+ dont be rude!I need dating advice! please please please help!?
he likes uI need dating advice! please please please help!?
Well that was really cute of you both, it is nothing else but a blossoming relationship in the future. It is just that you guys like each other from inside but, don't want people from outside to know because they have bad reputation on you guys. Just be good friends with him and do whatever he likes and when time comes don't miss your chance of feelings for him. Tell him the truth in your heart.
Aww, well it sounds like you both like each other. I dont mean this in an insulting way- but you also sound very young.
I would advise not talking about it too much- that will make it seem awkward and forced. I think that you should just continue seeing your best friend and see where it leads. Maybe you'll get a kiss, maybe not, but at least you know that you have a great friend.
All I got out of that was that the two of you want to make out and keep it a secret. I am not being rude, just truthful of what I got out of that. I will say, though, if the two of you want to get together, then you should. And it looks like he wants to as much as you want to, so go for it.
just take it one day at a time...dont overthink the relationship becaused if it doesnt work out you dont want to ruin your friendship. just continue being yourself and let him make the moves. if he really likes you though he want wont to make it private and you shouldnt either....if you two like each other you shouldnt have anything to hide from anybody!
He was saying that he wants to make out with you. He said the friends for now because at the time you had not done anything yet. If you really like him txt him and tell him that you like him and want to persue the relationship further. Its that easy.
I have been this the same situation!
And personally it was better for me and my friend to stay friends.
If you think about it friends are forever and boyfriends are only a month.
But ultimately its your and your friends decision.
Hope this helps and every thing works out!
this means he likes you and you like him. if i were you i would ask him out or start dating because whenever a guy secretly does stuff with a girl the girl gets attached and the guy leaves her. most of the time that is.
good luck; i hope i helped :)
Hmm. He ended the conversation with ';I guess we're just friends for now,'; so it means, you are just friends. Wait until you are alone together again and see what happens.
you and him are friends just for now which means that it can grow into something more so have patience and see where this friendship leads to it might lead to u and him being together as a couple
He doesnt want to step past that line just yet. Maybe he's not ready, or maybe he just doesnt want to ruin the friendship
just txt him be like i think i might like you but if u dont like me then ttly ignore this cuz we have lots of fun being friend.:)
he isn't ready.
coax him to get to that point
Well guys are tricky and I know what you mean I hate it when guys dont make a move by asking you out....but if you really like this guy than try and keep bring it up in subtle ways like flirt more and just keep on talking to him....and wait....if you really cant wait any longer than ask him out but if your old fashion than it is fine just wait it will happen trust me.....just be there for him and listen to wat he is saying and look for hints that he likes you too......let me know how it works out by emailing me at caseycas103
@yahoo.com
that's sweet. well making out is something that just occurs and is one of the best romantic gestures. notice that i said romantic. sure you can m/o for other carnal reasons, but it will not be he same as when you do it backed up with intense love. if you do m/o don't do it just to do it, do it because you feel strongly for this particular person. come on its your first time and you'll always remember it. it may lead to something greater. talk to him. guys understand. we are not the jerks that we are made out to be. just be straight to him, don't beat around the bush as the saying goes, for that will make most guys mad. and when your m/ o you'll know what to do. don't worry. it's ike it is programed into our genetic make up.
+ dont be rude!I need dating advice! please please please help!?
he likes uI need dating advice! please please please help!?
Well that was really cute of you both, it is nothing else but a blossoming relationship in the future. It is just that you guys like each other from inside but, don't want people from outside to know because they have bad reputation on you guys. Just be good friends with him and do whatever he likes and when time comes don't miss your chance of feelings for him. Tell him the truth in your heart.
Aww, well it sounds like you both like each other. I dont mean this in an insulting way- but you also sound very young.
I would advise not talking about it too much- that will make it seem awkward and forced. I think that you should just continue seeing your best friend and see where it leads. Maybe you'll get a kiss, maybe not, but at least you know that you have a great friend.
All I got out of that was that the two of you want to make out and keep it a secret. I am not being rude, just truthful of what I got out of that. I will say, though, if the two of you want to get together, then you should. And it looks like he wants to as much as you want to, so go for it.
just take it one day at a time...dont overthink the relationship becaused if it doesnt work out you dont want to ruin your friendship. just continue being yourself and let him make the moves. if he really likes you though he want wont to make it private and you shouldnt either....if you two like each other you shouldnt have anything to hide from anybody!
