so i have this guy friend. we've been friends for 3-4 years now. hes always been a good friend to me, giving me advice %26amp; standing up for me when my ex bf wouldn't. we've actually even dated before, for about a month or two, about 2 years ago. when i dated him back then though it felt a little weird, i think because we were such good friends. he liked me a lot though.
well we still hang out, still friends. the other night i was at his house drinking with some friends and one thing lead to another and we almost had sex. we would have if he had a condom. anyways i think i might like him more than a friend, but im not sure. hes not really someone i can see myself with. im just so confused right now. this may be a stupid question for a 22 yr old to ask haha, but i just need some sort of advice! its tough dating a friend too because of the risk of losing them. i just dont know. help.!Friend/dating advice please...?
It sounds plutonic. You should sit down and re-evaluate your feelings, and if you do like him go for it, but if you still can't see yourself being with him, then don't get together.Friend/dating advice please...?
Well i don't think its a dumb questions at all. Im 21 and i have a guy friend that i have known for 21 years (we grew up together) and he was the same way your friend was to you always there, standing up for me.. everything. Well i started to get feelings for him but i never acted on it. One night why drinking and hanging out with a group of friends i told his best friend how i felt. Later he ended up finding out and he said he liked me too but nothing really become of it until one night we were drinking and started making out, nothing else. And it happen a few other time but we had always been drinking when it happen. Well one night while hanging it just normal we started making out and i felt weird about it. So i think if u guys have tried and it was weird for you then i think it still will be weird, just stay friends.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Adult dating advice needed- nothing perverted, and not teenage drama. serious answers please :)?
There has been a client who comes into my work about two times a week for the past few years, we've always flirted but nothing really more than that has happened. i think that i have restrained myself due to the fact that i don't want to make either of us uncomfortable if things aren't reciprocated. it would be weird seeing each other so often if one of us rejected the other. about two months ago he asked me to see his friends band play (there are 13 girls at my work, and he only invited me) he didn't actually ask to take me there, as he was kind of working with the band- i was too big of a wuss to attend alone so i brought two of my co-workers with me. things seemed to go pretty well, he spent time with me when he had chances, bought me drinks, tried to get me to go to the after party (which i had to decline), and hugged me goodbye. he hasn't asked me anywhere since then. we still flirt as much as before, and everyone else at work can't figure out why we haven't tried dating yet... since it's ';obvious'; we're into each other.
so my question is this- would it be improper for me to ask him to go out? how could i bring it up? i'm usually very confident... but i'm afraid to be rejected by a person i will have to see every week. if he was a random guy i'd just met i'd have no problem. should i just wait and make him do the asking... i just think this is a really great guy and don't want to miss out on the opportunity by not taking a chance. maybe i sent the wrong message by bringing friends to the concert?
any ideas?Adult dating advice needed- nothing perverted, and not teenage drama. serious answers please :)?
I have heard that if you have a dog and he does too (find out) then you can walk your dogs together at a park. That always seems to break the ice since your dogs are being playful. If no dog, then just ask him to go to coffee with you. Something simple in conversation.
Anyways he may have read your actions wrong at the concert. He may be into you but not know how to react to the ';turn down'; to go to the party after.
Just be confident and if you never try to ask him to coffee you will never know what could have happened. So go for it!!Adult dating advice needed- nothing perverted, and not teenage drama. serious answers please :)?
just ask the guy out for a coffee.
there is nothing big in that, get to know him a bit better and take it from there, you already have expectations that you will end up in bed with him but coffee in your local starbucks or where ever ain't gonna seem like that. oh and you gotta think its not a date.
so my question is this- would it be improper for me to ask him to go out? how could i bring it up? i'm usually very confident... but i'm afraid to be rejected by a person i will have to see every week. if he was a random guy i'd just met i'd have no problem. should i just wait and make him do the asking... i just think this is a really great guy and don't want to miss out on the opportunity by not taking a chance. maybe i sent the wrong message by bringing friends to the concert?
any ideas?Adult dating advice needed- nothing perverted, and not teenage drama. serious answers please :)?
I have heard that if you have a dog and he does too (find out) then you can walk your dogs together at a park. That always seems to break the ice since your dogs are being playful. If no dog, then just ask him to go to coffee with you. Something simple in conversation.
Anyways he may have read your actions wrong at the concert. He may be into you but not know how to react to the ';turn down'; to go to the party after.
Just be confident and if you never try to ask him to coffee you will never know what could have happened. So go for it!!Adult dating advice needed- nothing perverted, and not teenage drama. serious answers please :)?
just ask the guy out for a coffee.
there is nothing big in that, get to know him a bit better and take it from there, you already have expectations that you will end up in bed with him but coffee in your local starbucks or where ever ain't gonna seem like that. oh and you gotta think its not a date.
Lesbian dating advice?
I am just looking for an opinion. I am kind of inexperienced in dating. It took me a while to find a potential girlfriend after coming out. Well I was starting to get to know this girl, and it seemed to be going ok. We had just met a little while earlier. I was texting her a lot and asking her to hang out a lot. She didnt seem to mind it at the time, but later on, I asked her for an opinion on whether she thought I was strange. She said that she thought I was too clingy. She thought it was weird that I was that clingy in the beginning. I got advice from my straight friends, and they were kind of pressuring me into getting to know her faster, and saying if I didnt she would only consider me a friend and that it. She seems to be over it, and wants to chill again, she just said that when I meet new women not to act that way because its a turn off. What is everyone elses opinion? Do you enjoy the attention, or does it get annoying?Lesbian dating advice?
She's correct. I used to be like you. After dating too many girls and not understanding why things weren't working out, I decided to change and do things differently. Now, I have my friends that I spend a great deal of my time with and I'm more conscious of how often I contact my lover.Lesbian dating advice?
Everything in moderation is the key. Never ask a person if they think you are strange, never text someone more than once a day. Attention is nice, like sending flowers (not often though). Listening to a woman is the best form of attention. Listening and letting her talk about herself. You are being too clingy for most of the population, but some ladies like that. Suss out the reactions you get. Move slow enough not to scare someone, but fast enough that they know you are interested. Then sit back and examine their reactions.
It could get annoying. The most unattractive thing about a person is them being desperate.
I think you should not be to clingy
I think your friends are right, in that you should have probably made a move, yes. However, she's also correct in that you shouldn't become to clingy. Don't avoid the natural progression of things, going on dates, becoming closer, etc.
Attention is good, until it becomes too much. There's a time and place for a lot of attention, and when you just meet someone, it's not really the best time for it. That's just my opinion though.
She's correct. I used to be like you. After dating too many girls and not understanding why things weren't working out, I decided to change and do things differently. Now, I have my friends that I spend a great deal of my time with and I'm more conscious of how often I contact my lover.Lesbian dating advice?
Everything in moderation is the key. Never ask a person if they think you are strange, never text someone more than once a day. Attention is nice, like sending flowers (not often though). Listening to a woman is the best form of attention. Listening and letting her talk about herself. You are being too clingy for most of the population, but some ladies like that. Suss out the reactions you get. Move slow enough not to scare someone, but fast enough that they know you are interested. Then sit back and examine their reactions.
It could get annoying. The most unattractive thing about a person is them being desperate.
I think you should not be to clingy
I think your friends are right, in that you should have probably made a move, yes. However, she's also correct in that you shouldn't become to clingy. Don't avoid the natural progression of things, going on dates, becoming closer, etc.
Attention is good, until it becomes too much. There's a time and place for a lot of attention, and when you just meet someone, it's not really the best time for it. That's just my opinion though.
Mormon dating advice?!?!?! please!!?
ok... to make it short and swweeeet. i really reallly rrrrreeeallly like this guy. im 16 and mormon and i always tried to keep the standards the prophet has provided for us... the guy i like is 15 and catholic....but hes super cool and really fun to hang out with. i want him to come to church with me. he likes me, but i dont no if its wrong to date someone non-mormon according to the standards.... also, hes not 16, but hes non-mormon so does it apply to him?? i mean, hes been in a relationship before.... ugh idk.... if i shouldnt, how should i tell him???? please help!! thanks yo!!! :PMormon dating advice?!?!?! please!!?
well, since he's 15 no. but if he wasn't yeah you could totally date no problem.
but if you really want to date him, you should just go for it :)Mormon dating advice?!?!?! please!!?
it's okay to date non members as long as you understand that u do have diffrent standards and therefore have to be more carefull in certain situations. Personaly I wouldnt date a non-16 yr old unless he was very close to 16 (a few weeks...a month tops). but i think thats a personal choice. I would invite him to a youth dance just as friends or a mutual combined night like bowling or sports. Its easier if hes friends with other mormon guys... :)
LIZ
There is *nothing* wrong with bringing each other to each others church.
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing, just don't get too serious with a non-member. You should try to be sealed in the temple and obviously you cant with a non-member.
I am a LDS convert. If I didn't join, I wouldn't have been engaged to be sealed with my girlfriend :)
Don't take him to your church, he's catholic and your mormon. Go out with him just dont take him to your church, what are you trying to do? convert him??/
You can date him if you want you, go ahead.
I say do what your little heart desires! :)
First of all, read the ';for strength of youth pamphlet.';
http://www.lds.org/youthresources/pdf/Fo鈥?/a>
So long as he will not compromise your standards there is no reason that I can see that you couldn't go on a GROUP date. Remember no single or steady dating until you are 18.
Sorry to seem cruel but you should try to keep your feelings for him under control. You will have a hard time being truly happy if you end up marrying him and you don't have the same religious goals.
Pray to Father in Heaven for help to bring him into the church if it is His will, and to help you keep your commitment to marry in the temple and remain clean until then.stella mccartney
well, since he's 15 no. but if he wasn't yeah you could totally date no problem.
but if you really want to date him, you should just go for it :)Mormon dating advice?!?!?! please!!?
it's okay to date non members as long as you understand that u do have diffrent standards and therefore have to be more carefull in certain situations. Personaly I wouldnt date a non-16 yr old unless he was very close to 16 (a few weeks...a month tops). but i think thats a personal choice. I would invite him to a youth dance just as friends or a mutual combined night like bowling or sports. Its easier if hes friends with other mormon guys... :)
LIZ
There is *nothing* wrong with bringing each other to each others church.
There is nothing wrong with what you are doing, just don't get too serious with a non-member. You should try to be sealed in the temple and obviously you cant with a non-member.
I am a LDS convert. If I didn't join, I wouldn't have been engaged to be sealed with my girlfriend :)
Don't take him to your church, he's catholic and your mormon. Go out with him just dont take him to your church, what are you trying to do? convert him??/
You can date him if you want you, go ahead.
I say do what your little heart desires! :)
First of all, read the ';for strength of youth pamphlet.';
http://www.lds.org/youthresources/pdf/Fo鈥?/a>
So long as he will not compromise your standards there is no reason that I can see that you couldn't go on a GROUP date. Remember no single or steady dating until you are 18.
Sorry to seem cruel but you should try to keep your feelings for him under control. You will have a hard time being truly happy if you end up marrying him and you don't have the same religious goals.
Pray to Father in Heaven for help to bring him into the church if it is His will, and to help you keep your commitment to marry in the temple and remain clean until then.
Christian dating advice?
Ok so im 15 and i really like this guy who is 13 but im afraid that might be too young for me. However; im dating this guy thats 18 and only wants to have sex which i have not yet given in to. Kirby who is 13 doesn't want that behavior and is a sweet guy. I dont know what to do, i kissed Kirby today which is horrible cuz im dating James but i didn't plan it, it just happened like that. I'm so confused. I want what God wants for my life but right now im thinking he put someone into my life that is great, but the one i'm dating right now isn't the best and he wants me to move in with him in 6 months and if me and him are still dating.
so questions are
1. Do i tell James i kissed Kirby?
2. Should i break up with James?
3. Should i go out with Kirby?
4. Should i just take a break?Christian dating advice?
Look, okay, so Kirby sounds like the kind of guy you should be dating. He seems more suited to your current tastes and vows. I think maybe you should try it with him. But then again you'd have to break it off with James. Good luck with that.
:3Christian dating advice?
1. No. Unless you are really brave and want to be honest with James and take the possibility of him breaking up with you.
2. Yeah. If you are a Christian, and you don't want sex before marriage, then break up with him. Better safe than sorry.
3. If you think that you are ready and don't mind him being younger, go ahead.
4. Maybe that would be a good idea.
Hope this helps.
As a christian break u with James and take a break God doesnt want us to have that pressure and at our age He wouldnt give us that pressure so pick neither and take a break. What in the world are you going out with 15 year old any way. Sorry but that plain Stupid you two live in different spectrums. Just break it off.
well i think you should break up with james it seems like your not that happy with him.tell him you kissed curby and go out with curby. dont take a break i think kurby is rite for you take hi while you have chance.
take a break hon :) ur way too young to be worrying about all this drama
good luck... God bless ya
Take a break. :)
Take a break at 15 guys will come and go and when dating and kissing gets involved it can lead to more even heartbreak and a bad rep ..Don't set yourself up for heartbreak..k nor is god doing this at your age he may be giving you friends but not a boyfriend nor is he telling a 15 year old to move in with a guy that's sin..Slow it down and do more productive stuff that god will enjoy don't go fast in life it will bring things you don't want nor will you be able to handle..bottom line dating can be a door your not ready for so dont open it to fast..Save yourself for your husband and give it time sex is suppose to be precious you rush it you get what it brings..What do you think you parents would do if you got pregnant and then left alone ..be careful of what your doing expecially at 15..
You can't continue being with a man who is forcing you to do things you don't want to do and doesn't respect your religious values. That isn't love. He is selfish.
You have to end it because you will only continue living a lie and hurting yourself and giving your current man the upper hand and power.
Be honest with your current man and tell him about the other guy you're interested in. He will find out sooner or later anyways from others or from the way you act around him (the new man).
Take some time after the breakup to reflect on yourself and decide what you want from there.
Go for the younger guy if you really like him. Become really good friends as well. It will make it easier to stay true to your religious beliefs if you focus on the friendship part. Plus if he is younger he isn't as horny yet and probably will have more respect for you.
Good luck =)
You must realize that at this point in your life your are just dating, not making life altering decisions. Yes, you did wrong by 'dating' someone and kissing another, but no good will come out of kissing and telling. You obviously do not have much in common with James and should break it off (since yes, at that age all he wants is sex). He may be 18 and want his girlfriend to move in with him, but at only 15 you are no where ready to make those decisions.
Do you really think God is speaking to you about dating, or should you just stick to the standards you have for yourself which should be date someone your own age (option #5).
omg can u even do that?...im quit sure your parents wldnt let you move in with ur bf...and im sorry i dnt even think you should have to think about this..even an idiot cld see what to do.
why wld u stay with james if all he wants is sex and you even said he aint the best!!?..duh break up with him, what so hard about it???
as for kirby, big deal his 2 years younger!..im 19 i would still date 3 years younger if they were mature looking...
bottom line i wldnt tell james you kissed kirby, id break up with james and go out with kirby!
so questions are
1. Do i tell James i kissed Kirby?
2. Should i break up with James?
3. Should i go out with Kirby?
4. Should i just take a break?Christian dating advice?
Look, okay, so Kirby sounds like the kind of guy you should be dating. He seems more suited to your current tastes and vows. I think maybe you should try it with him. But then again you'd have to break it off with James. Good luck with that.
