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Mormon dating rules.?


My boyfriends and I are intimate and mormon.I converted to Mormonism 3 mnths ago and he has been religious his whole life.Although we are facing difficulties,we plan on facing our difficulties and finding a way to follow the straight and narrow path.He is going on his mission soon I refuse to give up hope that we may strength our relationship with God together.Yesterday we had family night with his mom, discussing scriptures and seeing him being so diligent and as a Man of God...I know God does not face us with challenges that are more than we can handle...And I love him and Our Saviour.I came back from a religious program a couple days ago and I don't plan on taking what I learnt and not putting it to good use.I've been praying,reading scriptures but I want more advice on the rules of Mormon dating and what I can do.My boyfriend does not want to go to the bishop and we plan on facing this together in the eyes of God, by other means which i'm sure alot of you disagree on but I believe that We Can do this.Please help with mormon relationship advice and rules.Both Mormon,dating advice?
Going to the Bishop is the only way to get the correct answers. It seems your boyfriend doesn't want to do this because you have already been intimate. You may not understand the Mormon ';consequences'; of of intimacy outside of marriage, but he does.Both Mormon,dating advice?
So you want to repent, but you don't want to go through the bother of the repentance process???





Go see your respective bishops.
You would get better answers if you put this in the religion %26amp; spirituality section love : )
prayer n bless you for being strong
it's not even a real religion..... just do what you want
I'm Mormon, and I served a mission. Here is my advice to you both:





--How can he think that he will have the spirit to help him in his mission if he has a sin that needs to be repented of? He will be under more condemnation from God if he goes to the temple unworthily, and if he goes on a mission unworthily. This is a case of him ';fearing man more than God';. He is more worried about what his parents will say, or his Bishop will say, than what God thinks about all of this. I say RUN, don't walk, to the Bishop and start the repentance process.





--You can't repent of this sin by yourself. The Lord has made it very clear that in order to repent, this sin has to be confessed to the Bishop. If you don't do that, it can't be forgiven. It doesn't matter how many people you tell, or how you justify it, you can't be forgiven unless you follow the rules the Lord has set.





--Mormon dating rules:


1. Don't date before 16


2. Don't single date until 18


3. Don't ';makeout'; or ';pet'; Pet means to touch each other in private areas.


4. Don't have sex before marriage.


In addition, I suggest that you never lay down together.


You can read more by going to the LDS website and reading the ';For the Strength of Youth Pamphlet';





Let me just be really honest here. You guys are in deep doo doo. :) You both need to talk to the Bishop, and he probably will not be allowed to serve a mission. Your very membership could be in jeopardy if you don't follow this advice. I know that sounds harsh, but the Lord wants missionaries who are clean, and who obey the commandments.
Even tho I am ex-mormon I would say if he is not a jackmormon he has to go to the Bishop an dyou have to STOP being intimiate ASAP! He cannot go on a missiontrip like this, if he runs into a female that opens th edoor in her nothing ness his mind will not be clean and on the mission at hand I can guarnatee you! and some women think its a joke to open the door to the elders wearing little or nothing.


My brother incountered this and they were stupid enough to stutter thru a lesson while the women was half naked.


You cannot go to the temple and either can he, unless he plans on lying.
mormonism is a condradictory of the actual bible, do yourself a favor get out of that stupid religion, and even better become an atheist because there is no god no angels, there is nature

Need some dating advice please!?

Ok here's the deal. I met this guy recently online (we happen to be have been classmates in high school). He mentioned that he liked me in high school but he was a bad boy and i was a good girl ( all true) and he didnt want to corrupt me...lol. Well we have now had 2 dates and had a gr8 time and have chemistry. The dliema is he is going thru a divorce. It was filed end of feb and is final in sept. He has been living seperate from her for 6 wks.The reason for the divorce is ever since their daughter was born 6 yrs ago she has ignored him, no affectionate, doesnt want to spend time with or talk to him, intimate 1x yr, she spends all her time with the kid and none with family friends or ever by herself.etc...they tried to work it out once and this is the 2nd time they've filed. I dont feel they will work it out, and he said hes been past it all for years now. Should I wait till he is divorced to cont to date him?


I really am starting to like him and he's changed a whole 360 since schoolNeed some dating advice please!?
I would suggest taking it slow being that there is a possibiity that the marriage may still be salvagable...Do you know for sure he has filed? Congrats on giving him a chance however and realizing that people do change and growNeed some dating advice please!?
i would take everything extremely slow. Hang out for a bit, but don't make anything official until either the divorce is final or its getting closer. Divorces can get bitter and maybe he needs a friend to get through it all. Be there for him and let him know that you care, but under no circumstance be introduced to his daughter as Daddy's girlfriend. That right there makes everything a lot harder on the child and the divorce that much bitter. If when his divorce is final you want to try a relationship, go for it. But in the mean time, don't rush anything because it isn't just the two of you in the relationship. You also have his daughter's feelings to consider.
totaly. mostly because he'll be in stressed moods and the dates wont be as good, trust me i should know my parents are in a divorce i know how they act

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Race and dating?? Advice please?

Im not you to usually take dating advice but I have a little problem. I'm hispanic and white and have always been attracted to hispanic men..





I recently started talking to someone new a couple of months ago.. He is black.. Most of my male and female friends are black or mixed with black, my step father is black, and all four of my half siblings are mixed, but I have never been attracted to a black guy..





At first I was not attracted to him at all, but he is probably the sweetest guy I've ever talked to which makes me very attracted to his personality but I'm still unsure if I have any physical attraction towards him.. Should I keep talking to him and see where it goes or am I leading him on??





Advice would be greatly appreciated!!


Thanks in advance!!Race and dating?? Advice please?
of course you should keep talking to him and see what happens. Don't be afraid to try something new... and also try to be color blind with this. However, try not to force yourself to like him because you are trying something new. I know alot of sweet guys but i'm not attracted to all of them so it might be the same for you. good luck

Parents and Dating Advice?

everytime i want to go out with someone my mom starts asking all these questions. and being all over-protective. she says i shouldn't go behind her back but she's forcing me to. im at the end of 7th grade. and she's giving me a hard time about dating. wtf? everybody else i kno says there parents have no problemo with it. and why is it such a big deal. but she wont even see it through my point of veiw.


she takes things so serious. like we're having sex or something. but its not even like that. maybe we will want to go to the movies or or to the mall or sum. but im not stupid. im not going to do anything over the limits. or let anyone do anything to me that im not comfortable with. i have tried to explain this to her but she wont even listen. she thinks im trying to be ';fast'; or ';grown'; but she wont even let act like a normal pre-teen. im soooo upset that i have to sneak and do stuff. i cant even tell her anything!Parents and Dating Advice?
well maybe its cause she knows how yhu roll lolzz..jp bhutt yhur moms loves yhu and only wants the best..she dnt want yhu to be like all tthese fast lil girls with babies in the 7th grade..she just showing yhur her love..bhutt maybe you should talk to her about and work out an agreement! lubb ya boo!Parents and Dating Advice?
Maybe it's because your still in middle school. She should start to trust you when you enter high school. But any way she's a mother, alright. It is her job to look after her kids and to make sure they don't get into any trouble. Also things arent the same as they are now, she's probably been in the same situation at one point. I suggest you talk to your mother about this, and try and work something out.
She's just overprotective of you, and doesn't want you to do something, and regret it later on. She's just watching over you. Or it's possible she doesn't trust you. I'm a freshman, and I felt the same way, whenever my mom told me stuff like, ';You can't have a bf, you're just gonna end up getting pregnant,'; and my reply was always, ';I'm not! I'm not stupid...'; But to be honest hun, I have a boyfriend, and my moms okay with it now, and we've been together for 6 months, and we talk about sex all the time. Although we're not ready for it now, as you grow up, you'll hear this and that about him and her not being virgins, and you'll feel pressured about it, and rushed to start doing it. I don't plan on doing it anytime soon, but there's a slight possibility, that when there's a coecidal (sp) chance, we just might end up doing it. But , like I said, your mom just cares.

Need some dating advice here?

first of all i want to point out that this advice is for my friend who is a girl so i need advice to give to her.





so her problem is that she is in love with this guy. but the guy is already seeing some other girl. she has already decided to do whatever it takes to get him and needs some advice on what her next move should be. they have already spent some time together and have really hit it off, (i don't mean sex, they haven't done that. he has felt her up though) but recentley the guy stopped talking to her and went back to hs girlfriend. they do speak occasionally but he is trying to stay with his current GF. in about two weeks we will all be going on a trip with the two of them together. the thing is, his GF won't be there. last time ths happened they hit it off but that lead to hom not speaking to her. she really likes him and doesn't want to do anything stupid that could ruin her chances with him. what advice would you give her in this situation?





PS: not sure if he like herNeed some dating advice here?
Tell her NOT to try anything on a guy who has a girlfriend. If he caves, it means he's untrustworthy, and she shouldn't want to be with him anyway. She should probably leave him alone, because his girlfriend obviously means a lot to him.