He was saying that he wants to make out with you. He said the friends for now because at the time you had not done anything yet. If you really like him txt him and tell him that you like him and want to persue the relationship further. Its that easy.
I have been this the same situation!
And personally it was better for me and my friend to stay friends.
If you think about it friends are forever and boyfriends are only a month.
But ultimately its your and your friends decision.
Hope this helps and every thing works out!
this means he likes you and you like him. if i were you i would ask him out or start dating because whenever a guy secretly does stuff with a girl the girl gets attached and the guy leaves her. most of the time that is.
good luck; i hope i helped :)
Hmm. He ended the conversation with ';I guess we're just friends for now,'; so it means, you are just friends. Wait until you are alone together again and see what happens.
you and him are friends just for now which means that it can grow into something more so have patience and see where this friendship leads to it might lead to u and him being together as a couple
He doesnt want to step past that line just yet. Maybe he's not ready, or maybe he just doesnt want to ruin the friendship
just txt him be like i think i might like you but if u dont like me then ttly ignore this cuz we have lots of fun being friend.:)
he isn't ready.
coax him to get to that point
Well guys are tricky and I know what you mean I hate it when guys dont make a move by asking you out....but if you really like this guy than try and keep bring it up in subtle ways like flirt more and just keep on talking to him....and wait....if you really cant wait any longer than ask him out but if your old fashion than it is fine just wait it will happen trust me.....just be there for him and listen to wat he is saying and look for hints that he likes you too......let me know how it works out by emailing me at caseycas103
@yahoo.com
that's sweet. well making out is something that just occurs and is one of the best romantic gestures. notice that i said romantic. sure you can m/o for other carnal reasons, but it will not be he same as when you do it backed up with intense love. if you do m/o don't do it just to do it, do it because you feel strongly for this particular person. come on its your first time and you'll always remember it. it may lead to something greater. talk to him. guys understand. we are not the jerks that we are made out to be. just be straight to him, don't beat around the bush as the saying goes, for that will make most guys mad. and when your m/ o you'll know what to do. don't worry. it's ike it is programed into our genetic make up.
Help Please dating advice
Best place for a first date, for a shy girl and a shy guy, and how do I ask the shy girl? HELP!!!!
One of my best friends is someone that over the last year i have fallen in love with, how do i ask her out without making it awkward.......... i dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin the friendship, so yeah a best place for a first date and how do i ask her thanks! once again we are best friends, we also talk about 3 hours on AIM a day, but yeah we are both painfully shyHelp Please dating advice
first, you need to do this in person. not on aim. so just go up to her and talk to her. make her feel comfortable. then, say something like ';i really like you and i want to be more than just friends. but i don't want this to ruin our friendship in any way.'; just be open about it with her. i know its hard if your shy, but once you do it you won't regret it! Good Luck!! :D
Help Please dating advice
well just ask her out if you love her. never keep it a secret. maybe she likes you too but please dont get your hopes up so high because i asked out a guy i really thought liked me back i was so sure of it and he said no. but im sure your situation wont be like this because of coarse she isnt that guy i asked. just give it a try. you never know what on the other side of the door till you open it. just ask her casually on a date. maybe go to the movies, i mean you guy ARE best friends. if you talk with her for 3 hrs on IM then why not ask her out?
One of my best friends is someone that over the last year i have fallen in love with, how do i ask her out without making it awkward.......... i dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin the friendship, so yeah a best place for a first date and how do i ask her thanks! once again we are best friends, we also talk about 3 hours on AIM a day, but yeah we are both painfully shyHelp Please dating advice
first, you need to do this in person. not on aim. so just go up to her and talk to her. make her feel comfortable. then, say something like ';i really like you and i want to be more than just friends. but i don't want this to ruin our friendship in any way.'; just be open about it with her. i know its hard if your shy, but once you do it you won't regret it! Good Luck!! :D
Help Please dating advice
well just ask her out if you love her. never keep it a secret. maybe she likes you too but please dont get your hopes up so high because i asked out a guy i really thought liked me back i was so sure of it and he said no. but im sure your situation wont be like this because of coarse she isnt that guy i asked. just give it a try. you never know what on the other side of the door till you open it. just ask her casually on a date. maybe go to the movies, i mean you guy ARE best friends. if you talk with her for 3 hrs on IM then why not ask her out?