:3Christian dating advice?
1. No. Unless you are really brave and want to be honest with James and take the possibility of him breaking up with you.
2. Yeah. If you are a Christian, and you don't want sex before marriage, then break up with him. Better safe than sorry.
3. If you think that you are ready and don't mind him being younger, go ahead.
4. Maybe that would be a good idea.
Hope this helps.
As a christian break u with James and take a break God doesnt want us to have that pressure and at our age He wouldnt give us that pressure so pick neither and take a break. What in the world are you going out with 15 year old any way. Sorry but that plain Stupid you two live in different spectrums. Just break it off.
well i think you should break up with james it seems like your not that happy with him.tell him you kissed curby and go out with curby. dont take a break i think kurby is rite for you take hi while you have chance.
take a break hon :) ur way too young to be worrying about all this drama
good luck... God bless ya
Take a break. :)
Take a break at 15 guys will come and go and when dating and kissing gets involved it can lead to more even heartbreak and a bad rep ..Don't set yourself up for heartbreak..k nor is god doing this at your age he may be giving you friends but not a boyfriend nor is he telling a 15 year old to move in with a guy that's sin..Slow it down and do more productive stuff that god will enjoy don't go fast in life it will bring things you don't want nor will you be able to handle..bottom line dating can be a door your not ready for so dont open it to fast..Save yourself for your husband and give it time sex is suppose to be precious you rush it you get what it brings..What do you think you parents would do if you got pregnant and then left alone ..be careful of what your doing expecially at 15..
You can't continue being with a man who is forcing you to do things you don't want to do and doesn't respect your religious values. That isn't love. He is selfish.
You have to end it because you will only continue living a lie and hurting yourself and giving your current man the upper hand and power.
Be honest with your current man and tell him about the other guy you're interested in. He will find out sooner or later anyways from others or from the way you act around him (the new man).
Take some time after the breakup to reflect on yourself and decide what you want from there.
Go for the younger guy if you really like him. Become really good friends as well. It will make it easier to stay true to your religious beliefs if you focus on the friendship part. Plus if he is younger he isn't as horny yet and probably will have more respect for you.
Good luck =)
You must realize that at this point in your life your are just dating, not making life altering decisions. Yes, you did wrong by 'dating' someone and kissing another, but no good will come out of kissing and telling. You obviously do not have much in common with James and should break it off (since yes, at that age all he wants is sex). He may be 18 and want his girlfriend to move in with him, but at only 15 you are no where ready to make those decisions.
Do you really think God is speaking to you about dating, or should you just stick to the standards you have for yourself which should be date someone your own age (option #5).
omg can u even do that?...im quit sure your parents wldnt let you move in with ur bf...and im sorry i dnt even think you should have to think about this..even an idiot cld see what to do.
why wld u stay with james if all he wants is sex and you even said he aint the best!!?..duh break up with him, what so hard about it???
as for kirby, big deal his 2 years younger!..im 19 i would still date 3 years younger if they were mature looking...
bottom line i wldnt tell james you kissed kirby, id break up with james and go out with kirby!
Any dating advice for a guy who has kids but doesn't want any more?
I'm 31, I have three daughters from a previous marriage, I've been single for over a year and I am ready to find someone new. One thing that I foresee being a problem is the fact that I had a vasectomy after my third daughter was born and I don't want anymore kids. That limits my dating pool to women that have kids and don't want anymore or women who like kids but don't want any of their own. In my experience so far, both of those types of women are hard to find. I'm open to internet dating sites, but I've had the same problem there as well. How does one go about meeting people in my situation? I'm a great guy with a lot to offer the right person, I'm pretty cool and I have an attractive personality that has always been able to attract women, and I HAVE attracted a few over the last year, but this whole not wanting any more kids thing has always turned them off. Any ideas?Any dating advice for a guy who has kids but doesn't want any more?
It will not be too much of a problem. I had a vasectomy when I was 21. I never want children. A lot of women turned up their nose at me, when I was in my 20’s. By the time I was in my 30’s most women already had all the children they wanted. I also observed that many women are child-free today (never want children). I am now 42. Most of the women I date have adult children and don’t want or can’t have more. My current girlfriend is 53. Go to OKCupid and post your profile. Just say, “I don’t want more children”. I posed my profile and I heard from a lot of women. Many asked me, “Are you sure you won’t change your mind about not having children?”. But others did not. I found someone that is just like me.Any dating advice for a guy who has kids but doesn't want any more?
from what i know about this subject, i jusr had a friend go through this, you have to date a little older. i mean like 35 and older. But the thing that sucks about that is you get them when they are far past their prime. Women don't take care of themselves so they kind of let themselves go. It is a double edged sword at this point. i say just look for a good time if that is what you want and you might get lucky. but def go for the much older ones
well all you can do is be honest.eventually the right woman will come along.i have 4 kids(can have more)but wont.couldn't afford the c/s payments,lol.seriously they are rare like you say,but just keep plugging away.be patient.
I think discussing your vasectomy will limit your options. I am 36, and had a vasectomy years ago. I don't discuss it.
Well honestly speaking -None will accept your proposal coz every woman dreams of having her own kid ...just accept the fact ....don't Let your EGO waste your life !
keep trying.. you will find someone.
The more people you meet or are around the better your chances. I am assuming your daughters are school age and there are many activities school or otherwise that you attend or take them to. Other single parents will be there to meet.
Besides time with your kids, what do you do aside from work? Get involved in something that matches your personal interest, Sierra Club, Parents Without Partners, Poetry reading groups, various places you could volunteer in your community, and hundreds more places to go that hold your interest. Your more likely to meet someone who shares your interests and values this way.
Have you written down attributes you want in a person ? Write them down and be very specific. Physically,personality, character,spiritually, everything in a person you think you would value. Then being as no one is perfect, pick your top three. Even if your list is huge narrowing it down to three will help you with who you choose to date. As a single parent, you don't have time to waste or money to waste on time with women who don't have attributes you value.
I met my husband at a bookstore. It was a weekend my kids where with their dad and I wasn't looking...but he was. He said ';hello'; and struck up a conversation. We ended up going to lunch and spent the rest of the day talking at a local park. That was 9 years ago and we both still love books/reading among other things.
I had made a list and he had also.
I hope something here helps you, and keep in mind, there are many women out there that fit the bill.
It will not be too much of a problem. I had a vasectomy when I was 21. I never want children. A lot of women turned up their nose at me, when I was in my 20’s. By the time I was in my 30’s most women already had all the children they wanted. I also observed that many women are child-free today (never want children). I am now 42. Most of the women I date have adult children and don’t want or can’t have more. My current girlfriend is 53. Go to OKCupid and post your profile. Just say, “I don’t want more children”. I posed my profile and I heard from a lot of women. Many asked me, “Are you sure you won’t change your mind about not having children?”. But others did not. I found someone that is just like me.Any dating advice for a guy who has kids but doesn't want any more?
from what i know about this subject, i jusr had a friend go through this, you have to date a little older. i mean like 35 and older. But the thing that sucks about that is you get them when they are far past their prime. Women don't take care of themselves so they kind of let themselves go. It is a double edged sword at this point. i say just look for a good time if that is what you want and you might get lucky. but def go for the much older ones
well all you can do is be honest.eventually the right woman will come along.i have 4 kids(can have more)but wont.couldn't afford the c/s payments,lol.seriously they are rare like you say,but just keep plugging away.be patient.
I think discussing your vasectomy will limit your options. I am 36, and had a vasectomy years ago. I don't discuss it.
Well honestly speaking -None will accept your proposal coz every woman dreams of having her own kid ...just accept the fact ....don't Let your EGO waste your life !
keep trying.. you will find someone.
The more people you meet or are around the better your chances. I am assuming your daughters are school age and there are many activities school or otherwise that you attend or take them to. Other single parents will be there to meet.
Besides time with your kids, what do you do aside from work? Get involved in something that matches your personal interest, Sierra Club, Parents Without Partners, Poetry reading groups, various places you could volunteer in your community, and hundreds more places to go that hold your interest. Your more likely to meet someone who shares your interests and values this way.
Have you written down attributes you want in a person ? Write them down and be very specific. Physically,personality, character,spiritually, everything in a person you think you would value. Then being as no one is perfect, pick your top three. Even if your list is huge narrowing it down to three will help you with who you choose to date. As a single parent, you don't have time to waste or money to waste on time with women who don't have attributes you value.
I met my husband at a bookstore. It was a weekend my kids where with their dad and I wasn't looking...but he was. He said ';hello'; and struck up a conversation. We ended up going to lunch and spent the rest of the day talking at a local park. That was 9 years ago and we both still love books/reading among other things.
I had made a list and he had also.
I hope something here helps you, and keep in mind, there are many women out there that fit the bill.
Need dating advice age range 15-18?
So a little about my self.
1. I skateboard
2.Play videogames
3.browse internet and look at weird pictures on there lol
4. I have no real friends I havent been in school for a year and dont start college for another month.
5. never dated or really talked to a girl for about 2 years.
6.Like to shop and buy clothes and shoes.
7.listen to rap and rock music.
8.watch tv.
Also what is a good way to get girlfriends at the mall?
How do you approach a girl if your alone?
What should you say?
When is a good time to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend.
When is a good time to ask for her number?Need dating advice age range 15-18?
College could be a really good way to meet girls. You could join clubs that interest you so that you find girls that share those similarities.
If you are at the mall and there is a video game store you could approach a girl looking at games and say something along the lines ';yeah thats a really fun game or something like that.
You shouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend until you two have been friends for a while and gotten to know eachother so that you don't scare her away.
You can ask for her number if you approach her and you both hit it off.
When you start college don't be afraid to just jump into things. No one knows you there so you can start over new and be whoever you want to be. Be confident and maybe the girls will come to you.
Hope this helped a bit.
1. I skateboard
2.Play videogames
3.browse internet and look at weird pictures on there lol
4. I have no real friends I havent been in school for a year and dont start college for another month.
5. never dated or really talked to a girl for about 2 years.
6.Like to shop and buy clothes and shoes.
7.listen to rap and rock music.
8.watch tv.
Also what is a good way to get girlfriends at the mall?
How do you approach a girl if your alone?
What should you say?
When is a good time to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend.
When is a good time to ask for her number?Need dating advice age range 15-18?
College could be a really good way to meet girls. You could join clubs that interest you so that you find girls that share those similarities.
If you are at the mall and there is a video game store you could approach a girl looking at games and say something along the lines ';yeah thats a really fun game or something like that.
You shouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend until you two have been friends for a while and gotten to know eachother so that you don't scare her away.
You can ask for her number if you approach her and you both hit it off.
When you start college don't be afraid to just jump into things. No one knows you there so you can start over new and be whoever you want to be. Be confident and maybe the girls will come to you.
Hope this helped a bit.
Intercultural dating advice?
I was raised in Southeast Asia and came here only 3 yrs ago (I'm 24). I recently went on a few dates with this guy who's been an acquaintance since I first came to the US, and we've connected really well so far. But he's Chinese American, and I don't think he's dated anybody who's not from the US before. I can sense some concern in him, whether it can work out or not. The previous guy I dated was from Canada, so the whole intercultural thing is not new to me. Any tips on how I can help him adjust to the idea? (in a subtle way would be preferred). Thanks!Intercultural dating advice?
you probably herd this before if it is ment to be it will work. really talk to him and explain how you feel.Intercultural dating advice?
Act as American as you can I guess =3 Go to American styled restaurants and make them know you are just born somewhere else but three years in America and you ARE American.
Good luck to you!
you probably herd this before if it is ment to be it will work. really talk to him and explain how you feel.Intercultural dating advice?
Act as American as you can I guess =3 Go to American styled restaurants and make them know you are just born somewhere else but three years in America and you ARE American.
Good luck to you!
Any dating advice for 2 girls travelling alone to England for the summer?
We will be in England for the summer %26amp; we are intersted in maybe dating. We are both over 21, si no interest in teenagers. Any advice on locations to meet nice, mature %26amp; attractive english men to hang out with while we are there?Any dating advice for 2 girls travelling alone to England for the summer?
England is littered with bars, pubs and clubs everywhere. Especially if the town has a university, the place will be full of people your age. Remember that the drinking age is lower, so people your age won't have only just started drinking.
The pubs are very informal and they have them all over. Most places you are in England, there will be one (or ten!) within walking distance.
Bars tend to be a little more upscale, but still pretty informal.
Clubs tend to have a dress code, no jeans, teeshirts, sneakers or flip flops. Even crappy clubs require you to make some effort in your look. Most clubs have pretty good security so you can feel safe there. Decent sized clubs will have taxi cabs near by, clearly identified, and for a few quid you can get home safely.
But drinking is a big part of the culture in England, so anywhere that sells alcohol would be a good place to meet someone!
But specifics will vary depending on location. Remember that England is like America, but flipped. By that I mean that the north has a reputation for being a little more friendly, with strange accents, more industrial stuff, more unemployment, more poverty, lower prices. The south is more affluent, nicer accents, more expensive, people with good jobs, more stuff to do.
The south coast is very nice and there is plenty to do down there. The weather tends to be nicer too.Any dating advice for 2 girls travelling alone to England for the summer?
London is a vast city with nearly seven million people living in it. There may be plenty of people who are not from there, but they live there. Report Abuse
As to the maturity of Brits, I'm not saying that they are mature, but they are given a lot more responsibilities at a younger age that typical Americans, so you be the judge. Enjoy your trip. Report Abuse
You can find dates ANYWHERE really. It's just a combination of luck and timing really.
Try out the local clubs and pubs wherever you're staying, obviously try the beach, maybe some of the local shopping centres, and places like the cinema.
Have fun, England is very pretty (:
London
depends where you are visiting?
Yes keep your knickers on
England is littered with bars, pubs and clubs everywhere. Especially if the town has a university, the place will be full of people your age. Remember that the drinking age is lower, so people your age won't have only just started drinking.
The pubs are very informal and they have them all over. Most places you are in England, there will be one (or ten!) within walking distance.
Bars tend to be a little more upscale, but still pretty informal.
Clubs tend to have a dress code, no jeans, teeshirts, sneakers or flip flops. Even crappy clubs require you to make some effort in your look. Most clubs have pretty good security so you can feel safe there. Decent sized clubs will have taxi cabs near by, clearly identified, and for a few quid you can get home safely.
But drinking is a big part of the culture in England, so anywhere that sells alcohol would be a good place to meet someone!
But specifics will vary depending on location. Remember that England is like America, but flipped. By that I mean that the north has a reputation for being a little more friendly, with strange accents, more industrial stuff, more unemployment, more poverty, lower prices. The south is more affluent, nicer accents, more expensive, people with good jobs, more stuff to do.
The south coast is very nice and there is plenty to do down there. The weather tends to be nicer too.Any dating advice for 2 girls travelling alone to England for the summer?