Tell her to just tell him how she feels. He may pick his girlfriend over her, but that will at least be a sign for her to move on.Need some dating advice here?
I would tell her to just be her self, and don't try anything to drastic, almost ignore the guy, he already knows he could have her at any moment, so i think if she tries this, the guy will come around and pursue her, because he will think she doesn't like him now. And believe me once the guy knows that she isn't interested, that's when he will want her even more.
well if he is gonna to feel her than not talk to her after it than screw him and also doesnt condiser cheating and if she likes her than tell her to tell him how she feels after she gets to know the real him
I would tell her ';honey, he has a bf. and he isn't leaving her for you, otherwise he would have come running. get over him and move on.';
What up Marco,





Personally i would advise my friend not to hook up with someone who has a girlfriend but is willing to feel up someone who is not his girlfriend.





i know she likes him- but think about the girlfriend- she doesn't deserve to be treated like that and if he does it to his girlfriend what makes your friend think he won't do it to her.





Sounds like a dog to me.





Nickster
well it's obvious she's flirting with him alot and he's taking the bait. tell her to move on and that trying to get him while he's a relationship will only strain or possibly break their friendship because it seems to me that he regrets his actions after he makes a move on your friend
find a guy that doesnt have a gf.


drama makes my head hurt.
Okay..she should just try being friends with him and let him know the real her. With him having a girlfriend...I think they have already went to far. Which may lead him to thinking she is easy..[skank,trashy] When in reality she is most likely not..just willing to go that extra mile for him. I think she should let him know how she feels after trying to be just friends..and a friend of her (you) could help her out by asking the guy if he's interested. On yalls trip she should look outstanding and be totally free...cute %26amp; flirty never hurts. But most of all a good friend who listens and talks..what's meant to be will be.





Hopee it helpsss : )
chance has already been ruined. He doesn't like her as much as she hopes. If he did he would of left his GF in a heart beat. Tell the girl to stop chasing him... once she stops he'll see what he missed out on and he'll be doing the chasing. Tell her to give him samples of her goodies not the whole meal. (however that phrase goes)
tell her to wait, itll come:)
Go after him.

Both Mormon,dating advice?

Mormon dating rules.?


My boyfriends and I are intimate and mormon.I converted to Mormonism 3 mnths ago and he has been religious his whole life.Although we are facing difficulties,we plan on facing our difficulties and finding a way to follow the straight and narrow path.He is going on his mission soon I refuse to give up hope that we may strength our relationship with God together.Yesterday we had family night with his mom, discussing scriptures and seeing him being so diligent and as a Man of God...I know God does not face us with challenges that are more than we can handle...And I love him and Our Saviour.I came back from a religious program a couple days ago and I don't plan on taking what I learnt and not putting it to good use.I've been praying,reading scriptures but I want more advice on the rules of Mormon dating and what I can do.My boyfriend does not want to go to the bishop and we plan on facing this together in the eyes of God, by other means which i'm sure alot of you disagree on but I believe that We Can do this.Please help with mormon relationship advice and rules.Both Mormon,dating advice?
Going to the Bishop is the only way to get the correct answers. It seems your boyfriend doesn't want to do this because you have already been intimate. You may not understand the Mormon ';consequences'; of of intimacy outside of marriage, but he does.Both Mormon,dating advice?
So you want to repent, but you don't want to go through the bother of the repentance process???





Go see your respective bishops.
You would get better answers if you put this in the religion %26amp; spirituality section love : )
prayer n bless you for being strong
it's not even a real religion..... just do what you want
I'm Mormon, and I served a mission. Here is my advice to you both:





--How can he think that he will have the spirit to help him in his mission if he has a sin that needs to be repented of? He will be under more condemnation from God if he goes to the temple unworthily, and if he goes on a mission unworthily. This is a case of him ';fearing man more than God';. He is more worried about what his parents will say, or his Bishop will say, than what God thinks about all of this. I say RUN, don't walk, to the Bishop and start the repentance process.





--You can't repent of this sin by yourself. The Lord has made it very clear that in order to repent, this sin has to be confessed to the Bishop. If you don't do that, it can't be forgiven. It doesn't matter how many people you tell, or how you justify it, you can't be forgiven unless you follow the rules the Lord has set.





--Mormon dating rules:


1. Don't date before 16


2. Don't single date until 18


3. Don't ';makeout'; or ';pet'; Pet means to touch each other in private areas.


4. Don't have sex before marriage.


In addition, I suggest that you never lay down together.


You can read more by going to the LDS website and reading the ';For the Strength of Youth Pamphlet';





Let me just be really honest here. You guys are in deep doo doo. :) You both need to talk to the Bishop, and he probably will not be allowed to serve a mission. Your very membership could be in jeopardy if you don't follow this advice. I know that sounds harsh, but the Lord wants missionaries who are clean, and who obey the commandments.
Even tho I am ex-mormon I would say if he is not a jackmormon he has to go to the Bishop an dyou have to STOP being intimiate ASAP! He cannot go on a missiontrip like this, if he runs into a female that opens th edoor in her nothing ness his mind will not be clean and on the mission at hand I can guarnatee you! and some women think its a joke to open the door to the elders wearing little or nothing.


My brother incountered this and they were stupid enough to stutter thru a lesson while the women was half naked.


You cannot go to the temple and either can he, unless he plans on lying.
mormonism is a condradictory of the actual bible, do yourself a favor get out of that stupid religion, and even better become an atheist because there is no god no angels, there is nature

Need some dating advice please!?

Ok here's the deal. I met this guy recently online (we happen to be have been classmates in high school). He mentioned that he liked me in high school but he was a bad boy and i was a good girl ( all true) and he didnt want to corrupt me...lol. Well we have now had 2 dates and had a gr8 time and have chemistry. The dliema is he is going thru a divorce. It was filed end of feb and is final in sept. He has been living seperate from her for 6 wks.The reason for the divorce is ever since their daughter was born 6 yrs ago she has ignored him, no affectionate, doesnt want to spend time with or talk to him, intimate 1x yr, she spends all her time with the kid and none with family friends or ever by herself.etc...they tried to work it out once and this is the 2nd time they've filed. I dont feel they will work it out, and he said hes been past it all for years now. Should I wait till he is divorced to cont to date him?


I really am starting to like him and he's changed a whole 360 since schoolNeed some dating advice please!?
totaly. mostly because he'll be in stressed moods and the dates wont be as good, trust me i should know my parents are in a divorce i know how they actNeed some dating advice please!?
I would suggest taking it slow being that there is a possibiity that the marriage may still be salvagable...Do you know for sure he has filed? Congrats on giving him a chance however and realizing that people do change and grow
i would take everything extremely slow. Hang out for a bit, but don't make anything official until either the divorce is final or its getting closer. Divorces can get bitter and maybe he needs a friend to get through it all. Be there for him and let him know that you care, but under no circumstance be introduced to his daughter as Daddy's girlfriend. That right there makes everything a lot harder on the child and the divorce that much bitter. If when his divorce is final you want to try a relationship, go for it. But in the mean time, don't rush anything because it isn't just the two of you in the relationship. You also have his daughter's feelings to consider.

Race and dating?? Advice please?

Im not you to usually take dating advice but I have a little problem. I'm hispanic and white and have always been attracted to hispanic men..





I recently started talking to someone new a couple of months ago.. He is black.. Most of my male and female friends are black or mixed with black, my step father is black, and all four of my half siblings are mixed, but I have never been attracted to a black guy..





At first I was not attracted to him at all, but he is probably the sweetest guy I've ever talked to which makes me very attracted to his personality but I'm still unsure if I have any physical attraction towards him.. Should I keep talking to him and see where it goes or am I leading him on??





Advice would be greatly appreciated!!


Thanks in advance!!Race and dating?? Advice please?
of course you should keep talking to him and see what happens. Don't be afraid to try something new... and also try to be color blind with this. However, try not to force yourself to like him because you are trying something new. I know alot of sweet guys but i'm not attracted to all of them so it might be the same for you. good luck

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Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?

At my school's homecoming dance I met this guy. He asked for my number and we started texting. This dance was exactly a month ago and I I have texted this certain guy for at least a little bit eveyrday. About a week ago he kinda asked me out. I refused(even though I like him), because at this point of my life I am struggling with my walk with God and I had come to a point where I was wanting to actually talk to God and read the Bible. Then also I needed to focus on school work and all. So that's what I told this guy and he respeted me for my answer. We are just friends. However, I have been feeling lately that I have been craving a relationship with him. But, I know refusing going out with him was a good thing. But this craving is little out of control. I am not sure what to do. Any suggestions?


Few facts about situation:


I am 15 years old.


I have never dated any guy yet.


This guy is amazing, but I don't need another thing in society distracting me from God.


Help? :) Thanks ya'll!Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
There is no reason why you cant have a relationship with him if you like him, Your a christain, so keep your morals in line, And at the same time you can have a relationship with God. And make sure he respects your morals and thats about it.Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
if you keep your morals in line, maybe he can help you in your walk with god.


if he is a christian too that is.
Paul tells us in 1st Corinthians 25;28:





Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are. Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.





The proto-orthodox position was to never marry unless absolutely necessary, as the end was too near. Keep in mind that Paul told his followers this nearly 2000 years ago, and the official position of at least the Catholic Church, but most Christian denominations as well, is that the end is too near to worry with something as trivial as marriage. If you want to get closer to God according to the Bible, stop doing anything remotely productive and wait for the end.

8th grade Dating Advice?