I Need Dating Advice please help me?
well i just came from florida to start my new life in new york, ive finally got a new school and everyone seems nice and fun, everything is going great, on my first day of school around lunch time when i was looking at my schedule, a girl from my class sits next to me and talks to me, she showed me around school and we talked alot but when we were roaming the school she started talking to me about if i ever had a girl randomly kiss me and stuff, i said no and she said shes had guys do that to her a few times, when we went a few flights up she kissed me randomly, we have been the whole day and i completely fell in love with her but i was so nervous to ask her out and now I'm too late, shes dating some guy but she seems like the type that wont be into that relationship long, i just don't know what to do on monday, ive already told her how i feel and she said she also loves me but i just don't know what to do, everyday I'm tearing myself apart thinking I'm losing her, everyday when i get home i think about her, her name, her face, everything about her never leaves my mind, i cant even sleep anymore cause i think of her too much, she makes me want to go so far for her, i really want to be with her but I'm not sure what to do, i need adviceI Need Dating Advice please help me?
ok almost the same thing happened to me...anyway she most def. likes you a lot cuz girls just dont like r ndomly kiss guys unless they like them a lot. and shes prob just going out with this guy cuz you didnt make another move and she prob thought that you didnt like her enough to ask her out. so she prob doesnt even likes this guy. so wait till it breaks off and dont ask her out right away cuz girls hate that. so ask her out when shes not going out with this guy or whatever. so good luck! oh and PS she might also be trying to make you jealous with this othwer guy....good luck again!natural cosmetics
ok almost the same thing happened to me...anyway she most def. likes you a lot cuz girls just dont like r ndomly kiss guys unless they like them a lot. and shes prob just going out with this guy cuz you didnt make another move and she prob thought that you didnt like her enough to ask her out. so she prob doesnt even likes this guy. so wait till it breaks off and dont ask her out right away cuz girls hate that. so ask her out when shes not going out with this guy or whatever. so good luck! oh and PS she might also be trying to make you jealous with this othwer guy....good luck again!
Need help & dating advice it's urgent. plz?
Hi, Actually there is a girl at my work place: she Nigerian and i'm an Indian guy.
The thing is i never had a date in my life(i'm 23) i have many female friends though. i have a crush wiz that girl and she is very nice to me as well. i asked her for a movie and some shopping yesterday. she came in and spend the whole day with me, we did not talk anything about love but we talked stuff about hobbies, family, studies, travel.
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OF HOW TO MAKE THE CONVERSATION MORE INTERESTING? I NEED SOME JOKES, FUNNY STORIES OR OTHER IDEAS JUST TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING AND MAKE HER LAUGH, other than my maths jokes which she hates( i'm a maths geek), she doesn't has a boyfriend either, she sends me loads of sms abt movies, work related issues. She never told me that she loves me and me neither.
I'm not looking for sex or anything, but i like her companion, but when she is wiz me i don't have any idea how to make the conversation more interesting, longer and make her laughNeed help %26amp; dating advice it's urgent. plz?
Just be yourself. It sounds like you already are having good conversations. Nothing is worse than a guy who tries too hard to impress or girl or make themselves out to be something they are not. She obviously likes you, or she wouldn't waste a whole day with you. Ask her questions that may help you to get to know her better, or share with her some different life experiences. You are smart to not get into any relationship or lover conversations just yet. It is far too early for that.Need help %26amp; dating advice it's urgent. plz?
don't tell jokes. besides its short so if looking for extended. talk about family ,all siblings, mom, dad, grandparents is alive,and kid if any, and none about ex thats boring unless why broke up or how long but brief.,, or she will be bord to tears, especially if sport span,school or education and what your good at and enjoyed and if still interested or go. work if like or not, other jobs, friends, pets. C'om that's a lot of convo so pick 1 or 2 topics and save others for another day.