London is a vast city with nearly seven million people living in it. There may be plenty of people who are not from there, but they live there. Report Abuse
As to the maturity of Brits, I'm not saying that they are mature, but they are given a lot more responsibilities at a younger age that typical Americans, so you be the judge. Enjoy your trip. Report Abuse
You can find dates ANYWHERE really. It's just a combination of luck and timing really.
Try out the local clubs and pubs wherever you're staying, obviously try the beach, maybe some of the local shopping centres, and places like the cinema.
Have fun, England is very pretty (:
London
depends where you are visiting?
Yes keep your knickers on
Need dating advice ..... 51 y.o. doesn't know ';the rules';?
Okay, I've been out of the ';dating game'; for 25 years. Now, due to a divorce and taking a few years to recover, I feel ready to date again. So, on Saturday night, I went out with a guy that had been bugging me to go out with him. We went to a local sports bar to watch the PSU game. About a half hour into the date, his brother shows up and sits with us. (Okay, a little odd.) Then a few more people joined us. I know I was with guy#1, but I felt a real connection with his brother. Then, when it came time to pay the bill, the brother picked it up! Who allows his brother to pay for a first date? Needless to say, should guy#1 call again, I'm not interested.
BUT, I am interested in his brother. So, would it be wrong for me to send him an e-mail thanking him for the evening?
Just don't know what ';the rules'; are anymore!
Thanks, CharmNeed dating advice ..... 51 y.o. doesn't know ';the rules';?
Yes send him the email , thats a great idea , and there are no rules that's what makes this dating crap a nightmare....Need dating advice ..... 51 y.o. doesn't know ';the rules';?
If u like his brother and have a conection thing. Then email the guy number 1 and tell him how u fill and then try to go out on a date with his brother just u and him that way no more family and friends can join the date. Guy number one messed up on the first date by haveing people and famiy join the date that u 2 were on.
if you like the brother and he's single e-mail him thank him, and then you ask him out
The main rule is to move towards your happiness. If you'd prefer to e-mail and thank him, why not?
And if there're no any obstacles (like the brother is married or like there's already something between you and guy #1) give him some soft hint you liked his caring so much you'd like to have another dinner.
the rules are kinda the same.....maybe guy #1 was not wanting to frighten you off by making it an ';exclusive'; thing with you and him., or maybe that's just kind of the way things turned out, and he wasn't man enough to tell everybody to get lost......but if your not interested in guy #1 does it really matter? go for his brother, life is too short!!!!
its never to late to start over,stella mccartney
BUT, I am interested in his brother. So, would it be wrong for me to send him an e-mail thanking him for the evening?
Just don't know what ';the rules'; are anymore!
Thanks, CharmNeed dating advice ..... 51 y.o. doesn't know ';the rules';?
Yes send him the email , thats a great idea , and there are no rules that's what makes this dating crap a nightmare....Need dating advice ..... 51 y.o. doesn't know ';the rules';?
If u like his brother and have a conection thing. Then email the guy number 1 and tell him how u fill and then try to go out on a date with his brother just u and him that way no more family and friends can join the date. Guy number one messed up on the first date by haveing people and famiy join the date that u 2 were on.
if you like the brother and he's single e-mail him thank him, and then you ask him out
The main rule is to move towards your happiness. If you'd prefer to e-mail and thank him, why not?
And if there're no any obstacles (like the brother is married or like there's already something between you and guy #1) give him some soft hint you liked his caring so much you'd like to have another dinner.
the rules are kinda the same.....maybe guy #1 was not wanting to frighten you off by making it an ';exclusive'; thing with you and him., or maybe that's just kind of the way things turned out, and he wasn't man enough to tell everybody to get lost......but if your not interested in guy #1 does it really matter? go for his brother, life is too short!!!!
its never to late to start over,
Any dating advice for me?
im 16 %26amp; i like this 21 year old chick ... she works at sneaker store ... %26amp; she has to be one of the sexiest chick ever ... shes about 5,10 (im 5,6) .. she has beautiful eyes %26amp; sexy lips , %26amp; weighs about 140 %26amp; best of all she has the best a$$ ive ever seen ... shes white %26amp; im asian ..... but the problem is ... i have never approached a 21 yr old female %26amp; ask them to a date before ... but tommorow is my day , im gonna go for it .... any advice
PROS ... sometimes im told im cute ... i got abs .. im confident ..
CONS ..... somtimes im told im ugly .... im asian ... im kinda nerdy ,%26amp; sometimes she see's me staring at her for minutes ... %26amp; ive been rejected many many many times by girls before but it doesnt bother me ... IMMA GET WHAT I WANTAny dating advice for me?
Nope.
PROS ... sometimes im told im cute ... i got abs .. im confident ..
CONS ..... somtimes im told im ugly .... im asian ... im kinda nerdy ,%26amp; sometimes she see's me staring at her for minutes ... %26amp; ive been rejected many many many times by girls before but it doesnt bother me ... IMMA GET WHAT I WANTAny dating advice for me?
Nope.
NEED DATING ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME?
There is this girl that I like that I don't really know that well that have Spanish class with. I only get to see her during spanish so my only opportunity to ask her out would be after class. I was thinking about asking her to a concert. I just want to know if this would ok, or if the girl would think I was coming on too strong and being too forward. It's not like the girl doesn't know who I am, but we aren't really friends so I guess I'm just looking for advice on asking her out.NEED DATING ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME?
aw this is cutee
-you should try to talk to her more
-walk her to class
-and get to know her first before anything
goodluckk!NEED DATING ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME?
get to know her first before making that big question. if i was put in that position, i would most likely decline the offer. yes it's sweet, but a bit akward. get to know her first. text and stuff like that. then ask her to the concert. GOOD LUCK(:
JUST GO FOR IT MAN!
aw this is cutee
-you should try to talk to her more
-walk her to class
-and get to know her first before anything
goodluckk!NEED DATING ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME?
get to know her first before making that big question. if i was put in that position, i would most likely decline the offer. yes it's sweet, but a bit akward. get to know her first. text and stuff like that. then ask her to the concert. GOOD LUCK(:
JUST GO FOR IT MAN!
Some dating advice please?
Ok here's the deal. I met this guy recently online (we happen to be have been classmates in high school). He mentioned that he liked me in high school but he was a bad boy and i was a good girl ( all true) and he didnt want to corrupt me...lol. Well we have now had 2 dates and had a gr8 time and have chemistry. The dliema is he is going thru a divorce. It was filed end of feb and is final in sept. He has been living seperate from her for 6 wks.The reason for the divorce is ever since their daughter was born 6 yrs ago she has ignored him, no affectionate, doesnt want to spend time with or talk to him, intimate 1x yr, she spends all her time with the kid and none with family friends or ever by herself.etc...they tried to work it out once and this is the 2nd time they've filed. I dont feel they will work it out, and he said hes been past it all for years now. Should I wait till he is divorced to cont to date him?
I really am starting to like him and he's changed a whole 360 since schoolSome dating advice please?
360 would be the same as he was i think you mean a 180
if he is going to get divorced for sure date him if you think he is going to go back to wife and kids leave him alone it is that simpleSome dating advice please?
If you date him, keep it quiet till his divorce is final. This could jeopardise divorce proceedings for both him and you (you could ne named %26amp; brought into the divorce proceedings)
What I would be careful of is the reasons why the marriage ended. There are always 2 sides to every story and it really does take two for a marriage to dissolve!
There is no real problem dating him in and of itself. Certainly if he starts getting a little too chummy with the ex and getting vague I would get a red flag on that ASAP.
Just take it slow realizing that the child is going to be part of your life and in some respects the ex as well.
I'd carry on and date him just be aware that he will always have dealings with his ex because of the child so if you can cope with that then go ahead.
I really am starting to like him and he's changed a whole 360 since schoolSome dating advice please?
360 would be the same as he was i think you mean a 180
if he is going to get divorced for sure date him if you think he is going to go back to wife and kids leave him alone it is that simpleSome dating advice please?
If you date him, keep it quiet till his divorce is final. This could jeopardise divorce proceedings for both him and you (you could ne named %26amp; brought into the divorce proceedings)
What I would be careful of is the reasons why the marriage ended. There are always 2 sides to every story and it really does take two for a marriage to dissolve!
There is no real problem dating him in and of itself. Certainly if he starts getting a little too chummy with the ex and getting vague I would get a red flag on that ASAP.
Just take it slow realizing that the child is going to be part of your life and in some respects the ex as well.
I'd carry on and date him just be aware that he will always have dealings with his ex because of the child so if you can cope with that then go ahead.
How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Remember, if it were for the advice of women, we'd all be nice guys- and none of us would be gettin any.How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Not much man. Most girls will say they want one thing and theyll date another. They say they want a guy to care for them, hold them, be honest with them, talk to them, be loyal, and all around nice guy they can rely on. But have u ever noticed that most girls date the jerks who dont respect women that much.
I didnt start going out like crazy until i stopped respecting women and just began being more jerkish and being more forward. I swear women love jerks.How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Not much. Women only give tips on how to better serve your girlfriend. Guys know the best ways to manage a quick score, and how to best manage a long term relationship from our end, and keep our needs best met while satisfying both parties.
A friend of mine has a girl friend of two years, and about 3 women he has fun with on the side. The best part is he does it all at minimum financial expense to himself.
Women never know what other women want. Women hate other women. Most women say they want a certain guy, but they go for something completely different. Actions speak louder than words.
Panacea said it perfectly. Women don't realize that they don't respond to what they say they want, and they will respond to something different. Society put it into their heads that they want one thing, and nature put it into their actions that they want something else.
Women rarely tell the truth about this issue. They are not so much dishonest as they are completely unaware of the disconnect between what they say they want and what they actually respond to.
BTW, the 4 elements a woman RESPONDS to are:
1. Dominance
2. Emotion
3. Variety
4. Immersion
If you want the sex and the relationship to be good, focus on those 4 qualities.
Since we women are the ones who know exactly what we like and want it would be wise to take our advise, otherwise the 'gettin' any' well just might dry up. Nice or naughty the guys who treat us with respect get more than those who don't. Remember that respect is also a two way street.
100% multiplide by infinity. Right or wrong you have to respect the advice.
All respect. Women after all know what women want.
alot
lol
Because women understand women so we can help guys
haha it depends on how good the advice is my friend
93%
Not much man. Most girls will say they want one thing and theyll date another. They say they want a guy to care for them, hold them, be honest with them, talk to them, be loyal, and all around nice guy they can rely on. But have u ever noticed that most girls date the jerks who dont respect women that much.
I didnt start going out like crazy until i stopped respecting women and just began being more jerkish and being more forward. I swear women love jerks.How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Not much. Women only give tips on how to better serve your girlfriend. Guys know the best ways to manage a quick score, and how to best manage a long term relationship from our end, and keep our needs best met while satisfying both parties.
A friend of mine has a girl friend of two years, and about 3 women he has fun with on the side. The best part is he does it all at minimum financial expense to himself.
Women never know what other women want. Women hate other women. Most women say they want a certain guy, but they go for something completely different. Actions speak louder than words.
Panacea said it perfectly. Women don't realize that they don't respond to what they say they want, and they will respond to something different. Society put it into their heads that they want one thing, and nature put it into their actions that they want something else.
Women rarely tell the truth about this issue. They are not so much dishonest as they are completely unaware of the disconnect between what they say they want and what they actually respond to.
BTW, the 4 elements a woman RESPONDS to are:
1. Dominance
2. Emotion
3. Variety
4. Immersion
If you want the sex and the relationship to be good, focus on those 4 qualities.
Since we women are the ones who know exactly what we like and want it would be wise to take our advise, otherwise the 'gettin' any' well just might dry up. Nice or naughty the guys who treat us with respect get more than those who don't. Remember that respect is also a two way street.
100% multiplide by infinity. Right or wrong you have to respect the advice.
All respect. Women after all know what women want.
alot
lol
Because women understand women so we can help guys
haha it depends on how good the advice is my friend
93%
NEED DATING ADVICE!!!!?
ok, so there's this FAT chick at school ok, and i think she likes me, but i don't like her. she has this dog who barks, and hes got some hair. so there's this other girl whose crazy HOTT and she digs me cuz i'm pretty good looking, and i got muscle! so i like her-like her, but i dont like her. the thing is i'm dating someone and so is she. but were also kinda dating each other, in a way. so then there's this last girl whose a complete weirdo and religious chick. she wears the same sweater all the time, and she does drama. so i'm in drama and i asked her to help me with my lines, but she says on one conditon: i cant fall in love with her. and so i'm thinking how the hell can i fall in love with her when i love this girl on the softball team! so i says to her, i says yea sure. so we go over our lines together, and i find i'm falling for this broad. so we kiss, then she tells me shes got Leukemia, that one cancer thing and so i start crying cuz i'm thinkin i dont want cancer through her. so i dump her and start dating the chick who sits next to me in AP Physics BC. but the FAT chick still likes me. what do i do? please helpNEED DATING ADVICE!!!!?
Hahah I literally can not stop laughing because I am watching A walk to remember right now.NEED DATING ADVICE!!!!?
A walk to remember?stella mccartney
Hahah I literally can not stop laughing because I am watching A walk to remember right now.NEED DATING ADVICE!!!!?
A walk to remember?
Need dating advice, Badly.?
I just seperated from my husband we have two kids. But the marriage has been over for a very long time. There is a guy i like and i asked him out. We have hanged out before many times, sometime in group dinners or just going ice skating we both are flirts by nature so its hard to tell if he really likes me. He knows of my situation at home and has met my kids, not planned. He said yes to the date but a not sure if he said yes just to be nice or how i should act. How do i keep him interested and get that goodnight kiss. rather then scare him away.Need dating advice, Badly.?
I think your over thinking the situation. Seems like he is interested (and of course still interested), but you seem like you are worried that having the kids may scare him away.
Just relax and be yourself on your date. And I can tell you, you will know the date is going well when you stop to think that you haven't thought about your kids.
But, on the other hand, dressing really sexy would keep his jaw dropping.
Best of Luck!Need dating advice, Badly.?
Honestly, hon, this is exactly why I don't ask guys out. You will never really know if he is just being nice or is actually interested.
Men like the chase. If I was you, I would back off a little and let him start taking the lead. Sorry but a seperated woman with two kids asking a guy out is going to seem desperate to a lot of men, unfair as that might seem.
If he take the lead, then great!
If he doesn't, then there is your answer.
Be yourself during the date. Make sure you give him those subtle hints that you are interested in more than just friends. Being touchy feely is a good way to get his attention. When playing and laughing, tell him how cute he is. If he doesn't get the hints......kiss him on the mouth LOL
Well i think just let him get used to you for a little while and see whatt happens maybe he really does like you and just tell him how you feel!
p.s.thanks for the side note
Don't be too clingy and respect his needs.
If he doesn't make the effort to call or make a date himself then he's probably not interested.
ask him if he likes you or just as a friend n if he likes you take it further with him but if not then just keep it a friend thing n try 2 get him to lik you
Give him the time of his life and he will be wanting to kiss you more than you want to kiss him.
be yourself . if he likes you then he will want to see you. be honest too. he has to like you for who you are.
