Some dating advice?

I mulling over calling someone. Sure, it's just a phone call, but I don't want to make a fool of myself.





I met someone a few weeks ago and I thought there was some chemistry. Apparently the feeling wasn't mutual. After three dates I was told ';I'm only getting the friend vibe'; with you. This was confusing because we seemed to have a good time. Our third date was a three-hour dinner. We had a small kiss afterward. We talked on the phone for an hour before the ';friend'; thing. Nothing huge, but not exactly a nothing either.





I've seen two other people in the week since, but my mind keeps wandering back to this woman. She did say, we could go out for a drink or something, but she didn't want there to be expectations.





I'm considering calling her and seeing what happens. Is that a good idea? Or was I basically told ';get lost'; in a nice way?Some dating advice?
two answers to this. one she is not into you that way you took to long to make a move. therefore you will be only a brother or a freind to her. two she is already seeing or wanting to see someone else. if you keep pursuing she will have you in the freind station forever. if she wants you she will find you. she is not looking so she doesn't. seems harsh but that is how you learn you have to fail a few times.