One guy I dated always had good stories. Events that happened. Something funny when he was a kid. He told the stories with such passion that it made me laugh so much. Try to think if you have any good stories to tell. She'll learn more about you and you may make her laugh.
I agree what the other guy said, it's way too early to talk about love. Stick with getting to know one another. Just because you weren't laughing the whole time doesn't mean she was bored.
Best of luck!!
You are on the right track...you shouldn't jump into love conversations...talking about hobbies and interests is the first thing to do...
Try not to try too hard otherwise it wouldn't work....take things smoothly...and you don't need to have a database of jokes to keep her interested...
Be busy, spend time with her, and work on your goals...this is attractive...but don't expect her to have the same feelings for you...
B stupid ii love stupid guys it makes me feel smart and kind of like im impowering to him say something like want to hold hands now maybe be a little more straight foward and be ike soo (tell her one of your secrets not anything really big but maybe just the most funniest food you eat or something really weird you do but not something gross jjust something weird and funny) and then be like what is your funniest food
after that do a truth or dare game if she says truth be like what do u want to do right now or what do u think of me or do u wan tto do something daring right now or what is the weirdest romance youve ever had
if she says dare dare her to kiss you or to go out with you or something funny to give you a lap dance lol or give you a lap dance to the teletubbies song or dare her to sing i love you u love me we make a gr8 family with a nic nac patty wak give yourself a bone ect. soemthing funny and some weird things that are just bizzare to make her laugh
hope i helped
good luck
i wish u the best
=D
The thing is i never had a date in my life(i'm 23) i have many female friends though. i have a crush wiz that girl and she is very nice to me as well. i asked her for a movie and some shopping yesterday. she came in and spend the whole day with me, we did not talk anything about love but we talked stuff about hobbies, family, studies, travel.
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OF HOW TO MAKE THE CONVERSATION MORE INTERESTING? I NEED SOME JOKES, FUNNY STORIES OR OTHER IDEAS JUST TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING AND MAKE HER LAUGH, other than my maths jokes which she hates( i'm a maths geek), she doesn't has a boyfriend either, she sends me loads of sms abt movies, work related issues. She never told me that she loves me and me neither.
I'm not looking for sex or anything, but i like her companion, but when she is wiz me i don't have any idea how to make the conversation more interesting, longer and make her laughNeed help %26amp; dating advice it's urgent. plz?
Just be yourself. It sounds like you already are having good conversations. Nothing is worse than a guy who tries too hard to impress or girl or make themselves out to be something they are not. She obviously likes you, or she wouldn't waste a whole day with you. Ask her questions that may help you to get to know her better, or share with her some different life experiences. You are smart to not get into any relationship or lover conversations just yet. It is far too early for that.Need help %26amp; dating advice it's urgent. plz?
don't tell jokes. besides its short so if looking for extended. talk about family ,all siblings, mom, dad, grandparents is alive,and kid if any, and none about ex thats boring unless why broke up or how long but brief.,, or she will be bord to tears, especially if sport span,school or education and what your good at and enjoyed and if still interested or go. work if like or not, other jobs, friends, pets. C'om that's a lot of convo so pick 1 or 2 topics and save others for another day.
One guy I dated always had good stories. Events that happened. Something funny when he was a kid. He told the stories with such passion that it made me laugh so much. Try to think if you have any good stories to tell. She'll learn more about you and you may make her laugh.
I agree what the other guy said, it's way too early to talk about love. Stick with getting to know one another. Just because you weren't laughing the whole time doesn't mean she was bored.
Best of luck!!
You are on the right track...you shouldn't jump into love conversations...talking about hobbies and interests is the first thing to do...
Try not to try too hard otherwise it wouldn't work....take things smoothly...and you don't need to have a database of jokes to keep her interested...
Be busy, spend time with her, and work on your goals...this is attractive...but don't expect her to have the same feelings for you...