Be honest
I think your over thinking the situation. Seems like he is interested (and of course still interested), but you seem like you are worried that having the kids may scare him away.
Just relax and be yourself on your date. And I can tell you, you will know the date is going well when you stop to think that you haven't thought about your kids.
But, on the other hand, dressing really sexy would keep his jaw dropping.
Best of Luck!Need dating advice, Badly.?
Honestly, hon, this is exactly why I don't ask guys out. You will never really know if he is just being nice or is actually interested.
Men like the chase. If I was you, I would back off a little and let him start taking the lead. Sorry but a seperated woman with two kids asking a guy out is going to seem desperate to a lot of men, unfair as that might seem.
If he take the lead, then great!
If he doesn't, then there is your answer.
Be yourself during the date. Make sure you give him those subtle hints that you are interested in more than just friends. Being touchy feely is a good way to get his attention. When playing and laughing, tell him how cute he is. If he doesn't get the hints......kiss him on the mouth LOL
Well i think just let him get used to you for a little while and see whatt happens maybe he really does like you and just tell him how you feel!
p.s.thanks for the side note
Don't be too clingy and respect his needs.
If he doesn't make the effort to call or make a date himself then he's probably not interested.
ask him if he likes you or just as a friend n if he likes you take it further with him but if not then just keep it a friend thing n try 2 get him to lik you
Give him the time of his life and he will be wanting to kiss you more than you want to kiss him.
be yourself . if he likes you then he will want to see you. be honest too. he has to like you for who you are.
Be honest
HELP!!!!!!!!! DATING ADVICE Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?Anything!!!!!!!!?
Best place for a first date, for a shy girl and a shy guy, and how do I ask the shy girl? HELP!!!!
One of my best friends is someone that over the last year i have fallen in love with, how do i ask her out without making it awkward..........she knows i like her and she likes me, but i dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin the friendship, so yeah a best place for a first date and how do i ask her thanks! once again we are best friends, we also talk about 3 hours on AIM a day so yeah, any advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!! DATING ADVICE Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?Anything!!!!!!!!?
well just don't snort while you life to dorky and if you are not together yet bump into her on purpose and kiss and for the first date take your to eat at somewhere Italian by the way to get in touch cocacola5280@yahoo.com
One of my best friends is someone that over the last year i have fallen in love with, how do i ask her out without making it awkward..........she knows i like her and she likes me, but i dont know what to do because i dont want to ruin the friendship, so yeah a best place for a first date and how do i ask her thanks! once again we are best friends, we also talk about 3 hours on AIM a day so yeah, any advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!! DATING ADVICE Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?Anything!!!!!!!!?
well just don't snort while you life to dorky and if you are not together yet bump into her on purpose and kiss and for the first date take your to eat at somewhere Italian by the way to get in touch cocacola5280@yahoo.com
Need Dating Advice!! Please help....?
So there's this guy I've been dating here and there. We both have busy schedules so its hard for us to get together. Well we went out one night and we had a really good time. He didn't text me for like 5 days after and asked me out again for tomorrow. Is he playing with me? does this mean that he likes me or is just confused? I am 23 and he is 20. I think maybe he's a little intimidated by my age but I'm not sure...he's told me he likes older girls so lol...what do i do? Should I go out with him or not go out with him for him waiting so long to text me after our first date?Need Dating Advice!! Please help....?
SweetNCurious....who wouldn't want to date a chick with a name like that ;-)
Let me give you some insight into male psychology when it comes to dating -- Guys don't like rejection, so most of them do not show much interest until they KNOW that you are into them. Maybe you're not doing a good enough job of showing your interest.
Of course...he could also be ';playing hard to get';. You need to turn the table on him....Need Dating Advice!! Please help....?
I would ask him why he didn't talk to you, and then all of a sudden asked you on another date. Tell him you thought it was weird. Ha. See what he says..maybe he didn't think he should have talked to you (like he thought you wouldn't want him to or something). Or is intimidated by you being older than him..and wasn't sure what to do.
you need to tell him that you are worried about your realtionship. he needs to make it clear to you that you are ready to take this realtionship seriously and you want to know if he is to.
SweetNCurious....who wouldn't want to date a chick with a name like that ;-)
Let me give you some insight into male psychology when it comes to dating -- Guys don't like rejection, so most of them do not show much interest until they KNOW that you are into them. Maybe you're not doing a good enough job of showing your interest.
Of course...he could also be ';playing hard to get';. You need to turn the table on him....Need Dating Advice!! Please help....?
I would ask him why he didn't talk to you, and then all of a sudden asked you on another date. Tell him you thought it was weird. Ha. See what he says..maybe he didn't think he should have talked to you (like he thought you wouldn't want him to or something). Or is intimidated by you being older than him..and wasn't sure what to do.
you need to tell him that you are worried about your realtionship. he needs to make it clear to you that you are ready to take this realtionship seriously and you want to know if he is to.
Girls dating advice...help!!!!?
ok so my question is simple-when a guy tells you that they like you and all that, but you tell them u only like em as friends, do u feel akward when u see them after that??? when i tell a girl i like them, and they dont really like me back like that, i get kinda butterflies in my stomach when i see her after that because i know she knows i like her?? do girls feel the same way??? is it weird knowing a guy likes you, but you dont like em.?? help, thanksGirls dating advice...help!!!!?
yes. it's awkward because you're afraid you might have hurt their feelings. and then you feel bad.
i think you should just act like nothing happened in the sense that you should act just like you did before you told them.
they just want things to be back the way things were. girls don't want any tension between them (you).
if you want you can explain to them and be like 'hey. i understand that you don't like me. and that's cool. i just don't want things to be awkward. ok?' and then after their response suggest a fun, carefree activity you can do together, to kind of relieve the tension.Girls dating advice...help!!!!?
yeah, it's sort of weird-- most of the time we will try to avoid you, and try not to say the wrong thing because we might lead you on or hurt your feelings
Yeah, they feel awkward and guilty, because they don't know if what they said hurt your feelings or not.
yes. it's awkward because you're afraid you might have hurt their feelings. and then you feel bad.
i think you should just act like nothing happened in the sense that you should act just like you did before you told them.
they just want things to be back the way things were. girls don't want any tension between them (you).
if you want you can explain to them and be like 'hey. i understand that you don't like me. and that's cool. i just don't want things to be awkward. ok?' and then after their response suggest a fun, carefree activity you can do together, to kind of relieve the tension.Girls dating advice...help!!!!?
yeah, it's sort of weird-- most of the time we will try to avoid you, and try not to say the wrong thing because we might lead you on or hurt your feelings
Yeah, they feel awkward and guilty, because they don't know if what they said hurt your feelings or not.
Need Dating Advice!!?
Okay, so I am currently engaged to this girl who I have been with for going on 2 years. Recently though, I have seemed to be wanting to not be with her. Kind of like falling out of love. I don't know what to do because it would break her heart if I broke up with her.
The second part and the main question is this. I have been talking to this girl on Facebook. We were childhood friends and I think I'm starting to get feelings for her. And I have a feeling she has feelings for me. I believe she just realized that I am currently engaged..
I don't know what to do. I guess I'm torn. Because I like this girl a lot, but I'm not sure how to go about anything and whether or not I even should!
Please help me!Need Dating Advice!!?
Man, ive been exactlly where you are. Im gonna hit the first part first then the second. when you where once in love its tough, real tough to say goodbye. but forever is THE commitment and the fact that your askin this question shows that it time for you to move on from this girl dude. Itll hurt, itll hurt you and her, but its unfair to that girl and to the relationship you once had to keep stringin her along when you know its gonna end. id even wager that if you really sat and think about it its not even this other girl that your really interested in as much as a reason, somthing you can really wrap your hands around, that your going to break up with the girl your with. now weather this new girl is worth pursuing is up to you later but right now you kno what you have to do with the girl you got now. the sooner you let go of eachother the sooner you can both find love again
The second part and the main question is this. I have been talking to this girl on Facebook. We were childhood friends and I think I'm starting to get feelings for her. And I have a feeling she has feelings for me. I believe she just realized that I am currently engaged..
I don't know what to do. I guess I'm torn. Because I like this girl a lot, but I'm not sure how to go about anything and whether or not I even should!
Please help me!Need Dating Advice!!?
Man, ive been exactlly where you are. Im gonna hit the first part first then the second. when you where once in love its tough, real tough to say goodbye. but forever is THE commitment and the fact that your askin this question shows that it time for you to move on from this girl dude. Itll hurt, itll hurt you and her, but its unfair to that girl and to the relationship you once had to keep stringin her along when you know its gonna end. id even wager that if you really sat and think about it its not even this other girl that your really interested in as much as a reason, somthing you can really wrap your hands around, that your going to break up with the girl your with. now weather this new girl is worth pursuing is up to you later but right now you kno what you have to do with the girl you got now. the sooner you let go of eachother the sooner you can both find love again
Umm..dating advice? PLEASE help?
i have searched and asked questions about how to overcome my nervousness of going out with someone. I am in highschool and I have never had a boyfriend.
I DO want one, and this guy asked me out on monday..and i'm going to find out if he still wants to go out with me tomorrow, and if he does i'll say yes.
None of my friends know that I have never had a boyfriend. so I just need a lot of advice.
Maybe I could mail one of those who answers my questions if they want? please tell me if you do.Umm..dating advice? PLEASE help?
you don't need advice. your decisions-follow your heart, and don't get into anything you don't want to be in. don't do things just because everyone else is doing the same. he should respect that.Umm..dating advice? PLEASE help?
i know how you feel :) i've never had a really SERIOUS bf, and im in high school too. im nervous about getting into a real relationship, but i just keep telling myself the time will come and that it will go naturally if its the right guy. but dont go out with this guy if you dont really kno wif you even like him, dont do it just to get experience and so you can that you've had or have a bf.
He he stop being nervous, thats step one. And step two is really do you want him to be your first boyfriend? Because I've never thought of it til it happened do you want to look back everything time and say yup that was my first boyfriend. Well most people mourn over their lost of their first love (*sniffle* people like me). So it's sort of a big descion unless you know your not going to get attached, but why would...uh nevermind. So yeah if he says yes things sort just flow with themselves. I cant tell when to kiss when to make the first move all i can say is that if you like him enough, to want to go out love kind of does its own thing
KAY HOPE I ANSWERED YOU'RE QUESTION, even jsut a little bit
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Sure, I'll help you. I've been through so many bad boyfriends. The best thing, though, is to post your stuff on here. That way you get a spectrum of answers, not just one-sided things.stella mccartney
I DO want one, and this guy asked me out on monday..and i'm going to find out if he still wants to go out with me tomorrow, and if he does i'll say yes.
None of my friends know that I have never had a boyfriend. so I just need a lot of advice.
Maybe I could mail one of those who answers my questions if they want? please tell me if you do.Umm..dating advice? PLEASE help?
you don't need advice. your decisions-follow your heart, and don't get into anything you don't want to be in. don't do things just because everyone else is doing the same. he should respect that.Umm..dating advice? PLEASE help?
i know how you feel :) i've never had a really SERIOUS bf, and im in high school too. im nervous about getting into a real relationship, but i just keep telling myself the time will come and that it will go naturally if its the right guy. but dont go out with this guy if you dont really kno wif you even like him, dont do it just to get experience and so you can that you've had or have a bf.
He he stop being nervous, thats step one. And step two is really do you want him to be your first boyfriend? Because I've never thought of it til it happened do you want to look back everything time and say yup that was my first boyfriend. Well most people mourn over their lost of their first love (*sniffle* people like me). So it's sort of a big descion unless you know your not going to get attached, but why would...uh nevermind. So yeah if he says yes things sort just flow with themselves. I cant tell when to kiss when to make the first move all i can say is that if you like him enough, to want to go out love kind of does its own thing
KAY HOPE I ANSWERED YOU'RE QUESTION, even jsut a little bit
SMILE
Sure, I'll help you. I've been through so many bad boyfriends. The best thing, though, is to post your stuff on here. That way you get a spectrum of answers, not just one-sided things.
Online dating? Advice Please...?
I have recently signed up on eharmony. I met this guy that I have been talking to from there. Hes really nice and we have a lot in common. The only problem I have is that he loves to work out and i dont myself. I am not ';in shape';. I mean i dont find myself huge but im def not skinny either. Eharmony doesnt give you a place to answer about your body size but i do have pictures up. Do you think this will be a problem with him? How should I bring it up in conversation?Online dating? Advice Please...?
You should just try not to think about it. Be confident. Don't bring it up in conversation. If you choose to meet in person, don't let your insecurities show. If he doesn't love you for who you are, then he is really not worth it.Online dating? Advice Please...?
Hmm. I guess it all depends on the person. I am a gym person and personally, prefer my guy to be one too only because it's a big part of my life and I like to have that in common with my partner. However, everybody is different. If you two are clicking and have a lot in common, it would be silly for him to end your romance over that. I guess it depends on how big working out is for him.
Also, as the person in front of me said, if he doesn't love you for who you are then he really isn't worth it.
online dating? advice please ?
answer
you have to be careful with online dating.
you must tell the truth about your weight,
and there should be no lies,
i am scared of online dating,
as you are dealing with total strangers
it is scary dealing with people you do not know ,
be careful,
If it seems like it is something that is a big part of his life (being fit and working out) it seems fair that you should let him know. Maybe just mention to him that it isn't a huge priority to you, when you get to know him better you can allways exchange photos.
You should just try not to think about it. Be confident. Don't bring it up in conversation. If you choose to meet in person, don't let your insecurities show. If he doesn't love you for who you are, then he is really not worth it.Online dating? Advice Please...?
Hmm. I guess it all depends on the person. I am a gym person and personally, prefer my guy to be one too only because it's a big part of my life and I like to have that in common with my partner. However, everybody is different. If you two are clicking and have a lot in common, it would be silly for him to end your romance over that. I guess it depends on how big working out is for him.
Also, as the person in front of me said, if he doesn't love you for who you are then he really isn't worth it.
online dating? advice please ?
answer
you have to be careful with online dating.
you must tell the truth about your weight,
and there should be no lies,
i am scared of online dating,
as you are dealing with total strangers
it is scary dealing with people you do not know ,
be careful,
If it seems like it is something that is a big part of his life (being fit and working out) it seems fair that you should let him know. Maybe just mention to him that it isn't a huge priority to you, when you get to know him better you can allways exchange photos.
Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?
So I just ended a 3 year relationship with the love of my life, but at this point their is no hope for a relationship. I needed the space...lots of it. So, a close guy friend of mine asked me out after we talked about the break up. We've always liked each other so it was no big deal. We went out on a few successful dates and he even made referrence to me meeting his family (that kind of freaked me out). We talk everyday for at least an hour but lately the conversation has stemmed away from discussing how we feel about one another. He has also been talking about his lack of money at the moment and has yet to ask me out on a fifth date. So, any clues or suggestions? I really enjoy his company and the time we spend together. I guess I'm just trying to figure out whether or not this is a change of heart or if the man is just broke.Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?
Tamara
This relationship is no good for you.
if you continue you are gonna get hurt .Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?
i guess i don't really know.. i would just be really cautious with the situation.