Ok, so a bunch of my friends have been going out with peoplel and im feeling left out since i have never gone out with someone and have never been kissed.My friends arent slouts they have morals and stuff, and i dont want to act like a slout either. I also am going to high school when i return to school and i want to make a good impression, Its not peer pressure or anything like that i know my limits. My mom has taught me well, its just that i feel awkward discussing this with her and i know she wouldnt understand.8th grade Dating Advice?
Well I am close around ur age, and I haven't been kissed yet, but just wait. A guy will come to u, and if u like a boy tell him and he may like u too. I have a bf, and one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said yes, and now we have been going out for over 2 months!!8th grade Dating Advice?
okay,


your shouldnt rush things,


no offense your too young to be worrying about that stuff, and dont look for guys, thats not cool. your time with a guy will come one day, you just have to wait. you just have to be patient. plus from experience older kids think its stupid when little 8th graders(no offense again) like you all say that you love someone when you dont know what it is. so just be patient and it will come some day.
well just flirt a little and guys will know your seeking attention and a realtion ship. answer mine please





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dont worry bout it....besides its not really dating if you have to have your parents drive yuo everywhere
You never know untill you try , just do it , i thought the same but she understands more then we do they have long life experience.. if it doesnt work out just say ok im done jst try,,

I need dating advice?

So I need advice / want to take a poll: At the end of a 2nd date the guy hugs you, winks at you and says'; We'll do something this week, I'll call you'; Two days later there no word from this guy. Does that mean:





a. he's not that interest ( isn't gonna call)


b. he just hasn't called yet


c. you're worrying too much





I guess I'm just anxious, it's a guy that I really like and I'm sure that I'm just worrying about it too much but it would be really neat if he calls. I know that girls are supposed to make the guy chase them and all but I'm a wear my heart on my sleeve kinda girl and just needed to vent.I need dating advice?
Eaither B or C.. Give the guy some time. hes proberly out with friends or doing other importnat stuff in his life. :]I need dating advice?
I watched the movie ';He's Just Not That Into You'; and it said that if a guy doesn't call after a date he's not interested and that if a guy wants to see you he will see you!! So don't worry they're plenty of other guys out there! I wish you the best of luck. :)

Parents and Dating Advice?

everytime i want to go out with someone my mom starts asking all these questions. and being all over-protective. she says i shouldn't go behind her back but she's forcing me to. im at the end of 7th grade. and she's giving me a hard time about dating. wtf? everybody else i kno says there parents have no problemo with it. and why is it such a big deal. but she wont even see it through my point of veiw.


she takes things so serious. like we're having sex or something. but its not even like that. maybe we will want to go to the movies or or to the mall or sum. but im not stupid. im not going to do anything over the limits. or let anyone do anything to me that im not comfortable with. i have tried to explain this to her but she wont even listen. she thinks im trying to be ';fast'; or ';grown'; but she wont even let act like a normal pre-teen. im soooo upset that i have to sneak and do stuff. i cant even tell her anything!Parents and Dating Advice?
well maybe its cause she knows how yhu roll lolzz..jp bhutt yhur moms loves yhu and only wants the best..she dnt want yhu to be like all tthese fast lil girls with babies in the 7th grade..she just showing yhur her love..bhutt maybe you should talk to her about and work out an agreement! lubb ya boo!Parents and Dating Advice?
Maybe it's because your still in middle school. She should start to trust you when you enter high school. But any way she's a mother, alright. It is her job to look after her kids and to make sure they don't get into any trouble. Also things arent the same as they are now, she's probably been in the same situation at one point. I suggest you talk to your mother about this, and try and work something out.
She's just overprotective of you, and doesn't want you to do something, and regret it later on. She's just watching over you. Or it's possible she doesn't trust you. I'm a freshman, and I felt the same way, whenever my mom told me stuff like, ';You can't have a bf, you're just gonna end up getting pregnant,'; and my reply was always, ';I'm not! I'm not stupid...'; But to be honest hun, I have a boyfriend, and my moms okay with it now, and we've been together for 6 months, and we talk about sex all the time. Although we're not ready for it now, as you grow up, you'll hear this and that about him and her not being virgins, and you'll feel pressured about it, and rushed to start doing it. I don't plan on doing it anytime soon, but there's a slight possibility, that when there's a coecidal (sp) chance, we just might end up doing it. But , like I said, your mom just cares.

Need some dating advice here?

first of all i want to point out that this advice is for my friend who is a girl so i need advice to give to her.





so her problem is that she is in love with this guy. but the guy is already seeing some other girl. she has already decided to do whatever it takes to get him and needs some advice on what her next move should be. they have already spent some time together and have really hit it off, (i don't mean sex, they haven't done that. he has felt her up though) but recentley the guy stopped talking to her and went back to hs girlfriend. they do speak occasionally but he is trying to stay with his current GF. in about two weeks we will all be going on a trip with the two of them together. the thing is, his GF won't be there. last time ths happened they hit it off but that lead to hom not speaking to her. she really likes him and doesn't want to do anything stupid that could ruin her chances with him. what advice would you give her in this situation?





PS: not sure if he like herNeed some dating advice here?
Tell her NOT to try anything on a guy who has a girlfriend. If he caves, it means he's untrustworthy, and she shouldn't want to be with him anyway. She should probably leave him alone, because his girlfriend obviously means a lot to him.





Tell her to just tell him how she feels. He may pick his girlfriend over her, but that will at least be a sign for her to move on.Need some dating advice here?
I would tell her to just be her self, and don't try anything to drastic, almost ignore the guy, he already knows he could have her at any moment, so i think if she tries this, the guy will come around and pursue her, because he will think she doesn't like him now. And believe me once the guy knows that she isn't interested, that's when he will want her even more.
well if he is gonna to feel her than not talk to her after it than screw him and also doesnt condiser cheating and if she likes her than tell her to tell him how she feels after she gets to know the real him
I would tell her ';honey, he has a bf. and he isn't leaving her for you, otherwise he would have come running. get over him and move on.';
What up Marco,





Personally i would advise my friend not to hook up with someone who has a girlfriend but is willing to feel up someone who is not his girlfriend.





i know she likes him- but think about the girlfriend- she doesn't deserve to be treated like that and if he does it to his girlfriend what makes your friend think he won't do it to her.





Sounds like a dog to me.





Nickster
well it's obvious she's flirting with him alot and he's taking the bait. tell her to move on and that trying to get him while he's a relationship will only strain or possibly break their friendship because it seems to me that he regrets his actions after he makes a move on your friend
find a guy that doesnt have a gf.


drama makes my head hurt.
Okay..she should just try being friends with him and let him know the real her. With him having a girlfriend...I think they have already went to far. Which may lead him to thinking she is easy..[skank,trashy] When in reality she is most likely not..just willing to go that extra mile for him. I think she should let him know how she feels after trying to be just friends..and a friend of her (you) could help her out by asking the guy if he's interested. On yalls trip she should look outstanding and be totally free...cute %26amp; flirty never hurts. But most of all a good friend who listens and talks..what's meant to be will be.





Hopee it helpsss : )
chance has already been ruined. He doesn't like her as much as she hopes. If he did he would of left his GF in a heart beat. Tell the girl to stop chasing him... once she stops he'll see what he missed out on and he'll be doing the chasing. Tell her to give him samples of her goodies not the whole meal. (however that phrase goes)
tell her to wait, itll come:)
Go after him.

High School Dating Advice?

Okay, so I this friend 'Beth' who likes this guy 'Nick'. Beth is really into him and wants Nick to ask her out because she doesn't believe in girls asking guys out. I told her to go for it but she never did. So (with her permission) I sat down with Nick and told him I think he should ask Beth out. He was like, ';What? Really?';. He seemed kind of excited at first, like he thought I was going to ask him out, then seem disappointed that it was about Beth. He never did ask her out, but ever since then I have been noticing strange stuff. Sometimes during lunch I catch him looking at me then he notices me noticing him noticing me he quickly looks away. I can tell he doesn't like Beth the way she likes him, but I am afraid he likes me that way. He is kinda cute and nice and I would kinda like to go out with him, but what about Beth!?! I am so confused. Should I tell her what I think or just let her be? Should I ask him out to try to get him to ask her out? Should I ask him out because I like him or what??? God, high school is the worst!High School Dating Advice?
Why don't you get both of them to eat lunch with the three of you, But before you do give your friend your opinion of what you think. That way if he chooses you she as your best friend should understandHigh School Dating Advice?
Don't make any assumptions right away. Sure, maybe he doesn't like Beth and it seems like he likes you, but it'd be better to get him to clarify. If you haven't already told Beth that Nick doesn't see her in that way you should definitely do that otherwise she'll be waiting for a lost cause.





To me it sounds like you've just realized you like Nick which makes me question whether or not you actually have feelings for him, or just like him because you feel like he's taking interest in you. Talk to Beth, wait things out and see how it goes.
THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME MY SOPHOMORE YEAR! lol


My friend Sky liked this guy Seth and when I told him (with her permission also) that she liked him, he didnt seem to really digg her. Well we started talking behind her back and she found out and was very psd off.. Even though to my face she was like I dont care and Im happy for you. I still talked to him and we ended up dating for 3 months. She never got over it but she remained my friend.. but with some remorse.





From my experience, you need to just lightly mention to her ohh haha wouldnt it be funny if me and him started dating..just to see what she wouold say jokingly. I mean no guy should ever come between friends.. it doesnt matter how cute or sweet he is. And if youre just starting high school, girl, you have plenty of time to find guys lol. But if she is a good friend she'll respect your and his decision..


Wow I type way too much lol


Good Luck Girl =)





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I need dating advice need everyone's help!!!?

