Sunday, August 22, 2010

Guys, dating advice, should i be bumbed?

So i met this guy about 2 weeks ago.. we had 2 consecutive dates, then met during the wk for lunch.. and hes even planning a trip for me for labor day.. friday we have a date set.. but i assumed sat we'd hang out since well... its our first sat like dating wise.. i know this sounds stupid to ask.. but hes like well i kind of have plans with friends.. im like yeah no worries.. hes like sorry but yeah we do this all the time st nites soo yeah.. im like yeah no prob ill have with my friends.. hes def. made an effort to make time for me. and everythings going awesome.. is it wrong for me to feel bumbed that hes going out with his friends and i wasnt invited?Guys, dating advice, should i be bumbed?
your no older then 20, if you are thats pathetic. Please try and act mature about the situation, im not even going to comment on what you wrote, ARE YOU SERIOUS?Guys, dating advice, should i be bumbed?
its perfectly fine to be bumbed, but worry dont worry i doubt hes breaking it off with you
It's not wrong to be bummed if he didn't invite you! It's natural for girls to be bummed when they aren't invited with their BF for saturday night plands! But it is also important that you realize that he makes time for you and that he seems really nice.
its normal for you to be a little bumbed...its cause you really like him though...


i used to get like that when my bf and i first started dating..


i was into him soooooooo much and i would bring him everywhere with my friends


but everyonce in a while hed go out just with his and i kinda wasnt invited...


he could see i felt bad and made an effort to bring me along


but its not all the time...you gotta remember that his friends were there before you and guys like to be guys, if they wanna go watch a sports game then so be it, go out with ur girllfriends


dont be bumbed about it, as long as he makes an effort to see you thats all that matters
like I don't know





move on
You've known him for 2 weeks. It would be awkward to bring you around his normal group of friends already. You should be happy he's not trying to rush things.





And if anything.. you should be ';bumbed'; about how you spelled ';bummed.';
Yes it is wrong. The man needs some friend time or he will go crazy and your relationship will fall apart.


You shouldn't worry about it... find a lot to clean (as you should) to occupy your time.
maybe yeah///..weird....what kind of friends? just guys??.. souds bad ..to mE..., goodluck *
don't worry about it, he is making plenty of time for you and you don't want to seem to needy
Your being over dramatic, you need to chill out, your being a typical girl, guys hate that ****, dont freak him out but be yourself at the same time :)
no
Chill out. You just started seeing each other. After he goes out with his friends, the next day casually ask him how it was, did you have a good time, that's cool. Relax. Learn to be friends first.
Your story is boring to read
well you dont know him that well, so dont be to bummed. would you want him hanging out with your friends if you guys barley met?
aww its okay girly he really likes you and its very nice of you for being soo cool about it





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No, give him space. In a saturday or two, get some of your girls together and go hang out with his guys.Not in a let's hook up way, but show him yeah, you can watch football with the guys and just hang out and be cool. Guys love that, it shows you're down to earth and that you can be cool with his friends. You're bringing one or more of your girlfriends only for support, you know potty breaks at the bar and such. Dont' bring more than 2 though, that will be awkward. Make sure it's a girl(s) who knows how to be cool too. Remember, you're not trying to start an orgy, so your girlfriend should be someone who's not looking and is just ready to hang out, kick back, and have a few brews and laughs. Good Luck.

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