I would say give it just a little more time. Remain friendly, but don't call him. He might need to figure some things out.
Hi, I honestly always lookup different sites online to see if I can find any forums or blogs with info as well. See Ya
oooooooooooooooooo i read that heart is a lonely hunter i like tht too the man never found love tht what i was looking for and the book but he always got drunk and i think it had a doctor and it too it was a black doctor but he got sick and he had a daughter and i forgot the rest of the story cuz i read it one time i like to read books over and over again to get it and my head
Interesting, you start off by saying you need space, and now you're heavily dating.
Personally I think you are rebounding with a safe option (a guy who is already a known element).
I think you need to get out there for yourself for a bit- you are now free and single which means that apart from being able to date again you have no need to take another's feelings into account when you make a selfishe decision.
Are there things you wanted to do? Go travelling? Change job? do something crazy?
Go for it, and get to know yourself for a bit.
Tamara
This relationship is no good for you.
if you continue you are gonna get hurt .Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?
i guess i don't really know.. i would just be really cautious with the situation.
I would say give it just a little more time. Remain friendly, but don't call him. He might need to figure some things out.
Hi, I honestly always lookup different sites online to see if I can find any forums or blogs with info as well. See Ya
oooooooooooooooooo i read that heart is a lonely hunter i like tht too the man never found love tht what i was looking for and the book but he always got drunk and i think it had a doctor and it too it was a black doctor but he got sick and he had a daughter and i forgot the rest of the story cuz i read it one time i like to read books over and over again to get it and my head
Interesting, you start off by saying you need space, and now you're heavily dating.
Personally I think you are rebounding with a safe option (a guy who is already a known element).
I think you need to get out there for yourself for a bit- you are now free and single which means that apart from being able to date again you have no need to take another's feelings into account when you make a selfishe decision.
Are there things you wanted to do? Go travelling? Change job? do something crazy?
Go for it, and get to know yourself for a bit.
HELP. DATING ADVICE NEEDED?
im going out with this guy, deion, and i actually love him. we've been going out for over a year now, but he is a bit overprotective these days, he doesnt like one of my friends, luke, and during the holidays, im going to the coast with him and his family for a week, and because the house is pretty small, me and luke have to share a room, when i told deion, a week ago, he got really pissed, and hasnt talked to me since. i leave tomorrow. i really want to talk to deion, but i dont know what to say. is it over between me and deion? this is the longest we've ever gone without talking. i dont want to lose him. what should i do??
nothing would happen between luke and i, we're like brother and sister, it would feel like incest if it did. and deion, has always hated luke, even before i was friends with himHELP. DATING ADVICE NEEDED?
He's jelous. You have to let him know that he's got nothing to be jelous of. and if you do that, i dont think the realtionship will be over.HELP. DATING ADVICE NEEDED?
Bear this in mind for all future relationships. There is no guy who will be happy with you sleeping in the same room with another guy. They will all react the way Deion did.
nothing would happen between luke and i, we're like brother and sister, it would feel like incest if it did. and deion, has always hated luke, even before i was friends with himHELP. DATING ADVICE NEEDED?
He's jelous. You have to let him know that he's got nothing to be jelous of. and if you do that, i dont think the realtionship will be over.HELP. DATING ADVICE NEEDED?
Bear this in mind for all future relationships. There is no guy who will be happy with you sleeping in the same room with another guy. They will all react the way Deion did.
Help..dating advice needed..did i make the wrong move? guys answers appreciated!!?
So, i been seeing this guy for a while...on the first two date he was such a gentlemen and he never made the move to kiss me. He was so shy, and standoffish too. but, yesterday he wanted to go out again i said ok.
We went to go eat and things were going great..so much better of than the first two dates. WE were laughing and he kept touching my hand across the table, and he grab my knee under neath the table LOL. He even spoon fed me his pancake =) Afterwards, we went to twatch the movie, The Haunting in Connecticut.
He paid for tickets, and he even got me candy cause he know much i enjoy it. in the beginning of the movie, he kept trying to scare me, and kept laughing cause i was getting scared, so then i lean my head on his shoulder, and he lean his head back on me, and then he grab my hand and started playing with my nail. So we were like that til the end of the movie. Then he put 3 gummy worm in his mouth and said ';help, i have too many';, so i lean in and grab and our lips touch for a minute.
So were leaving the movie, and he put his arms around me, and were walking to the car and he kisses my forehead, and then picks me up and carrys me to the car. On the ride back home, he suddenly grab my hand, and were holding hands for a while. he touches my face, and take the hair off my face too.
But then when we got to the house, he looked like he wanted to kiss me but he didn't, so i was the one who leaned in and kiss him. it was just for a sec, and then i went in.So, what im wondering, is if an im wrong to make the move to kiss him??? i thought he was into me, since he was being affectionate and all, but maybe he wasn't since he did not make the move. Is he really into me ordo guys do that and is just playing around? Do guys do that often?
-Thanks!!Help..dating advice needed..did i make the wrong move? guys answers appreciated!!?
Aww =)
nope I think that was the right thing to do, without a doubt! =)
He was just being really shy, and that's why he didn't kiss you first (you said at the start that he was shy on your first 2 dates)
next time you go out, I bet he'll kiss you first lol =)
good luck xHelp..dating advice needed..did i make the wrong move? guys answers appreciated!!?
sounds like you both like each other, and are just too shy to make a move
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it seems like he really likes you! and that you really like him, dont worry about it:)
i think he likes you but he was too shy to kiss you you did the right thing
It's sounds to me like you both like each other. I'd like to know what both your ages are. I know that for me, it was extremely difficult to make the first move. Most of the girls I've been with were the ones that made the first move, once I knew for sure it was ok the hard part was keeping my hands off of them.
It really came as a shock to me when I discovered that girls/women wanted to be kissed. I guess that's how they find out if there's a connection or not. Guys tend to be more visual. It she looking good we're connecting.
We went to go eat and things were going great..so much better of than the first two dates. WE were laughing and he kept touching my hand across the table, and he grab my knee under neath the table LOL. He even spoon fed me his pancake =) Afterwards, we went to twatch the movie, The Haunting in Connecticut.
He paid for tickets, and he even got me candy cause he know much i enjoy it. in the beginning of the movie, he kept trying to scare me, and kept laughing cause i was getting scared, so then i lean my head on his shoulder, and he lean his head back on me, and then he grab my hand and started playing with my nail. So we were like that til the end of the movie. Then he put 3 gummy worm in his mouth and said ';help, i have too many';, so i lean in and grab and our lips touch for a minute.
So were leaving the movie, and he put his arms around me, and were walking to the car and he kisses my forehead, and then picks me up and carrys me to the car. On the ride back home, he suddenly grab my hand, and were holding hands for a while. he touches my face, and take the hair off my face too.
But then when we got to the house, he looked like he wanted to kiss me but he didn't, so i was the one who leaned in and kiss him. it was just for a sec, and then i went in.So, what im wondering, is if an im wrong to make the move to kiss him??? i thought he was into me, since he was being affectionate and all, but maybe he wasn't since he did not make the move. Is he really into me ordo guys do that and is just playing around? Do guys do that often?
-Thanks!!Help..dating advice needed..did i make the wrong move? guys answers appreciated!!?
Aww =)
nope I think that was the right thing to do, without a doubt! =)
He was just being really shy, and that's why he didn't kiss you first (you said at the start that he was shy on your first 2 dates)
next time you go out, I bet he'll kiss you first lol =)
good luck xHelp..dating advice needed..did i make the wrong move? guys answers appreciated!!?
sounds like you both like each other, and are just too shy to make a move
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it seems like he really likes you! and that you really like him, dont worry about it:)
i think he likes you but he was too shy to kiss you you did the right thing
It's sounds to me like you both like each other. I'd like to know what both your ages are. I know that for me, it was extremely difficult to make the first move. Most of the girls I've been with were the ones that made the first move, once I knew for sure it was ok the hard part was keeping my hands off of them.
It really came as a shock to me when I discovered that girls/women wanted to be kissed. I guess that's how they find out if there's a connection or not. Guys tend to be more visual. It she looking good we're connecting.
Need dating advice in college !!?
im a male freshman in college, and i met this girl who is very pretty, but i definitely believe that personality is wayyy more important than just looks.
so i want to get to know this girl better.
the way our first time hanging out goes like this: I told her i was stressed out from school/ home, which is why i havent saying hi to her when i see her. her response, much to my surprise, was that '; i can help you with homework if that makes you feel better :)';
soooo, as a result, we hung out last week doing homework for a little bit.
and this weekend we are doing the same, because i have a test coming up in a class im bad at, and she said she would help me study if i want her to.
the thing that gets me is, we RARELY see eachother, and when we do, its only for like 10 seconds in between classes, b/c our schedules are different, so its not like we know that much about eachother, and she has plenty other guy friends, but she has agreed for now 2 times to do homework with me.
why do you think that iS???Need dating advice in college !!?
it could simply be she wants to be friends. You mentioned she had other guy friends. So it seems she's very social. If you want to try to get to know her better ask her to go to a concert with you. Take her out or ask her to join an organization with you. Find out what she's about, maybe all you really want to be is friends, or maybe you want something more.
Doing homework with you is not really a big deal unless you forgot to include other details.
so i want to get to know this girl better.
the way our first time hanging out goes like this: I told her i was stressed out from school/ home, which is why i havent saying hi to her when i see her. her response, much to my surprise, was that '; i can help you with homework if that makes you feel better :)';
soooo, as a result, we hung out last week doing homework for a little bit.
and this weekend we are doing the same, because i have a test coming up in a class im bad at, and she said she would help me study if i want her to.
the thing that gets me is, we RARELY see eachother, and when we do, its only for like 10 seconds in between classes, b/c our schedules are different, so its not like we know that much about eachother, and she has plenty other guy friends, but she has agreed for now 2 times to do homework with me.
why do you think that iS???Need dating advice in college !!?
it could simply be she wants to be friends. You mentioned she had other guy friends. So it seems she's very social. If you want to try to get to know her better ask her to go to a concert with you. Take her out or ask her to join an organization with you. Find out what she's about, maybe all you really want to be is friends, or maybe you want something more.
Doing homework with you is not really a big deal unless you forgot to include other details.
Need dating advice please help?
So i was just wondering, when you go to the movies with a girl do you just randomly put your arm around her or is it like a special moment cuz i usually dont do that and this girl says she wanted to take it kinda slow so i guess ill have to use the arm. And if you went to the movies with her before you were going out and she said that it was gross to make out in the movie theater do u think she will feel the same no that your going out, will she want it.Need dating advice please help?
If this girl has told you she wants things slow....then go slow. If she made the comment before that she thinks it's ';gross'; to make out at movies, then that probably means with you too so respect her comment. Besides......making out at movies is so passe and so.... immature and silly looking.....Need dating advice please help?
Uhmmm... U don't have 2 put ur arm around her, or kiss her. Maybe she wants 2 watch the movie n peace without having an awkward moment...stella mccartney
If this girl has told you she wants things slow....then go slow. If she made the comment before that she thinks it's ';gross'; to make out at movies, then that probably means with you too so respect her comment. Besides......making out at movies is so passe and so.... immature and silly looking.....Need dating advice please help?
Uhmmm... U don't have 2 put ur arm around her, or kiss her. Maybe she wants 2 watch the movie n peace without having an awkward moment...
Need dating advice?
Like 2 months ago,: i was walking down she and her friends were walking my way she fully goes behind her friends and starts giggling.I try to look at girls eyes but she turns away. A month ago,like in the hallway, i tried looking at her eyes but seh fully turned to her right and ';pretended'; to look at a classroom. .I know you might be thinking i shouldn't assume that she interested in getting to know me.but like she's been dropping hints. For ex. a girl and me were going by my locker, wen i was walking i was looking at her she was facing teh other way, when i turn around to see her while i was opening my locker, i saw look in my direction. The other is just one of my friends.
Another day I fully open the door for her and she just walked in quickly.no eye contact .no thanks... want to show her that I'm interested to her as well.but I'm worried she has lost interested in me. I don't know her at all. What should I do to make sure she interested in me or to keep her on her toes?Need dating advice?
she is flirting with you. Go talk to her!!
Another day I fully open the door for her and she just walked in quickly.no eye contact .no thanks... want to show her that I'm interested to her as well.but I'm worried she has lost interested in me. I don't know her at all. What should I do to make sure she interested in me or to keep her on her toes?Need dating advice?
she is flirting with you. Go talk to her!!
Some dating advice please?
Im pretty young...that being said the guy I want to talk is pretty mature. He's attracted to me and I am to him. We've had sex on a couple of times...but he is still pretty hung up on his ex. They've been divorced for three years. I met him about 7 months ago
The more time I spend with him the more attracted I get to him. I want to know if I should pull away until he is over his ex, should I continue to hang out with him keep up the casual sex. (the sex dosent bother me)
What should I do? I dont want to be all naggy and ask him to date me when I know his heart is in no condiiton to do so. Im getting over a guy too (hence the causal sex)
SO how do I coax him into being more open, getting over his ex and possibly being a couple?
Thanks!!!Some dating advice please?
sounds like he's just using you to get his rocks off. Try casual dating without sex. If he likes you he'll stick around. If he just likes sex he'll drop you and find another sex toy.
The more time I spend with him the more attracted I get to him. I want to know if I should pull away until he is over his ex, should I continue to hang out with him keep up the casual sex. (the sex dosent bother me)
What should I do? I dont want to be all naggy and ask him to date me when I know his heart is in no condiiton to do so. Im getting over a guy too (hence the causal sex)
SO how do I coax him into being more open, getting over his ex and possibly being a couple?
Thanks!!!Some dating advice please?
sounds like he's just using you to get his rocks off. Try casual dating without sex. If he likes you he'll stick around. If he just likes sex he'll drop you and find another sex toy.
Wat R SoME GOOD DATING ADVICE??
SERIOUSLY!NO SPAM!WELL IM DATING A GUY,AND DONT KNOE WAT TO DO!SO PLZZ HELP ME!Wat R SoME GOOD DATING ADVICE??
be yourself .... period .... at least if it doesn't work you haven't lost your time ... 1st MISTAKE : to pretend ...Wat R SoME GOOD DATING ADVICE??
be yourself and if he dosen't like it it's not ment to be
juz b urself
what do you want advice on?
be yourself .... period .... at least if it doesn't work you haven't lost your time ... 1st MISTAKE : to pretend ...Wat R SoME GOOD DATING ADVICE??
be yourself and if he dosen't like it it's not ment to be
juz b urself
what do you want advice on?
Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
Hi. I'm 5'9'; and he's 5' 5';. He's an incredible person and he adores me. I like to wear heels, but feel guilty and uncomfortable when I'm with him. Am I terribly shallow or is it common sense for me to leave?Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
don't feel that way. He is probably comfotable with his height. I am 5'9'; and well I have dated a few men shorter than myself 5'7 and maybe a couple inches shorter, who kust liked taller women. I think if you two feel good about each other and hit it off, height shouldn't be an issue, and he prolly thinks your heels are sexy!!Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
I totally understand your situation. I'm 5' 6'; and in highschool. The trend these days is apparently being like 5'2';. I love wearing heels but I'm even uncomfortable wearing them around my short friends. I don't think its shallow, its just hard to overcome. If you want to move on, you can. There are many taller fish in the sea that are just as incredible.