I am 21 years old. I have never had a girlfriend in my life. I have dated girls but I have never been in a relationship. It's not that i'm scared to talk to them, I just can't find anyone that I would be interested in asking - but when I do, then I do get the butterflies and what not. Then I find a girl and she has a kid or something which I can't stand. I have hypochodria, I feel like a girl would greatly get my mind off my health worries, I am so depressed right now, a girl would change my life, I would have someone to talk to (besides my guy frends) when needed. It is very sad to me, I wish I had a girl to share my life with, go to the movies with , etc. I can't find anyne. I've gone to bars, church, I havent tried online dating though. Any suggestions??? I am super depressed!!!I need dating advice need everyone's help!!!?
I think youve answered your own question. The fact that your totally depressed is going to send any decent woman running for the hills. What 21 year old woman wants a depressed man. Women want fun loving, confident, manly men, not a depressed whos going to make them depressed. I think you need to remove the focus of not having a relationship and start working on yourself, and you will be really suprised at how they will come flocking!

Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?

At my school's homecoming dance I met this guy. He asked for my number and we started texting. This dance was exactly a month ago and I I have texted this certain guy for at least a little bit eveyrday. About a week ago he kinda asked me out. I refused(even though I like him), because at this point of my life I am struggling with my walk with God and I had come to a point where I was wanting to actually talk to God and read the Bible. Then also I needed to focus on school work and all. So that's what I told this guy and he respeted me for my answer. We are just friends. However, I have been feeling lately that I have been craving a relationship with him. But, I know refusing going out with him was a good thing. But this craving is little out of control. I am not sure what to do. Any suggestions?


Few facts about situation:


I am 15 years old.


I have never dated any guy yet.


This guy is amazing, but I don't need another thing in society distracting me from God.


Help? :) Thanks ya'll!Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
if you keep your morals in line, maybe he can help you in your walk with god.


if he is a christian too that is.Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :?
There is no reason why you cant have a relationship with him if you like him, Your a christain, so keep your morals in line, And at the same time you can have a relationship with God. And make sure he respects your morals and thats about it.
Paul tells us in 1st Corinthians 25;28:





Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are. Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.





The proto-orthodox position was to never marry unless absolutely necessary, as the end was too near. Keep in mind that Paul told his followers this nearly 2000 years ago, and the official position of at least the Catholic Church, but most Christian denominations as well, is that the end is too near to worry with something as trivial as marriage. If you want to get closer to God according to the Bible, stop doing anything remotely productive and wait for the end.

8th grade Dating Advice?

Ok, so a bunch of my friends have been going out with peoplel and im feeling left out since i have never gone out with someone and have never been kissed.My friends arent slouts they have morals and stuff, and i dont want to act like a slout either. I also am going to high school when i return to school and i want to make a good impression, Its not peer pressure or anything like that i know my limits. My mom has taught me well, its just that i feel awkward discussing this with her and i know she wouldnt understand.8th grade Dating Advice?
Well I am close around ur age, and I haven't been kissed yet, but just wait. A guy will come to u, and if u like a boy tell him and he may like u too. I have a bf, and one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said yes, and now we have been going out for over 2 months!!8th grade Dating Advice?
okay,


your shouldnt rush things,


no offense your too young to be worrying about that stuff, and dont look for guys, thats not cool. your time with a guy will come one day, you just have to wait. you just have to be patient. plus from experience older kids think its stupid when little 8th graders(no offense again) like you all say that you love someone when you dont know what it is. so just be patient and it will come some day.
well just flirt a little and guys will know your seeking attention and a realtion ship. answer mine please





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dont worry bout it....besides its not really dating if you have to have your parents drive yuo everywhere
You never know untill you try , just do it , i thought the same but she understands more then we do they have long life experience.. if it doesnt work out just say ok im done jst try,,

I need dating advice?

So I need advice / want to take a poll: At the end of a 2nd date the guy hugs you, winks at you and says'; We'll do something this week, I'll call you'; Two days later there no word from this guy. Does that mean:





a. he's not that interest ( isn't gonna call)


b. he just hasn't called yet


c. you're worrying too much





I guess I'm just anxious, it's a guy that I really like and I'm sure that I'm just worrying about it too much but it would be really neat if he calls. I know that girls are supposed to make the guy chase them and all but I'm a wear my heart on my sleeve kinda girl and just needed to vent.I need dating advice?
Eaither B or C.. Give the guy some time. hes proberly out with friends or doing other importnat stuff in his life. :]I need dating advice?
I watched the movie ';He's Just Not That Into You'; and it said that if a guy doesn't call after a date he's not interested and that if a guy wants to see you he will see you!! So don't worry they're plenty of other guys out there! I wish you the best of luck. :)

Parents and Dating Advice?

everytime i want to go out with someone my mom starts asking all these questions. and being all over-protective. she says i shouldn't go behind her back but she's forcing me to. im at the end of 7th grade. and she's giving me a hard time about dating. wtf? everybody else i kno says there parents have no problemo with it. and why is it such a big deal. but she wont even see it through my point of veiw.


she takes things so serious. like we're having sex or something. but its not even like that. maybe we will want to go to the movies or or to the mall or sum. but im not stupid. im not going to do anything over the limits. or let anyone do anything to me that im not comfortable with. i have tried to explain this to her but she wont even listen. she thinks im trying to be ';fast'; or ';grown'; but she wont even let act like a normal pre-teen. im soooo upset that i have to sneak and do stuff. i cant even tell her anything!Parents and Dating Advice?
well maybe its cause she knows how yhu roll lolzz..jp bhutt yhur moms loves yhu and only wants the best..she dnt want yhu to be like all tthese fast lil girls with babies in the 7th grade..she just showing yhur her love..bhutt maybe you should talk to her about and work out an agreement! lubb ya boo!Parents and Dating Advice?
Maybe it's because your still in middle school. She should start to trust you when you enter high school. But any way she's a mother, alright. It is her job to look after her kids and to make sure they don't get into any trouble. Also things arent the same as they are now, she's probably been in the same situation at one point. I suggest you talk to your mother about this, and try and work something out.
She's just overprotective of you, and doesn't want you to do something, and regret it later on. She's just watching over you. Or it's possible she doesn't trust you. I'm a freshman, and I felt the same way, whenever my mom told me stuff like, ';You can't have a bf, you're just gonna end up getting pregnant,'; and my reply was always, ';I'm not! I'm not stupid...'; But to be honest hun, I have a boyfriend, and my moms okay with it now, and we've been together for 6 months, and we talk about sex all the time. Although we're not ready for it now, as you grow up, you'll hear this and that about him and her not being virgins, and you'll feel pressured about it, and rushed to start doing it. I don't plan on doing it anytime soon, but there's a slight possibility, that when there's a coecidal (sp) chance, we just might end up doing it. But , like I said, your mom just cares.

Need some dating advice here?

first of all i want to point out that this advice is for my friend who is a girl so i need advice to give to her.





so her problem is that she is in love with this guy. but the guy is already seeing some other girl. she has already decided to do whatever it takes to get him and needs some advice on what her next move should be. they have already spent some time together and have really hit it off, (i don't mean sex, they haven't done that. he has felt her up though) but recentley the guy stopped talking to her and went back to hs girlfriend. they do speak occasionally but he is trying to stay with his current GF. in about two weeks we will all be going on a trip with the two of them together. the thing is, his GF won't be there. last time ths happened they hit it off but that lead to hom not speaking to her. she really likes him and doesn't want to do anything stupid that could ruin her chances with him. what advice would you give her in this situation?





PS: not sure if he like herNeed some dating advice here?
Tell her NOT to try anything on a guy who has a girlfriend. If he caves, it means he's untrustworthy, and she shouldn't want to be with him anyway. She should probably leave him alone, because his girlfriend obviously means a lot to him.





Tell her to just tell him how she feels. He may pick his girlfriend over her, but that will at least be a sign for her to move on.Need some dating advice here?
I would tell her to just be her self, and don't try anything to drastic, almost ignore the guy, he already knows he could have her at any moment, so i think if she tries this, the guy will come around and pursue her, because he will think she doesn't like him now. And believe me once the guy knows that she isn't interested, that's when he will want her even more.
well if he is gonna to feel her than not talk to her after it than screw him and also doesnt condiser cheating and if she likes her than tell her to tell him how she feels after she gets to know the real him
I would tell her ';honey, he has a bf. and he isn't leaving her for you, otherwise he would have come running. get over him and move on.';
What up Marco,





Personally i would advise my friend not to hook up with someone who has a girlfriend but is willing to feel up someone who is not his girlfriend.





i know she likes him- but think about the girlfriend- she doesn't deserve to be treated like that and if he does it to his girlfriend what makes your friend think he won't do it to her.





Sounds like a dog to me.





Nickster
well it's obvious she's flirting with him alot and he's taking the bait. tell her to move on and that trying to get him while he's a relationship will only strain or possibly break their friendship because it seems to me that he regrets his actions after he makes a move on your friend
find a guy that doesnt have a gf.


drama makes my head hurt.
Okay..she should just try being friends with him and let him know the real her. With him having a girlfriend...I think they have already went to far. Which may lead him to thinking she is easy..[skank,trashy] When in reality she is most likely not..just willing to go that extra mile for him. I think she should let him know how she feels after trying to be just friends..and a friend of her (you) could help her out by asking the guy if he's interested. On yalls trip she should look outstanding and be totally free...cute %26amp; flirty never hurts. But most of all a good friend who listens and talks..what's meant to be will be.





