Sunday, August 22, 2010

Some dating advice, ugh please pleasee help me!?

So I'm likeing this guy at school.. %26amp; I think he likes me.


%26amp; I'm praying that we end up datinggg. But anywayss..








All of my friends tell me that he's ugly %26amp; this %26amp; that. But I reallly really like him.








But Im scared of what ppl will think.. %26amp; I know I shouldnt care but I do :/








Ughhhh, any adivce that would help would be sooo great!





Thanks in advanceSome dating advice, ugh please pleasee help me!?
who cares what your friends think


some not so good looking ppl turn out to be the best at relationships!!!!


the whole school thought i was crazy for dating a nerd in high school!


but i didnt care bc he was the greatest and honest and amazing boyfriend i ever dated!!!Some dating advice, ugh please pleasee help me!?
ok so i totally know how you feel so don't think ur a bad person or anything just becuz u feel that way. it's human nature to care about the opinions of your peers. Also, if u really care for this guy the way that u say u do, go for it! don't miss the chance to be with a really,really great guy just becuz he doesn't meet the standards of others around you. Besides, when it all comes down to it, a relationship like the one you two have has a chance of lasting much longer than the ones that u and your ';friends'; have. You probably won't even see 90% of your peers after highschool is over anyways! GO FOR IT! Trust me, it'll be worth it in the end becuz you won't spend the rest of your life wondering what if.....
The thing is if he attracts you then thats the only thing that matters. So who cares if he doesnt attract someone else. As long as he does to you that is what counts the most. And now if your friends say this to you then guess what? They really arent your true friends at all. A true friend would be happy for you no matter what looks. And just too let you know looks are not all that counts. It what is in the inside that counts. Not the outside. There personality should be the one that pops out not there looks. So now if your friends say this to you tell them if you were a true friend to me you wouldnt care for the looks you would care for how happy he makes me. That will totally get there attention. And i wish you all the good luck in the world.
Well what i would do is tell the people that they need to get a life if they are always on your butt about a guy you like, when they themselves need to go find a man.


They are probably can't find one which is why they are all up on you, so you know what you should do.......you should just tell them to step off and shut up!!


At least you have something to look forward to when you go to school rather than being lonely and down.


Yeah i know you are always looking for him in the hallways and waiting for the class or lunch just to see him.


I am the same way


lOl:))
To be completely honest with you your right you shouldn't care what other people think about who you date it really only matters on what you think. It is our natural instinct to worry what our friends think and the only advice i can give to that can help your friends see how much you like him and what he has to offer tell them what his good qualities are and if they still don't see then don't worry they will eventually cuz they will see you are happy
Uhm, ithink i understand.


So uh, things right now might be kind of complicateed.


and everyone says personality first, blahblahblah.


but thats not truee, looks is important to most ppl atfirst.


So withyou problem,idk. Itseems you really like him.


and although your friends think hes ugly, do what makes you happy.


Imagine youreself dating him, canyou do it? can you imagine yourself being happy? if you can, your friends opinions dont really matter.
some people ask me why im with my boyfriend.. not many but my true friends can see that i truly love him. if you really like him, your friends will see that and they shouldn't care because its not their relationship, its yours.





also, if they were truly your friends, they wouldn't care who you date but be happy for you and support you even if they don't like the guy. i hope things work out :)





and i hope this helped a little
Don't be discouraged by your friends opinions. That's low down of your friends; don't let them get to you.


If you have risen above the need for somebody who's 'hott' and whatever- you're more mature anyhow, and you're better off sticking with your gut feeling.


Don't worry; it will all weigh itself out. :)





Good luck; have a nice night!
you need to realize that as long as your happy thats all that matters !


who cares what others think ; dont let that affect you ! you worring about what other people have to say is really getting in the way of what could possibly be a great relationship !





i wish you the best of luck !
well you cant really control who u like and stuff.... so yea u shud tell your freinds that u like him and that they need to accept it and respect it.... i hate when im with girls and their friends get into it and make us break up so yeaq you should go out wit him if you like him... good luck =]
don't worry about what other people think, you can't live your life to please everyone else. If it makes you happy then do it, and your friends should be happy for you even if they think he's not attractive.
r u ever gonna be in hs again


will u regret this if u dont do it now





live life to the fullest and without any regrets


if u really likes this guy and he likes you....


just saying


listen to your heart





mine??


http://ph.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
When people tell you what they think, you should noticeably take offence to what they say. Show them you're serious.





Go ahead with this guy. You'll see that what other people think won't matter very long anyways. It won't change anything.
hey you can't control who you like. The inside is way more important than the outside. Would you rather spend your time with the person you like or sad because you can't go out with him.
are all of your friends stunningly gorgeous? they should keep it to themselves, and you should go ahead and date him if you like him. don't let your friends decide for you.
you should have a better self esteem so your not so worried what them hoes are thinking. get over it; date him if you want and tell everyone to stfu and leave you alone.


muuhaha amazing advice!
Do not worry about your friends,I know that peer pressure sucks but hun just remember that while their over there wining that he's ugly? You will be the happy one:).. Good luck!
Okay so the way i see it is that you can either date him on the low once he asks you out or you cud be brave nd tell your friends where they can get off
If you live your life wondering or caring what people think you will be on your way to the crazy house. Think about yourself and your feelings bump everyone else
seriously follow your heart dont listen to your friends


bekuz every1 has differents tastes


so if u loike this guy you shud just ask him out


and if u rlly rlly like him youll find a way to ignore other people
I used to be in this position but then i figured out that if they were really your friends they would stick up for you. HEY if you like a guy you like a guy!!!





SISTERHOOD!!!!
Do what you want. Don't listen to your friends. If you like him then go out with him.
Just date him. Dont listen to your friends. They may think hes ugly, but you think hes cute, thats what matters.
Who cares what people think if you like him ask him out.
Don't listen to what people think. It only matters what you think!! If he is very nice,then just ignore other people.
if ur freinds care that much then tell them to f off if u like him enough u wont care what they think about u
Depends on how many friends you have
Go for it!
You definitely shouldn't care. Forget about what your friends are saying and give it a try!
just date him.follow your heart. if your friend don't accept him then there aren't really your friends.
ignore your friends





ask im out

No comments:

Post a Comment