I need REALLY GOOD dating advice!Kinda long?

I live in a small town and over the past two years, I had befriended this group of guy friends. I had an argument with one of my friends one night because one of the guys was trying to kiss me, and because she told me not to kiss him I let him....


A year later, the same group of guys, I kissed a different one on a few occasions.


Now a few months later, I've met a guy who knows both of the boys. I really like him and if I had met him before hand I wouldn't have kissed either of them.


Now he has been making all the advances, I have been taking notes from ';he's just not that into you';, and he has added me on facebook and asked one of the guys for my msn. We've arranged to casually see each other on friday, so my question is, I don't want it to be just one kiss and that's it.


Is there anything I can do and say that could help it progress into a relationship?I need REALLY GOOD dating advice!Kinda long?
Play hard to get but make sure he knows you're playing ;) That'll get him after you.I need REALLY GOOD dating advice!Kinda long?
ok, how do you know you want it to progress into a relationship... you havent even been on a date yet? dating someone is not to start a relationship its to find out about each other, to get to know each other and to see if there is anything there to build a relationship on.


just because he is cute doesnt mean you should have a relationship or even kiss him.


as tempting as it might be, dont kiss him until you know him better. find out if you actually like his values, humour,if you have any common interests. for example if you like bowling and you go 4 times a week and he hates, and he loves horror movies and ice skating and you hate both then no matter how cute he is you arent going to have anything to do together.


if you really enjoy the first date and go for a second then just go very very slowly. a few dates doesnt make a boyfriend, even though that seems to be the norm on here.
dont kiss him friday. give him a passionate hug or something, but leave him wanting more physically.





emotionally, tell him how much fun you had, and how you want to do it again...mabey in a dating way...