Hopee it helpsss : )
chance has already been ruined. He doesn't like her as much as she hopes. If he did he would of left his GF in a heart beat. Tell the girl to stop chasing him... once she stops he'll see what he missed out on and he'll be doing the chasing. Tell her to give him samples of her goodies not the whole meal. (however that phrase goes)
tell her to wait, itll come:)
Go after him.

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High School Dating Advice?

Okay, so I this friend 'Beth' who likes this guy 'Nick'. Beth is really into him and wants Nick to ask her out because she doesn't believe in girls asking guys out. I told her to go for it but she never did. So (with her permission) I sat down with Nick and told him I think he should ask Beth out. He was like, ';What? Really?';. He seemed kind of excited at first, like he thought I was going to ask him out, then seem disappointed that it was about Beth. He never did ask her out, but ever since then I have been noticing strange stuff. Sometimes during lunch I catch him looking at me then he notices me noticing him noticing me he quickly looks away. I can tell he doesn't like Beth the way she likes him, but I am afraid he likes me that way. He is kinda cute and nice and I would kinda like to go out with him, but what about Beth!?! I am so confused. Should I tell her what I think or just let her be? Should I ask him out to try to get him to ask her out? Should I ask him out because I like him or what??? God, high school is the worst!High School Dating Advice?
Don't make any assumptions right away. Sure, maybe he doesn't like Beth and it seems like he likes you, but it'd be better to get him to clarify. If you haven't already told Beth that Nick doesn't see her in that way you should definitely do that otherwise she'll be waiting for a lost cause.





To me it sounds like you've just realized you like Nick which makes me question whether or not you actually have feelings for him, or just like him because you feel like he's taking interest in you. Talk to Beth, wait things out and see how it goes.High School Dating Advice?
Why don't you get both of them to eat lunch with the three of you, But before you do give your friend your opinion of what you think. That way if he chooses you she as your best friend should understand
THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME MY SOPHOMORE YEAR! lol


My friend Sky liked this guy Seth and when I told him (with her permission also) that she liked him, he didnt seem to really digg her. Well we started talking behind her back and she found out and was very psd off.. Even though to my face she was like I dont care and Im happy for you. I still talked to him and we ended up dating for 3 months. She never got over it but she remained my friend.. but with some remorse.





From my experience, you need to just lightly mention to her ohh haha wouldnt it be funny if me and him started dating..just to see what she wouold say jokingly. I mean no guy should ever come between friends.. it doesnt matter how cute or sweet he is. And if youre just starting high school, girl, you have plenty of time to find guys lol. But if she is a good friend she'll respect your and his decision..


Wow I type way too much lol


Good Luck Girl =)





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I need dating advice need everyone's help!!!?

I am 21 years old. I have never had a girlfriend in my life. I have dated girls but I have never been in a relationship. It's not that i'm scared to talk to them, I just can't find anyone that I would be interested in asking - but when I do, then I do get the butterflies and what not. Then I find a girl and she has a kid or something which I can't stand. I have hypochodria, I feel like a girl would greatly get my mind off my health worries, I am so depressed right now, a girl would change my life, I would have someone to talk to (besides my guy frends) when needed. It is very sad to me, I wish I had a girl to share my life with, go to the movies with , etc. I can't find anyne. I've gone to bars, church, I havent tried online dating though. Any suggestions??? I am super depressed!!!I need dating advice need everyone's help!!!?
I think youve answered your own question. The fact that your totally depressed is going to send any decent woman running for the hills. What 21 year old woman wants a depressed man. Women want fun loving, confident, manly men, not a depressed whos going to make them depressed. I think you need to remove the focus of not having a relationship and start working on yourself, and you will be really suprised at how they will come flocking!

Help! Need Dating Advice Badly!?

Back in October I met this guy, we worked together, and there was a lot of chemistry. I even asked him out around September. He said yes, but then we both got so busy it just never happened, and he briefly dated someone else. I became more attracted to someone else during that time and pretty much forgot all about him, but we worked together a few more times, and there was a lot of interest on his side but I was still more invested in this other guy. Now I only see him here and there. But recently he posted a few random messages on my facebook wall, just general chatty stuff, what I was up to, etc. It was nice but I have no idea where it is coming from. Is it possible there might be something there and should I go for it? What do you think is going on?Help! Need Dating Advice Badly!?
I think that he may not have forgotten about you, and that you should talk to him back. Things can only build from there, and if there is the mutual attraction and interest, you will be able to get a chance to hang out and see if things click.





Good luck!

New to dating...advice pleaeseee?

Ok, so i've seen this guy twice now, i left my necklace at his house accidently, he texted me the next morning saying that I left it at his. I told him i can go pick it up, but then he said that he would drop it over.


If he was really interested in me wouldn't he just say i'll give it to you next time i see you? Or am I just reading too much into it?


There wasn't any ';xo';'s or ';x';'s at the end of his message either.


thanks in advance for your advice :)





P.S. I think he's just going to drop off the necklace...He knows I live with my parents so I don't think he's likely to come in...New to dating...advice pleaeseee?
you are thinking too much of it. but also, the guy saying he will come give it to you is him thinking he has a reason to come to your house and talk to you. you going back to his house makes him feel like less of a man, he wants to bring YOU the necklace. and waiting til the next time he sees you could be too long he might really like you. and do not expect xoxox's in a text from a guy that you are not dating. that is what girls say to eachother and guys say to girls when they have been together for a few months.New to dating...advice pleaeseee?
I believe that he is showing his affection much more by dropping it off instead of saying that he will give it to you the next time he sees you. In saying that he will drop it off it implies that he wants to see you as soon as he can because he really likes you. As to the other part of your question where I live (I live on the west coast of Canada) nobody really puts down xox anymore and I would imagine that it would be about the same where you live so it doesn't really mean anything in not putting it in. Hope this helps

On-line dating advice?!?

Okay, I've been on a dating site for a while now. And it lists your matches. And I'm interested in a guy there. And he happens to have the highest percentage in common w/ me out of all the other ones. I want to send him a message but I'm afraid he'll not be interested or even want to talk to me. We have a lot in common but are of different races. His page says that he's shy and I am too. I'm a Nurse's Assistant and he's in Med-School. So, he sounds so out out of my league. Should I hope for him to read my page if he hasn't already or send a message? I really hate being the one to make the 1st contact because it seems desperate. What should I do? And if I do send I message what should I say? Yes, I'm such a little chicken. Help?On-line dating advice?!?
He may be too shy to be the first... Go ahead andsend him a message. And never think that someone is out of your league!


Tell him that you feel as if the two of you have a lot in common and would like to talk to him more, if he liked to as well.


Good Luck!

I NEED DATING ADVICE!!!?

I know its a long question but please help it has been driving me further into madness:








OK so there is this girl I asked out about... 3 weeks ago she explained to me that her parents wouldn't allow her to date until next year. the a few days later i was talking to one of her friends and she said that she had had other boyfriends before. Later that day I received a note from the girl I asked out saying quite basically that she didn't want to lie to her parents and sneak around but she would have said yes if she could. which made me think that she dated guys who her parents already knew.


then about a week after that we started holding hands and we were going to go to a masquerade thing tonight but she is going to chicago for the day and her mom does not think she'll be back in time. which is fine its out of her hands.





but we are still going to go to fall ball together which that and the holding hands thing sorta implies couple but when I got asked if I had a girlfriend she was standing right in front of me and i pointed to her and was asked by her later if I knew we were not going out. I responded yes.


I have not held her hand this week because every time i go to she always has something in her hand or moves it away and when I go to do it i don't look down i keep looking straight ahead so i don't think she is purposely moving it away.





ITS ALL VERY CONFUSING


i don't have a lot of experience in this field as this would be my first girlfriend so can anyone help me?I NEED DATING ADVICE!!!?
Just dont go too fast.


Keep hanging out, holding hands, etc..


And maybe she will decide she wants to date you..


Which will either lead to her doing it behind her parents back, or taking a stand and telling her parents.


Good luck!





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I need dating advice please?

I met this guy about a month ago. His feelings for me grew fast as mine with him. However....he ended a relationship about a month ago. And he is not ready to commit to anyone. He has been talking to other girls as well. I have not slept with him and dont plan on it until I am really with him. In the meantime, it hurts me to know he is dating. I told him we should not talk and he was devestated. I told him until he figures things out and wants to focus on me, to call me. Did I do the right thing?? He said he felt sick when I told him this.I need dating advice please?
i think you did the right thing...its all kool if he doesnt want to commit and date around but if you dont feel comfortable just being one of his many girls on the side then he has to accept that just as much as you accepting his wishes....if he really likes you he will come aroundI need dating advice please?
If you really like him you did the right thing. After guys get out of a relationship its natural for them to not want another one for a while, however, dating around does ont make him seem like the decent and commited guy we're all waiting for. He is not being sensitive to your feelings and you used good judgement to distance yourself from him and showed authority, which is sexy. You've only known eachother for a month, so give it another month. If he doesn't come around, move on.
Of course you want someone to give you all their attention, but you've only been dating for a month and haven't had any sexual experiences.





Let him look around to see if there is anyone else he likes. It is better that he is searching now instead of breaking up with you and cheating a year down the road.