B stupid ii love stupid guys it makes me feel smart and kind of like im impowering to him say something like want to hold hands now maybe be a little more straight foward and be ike soo (tell her one of your secrets not anything really big but maybe just the most funniest food you eat or something really weird you do but not something gross jjust something weird and funny) and then be like what is your funniest food
after that do a truth or dare game if she says truth be like what do u want to do right now or what do u think of me or do u wan tto do something daring right now or what is the weirdest romance youve ever had
if she says dare dare her to kiss you or to go out with you or something funny to give you a lap dance lol or give you a lap dance to the teletubbies song or dare her to sing i love you u love me we make a gr8 family with a nic nac patty wak give yourself a bone ect. soemthing funny and some weird things that are just bizzare to make her laugh
hope i helped
good luck
i wish u the best
=D
Need soem dating advice! HELP!!? FAST!!?
I meet my boy friend and we have been going out for almost a week.It is summer so we dont get to see eachother very much and we only talk on the phone for about 2 hours each day...And if you really think about it that is like nothing...
And we were going to spend the 4th together but his parents want him home...So there goes that...I really like him and i want to stay together but i dont really know how if we dont get to see eachother very much or in this case at all
The last time i saw him was on Saturday :(
I miss him A LOT
and i havnt talked to him today because i was on the phone with my best guy friend when he tried to call me and now it is to late for me to talk so i have to wait until tomorrow night :(
Can you help me?
I need to know what i should do to make this last
ANY advice
and nothing rude please
Oh and i am 14 BTW
I know im young...dont need to tell me
Thnx :)Need soem dating advice! HELP!!? FAST!!?
hang out wiht him tomorow. before he goes with his parents.Need soem dating advice! HELP!!? FAST!!?
just make plans to go out with him every weekend and since it's summer, you can probably plan a date sometime in the week too. Do you have an older brother or sister or parent who would be willing to drop you guys off at like a mall or the movies or something so you can spend a little time together.....I wouldn't know what that's like because I didn't really start dating until I was like 16 or 17....and I had a car.
awww. maybe some other time?
i honestly think that long distance relationships dont work out
And we were going to spend the 4th together but his parents want him home...So there goes that...I really like him and i want to stay together but i dont really know how if we dont get to see eachother very much or in this case at all
The last time i saw him was on Saturday :(
I miss him A LOT
and i havnt talked to him today because i was on the phone with my best guy friend when he tried to call me and now it is to late for me to talk so i have to wait until tomorrow night :(
Can you help me?
I need to know what i should do to make this last
ANY advice
and nothing rude please
Oh and i am 14 BTW
I know im young...dont need to tell me
Thnx :)Need soem dating advice! HELP!!? FAST!!?
hang out wiht him tomorow. before he goes with his parents.Need soem dating advice! HELP!!? FAST!!?
just make plans to go out with him every weekend and since it's summer, you can probably plan a date sometime in the week too. Do you have an older brother or sister or parent who would be willing to drop you guys off at like a mall or the movies or something so you can spend a little time together.....I wouldn't know what that's like because I didn't really start dating until I was like 16 or 17....and I had a car.
awww. maybe some other time?
i honestly think that long distance relationships dont work out
I need dating advice?
I'm a 13 year old guy, in high school honors classes.
Keep my age in mind, please.
OK, I'm not too smooth around girls and recently I moved into Geometry, and I found a new little batch of friends. One of them I was attracted to...and the other I had a weird feeling that she didn't like me.
So, a month or two later, we knew each other a lot better and stuff. I thought that I was going to possibly create some kind of relationship with this girl, Janie. But after that, she was utterly repulsed by me, due to something else.
I was texting the other girl, Jazmin....and we were hanging out a lot.
She sent me this message saying 'her mom was asking if we were going out.'
I asked her out at that point, and she said yes.
She started telling me more about herself, told me that her father died, that she's had sex [she's 13, and this guy is 18], and that they just broke up.
I thought that was just something to scoff at, and forget.
Today, after we make out for the past couple of weeks, she comes up to me and says that Mike, the guy I've told you about, came back-- and that they had sex. Not the best thing to hear. What should I do? Should I dump her? --She is the first real girlfriend I've ever gone that far with.
I'm freaking out here. ;_;
-L
I need dating advice?
YES!! if u goin out with someone and the girl has sex with someone else that considered cheatingI need dating advice?
Honestly, I'd dump her. But that's just my opinion.
I kind of believe the quote: once a cheater, always a cheater.