Trust me. I think he is enjoying it. Next time you hug, just sneak a peak at his face. I'm sure he is grinning ear-to-ear.
I think 99% of short men prefer tall women than shorter women.But only not more than 70% of tall men prefer tall women.
Many short men like his gf towering before him.
i am 5'10 and am dating a guy who is 5'7 and at first i felt wiered or thought i was making him feel uncofortablt when i wore heels around him but then i built up enough courage to talk to him and he told me he loved it when i wore heels and he didnt feel uncomfortable. so now we are going strong for 3 years. all my girlfriends are jealous that i got a good man and they dont think anything of my being taller than him. so i think you guys just need to talk about it or it will always be awkward.
don't feel that way. He is probably comfotable with his height. I am 5'9'; and well I have dated a few men shorter than myself 5'7 and maybe a couple inches shorter, who kust liked taller women. I think if you two feel good about each other and hit it off, height shouldn't be an issue, and he prolly thinks your heels are sexy!!Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
I totally understand your situation. I'm 5' 6'; and in highschool. The trend these days is apparently being like 5'2';. I love wearing heels but I'm even uncomfortable wearing them around my short friends. I don't think its shallow, its just hard to overcome. If you want to move on, you can. There are many taller fish in the sea that are just as incredible.
Trust me. I think he is enjoying it. Next time you hug, just sneak a peak at his face. I'm sure he is grinning ear-to-ear.
I think 99% of short men prefer tall women than shorter women.But only not more than 70% of tall men prefer tall women.
Many short men like his gf towering before him.
i am 5'10 and am dating a guy who is 5'7 and at first i felt wiered or thought i was making him feel uncofortablt when i wore heels around him but then i built up enough courage to talk to him and he told me he loved it when i wore heels and he didnt feel uncomfortable. so now we are going strong for 3 years. all my girlfriends are jealous that i got a good man and they dont think anything of my being taller than him. so i think you guys just need to talk about it or it will always be awkward.
Can you give me dating advice?
Im 10 and i like this boy he is in a different class then me but i really like him he might like me but im not sure if he likes me should ask him outCan you give me dating advice?
Sweetie I am going to have to agree with the sane people who answered this question. You are a little young to worry about boys right now. If you are interested in asking them out now, you probably will be having sex at 12, and pregnant at 14. Is this the life you want? You have all your life to worry about boys, trust me its worth waiting for. You don't want to know how it feels to have your heart broken. Its not a good feeling and at that age you are very naive so it will be easy to do. Just wait, be his friend, and if you still know him and feel the same way then ask him out at 14. That's still young, but its better than 10. Do your parents know you are into boys like that?Can you give me dating advice?
10 years old!!?
Ten years old? You are not even legally allowed to stay home alone...
your wayyyyyyyyyyyyy to young for this
ur 10? i dont think u should be asking any one out.
I THINK YOU ARE THE PERFECT AGE. i am in middle school too and i went out withe someone when i was in 4th grade. what you do is talk to him, flirt but don't make it obvious you like him.then when you are good friends give him a note telling him how you feel. if he already has a girl friend ask him if he likes you at all, if he says yes keep trying.
PS make sure to dress xtra nice be flirty, dress and act like him, make it look like you are his type and you care
how can you ask someone 'out' when you are 10? where would you go 'out' and how would you get there? why don't you just ask if you can sit by him at lunch.
err, no.
you're 10. you ought to be concentrating on less serious stuff that BGRs.
go out, play, hang out with friends, not just one particular friend!
you're only 10. don't worry about dating and stuff like that yet. trust me, you have your whole life. when i was ten, that was the last thing i wanted to hear. but now i'm 15 and i sometimes think i'm too young and not mature enough to date. just be friends with him. you don't want to mess that up.
Stay in your books baby girl, you are too young to be dating or asking anyone out! Enjoy being young!!!!
Ok, for one thing you're TEN and you're not even allowed on answers. And you're too young to date. Boys have cooties, ya know...
no, boys are gross at that age
enjoy being a kid, dating can be hard, being single is so much more fun at your age, boys are complicated, hang out with your friends
its always worth a try to ask
thenn you don't have to wonder and will know for sure.
your 10...you still have like 30 years to do all that, just enjoy being a kid. It will pass you by very fast if you don't relax.
10, dern your way to young ot date at that age
wait for highschool...
I ask a friend to hint that you like him and see what happens...
if you want him to be your boy friend and he likes you, yes but dont do anything stupid=) good luck
Alright you are a bit young to date...just make sure you are ready and that you can handle it. My friends all got boyfriends in 4th grade, but I wasn't ready then lol so I waited. Maybe you should wait until middle school where you switch classes and you'll get to see him. Flirting is fun then...
You should ask him out, the worst that happens is that he says no and throws out an insult lol. Please don't take it to hard if he says no...my friend did and she cried during her classes for about a week, and she also tried to kill herself by repeatedly slitting wrists. Partly because she was out of depression meds. Well that's all I have to say.......
Peace Out,
Paris
have one of your friends ask him or even write him a note and tell him how you feel.
Ya sure go ask him out
I had my gf when i was 10 too
but just remember dont be mad if he says no
dont cry
Well why don't you try being friends first? Then you can get to know him better and if you hang out with him after class without a bunch of people around you can see what he's like when he's not influenced by other people. After you are friends for awhile you could ask him to see a movie or something small like that. Don't make it a big deal for awhile, that way if he says no it won't be because you are rushing into things. Just keep in mind, you are young so don't get too ahead of yourself sweetie. Have fun and good luck!
no just be a kid i am guessing you are in 5th grade sorry if i am wrong Live your life your just a kid after i had my first bf i was 11 amost 12 and i regret it wait till you are at least 13 k guys dont know how to have girlfriends yet and when you are older let him ask you out guys dont like it when girls ask them out
seriously, don't get stressed out on the awesome years of life. have fun. it's hard to repress feelings like that, but try to.
My advice:
Wait till your older to date.
Nope sorry.
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I usually wait for the guy to ask me. Go ahead and ask him if he likes you, but I'd wait for him to ask you out. If he doesn't, don't be sad! Keep your head up, girl!
Sweetie I am going to have to agree with the sane people who answered this question. You are a little young to worry about boys right now. If you are interested in asking them out now, you probably will be having sex at 12, and pregnant at 14. Is this the life you want? You have all your life to worry about boys, trust me its worth waiting for. You don't want to know how it feels to have your heart broken. Its not a good feeling and at that age you are very naive so it will be easy to do. Just wait, be his friend, and if you still know him and feel the same way then ask him out at 14. That's still young, but its better than 10. Do your parents know you are into boys like that?Can you give me dating advice?
10 years old!!?
Ten years old? You are not even legally allowed to stay home alone...
your wayyyyyyyyyyyyy to young for this
ur 10? i dont think u should be asking any one out.
I THINK YOU ARE THE PERFECT AGE. i am in middle school too and i went out withe someone when i was in 4th grade. what you do is talk to him, flirt but don't make it obvious you like him.then when you are good friends give him a note telling him how you feel. if he already has a girl friend ask him if he likes you at all, if he says yes keep trying.
PS make sure to dress xtra nice be flirty, dress and act like him, make it look like you are his type and you care
how can you ask someone 'out' when you are 10? where would you go 'out' and how would you get there? why don't you just ask if you can sit by him at lunch.
err, no.
you're 10. you ought to be concentrating on less serious stuff that BGRs.
go out, play, hang out with friends, not just one particular friend!
you're only 10. don't worry about dating and stuff like that yet. trust me, you have your whole life. when i was ten, that was the last thing i wanted to hear. but now i'm 15 and i sometimes think i'm too young and not mature enough to date. just be friends with him. you don't want to mess that up.
Stay in your books baby girl, you are too young to be dating or asking anyone out! Enjoy being young!!!!
Ok, for one thing you're TEN and you're not even allowed on answers. And you're too young to date. Boys have cooties, ya know...
no, boys are gross at that age
enjoy being a kid, dating can be hard, being single is so much more fun at your age, boys are complicated, hang out with your friends
its always worth a try to ask
thenn you don't have to wonder and will know for sure.
your 10...you still have like 30 years to do all that, just enjoy being a kid. It will pass you by very fast if you don't relax.
10, dern your way to young ot date at that age
wait for highschool...
I ask a friend to hint that you like him and see what happens...
if you want him to be your boy friend and he likes you, yes but dont do anything stupid=) good luck
Alright you are a bit young to date...just make sure you are ready and that you can handle it. My friends all got boyfriends in 4th grade, but I wasn't ready then lol so I waited. Maybe you should wait until middle school where you switch classes and you'll get to see him. Flirting is fun then...
You should ask him out, the worst that happens is that he says no and throws out an insult lol. Please don't take it to hard if he says no...my friend did and she cried during her classes for about a week, and she also tried to kill herself by repeatedly slitting wrists. Partly because she was out of depression meds. Well that's all I have to say.......
Peace Out,
Paris
have one of your friends ask him or even write him a note and tell him how you feel.
Ya sure go ask him out
I had my gf when i was 10 too
but just remember dont be mad if he says no
dont cry
Well why don't you try being friends first? Then you can get to know him better and if you hang out with him after class without a bunch of people around you can see what he's like when he's not influenced by other people. After you are friends for awhile you could ask him to see a movie or something small like that. Don't make it a big deal for awhile, that way if he says no it won't be because you are rushing into things. Just keep in mind, you are young so don't get too ahead of yourself sweetie. Have fun and good luck!
no just be a kid i am guessing you are in 5th grade sorry if i am wrong Live your life your just a kid after i had my first bf i was 11 amost 12 and i regret it wait till you are at least 13 k guys dont know how to have girlfriends yet and when you are older let him ask you out guys dont like it when girls ask them out
seriously, don't get stressed out on the awesome years of life. have fun. it's hard to repress feelings like that, but try to.
My advice:
Wait till your older to date.
Nope sorry.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
I usually wait for the guy to ask me. Go ahead and ask him if he likes you, but I'd wait for him to ask you out. If he doesn't, don't be sad! Keep your head up, girl!
Any advice on filling in a profile on a dating website or any dating advice, please?
Hi, I would really appreciate any advice you can give on filling out a profile on one of those dating websites.
I get a mental block when it comes to filling one in and never know where or how to start, obviously I would like it to be appealing but end up putting, I鈥檓 shy and quiet but kind and caring has the intro which I can see being a turn off.
But because of me being shy and quiet, I find it difficult to approach women has it is.
Like mentioned earlier, any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks.Any advice on filling in a profile on a dating website or any dating advice, please?
Dating profiles can really be broken up into three main parts.
Intro - describe yourself briefly
What you have to offer in a relationship
What you are looking for in a partner
I wouldnt say you were shy or quiet, I would just say your reserved and down to earth, kinda means the same thing but sounds better.
Say your a genuine guy, thats looking for a real relationship, with someone who has similar interests.
Good luck;)stella mccartney
I get a mental block when it comes to filling one in and never know where or how to start, obviously I would like it to be appealing but end up putting, I鈥檓 shy and quiet but kind and caring has the intro which I can see being a turn off.
But because of me being shy and quiet, I find it difficult to approach women has it is.
Like mentioned earlier, any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks.Any advice on filling in a profile on a dating website or any dating advice, please?
Dating profiles can really be broken up into three main parts.
Intro - describe yourself briefly
What you have to offer in a relationship
What you are looking for in a partner
I wouldnt say you were shy or quiet, I would just say your reserved and down to earth, kinda means the same thing but sounds better.
Say your a genuine guy, thats looking for a real relationship, with someone who has similar interests.
Good luck;)
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juz b urself
what do you want advice on?
be yourself .... period .... at least if it doesn't work you haven't lost your time ... 1st MISTAKE : to pretend ...Wat R SoME GOOD DATING ADVICE??
be yourself and if he dosen't like it it's not ment to be
juz b urself
what do you want advice on?
Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
Hi. I'm 5'9'; and he's 5' 5';. He's an incredible person and he adores me. I like to wear heels, but feel guilty and uncomfortable when I'm with him. Am I terribly shallow or is it common sense for me to leave?Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
don't feel that way. He is probably comfotable with his height. I am 5'9'; and well I have dated a few men shorter than myself 5'7 and maybe a couple inches shorter, who kust liked taller women. I think if you two feel good about each other and hit it off, height shouldn't be an issue, and he prolly thinks your heels are sexy!!Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
I totally understand your situation. I'm 5' 6'; and in highschool. The trend these days is apparently being like 5'2';. I love wearing heels but I'm even uncomfortable wearing them around my short friends. I don't think its shallow, its just hard to overcome. If you want to move on, you can. There are many taller fish in the sea that are just as incredible.
Trust me. I think he is enjoying it. Next time you hug, just sneak a peak at his face. I'm sure he is grinning ear-to-ear.
I think 99% of short men prefer tall women than shorter women.But only not more than 70% of tall men prefer tall women.
Many short men like his gf towering before him.
i am 5'10 and am dating a guy who is 5'7 and at first i felt wiered or thought i was making him feel uncofortablt when i wore heels around him but then i built up enough courage to talk to him and he told me he loved it when i wore heels and he didnt feel uncomfortable. so now we are going strong for 3 years. all my girlfriends are jealous that i got a good man and they dont think anything of my being taller than him. so i think you guys just need to talk about it or it will always be awkward.
don't feel that way. He is probably comfotable with his height. I am 5'9'; and well I have dated a few men shorter than myself 5'7 and maybe a couple inches shorter, who kust liked taller women. I think if you two feel good about each other and hit it off, height shouldn't be an issue, and he prolly thinks your heels are sexy!!Short man, tall woman? Dating advice please?
I totally understand your situation. I'm 5' 6'; and in highschool. The trend these days is apparently being like 5'2';. I love wearing heels but I'm even uncomfortable wearing them around my short friends. I don't think its shallow, its just hard to overcome. If you want to move on, you can. There are many taller fish in the sea that are just as incredible.
Trust me. I think he is enjoying it. Next time you hug, just sneak a peak at his face. I'm sure he is grinning ear-to-ear.
I think 99% of short men prefer tall women than shorter women.But only not more than 70% of tall men prefer tall women.
Many short men like his gf towering before him.
i am 5'10 and am dating a guy who is 5'7 and at first i felt wiered or thought i was making him feel uncofortablt when i wore heels around him but then i built up enough courage to talk to him and he told me he loved it when i wore heels and he didnt feel uncomfortable. so now we are going strong for 3 years. all my girlfriends are jealous that i got a good man and they dont think anything of my being taller than him. so i think you guys just need to talk about it or it will always be awkward.
Can you give me dating advice?
Im 10 and i like this boy he is in a different class then me but i really like him he might like me but im not sure if he likes me should ask him outCan you give me dating advice?