Just tell him that you are okay with it, and if you ever do want to break up for another girl, to just tell you about it.
You totally did the right thing! If his feelings for you are as strong as he says they are, he will come around. Remember, talk is cheap, he can say all kinds of things but you have to make him show how he feels about you. There is no reason you should have to be hurt just because he isn't ready for a relationship.
haha as bad as this sounds; good. let him feel sick. thats a good thing. let him know what he misses. dont talk to him for a while; trust me, he'll want you back so bad he;ll be beggin you. beleive me when i say this... dont go to him; let him come to you...





that way he dont control the relationship; you do :)





if he was devestated that is actually a good thing. becuase u knwo he wont forget about you. just give him a while to think about how much he misses you %26amp; he will dump that girl fast :)





good luck!!
What you did was brave and the right thing to do! Well done! :)


If he gets back to you you'll know he will focus on you. It has also shown that you aren't a walk over and that you can stand up for yourself.


Damn right he felt sick. You do when you might lose someone very important.
You did the right thing. Let him figure things out by confusing someone else. He is going to hurt someone by dating all of these other girls before he is ready.





If he really likes you he will wait to make sure his head is on straight so he doesn't ruin it.
tell him that if hes seeing other girls you dont want to interact wit him, or he would have to focus on you, if you notice hes really not happy if you 2 are together then tell him he doesnt have to stay with you i guess if hes not happy.
You did do the right thing. It seems like he wants to look around at other girls for a while but I think he might still be into you. I pretty sure he doesn't want to lose you. So maybe you should do the same thing hes doing until he becomes more focussed on you.
I think you were maybe a little hard on a guy just getting out of a relationship.





Do YOU want to be the rebound girl?? Maybe he doesn't want that with you, so he's holding off for a little while.





Being friends first never hurts a potential relationship.
Yup you did do the right thing. People are whacked when they get out of a relationship, and if he is really reacting this way to not hanging out with you, you should run. I'm all for true love, but this is not it from all I can see.
No, you've done the right thing. You are teaching him how to treat you right. If you don't set him straight from the beginning, the relationship would be defected anyway. It is a way to tell him to respect you . I am proud of you.


Way to go , girl!
yeah, you did the right thing,


it sounds like he just wants to talk to a lot of girls, just so he can choose one later when he decides he's ready.


youre not a multiple choice answer.
i think that you did the rught thing, im in the same situation, i bet it hurts him but it also hurts me. dont worry, you did the right thing.
Before you get with the dog- go to the pet store and get a real dog -- fuzzy puppies are more fun than cheating boy friends...
you did the right thing...you dont want to end being entangled ina complicated ';thing'; with him...save yourself the imminent heart break!! good luck
He's played you. He has you wrapped around his finger. Detatch yourself. You should date other people. You're young. Don't worry about this jerk.
Yes you did. It's totally understandable to want to be the only one in his life. If he comes back fabulous. If he doesn't... at least you didn't let yourself get too caught up! :)





Keep your head high :)
just be your self


im sure everything will go ......perfect.
wow it sounds like you've been really sensible and level headed throughout all of this, well done!





I think you have done the right thing with telling him its best not to talk. You want him to be with just you, and if you feel he is dating someone else whilst flirting with you, its not right all round.





Plus you have told him where you stand and have distanced yourself appropriately now by saying that the balls in his court kind of thing, when he is mature enough and ready to be with you.





This might be a difficult time, try to hang in there. If it feels as though nothing has changed after a while, you may have to work at letting him go and moving on. Obviously i dont know how close you were, only you do in this.





Hope things work themselves out


remember that you are special person, God thinks your fab, so dont let anyone take you for a ride


zoe

Need college dating advice!! :)?

im a male freshman and recently met these two lady friends, and with one in particular we have many things in common, such as we both love the hippy lifestyle and consider us hippies, like tattoos and similar music, california, extreme sports, and tie dying.





shes in my music class, but i never talked to her, but when we hung over the weekend, she recalled a few detailed instances in her noticing me. she said how she liked this one peace necklace i had on, and remembered when i first wore it, and recalled other moments earlier in the year about 3 months ago.





when we hung out over this past weekend with her other friend, we had a really fun time. we hung out friday nite with like a few other people, and saturday just hangin in our dorms, then bowling with the same ppl as the nite before.





in class, now that we know eachother, we text cuz the class is super boring, and we joke about how annoying kids in the class are, and she always says stuff like ';ur face makes me sick'; and we joke to eachother and are ';mean'; to eachother.





however, i'm not sure if its just a friends thing or more...im a rather thin, athletic, good lookin dude, and shes a bit bigger, but nonetheless very cute in my opinion.





i dont know a whole lot about her since i just met her, but i know enough to know that we have alot in common, and that we could potentially date. we have almost exactly one month until the semester ends, then winter break.





i hope we become closer friends in the next month.





do you think she actually likes me more than a friend?? any signals??





thanks! =)Need college dating advice!! :)?
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Okay need dating advice about bf?

We have been talkn LD for 7months by txtn nd he called afew times(we arent good at talkn on the phone).Anyways I askd when he was gonna visit to see if we have chemistry.He said he didnt know nd that he was really busy tryn to save up money.Okay need dating advice about bf?
I will say girly that if you don't get along talking on the phone there is a HIGH chance you wont get along well in person. You really can't know somebody by texting alone, you really need that physical chemistry, I don't mean sexually, but the physical support you get from that person through hugging, holding hands etc... the way you show the other person love is a huge factor that will also determine compatibility.





If he is too busy to meet you in person then you really need to move on and this time find somebody in real life. There are lovely guys in every town and city so no matter where you live you should be able to find one.





It's really time to move on, having never met each other means you don't really know each other.

I Need Dating Advice, please answer, pretty please?

Okay Im 32 and met this guy online that I really like. We went out for the second time the other night, he held my hand during the movie and kissed me right after and said he had a good time. He then called me right after the date that night. But he didnt call me the whole next day on Fathers day. But I thought it was mabey because he was spending time with his son or his family.The next day was fathers day and I completely forgot to call him and wish him a happy fathers day, but then I sent him an email this morning because I just thought of it this morning. I sent him an email telling him I forgot and I hope he had a good fathers day and how can I make it up to him. I havent heard back from him. Do you think this made him mad that I forgot? I couldnt call him this morning because it was too early and I didnt want to wake him. But he still has not responded to my email. I really like this guy, do you think he has had a change of heart and thats why he didnt call me yesterday or email me?I Need Dating Advice, please answer, pretty please?
i doubt it, why would he hate you so much not to talk to you just for not saying happy father's day to him?


i bet he's busy and he doesnt have the chance to call you.


or since you mentioned his son you know he's probably out with his son at the beach or somewhere to have fun.


i know he doesnt hate you for that enough to ignore you, i wouldnt do that cause its mean and dumb.


but yea, hopefully he gives you a call soon to give you an update on what he's doing.I Need Dating Advice, please answer, pretty please?
Just calm down. He might have been with family for Father's Day (I was) and didn't have time to call. As for your email this morning, he may not have gotten to look at his email yet. Give him a little room to breathe. If you start needing to know where he is just after one day, it might get to be a little too much for him. I bet he'll contact you. You just need a little patience. If he likes you, it'll work out. You seem like a good person, so why wouldn't he contact you? : )

Really complicated dating advice needed!!!?

Ok i'll try and make this simple as possible.


This guy and i fell in love. I was dating someone else, broke up with him to be with this guy. Things were going good, told him i wasn't ready yet to have a committment. time went on, and on and on, and i was ready. Now HE doesn't want a committment right now and said he can't give me an answer why cause he doesn't even know. he said he does love me. It's not one of those one way things he calls me, takes me out to dinner, i go over there, he comes here, etc. very two way.


ANYWAYS... last night we had a major falling out. I had had a long day at school and he let me know because of a family emergency he wouldn't be able to come up to visit (i live about an hour away). So he was in a bad mood, i was in a bad mood. Anyway, i found out he dropped his brother off (who lives five min away from me) and asked why he couldn't stop by for five minutes, and that it makes me really mad when he does that.Really complicated dating advice needed!!!?
I read the whole thing twice, but I'm not exactly sure what to tell you, heh. I can totally understand why you'd be upset if he was right in the neighborhood and anyway, and because of the ';What makes you think you're important enough?'; line.





I don't think your ultimatum worked out too well, and in general I don't think those lead to happy endings. There's a difference between having a non-negotiable issue in a relationship that you express calmly in a serious talk and making an on-the-spot ultimatum, right?





My best advice for now would be to try to just let things settle down for a couple weeks and hope cooler heads prevail. If and when you do get to contact him next, you can start by apologizing for anything you felt you really did wrong and explain how you were feeling. That will probably soften his mood and allow him to not feel defensive, and then maybe you can talk more about the serious issues you guys are or were facing, like why he seemed to be drifting away from you. Just be careful not to invalidate his feelings.





I'm not sure what's going to happen, but don't despair yet! It may well be a rough and uncertain time, but hang in there! Good luck!

