met this girl. going on a date with her tomorrow. shes 17. i really wanna surprise her some time during the date and make her have a fun time. any advice?
well its not a very formal date. just basically first meeting at starbucks. get to know eachother more and talk there. then go to theatre and watch a movie. but i wanna throw in a surprise in between the starbux+theatre
right now, im thinking that after starbucks, i should blindfold her and then drive her to the beach (which is about 20 min away). and then at the beach, give her some nice flowers.. but i wanna do something else at the beach that will make her excited. any ideas?
also if u had any comments on what kinds of things i should talk to her about, what kinds of things i should do/dont during the date.. that would help too thx :)Teen dating advice needed!?!?
No blindfold not on first date. Maybe a picnic on beach ask her a lot of questions about herself. girls want to know you are interested in her. Keep it simple, stare at her and tell her you think she is beautiful and you are happy she is here with you. Send her flowers the next day thanking her for the date and that you cannot stop smiling. @ 17 you really want to keep it fun and simple. If you give too much too quick they expect it. Yes I am a girl. The fact that you are asking about how to impress a girl says your a good person. You will go far, have a good night. Be yourself!Teen dating advice needed!?!?
If it's the first date don't come on too strong. If you do that it'll be a turn off. The whole blind fold thing might be a bit too much. A flower or a bouquet of flowers is nice... I would probably go with a nice long stem red rose.
It's hard to know if that's something she might actually like (blindfolded and taken to the beach on the FIRST date)... or if she'll think it's ';creepy'; or ';weird';. I think you should talk to one of her friends and run it by them and ask them what they think (if it's a good idea or not).
Talk about the normal things people talk about when they are trying to get to know one another: family, school, what they do for fun, friends etc.
As far as what to do and not do... treat her like a gentleman (make sure you pay for everything and open her door etc). If she's cold give her your coat and so forth. Treat her the way you would want your sister (if you don't have one... pretend) to be treated by a guy.
At the end of the night just give her a nice hug (no... don't come on too strong and give her a kiss) and if you think it went well suggest seeing her again next week or whenever it's convenient for the both of you.
ask her first if she would like to do anything before the movie, go to the park, or lake or something.
So you're going on a first date and you want to blindfold her and drive her off somewhere.
Have you really thought this through? As soon as you bring the blindfold out, you'll be lucky if she doesn't run a mile! Save that sort of thing for an anniversary with a girl who knows you enough to trust you.
You might be better off just suggesting that the two of you go for a walk along the beach - try to time this so it's sunset, that's the best time.
Just taking her somewhere is gonna be nice enough for her, trust me she is probably already nervous. I am 16 so I know how she is probably feeling. ask her ?'ns about herself, girls love that. Just show her you can have a good time no matter where u take her.
Very odd!!! You better hope your date isn't packing.
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