Sweetie I am going to have to agree with the sane people who answered this question. You are a little young to worry about boys right now. If you are interested in asking them out now, you probably will be having sex at 12, and pregnant at 14. Is this the life you want? You have all your life to worry about boys, trust me its worth waiting for. You don't want to know how it feels to have your heart broken. Its not a good feeling and at that age you are very naive so it will be easy to do. Just wait, be his friend, and if you still know him and feel the same way then ask him out at 14. That's still young, but its better than 10. Do your parents know you are into boys like that?Can you give me dating advice?
10 years old!!?
Ten years old? You are not even legally allowed to stay home alone...
your wayyyyyyyyyyyyy to young for this
ur 10? i dont think u should be asking any one out.
I THINK YOU ARE THE PERFECT AGE. i am in middle school too and i went out withe someone when i was in 4th grade. what you do is talk to him, flirt but don't make it obvious you like him.then when you are good friends give him a note telling him how you feel. if he already has a girl friend ask him if he likes you at all, if he says yes keep trying.
PS make sure to dress xtra nice be flirty, dress and act like him, make it look like you are his type and you care
how can you ask someone 'out' when you are 10? where would you go 'out' and how would you get there? why don't you just ask if you can sit by him at lunch.
err, no.
you're 10. you ought to be concentrating on less serious stuff that BGRs.
go out, play, hang out with friends, not just one particular friend!
you're only 10. don't worry about dating and stuff like that yet. trust me, you have your whole life. when i was ten, that was the last thing i wanted to hear. but now i'm 15 and i sometimes think i'm too young and not mature enough to date. just be friends with him. you don't want to mess that up.
Stay in your books baby girl, you are too young to be dating or asking anyone out! Enjoy being young!!!!
Ok, for one thing you're TEN and you're not even allowed on answers. And you're too young to date. Boys have cooties, ya know...
no, boys are gross at that age
enjoy being a kid, dating can be hard, being single is so much more fun at your age, boys are complicated, hang out with your friends
its always worth a try to ask
thenn you don't have to wonder and will know for sure.
your 10...you still have like 30 years to do all that, just enjoy being a kid. It will pass you by very fast if you don't relax.
10, dern your way to young ot date at that age
wait for highschool...
I ask a friend to hint that you like him and see what happens...
if you want him to be your boy friend and he likes you, yes but dont do anything stupid=) good luck
Alright you are a bit young to date...just make sure you are ready and that you can handle it. My friends all got boyfriends in 4th grade, but I wasn't ready then lol so I waited. Maybe you should wait until middle school where you switch classes and you'll get to see him. Flirting is fun then...
You should ask him out, the worst that happens is that he says no and throws out an insult lol. Please don't take it to hard if he says no...my friend did and she cried during her classes for about a week, and she also tried to kill herself by repeatedly slitting wrists. Partly because she was out of depression meds. Well that's all I have to say.......
Peace Out,
Paris
have one of your friends ask him or even write him a note and tell him how you feel.
Ya sure go ask him out
I had my gf when i was 10 too
but just remember dont be mad if he says no
dont cry
Well why don't you try being friends first? Then you can get to know him better and if you hang out with him after class without a bunch of people around you can see what he's like when he's not influenced by other people. After you are friends for awhile you could ask him to see a movie or something small like that. Don't make it a big deal for awhile, that way if he says no it won't be because you are rushing into things. Just keep in mind, you are young so don't get too ahead of yourself sweetie. Have fun and good luck!
no just be a kid i am guessing you are in 5th grade sorry if i am wrong Live your life your just a kid after i had my first bf i was 11 amost 12 and i regret it wait till you are at least 13 k guys dont know how to have girlfriends yet and when you are older let him ask you out guys dont like it when girls ask them out
seriously, don't get stressed out on the awesome years of life. have fun. it's hard to repress feelings like that, but try to.
My advice:
Wait till your older to date.
Nope sorry.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
I usually wait for the guy to ask me. Go ahead and ask him if he likes you, but I'd wait for him to ask you out. If he doesn't, don't be sad! Keep your head up, girl!
Sweetie I am going to have to agree with the sane people who answered this question. You are a little young to worry about boys right now. If you are interested in asking them out now, you probably will be having sex at 12, and pregnant at 14. Is this the life you want? You have all your life to worry about boys, trust me its worth waiting for. You don't want to know how it feels to have your heart broken. Its not a good feeling and at that age you are very naive so it will be easy to do. Just wait, be his friend, and if you still know him and feel the same way then ask him out at 14. That's still young, but its better than 10. Do your parents know you are into boys like that?Can you give me dating advice?
10 years old!!?
Ten years old? You are not even legally allowed to stay home alone...
your wayyyyyyyyyyyyy to young for this
ur 10? i dont think u should be asking any one out.
I THINK YOU ARE THE PERFECT AGE. i am in middle school too and i went out withe someone when i was in 4th grade. what you do is talk to him, flirt but don't make it obvious you like him.then when you are good friends give him a note telling him how you feel. if he already has a girl friend ask him if he likes you at all, if he says yes keep trying.
PS make sure to dress xtra nice be flirty, dress and act like him, make it look like you are his type and you care
how can you ask someone 'out' when you are 10? where would you go 'out' and how would you get there? why don't you just ask if you can sit by him at lunch.
err, no.
you're 10. you ought to be concentrating on less serious stuff that BGRs.
go out, play, hang out with friends, not just one particular friend!
you're only 10. don't worry about dating and stuff like that yet. trust me, you have your whole life. when i was ten, that was the last thing i wanted to hear. but now i'm 15 and i sometimes think i'm too young and not mature enough to date. just be friends with him. you don't want to mess that up.
Stay in your books baby girl, you are too young to be dating or asking anyone out! Enjoy being young!!!!
Ok, for one thing you're TEN and you're not even allowed on answers. And you're too young to date. Boys have cooties, ya know...
no, boys are gross at that age
enjoy being a kid, dating can be hard, being single is so much more fun at your age, boys are complicated, hang out with your friends
its always worth a try to ask
thenn you don't have to wonder and will know for sure.
your 10...you still have like 30 years to do all that, just enjoy being a kid. It will pass you by very fast if you don't relax.
10, dern your way to young ot date at that age
wait for highschool...
I ask a friend to hint that you like him and see what happens...
if you want him to be your boy friend and he likes you, yes but dont do anything stupid=) good luck
Alright you are a bit young to date...just make sure you are ready and that you can handle it. My friends all got boyfriends in 4th grade, but I wasn't ready then lol so I waited. Maybe you should wait until middle school where you switch classes and you'll get to see him. Flirting is fun then...
You should ask him out, the worst that happens is that he says no and throws out an insult lol. Please don't take it to hard if he says no...my friend did and she cried during her classes for about a week, and she also tried to kill herself by repeatedly slitting wrists. Partly because she was out of depression meds. Well that's all I have to say.......
Peace Out,
Paris
have one of your friends ask him or even write him a note and tell him how you feel.
Ya sure go ask him out
I had my gf when i was 10 too
but just remember dont be mad if he says no
dont cry
Well why don't you try being friends first? Then you can get to know him better and if you hang out with him after class without a bunch of people around you can see what he's like when he's not influenced by other people. After you are friends for awhile you could ask him to see a movie or something small like that. Don't make it a big deal for awhile, that way if he says no it won't be because you are rushing into things. Just keep in mind, you are young so don't get too ahead of yourself sweetie. Have fun and good luck!
no just be a kid i am guessing you are in 5th grade sorry if i am wrong Live your life your just a kid after i had my first bf i was 11 amost 12 and i regret it wait till you are at least 13 k guys dont know how to have girlfriends yet and when you are older let him ask you out guys dont like it when girls ask them out
seriously, don't get stressed out on the awesome years of life. have fun. it's hard to repress feelings like that, but try to.
My advice:
Wait till your older to date.
Nope sorry.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
I usually wait for the guy to ask me. Go ahead and ask him if he likes you, but I'd wait for him to ask you out. If he doesn't, don't be sad! Keep your head up, girl!
Any advice on filling in a profile on a dating website or any dating advice, please?
Hi, I would really appreciate any advice you can give on filling out a profile on one of those dating websites.
I get a mental block when it comes to filling one in and never know where or how to start, obviously I would like it to be appealing but end up putting, I鈥檓 shy and quiet but kind and caring has the intro which I can see being a turn off.
But because of me being shy and quiet, I find it difficult to approach women has it is.
Like mentioned earlier, any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks.Any advice on filling in a profile on a dating website or any dating advice, please?
Dating profiles can really be broken up into three main parts.
Intro - describe yourself briefly
What you have to offer in a relationship
What you are looking for in a partner
I wouldnt say you were shy or quiet, I would just say your reserved and down to earth, kinda means the same thing but sounds better.
Say your a genuine guy, thats looking for a real relationship, with someone who has similar interests.
Good luck;)
I get a mental block when it comes to filling one in and never know where or how to start, obviously I would like it to be appealing but end up putting, I鈥檓 shy and quiet but kind and caring has the intro which I can see being a turn off.
But because of me being shy and quiet, I find it difficult to approach women has it is.
Like mentioned earlier, any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks.Any advice on filling in a profile on a dating website or any dating advice, please?
Dating profiles can really be broken up into three main parts.
Intro - describe yourself briefly
What you have to offer in a relationship
What you are looking for in a partner
I wouldnt say you were shy or quiet, I would just say your reserved and down to earth, kinda means the same thing but sounds better.
Say your a genuine guy, thats looking for a real relationship, with someone who has similar interests.
Good luck;)
Help!!! I really need dating advice!?
Well i'm pretty good looking and for the last few days this new guy, he is a year older, has been always looking at me. when i'm with my mates i joke around and say hey. But the truth is i really like him...what should i do???? I really like him but can't spend much time with him...i only know he looks at me is because i am always catching him through the classroom windows! Please, please help!!!Help!!! I really need dating advice!?
Some people suggest you to say hi first, while some suggest to wait him to say Hi to you.
You see my gurl, there is 2 types of guys, 1 is brave and 1 is shy. the brave one will usually say hi to gurl first, while the shy one will wait for gurl's response before they start to say Hi to check whether the gurl is interested in him or not.
Maybe he is the shy type, so just go to him, and say Hi. REMEMBER...Must smile when u say hi. When he get nervous when u talk 2 him, means he reli likes you. Good luck ^^.Help!!! I really need dating advice!?
Well, as a male advice, let him make the first step. If he tells you he likes you, then you may respond you like him too, and may proceed further. And, when comes to dating, be honest with him, telling that you cannot spend much time with him. Until then, enjoy your own life.
Take a deep breath put a smile on your face %26amp; say more than Hey next time, Good Luck
why won't u go and talk to him today at school and I'm sure he will totaly accept u.just ask him whether he is having a girlfriend or not,if he says no then u say then u wanna be his friend.
Girl, it's 2008, just go up to him and ask him out! Ask him to something simple, hey wanna go grab a coffee? Wanna out for drinks tonight? You could make it a group date with your friends and his friends and then get your confidence together to talk to him one on one!
If you don't act on it, and someone else does, you're going to kick yourself and always wonder....what if?
Some people suggest you to say hi first, while some suggest to wait him to say Hi to you.
You see my gurl, there is 2 types of guys, 1 is brave and 1 is shy. the brave one will usually say hi to gurl first, while the shy one will wait for gurl's response before they start to say Hi to check whether the gurl is interested in him or not.
Maybe he is the shy type, so just go to him, and say Hi. REMEMBER...Must smile when u say hi. When he get nervous when u talk 2 him, means he reli likes you. Good luck ^^.Help!!! I really need dating advice!?
Well, as a male advice, let him make the first step. If he tells you he likes you, then you may respond you like him too, and may proceed further. And, when comes to dating, be honest with him, telling that you cannot spend much time with him. Until then, enjoy your own life.
Take a deep breath put a smile on your face %26amp; say more than Hey next time, Good Luck
why won't u go and talk to him today at school and I'm sure he will totaly accept u.just ask him whether he is having a girlfriend or not,if he says no then u say then u wanna be his friend.
Girl, it's 2008, just go up to him and ask him out! Ask him to something simple, hey wanna go grab a coffee? Wanna out for drinks tonight? You could make it a group date with your friends and his friends and then get your confidence together to talk to him one on one!
If you don't act on it, and someone else does, you're going to kick yourself and always wonder....what if?
Dating Advice Needed - especially from women?
So, I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half. I was just getting over someone when I met her so I have not been emotionally present the entire time -- something I've felt bad about but after getting hurt by the previous girl, I was in self-protection mode. Recently, the girl I'm dating and I had a talk about where we stood and she said she feels as though there is no ';energy'; in our dating relationship but that she is attracted to me on another level. That said, she initially thought it would be best if we stopped seeing each other romantically but that we should still see each other as friends. I said, I did not think it would be possible to be friends because although I really do like her as a person, I want to still date her. Further, in the past few weeks, I actually started to like this girl and get over my hurt feelings from the prior relationship so I know I can be emotionally present if we were to continue dating.
The girl said she is now more confused and needs time to think it all though. I support her doing so.
My question for you, is do you think there is a chance for us to continue dating and, if I'm more emotionally ';there'; this time, do you think that the ';energy'; that has been missing will come back?
I think this girl is really great and I'd hate to lose her because I was just going through the motions for most of our short romance. Basically, the ball is in her court while she figures out whether she still wants to date. What do you think?Dating Advice Needed - especially from women?
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The girl said she is now more confused and needs time to think it all though. I support her doing so.
My question for you, is do you think there is a chance for us to continue dating and, if I'm more emotionally ';there'; this time, do you think that the ';energy'; that has been missing will come back?
I think this girl is really great and I'd hate to lose her because I was just going through the motions for most of our short romance. Basically, the ball is in her court while she figures out whether she still wants to date. What do you think?Dating Advice Needed - especially from women?
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Dating advice about someone who you like?
Ok I have a friend who I have known since 10grade we did not start liking each other since senior year(class of 09). We both new we liked each other so much. He has a girlfriend I saw her on he's facebook friend. but the thing is he does not have a pix of him and he's girlfriend and I kinda stalked he's fb and every time she write something on he wall he would delete it. So I told him fb that I liked him a lot and find out he had a girlfriend and he never responded. After telling him that he deleted all the comments that some of he's female friends wrote on he's wall(its not like nasty comments by the way) but he sent me a msg another a week later asking me how school and everything.I don't get it. On he's status he didn't put if he's single or in a relationship. I was thinking to ask him he we can meet somewhere and talk about it and i think he's been dating her for about 4 months or less. Advices pleaseDating advice about someone who you like?
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Dating Advice please?
This girl I'm trying to date is older than me by about a year. I'm 17 and she's 18.
I've tried to date her before but it didn't work out because she thought I abandoned her and she ignored me for months because of it. A month ago we started talking again and I brought up my desire and she was hesitant, because we were good friends for all these years and she doesn't want to lose me again if we break up.
She goes through guys very quickly, her longest relationship was three months. She's really a good girl, it's just that she loses interest really fast. This makes it even harder for me because I never even kissed a girl nonetheless had a real relationship.
She really hates cliches and those turn her off. How do I woo her into a relationship where the love will grow? (SERIOUSLY not a troll)Dating Advice please?
You are too young for an 18 year old, some one about 16 is perfect.