Scottish internet dating advice on this please?

i have been been talking to Cheri aged 23 since march and we are in love,i know its the real thing now. i am 47 and got divorced last year i just want to be happy again she makes me happy. i have seen her pictures she is stunning .she lives in the democratic republic of congo, and is very poor. she wants to meet me and to come to the uk but needs me to send her the money for her flight. when she is over in scotland soon to meet me and even wants to see rangers play with me.which will be brilliant. so my question is, what is the best method of sending money for her flights, she said use a western union something or other but am not sure where you get them ,thanksScottish internet dating advice on this please?
hahahaha the best ones are when they want you to go over meet a babe at the airport jump in a taxi then when you get out your faced with 5 big blecks who take a hawd o ye rape yer erse 5 times take yer wallet boot fcuk oot ye then rape ye aner 5 times!! hahahahahahahahahaha...then when ye git hame folk will wonder why yer erse looks like it chewin chewing gum hahahahahaScottish internet dating advice on this please?
You forgot to tell us where you want us to send you donations for the BIG WEDDING LOL





Son of Hiram Keeper of the Keys Brother of Brother Tony and WGS and Sir Alex Ferguson
you will never be happy again unless you repent you hve sinned and must be born again!!!


so start off by gettin rid of anything rangers thats your downfall,


and send her all your money you will feel beter for it
i can we have an african big issue seller on the horizon.sorry about mentioning the big issue.some folk have a history with they sellers(wink)
Sorry ,most Africans are Kaflic ,sooooo ,this romance is doomed,
Ah bet she looks like Frank Bruno.
Dont be daft, its a con. Mon The Hoops
she has been practising voodoo..she wants yer cash no yer wee scrawny white body..lol
a fool an his Money are easily parted

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Need your dating advice- ?

Hi, there is the is cute girl at work, that just makes me smile every time I see her. I can talk to her pretty easy (every now and then I start to turn red and take off). I make her laugh, which makes me like her even more. The only problem: I have no idea if she has a boyfriend, and I don't know how to ask her w/o making it obvious that I actually care. Shes senior in high school, and I'm a sophomore in college. What should I do? I really don't want anyone at work knowing even remotely that I like her (I work with all girls) becuase they'll tease me constanWhat can I do? tly, I really really like everything about her. What should I do? ANy suggestions on subtle ways to ask her


Need your dating advice- ?
For starters, who in the world even BEGINS to care whether or not she already has a boyfriend? Even if she does, and even if he happens to be a linebacker for the Greenbay Packers, it is HER decision, not his, with whom she associates. So, don't EVEN begin to use that as an excuse not to ask her out. It's way too lame.





Second, it's way too late in the game for you to pretend not to care about her. She already knows. And she obviously cares more than just a wee bit about you, or she would never deign to laugh with you.





And everybody else at work alerady knows about this crush you have on her, too, so start getting used to the idea that them teasing you is a GOOD thing, because it is. Teasing is Nature's way of showing someone that they're accepted. So, HOPE that they tease you when you make your move.





That said, there are a few caveats about dating co-workers, that the closer the co-worker you date, the more uncomfortable and confusing the dual relationships can become... but, if you're game to try, then why not?





Now, about how to go about asking her out.





Just do it.





If you both get off work at the same time, ask her to join you for a meal or something.





Or, ask her about her high school's football season, specifically whether or not they observe a traditional homecoming game or anything, and if it's still off into the future, ask if she has anyone in mind yet to escort her to the dance, offering yourself, of course.





If that's in the past, don't fret, but shift gears to ask about her plans for halloween, and if there are any parties she wanted to attend but needed an escort...





and if she already says she has someone to take her to one or the other, ask if she thinks he'll also be the one to take take her to some new-years-eve party...





if she even begins to falter about some guy taking her to any of those things... swoop in and offer to take her yourself, if she would like.





That ought to give you an idea or two.

8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?

ok.. im not exactly the slimmest or coolest guy at school.. im more of a nerd and have a lil xtra weight. at times.. i feel im being used. so. theres this girl i like at school and on myspace she tells me stuff she claims she tells no one else. she says she trusts me me and today said my eyes are awefully blue if that means anything.. she also told me she thought i was a pretty nice guy. what are my chances? should i ask her out? anything is greatly appreciated. thanks in advance.8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?
You seem like a really nice guy who actually cares about the girl. Girls really like a sweet guy, just be yourself; give it a little more time, you wouldn't want this girl to be scared if you asked her out immedietly. Make sure that you are not overly nice either, just be yourself!! (again) haha. If you are getting a good vibe from this girl and you know her pretty well after a while try asking her out :) I mean it never hurts to try right??





Hope this helps :D8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?
I think you have some okay chances just talk to her a lot in person instead of myspace.Internet can ruin relationships.
hahahahahhahahahhahahahah


this is funny


but go for it
YES.. Is there a dance soon? Maybe invite her?

I need dating advice!?

Well you see it is me again asking yet another question but this time it is dating advice, I'm not very good with this and all, hell i haven't even had my first kiss(I know lame) lol. But here's the deal. I told a boy(My crush obviously) That i liked him. He didn't say he didn't like me but told me you need to stop running away from your feelings. (Because i always do heh) and gave me a hug while whispering in my ear don't be naive. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. And i'm scared to ask him out! Because he doesn't date since his last girlfriend(Who happened to be physco!) Ahh this is all so frustrating please help. What should i do???I need dating advice!?
Hey again. It's great, you confess to him that you liked him, you're still worried that he might not like you. Get him to know you better. Go ask him out. You'll know him and he'll know you. Be confident and be yourself.


Just because he didn't say anything back to you that doesn't mean he's denying you. Hope for the best. His last girlfriend? So basically he's single, right? I'm a guy but go ask him out. Your chances are pretty high, of course be yourself. Life is to short to be someone else. SO GOOD LUCK :)I need dating advice!?
who cares if your desperate ask him out guys like surprises

I need REALLY GOOD dating advice!Kinda long?

I live in a small town and over the past two years, I had befriended this group of guy friends. I had an argument with one of my friends one night because one of the guys was trying to kiss me, and because she told me not to kiss him I let him....


A year later, the same group of guys, I kissed a different one on a few occasions.


Now a few months later, I've met a guy who knows both of the boys. I really like him and if I had met him before hand I wouldn't have kissed either of them.


Now he has been making all the advances, I have been taking notes from ';he's just not that into you';, and he has added me on facebook and asked one of the guys for my msn. We've arranged to casually see each other on friday, so my question is, I don't want it to be just one kiss and that's it.


Is there anything I can do and say that could help it progress into a relationship?I need REALLY GOOD dating advice!Kinda long?
Play hard to get but make sure he knows you're playing ;) That'll get him after you.I need REALLY GOOD dating advice!Kinda long?
ok, how do you know you want it to progress into a relationship... you havent even been on a date yet? dating someone is not to start a relationship its to find out about each other, to get to know each other and to see if there is anything there to build a relationship on.


just because he is cute doesnt mean you should have a relationship or even kiss him.


as tempting as it might be, dont kiss him until you know him better. find out if you actually like his values, humour,if you have any common interests. for example if you like bowling and you go 4 times a week and he hates, and he loves horror movies and ice skating and you hate both then no matter how cute he is you arent going to have anything to do together.


if you really enjoy the first date and go for a second then just go very very slowly. a few dates doesnt make a boyfriend, even though that seems to be the norm on here.
dont kiss him friday. give him a passionate hug or something, but leave him wanting more physically.





emotionally, tell him how much fun you had, and how you want to do it again...mabey in a dating way...

I need some teen dating advice?

Ok, so I'm going to be a junior in high school. Last year, I sat next to a girl in science that i really liked. I think she may like me, but i'm not 100% positive. The year has now ended, and i'm killing myself (Not Really!) that i didn't ask her out. I really like her and i worry about her. So she's in Europe until the end of the month, that gives me some time to think about what i am going to do. My options include calling/texting her (my least favorite), or contacting her via facebook. Would it be too weird if i did that? Have i killed whatever chances I may have had. I really am not looking forward to regretting this for the rest of my life. Ok, I feel that I am outgoing, witty, self-deprecating, and bright. But I'm not sure if girls find he attractive, so here's a pic of me and my mom, don't be afraid to be honest! Ok, I hope I'm not thinking too much so just give me some advice, and please understand that these things are a lot easier said than done.





http://s727.photobucket.com/albums/ww273/Jonathan6793/?action=view%26amp;current=DSCN0023.jpg





Thanks,


Jonathan





PS-I have changed my hair a bit since this pic was taken-its now messier but about the same length


THANKS! :)I need some teen dating advice?
Well i wouldn't say your ugly, your an OK guy. you're not the type i go for but your date-able, I think you should call her see whats up with her, maybe ask her to hang out when she gets back.


good luck =)I need some teen dating advice?
bro lets be honest. you ugly son. no haterz but you want da truth? i mean real talk ma niqqa real talk that u ugly u kno wht im sayin
Hi, I think you look very adorable. :) And you sound like a very nice person.





As for the girl, since I don't know how well you knew her (like whether you two talked a lot or a little while in school), I'll say you could contact her via Facebook and ask how she's doing on her trip. If you were really good friends, then calling or texting would be more appropriate. If not, then I think you should be more subtle.





Well, good luck.

Girls. Give me some dating advice please? What do you think of me?

I'm 16, and i'm feeling really upset:(


I'm male, i'm clean, and have short clean hair:)


I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)


I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i wouldn't want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i WOULD NOT want any other services, (bj etc)...


I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)


But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!


I do like this one girl, and i don't know if she likes me, we are really good friends, and she is probably my best friend of all time, and we are really open with each other about everything, but i don't really see her, so do i need to try and get myself to ask her to meet me?





I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...





Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????





Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...I'm not saying i don't want anyone thats a christian, i'm a christain, but i dont really belive in all of it, and neither do i go to church...





I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...





I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??





I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.





Help me please.





I've been told that i am good looking, by a few people, but then again, i've only spoken to a few people.