She may be different, but since she's 13 she may want to keep going back to him because he's older and 'experienced'.
I would find someone new that can treat you right at that age and isn't still sleeping around with an ex boyfriend.
She may be your first girlfriend. But I doubt she'll be your last.
You should try finding someone new or just wait until you find someone who won't cheat on you.
Trust me, I've been cheated on by my ex and I thought he wouldn't do it again. And after I begged to stay together, he still cheated a month later. I learned from it and stopped talking to him. It was worth it in the end.
yes i think that you guys should break up or take a break unless you want her sleeping with other guys which is consider cheating she messed up big time
Keep my age in mind, please.
OK, I'm not too smooth around girls and recently I moved into Geometry, and I found a new little batch of friends. One of them I was attracted to...and the other I had a weird feeling that she didn't like me.
So, a month or two later, we knew each other a lot better and stuff. I thought that I was going to possibly create some kind of relationship with this girl, Janie. But after that, she was utterly repulsed by me, due to something else.
I was texting the other girl, Jazmin....and we were hanging out a lot.
She sent me this message saying 'her mom was asking if we were going out.'
I asked her out at that point, and she said yes.
She started telling me more about herself, told me that her father died, that she's had sex [she's 13, and this guy is 18], and that they just broke up.
I thought that was just something to scoff at, and forget.
Today, after we make out for the past couple of weeks, she comes up to me and says that Mike, the guy I've told you about, came back-- and that they had sex. Not the best thing to hear. What should I do? Should I dump her? --She is the first real girlfriend I've ever gone that far with.
I'm freaking out here. ;_;
-L
I need dating advice?
YES!! if u goin out with someone and the girl has sex with someone else that considered cheatingI need dating advice?
Honestly, I'd dump her. But that's just my opinion.
I kind of believe the quote: once a cheater, always a cheater.
She may be different, but since she's 13 she may want to keep going back to him because he's older and 'experienced'.
I would find someone new that can treat you right at that age and isn't still sleeping around with an ex boyfriend.
She may be your first girlfriend. But I doubt she'll be your last.
You should try finding someone new or just wait until you find someone who won't cheat on you.
Trust me, I've been cheated on by my ex and I thought he wouldn't do it again. And after I begged to stay together, he still cheated a month later. I learned from it and stopped talking to him. It was worth it in the end.
yes i think that you guys should break up or take a break unless you want her sleeping with other guys which is consider cheating she messed up big time
Who has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
I'ma make this short cuz i know i hate reading things when there long. lol.
but i have to get advice.
if you have it.
I dated this boy for like 5 months on and off.
and then we had hung out a while back,
and then yesterday he came over.
we had an amazing time.
and i thought he liked me, or whatever.
but then i dropped him off, and later that night we were talking on the phone.
i asked him out, and he said that I lived to far away.
and i only live like thirty miles away from him.
and he doesn't seem like he likes me more than a friend.
what's the deal?
augggh.
i like him alot!!Who has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
he dusnt want a relatiionship he prolly jus wants sex
stll hang withhim tho u neva knon if hell change his mindWho has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
Well first off, who broke up with who usually? If it was you who broke up with him, perhaps he is afraid to go back out with you because he is afraid of getting hurt again. He is afraid of spending more time with you, because each time that he spends time with you, he starts to care about you more and more, and he thinks that is only setting himself up to get hurt.
However, if it was he who broke up with you, it sounds like he is searching for an excuse to kindly say that he does not like you. If that is the case, I know it is hard but it is best to move on.
You asked him out??? Is he gay? What was the reason that ya'll broke up in the first place? Maybe he's not interested. Ask him what's the deal? Why doesn't he act like he's interested if you and him have an amazing time together/ good luck
it sounds like to me that he's over you and just wants to be friends or/and he's leading you no which trusst me that isnt good and it doesnt feel good either. just ask him straight up ';do you like me?';
Sounds like he was just being honest with you. He enjoys your company but wouldn't want to drive 30 miles every time he wants to see you. At least he's not leading you on.
if he seemed like he liked you maybe he really ment it when he said he lived too far away. or maybe he likes someone else
Get rid of this scumbag.