I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p





If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn, i am not looking for a relationship with anyone just to chat, if you dont wabt to, i fully undertstand





I dont know what to do:(





Thanks for your help:))





Don't think im some sort of weird kid, that doesnt go out the house, cause i do lol, but im more of a family person i guess (:





How old are you, have you had sex? Would you ASK for it in a relationship?Girls. Give me some dating advice please? What do you think of me?
alright dude............im a guy and i think i need to talkk to you alright......to give you some advice just IM me ok......geoman519@yahoo.comGirls. Give me some dating advice please? What do you think of me?
Any questions you want to ask a girls opinion on IM me or e-mail me!


I think you can IM me if you click the pic to get to my profile i think!





Happy to help!

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HELP: i need lesbian dating advice!?

I'm gay and i like this girl in college. she is gay too. a few months ago i noticed her checking me out at a party, although we didn't speak at the party. i bumped into her a few weeks after that and i introduced myself and we spoke briefly. We have spoken briefly two more times since. our eye-contact is always great and she seems glad to see me. she's quite a reserved person and hard to read but i've had a massive crush on her since we first met. I only came out of the closet recently and feel like i've no idea what to do now??? any advice?


HELP: i need lesbian dating advice!?
Buy her a cup of coffee. Ask her if she wants to go see a movie with you. Find out what her interests are. Find reasons to talk to her and think of things to invite her to.HELP: i need lesbian dating advice!?
I am currently dealing with the same issue. I have now come out and still don't know how to ask someone out. I am working on it though and there is this particular girl I like and I think she likes me so I am just going to ask her.





The only way to know for sure is to ask. This isn't something anyone can tell you about unless it is that girl herself. So, you ask your girl and I will ask mine and we can go through it together!! Good luck to you.
Next time you see her ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
date a guy.

Please help me with dating advice!!?

I'm a really upfront person:





1. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months around a month ago...we had a really great relationship at first but then it became messy and sticky in the end...he came home for the summer and now we are going to be ';friends'; again...


2. I met this new guy (friend of a friend) and he's great so far as I know him...he's everything my ex-boyfriend is not, which I like. He respects me, etc....


3. New guy is of a different hertiage...he's an American who is Lebanese and I'm a Caucasian American.


4. My town is strict with ';rules and regulationis of can's and cannots';, I'm afraid of not only what they will say (even though he goes to a private high school) and furthermore, what my parents will say...





I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend but i really like this new guy, I don't want to lie to either one of them as to what I'm doing...I know I'm not ready for a relationship, but yet, I'm still having conflict with what to do...





HELP PLEASE!!!!!Please help me with dating advice!!?
Hi - your answer really helped me - so now I'll do my best to help you!





Its not easy though - all this male / female stuff





But I've kinda avoided men myself after a bad break up 4 months ago.....and am now ready to start rubbing shoulders with guys!...but like you I DON'T want a relationship right now





I think the best thing is to be honest with yourself - and others





You have to be true to yourself





Then you are not being something you are not - and people have to respect you for that - even if you do something they don't approve of!





DO WHAT YOU WANT - AND STAND YOUR GROUND WITH THOSE WHO MAY NOT UNDERSTAND!

Girls, give me some dating advice please?

Ok, i'm 16, and i'm feeling really upset:(





I'm male. I'm clean, short clean hair:)





I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)





I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i wouldn't want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...





I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)





But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!





I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...





Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????





I like this one girl, that i am close to, and she gave her bf a hj/bj, does that mean she would want to do that to me, or what?











Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...


I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...





I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??





I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.





Help me please. what are ytour opinions of me?





How old are you, have you had sedx, would you ask for it in a relationship?Girls, give me some dating advice please?
30, yes, yes, although mostly I get asked first. Guys are like that.





Pick something that girls like - or that is reasonably co-ed - and join it. Church wouldn't kill you. Neither would the Sierra Club, honor choir, the thespian society, River clean up . . . Most high schools have clubs. You are going to have to go where the girls are, even if you don't plan to be a life-long member of the organization. That, or talk a little to the girls who sit next to you in class, before and after the bell rings.





Sitting under a tree being shy isn't going to attract anyone.





Set your physical standards lower, too. Lots of nice girls your age have a pimple or two, wear glasses and are 5 pounds over weight.

Poll: (Women) I need dating advice!!?

And how do you feel about this;


Think of this from your perspective-





I am going on a date tonight And I have $122.35


This women is really special and I want to impress her with a fun comfortable warm evening.





I am torn between these two ideas;





1. Take her in a Limo to Taco Bell ( everything is half off) or-





2. Take her to Le fristigee' oux (Very expensive French place) On my 10-Speed Bicycle ..





It'll come out to about the same price for both-





Please help me choose-





Thanks in Advance!


Poll: (Women) I need dating advice!!?
rotflmao


how about you take her on a nice walk somewhere, buy her something ( if she wants it ) maybe a rose or nice charm bracelet or something chicks digg that


and talk, get to know her


lol


how funny would it look with u on a bike, she's riding on the pegs, and ur pulling up to the valet


Im cracking up over herePoll: (Women) I need dating advice!!?
I would do Taco Bell, but why the limo? A limo and Taco Bell to me do not mix. And also to me a limo is too fancy, and I am not into fancy restaraunts. Maybe she is. I don't know. I would do dinner, definately but to a more relaxed and comfortable place. You definately one a place you can sit down and talk in. If you are in a warm climate you could do mini golf after dinner. If it is cold maybe a movie? Good luck!





*Also, I could care less whether a man has lots of money to spend on me. I am not a selfish person when it comes to that
seeing as how YOU MUST BE JOKING- for fun I will answer your silly question...





Take me to Taco Bell in the Limo. I dont so much want to be taken home on a Bike that you have not specified is built for (2) after eating at such a scrumpious place like Le-whatever.





So, I'd much rather have a taco or two and room for a soda...and go back to the Limo and enjoy the ride home- maybe, there'd be some apertiff's in the Limo, good music, etc. - and the back section of a Limo is big enough to hide the GAS your both going to have after Toxic Hell





soooo, see you at 7?
TACO BELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You get so much more food for the least amount of money and it very tasty!





You can spend the rest of the date in the Limo.





Ok here's what you do. Get yourself some water balloons and fill them up. Put them in a bucket in the limo. The two of you can stand up through the moon roof and toss water balloons at people walking. LOL!LOL! Fun! I want to go now! = -)
Are you able to drive? If so, my advice would be to borrow a friends car or grab an inexpensive rental. If not, (assuming your city has a safe means) grab a public transport or even a cab. Then find a nearby, mid-range, out-of-the-way restaurant where you can enjoy several hours chatting while you eat a decent meal without worrying about the long bike ride home.





If you are determined to stick to one of your two options, please consider asking your date what her preference would be. She might be really game for one option and totally turned off by the other. You don't want to find out which one the hard way!
Taco Bell is a no go. After the limo, it may be a bit of a let down. However, if she has a GREAT sense of humor, then it might fly. The bike ride might be romantic, but make sure you warn her ahead of time so she can wear the appropriate clothing lol.





Good luck!
are you serious? i would kick your butt if you took me to taco bell or anywhere on your ten-speed bike...why not get some picnic stuff and go to a park or the lake and just be together with her...you can do a picnic by candle light..totally romantic
Either take her to Taco Bell on the bike or to the fancy restaurant in a limo. Don't do it the ';half a.ss.'; way.
Ask her which she would prefer. Once you get to know her, you won't have to ask. There is nothing more romantic than a man knowing what his woman would like, and then providing that for her.
She'll remember the first one for the rest of her life, but the second one sounds so much fun too. I think you're good either way. It depends on if you want to be funny/fun or romantic.
I'd probably have to say take her to the bell on the bike and pocket the rest of the cash. She won't ever date you again anyway, LOL.





Dallas
Hahaha--maybe somewhere in-between. Like take a CAR to a normal-priced restaurant. That will probably be comfortable, fun, and warm. (Please don't choose the Taco Bell option).
How bout you take her to the Olive Garden in your car? That you can afford and you may even have a little left over for a movie!
Go to Taco bell in limo, but bring some candles and a nice table cloth; perhaps your own fine china, just to set the mood.
I'm a dude..but if your serious..the Taco Bell in a limo is awesome..I guarantee she will remeber you
Definitely Taco Bell, unless she's a vegetarian. Then again, I don't think Taco Bell uses real meat... it's a mystery!
take her to taco bell. the bike thing would embarrass me if i was that girl id rather look like a celeb going to taco bell. have fun!!!
Psh. Easy.











The limo,no woman wants to mess up her hair from the wind of a bicycle.








You should know better! Silly men.... :-p
Taco Bell, there's nothing hotter than a Limo and heartburn
or you can take a cab to applebees?
the first one because i bet she never rode a limo b4 + a bike isint exectly something either wearing a dress of going to a high class restraunt!
You can't get 'comforable' on a bike.
Or get a taxi.





ugh! don't take her to taco bell! you don't have to go to a super expensive restaurant...
Oh I'd prefer the bicycle to the limo, where ever you're eating at :)


so take her to zee expensive french place yes?


x)
Limo to Taco Bell.
Take her in a Limo to Taco Bell





GOOD LUCK :D
the limo and taco bell so she won't hate you
the limo
Chics love cars and Taco Bell. That was easy.
save your money'cause she won't be impressed with you anyway moron!!
or take a cab to a middle restaurant, like olive garden or something.. and then have some cash left over :]