He's lazy.
pretty clear he doesn't want to date you. He just wants a friendship.
look heres the easy way to say it. If a guy likes you its OBVIOUS you dont have to guess. You should only try to be with a guy if he constantly tries to talk to you and hang out and all that. He pays you compliments and is a real gentleman. If a guy doesnt act that way and you feel you have to guess then hes just not that into you. Many women make the mistake of coming up with excuses for guys not acting that way when in reality 6 months down they line in hindsight the guy obviously wasnt into them. Plus they guy you want to be in love with should do all of the above things right away anyway dont you think?
The first and best dating advice is to avoid getting stuck on someone that doesn't like you for real. You will have to figure if that is the case or not yourself though.
Second, get to know how the person is (their personality) before you take it to the bf %26amp; gf level, don't rush. You need to know if this person is right for you first.
Third, I know people say that opposites attract, but that's BS sometimes. If you can find someone that has similarities with you and that you also like, then things will go much better. Friendship is important for a long-term relationship, and if you 2 are too different personality-wise that will bring problems sooner or later.
Figure out what type of guy you like or what qualities do you want in your guy (I am talking personality traits here) AND try to talk to single guys that might be like what you want. Refer back to #1 above if one of these guys shows no interest though. There is nothing worse in the dating department than wasting time on someone that doesn't like you.
but i have to get advice.
if you have it.
I dated this boy for like 5 months on and off.
and then we had hung out a while back,
and then yesterday he came over.
we had an amazing time.
and i thought he liked me, or whatever.
but then i dropped him off, and later that night we were talking on the phone.
i asked him out, and he said that I lived to far away.
and i only live like thirty miles away from him.
and he doesn't seem like he likes me more than a friend.
what's the deal?
augggh.
i like him alot!!Who has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
he dusnt want a relatiionship he prolly jus wants sex
stll hang withhim tho u neva knon if hell change his mindWho has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
Well first off, who broke up with who usually? If it was you who broke up with him, perhaps he is afraid to go back out with you because he is afraid of getting hurt again. He is afraid of spending more time with you, because each time that he spends time with you, he starts to care about you more and more, and he thinks that is only setting himself up to get hurt.
However, if it was he who broke up with you, it sounds like he is searching for an excuse to kindly say that he does not like you. If that is the case, I know it is hard but it is best to move on.
You asked him out??? Is he gay? What was the reason that ya'll broke up in the first place? Maybe he's not interested. Ask him what's the deal? Why doesn't he act like he's interested if you and him have an amazing time together/ good luck
it sounds like to me that he's over you and just wants to be friends or/and he's leading you no which trusst me that isnt good and it doesnt feel good either. just ask him straight up ';do you like me?';
Sounds like he was just being honest with you. He enjoys your company but wouldn't want to drive 30 miles every time he wants to see you. At least he's not leading you on.
if he seemed like he liked you maybe he really ment it when he said he lived too far away. or maybe he likes someone else
Get rid of this scumbag.
He's lazy.
pretty clear he doesn't want to date you. He just wants a friendship.
look heres the easy way to say it. If a guy likes you its OBVIOUS you dont have to guess. You should only try to be with a guy if he constantly tries to talk to you and hang out and all that. He pays you compliments and is a real gentleman. If a guy doesnt act that way and you feel you have to guess then hes just not that into you. Many women make the mistake of coming up with excuses for guys not acting that way when in reality 6 months down they line in hindsight the guy obviously wasnt into them. Plus they guy you want to be in love with should do all of the above things right away anyway dont you think?
The first and best dating advice is to avoid getting stuck on someone that doesn't like you for real. You will have to figure if that is the case or not yourself though.
Second, get to know how the person is (their personality) before you take it to the bf %26amp; gf level, don't rush. You need to know if this person is right for you first.
Third, I know people say that opposites attract, but that's BS sometimes. If you can find someone that has similarities with you and that you also like, then things will go much better. Friendship is important for a long-term relationship, and if you 2 are too different personality-wise that will bring problems sooner or later.
Figure out what type of guy you like or what qualities do you want in your guy (I am talking personality traits here) AND try to talk to single guys that might be like what you want. Refer back to #1 above if one of these guys shows no interest though. There is nothing worse in the dating department than wasting time on someone that doesn't like you.
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