I've tried to date her before but it didn't work out because she thought I abandoned her and she ignored me for months because of it. A month ago we started talking again and I brought up my desire and she was hesitant, because we were good friends for all these years and she doesn't want to lose me again if we break up.
She goes through guys very quickly, her longest relationship was three months. She's really a good girl, it's just that she loses interest really fast. This makes it even harder for me because I never even kissed a girl nonetheless had a real relationship.
She really hates cliches and those turn her off. How do I woo her into a relationship where the love will grow? (SERIOUSLY not a troll)Dating Advice please?
You are too young for an 18 year old, some one about 16 is perfect.
Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
Okay, i've hear mixed reactions from the few people i've told.
I'm 17 and im a Sr in high school, i have this male friend of mine that i've known for awhile. Were not like best friends but i know him and such. Well he has a sister who is in 8th grade, and kind as a joke i started talking to her, and we started talking like a month or more ago i dont really remember... well today he texts me saying ';please don't have sex with my sister... it would be weird'; and i never told him i was talking to her and apparently she said something to him. And Im not saying i would do that (i wouldn't shes to young for that) but she ovisously was saying something that would make him think that.
I've been with a decent amount of girls two of which were for a year or longer, and idk i think im starting to like her..... What do you guys think? its only like three years difference (my parents are 4 years apart) but would it be wrong to at least give it a try? dating that is, or at least hangout more just me and her. They also live really close to me.Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
Ive seen really mature girls even at age twelve. Im 19, and I can say that because I just graduated high school not long ago. Although she may be mature for her age, sex is out of the question of course. You seem really respectful when you say that shes too young for sex, so I don't think its weird. I think you should talk to her brother and let him know that you have no intentions to have sex with her. Let him know that. As for her, I think you should hang out with her a little more and talk to her more as well. See how things go. Take things slow because rushing a decision is most of the time the worst decision. I don't think you are doing anything wrong. Good luck!Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
ok, so for you that might not be a big deal, but for her being that much younger, it might be, if you find that you are truly starting to like her, maybe give it a try but it sounds like your really unsure so i wouldn't risk that, plus that would be extremely awkward for your friend, and i think that a friendship is a lot more important than a relationship...think about it...
You are breaking a major rule of the bro code.
Basically you can't date a man's sister if you've known him more than 24 hours. It's a written rule that you're trying break. These rules were established so we don't go into the @$$hole zone. You can try if you like but tread lightly. I think it'd be better if you severed the relationship and found someone who isn't your friend's sister.
There is nothing wrong with you being a couple of years younger than her and wanting to date this girl. By all means, if you like her and think there is a good future as a couple for you, then yes. But because she is underage, do not have sex with her. That would be wrong.
Good luck.
it's not wrong to try (:
start hanging out with her, but don't have sex, she's only in eighth.
but right now, it'll seem weird if you date since she isn't in highschool and next year you'll be graduated, dating a frwshman.
It'd be okay to hang out but I'd definitely talk to your friend about anything further and don't have sex she's in 8th grade that's gross
Good Luck
ok having sex would be wierd now but i dont really think that it would be wrong to date her i mean my parents are 10 yrs apart
oooo tread water cautiously here buddy. distance yourself from the chick, and cool things over with the bro.
You may aswell go for it
Its not tht bigger age dif
But talk to yr friend first!
DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HER!! Don't get into a relationship with her. You're graduating and she's only a freshman
Yes it would be wrong.
my parents and 14 years apart
it's not weird at all
totally wrong you would be in da jail.................
ask her out
Well, the best thing you could do is wait my friend. She is barely getting into the game of love and romance. She will need time to mature into a woman, and if you did date her you would be robbing her of her childhood. Plus, you are about to venture into the world of becoming an adult and be in a new world yourself, especially if you are going to college. Anyways, step back and wait many years (4 min). If those feelings are still there between you, then you both will be mature and have a true chance at something. Good luck at where ever this heads, bro
There is a code in high school. You do not date your friends, siblings. That is just awkward!! Plus this girl is in Middle School, YOUR in high school?? Can we all say Eeeewwwww?? She is way to young for you, and I think you know this.
Be her friend, but do not let it go beyond that. Try to find a girl around your age...
Beside if you did start to date this girl, like her etc. and it did not work out, who do you think this girl is going to go to? Her brother, and who is going to want to rearrange your face? Her brother. LoL
Speaking as someone on the outside I wouldn't say 100% it's wrong I mean yes it is only 3 years apart, but still the girl is just beginning to be a teenager. You're 17 and know what to expect out of the world so far. Her world right now is just friends and homework. She may feel like she is ready to be in a relationship with you but her emotional age maybe saying something different. If you have talked to different people about this it just seems like you are going around trying to get the answer you want. Personally if I had a 14 year old daughter I wouldn't let her be with someone older.
do you want to be in a relationship without sex is the question? because that is what it would be for a fair time and she might feel under prsssure just because your older plus she is probs curious anyway (I dont know how old 8th grade is, sorry) first step is to talk to your mate, if he would be uncomfortable get out of there before you get too attatched or she does. If he's ok with it and you want a sensitive relationshio then go for it, it sounds healthy :)
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Come back when she's 18....She has no idea of what she wants out of life. Even if it wasn't oddly pervy to be thinking of dating/having sex with a 13 or 14 year old, its a terrible age to try to make a relationship with someone. I'd not the age difference, its the AGE itself. She's mentally and emotionally a child and just getting to know herself. She will project all kinds of images on you, probably as being some kind of superhero (which is flattering, but hard to sustain a stable relationship out of). That might be why you like the attention, but it means she doesn't want you for you ...she is at the age where she thinks every guy is a potential Prince Charming. Not only does this not give you a serious girlfriend who knows what she wants ... it also sets you up to crush her and mess up her idea of what men really are.
You are going to want a sexual relationship with the girl you're dating, be honest. You'll say you don't care, but so many girls get pressured into having sex with an older guy when they are only 14 or so and it never ends well. The guy might not even realize how much more immature she is because he is flattered by her worship.
Age isn't something you can stamp on love.
But I don't know if her parents would approve. They might think that you're using her and believe you've got old, lonely and desperate.
You could try talking to her and hanging out, but maybe you should work your way up.. she's only in 8th grade, she's probably relationship clueless.
Not to mention, you could ruin your friendship with her brother.. but I guess if you're friends and not THAT close, than I guess it's not a big deal :)
anyways, goodluck!
I'm 17 and im a Sr in high school, i have this male friend of mine that i've known for awhile. Were not like best friends but i know him and such. Well he has a sister who is in 8th grade, and kind as a joke i started talking to her, and we started talking like a month or more ago i dont really remember... well today he texts me saying ';please don't have sex with my sister... it would be weird'; and i never told him i was talking to her and apparently she said something to him. And Im not saying i would do that (i wouldn't shes to young for that) but she ovisously was saying something that would make him think that.
I've been with a decent amount of girls two of which were for a year or longer, and idk i think im starting to like her..... What do you guys think? its only like three years difference (my parents are 4 years apart) but would it be wrong to at least give it a try? dating that is, or at least hangout more just me and her. They also live really close to me.Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
Ive seen really mature girls even at age twelve. Im 19, and I can say that because I just graduated high school not long ago. Although she may be mature for her age, sex is out of the question of course. You seem really respectful when you say that shes too young for sex, so I don't think its weird. I think you should talk to her brother and let him know that you have no intentions to have sex with her. Let him know that. As for her, I think you should hang out with her a little more and talk to her more as well. See how things go. Take things slow because rushing a decision is most of the time the worst decision. I don't think you are doing anything wrong. Good luck!Dating advice..... I dont think its too weird.... Im a guy?
ok, so for you that might not be a big deal, but for her being that much younger, it might be, if you find that you are truly starting to like her, maybe give it a try but it sounds like your really unsure so i wouldn't risk that, plus that would be extremely awkward for your friend, and i think that a friendship is a lot more important than a relationship...think about it...
You are breaking a major rule of the bro code.
Basically you can't date a man's sister if you've known him more than 24 hours. It's a written rule that you're trying break. These rules were established so we don't go into the @$$hole zone. You can try if you like but tread lightly. I think it'd be better if you severed the relationship and found someone who isn't your friend's sister.
There is nothing wrong with you being a couple of years younger than her and wanting to date this girl. By all means, if you like her and think there is a good future as a couple for you, then yes. But because she is underage, do not have sex with her. That would be wrong.
Good luck.
it's not wrong to try (:
start hanging out with her, but don't have sex, she's only in eighth.
but right now, it'll seem weird if you date since she isn't in highschool and next year you'll be graduated, dating a frwshman.
It'd be okay to hang out but I'd definitely talk to your friend about anything further and don't have sex she's in 8th grade that's gross
Good Luck
ok having sex would be wierd now but i dont really think that it would be wrong to date her i mean my parents are 10 yrs apart
oooo tread water cautiously here buddy. distance yourself from the chick, and cool things over with the bro.
You may aswell go for it
Its not tht bigger age dif
But talk to yr friend first!
DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HER!! Don't get into a relationship with her. You're graduating and she's only a freshman
Yes it would be wrong.
my parents and 14 years apart
it's not weird at all
totally wrong you would be in da jail.................
ask her out
Well, the best thing you could do is wait my friend. She is barely getting into the game of love and romance. She will need time to mature into a woman, and if you did date her you would be robbing her of her childhood. Plus, you are about to venture into the world of becoming an adult and be in a new world yourself, especially if you are going to college. Anyways, step back and wait many years (4 min). If those feelings are still there between you, then you both will be mature and have a true chance at something. Good luck at where ever this heads, bro
There is a code in high school. You do not date your friends, siblings. That is just awkward!! Plus this girl is in Middle School, YOUR in high school?? Can we all say Eeeewwwww?? She is way to young for you, and I think you know this.
Be her friend, but do not let it go beyond that. Try to find a girl around your age...
Beside if you did start to date this girl, like her etc. and it did not work out, who do you think this girl is going to go to? Her brother, and who is going to want to rearrange your face? Her brother. LoL
Speaking as someone on the outside I wouldn't say 100% it's wrong I mean yes it is only 3 years apart, but still the girl is just beginning to be a teenager. You're 17 and know what to expect out of the world so far. Her world right now is just friends and homework. She may feel like she is ready to be in a relationship with you but her emotional age maybe saying something different. If you have talked to different people about this it just seems like you are going around trying to get the answer you want. Personally if I had a 14 year old daughter I wouldn't let her be with someone older.
do you want to be in a relationship without sex is the question? because that is what it would be for a fair time and she might feel under prsssure just because your older plus she is probs curious anyway (I dont know how old 8th grade is, sorry) first step is to talk to your mate, if he would be uncomfortable get out of there before you get too attatched or she does. If he's ok with it and you want a sensitive relationshio then go for it, it sounds healthy :)
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Come back when she's 18....She has no idea of what she wants out of life. Even if it wasn't oddly pervy to be thinking of dating/having sex with a 13 or 14 year old, its a terrible age to try to make a relationship with someone. I'd not the age difference, its the AGE itself. She's mentally and emotionally a child and just getting to know herself. She will project all kinds of images on you, probably as being some kind of superhero (which is flattering, but hard to sustain a stable relationship out of). That might be why you like the attention, but it means she doesn't want you for you ...she is at the age where she thinks every guy is a potential Prince Charming. Not only does this not give you a serious girlfriend who knows what she wants ... it also sets you up to crush her and mess up her idea of what men really are.
You are going to want a sexual relationship with the girl you're dating, be honest. You'll say you don't care, but so many girls get pressured into having sex with an older guy when they are only 14 or so and it never ends well. The guy might not even realize how much more immature she is because he is flattered by her worship.
Age isn't something you can stamp on love.
But I don't know if her parents would approve. They might think that you're using her and believe you've got old, lonely and desperate.
You could try talking to her and hanging out, but maybe you should work your way up.. she's only in 8th grade, she's probably relationship clueless.
Not to mention, you could ruin your friendship with her brother.. but I guess if you're friends and not THAT close, than I guess it's not a big deal :)
anyways, goodluck!
[Dating Advice] Please Help!?
Im going to be as real and open as i can,though i dont like admiting my flaws to others,please tell me what im doing wrong,what i can do better and what i should be looking out for with girls.
Im 24,single,never had a girlfriend,and never kissed a girl,physically im muscular up top,and in the arms,but could shed a few pounds around the stomach area,facially i'd like to think im atleast average,if not decent looking,mentally im ';ahead of my years'; when it comes to listening,helping[even in situations i've never been in] and coming up with quick analogies to present my points,but i have a 8th grade education due to my parents homeschooling me[against my liking],i think the homeschool part is whats caused so many problems in the relationship area of my life,i think i missed out on very important years of mentally growing and learning basic lessons in friends,relationships and self-esteam,i was in a dark place from 14-18 since i pretty much was home ALL day between classes and the lack of friends[i had more friends than i could count when i was in public school up to 8th grade],i then began to start asking girls out,who i'd meet through my cousin who was a cheerleader at the high school,my only way to make friends was through the friends i'd make through my cuz,so if i met 1 person,i'd meet all there friends,and mabee lose 1 or 2 along the way,but make them just as quick,well now i have 3 friends who've stuck for awhile,so i feel good in the friendship department of life,but now i need to learn the basic of going out and meeting girls,how to ask girls out,how to act on the first date,how to EVERYTHING,when i'd ask girls out before,it was a ';routine'; i'd meet them through a friend,ask them out a couple times,and then tell them i liked them if i did,and all of them[not some,no most,but ALL] rejected me,so any girls or guys help on what i can do to fix this,and things i may have done wrong would be appreciated,thanks alot![Dating Advice] Please Help!?
you just have to be confident. be sure of yourself thats all, no matter how many times you get rejected. dont be an arrogant *** just be confident. it changes your entire aura.[Dating Advice] Please Help!?
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Thats all you need:]
Go out. Meet people.
youre gonna be a 40 year old virgin... sorry bubs!
well being a guy that's kinda sad, but you should try online dating and if that does not work out just go out there and go to like singles clubs and stuff to meet someone and if that does not work then. your a big boy you can leave and go out and make up for what you lacked on in your child years and if you need help on the first date email me.
personally i think that homeschooled guys are kind of cute because their so innocent and they haven't been exposed to that whole idea of the ';need'; to get laid before they reach a certain age. if you just play up the romantic nice guy side of you and just be very comfortable and confident but not cocky, im sure you'll get a girl. just dont rush into it as soon as you meet her bc some girls find that weird. just play it cool and collected. that's the key. you can also go online and get some tips from the pick up artist. he's a genius.
=)
stop trying to focus on finding a woman, if you need a woman that bad go to las vegas and check out the brothels, otherwise focus on yourself and discovering who you are because you will never make someone else happy unless you first are secure with yourself.
trying to find someone to complete yourself is like chasing after the wind.
homeschooling is not to blame for lack of self esteem and such. you will not learn these from homeschooling. if you chose not to apply your mind to learn then you have no one to blame but yourself.
there are no classes for relationships, friends or self esteem.
stay cool, woman are not going to disappear any time soon
CONfused face %26gt;:)
well damn your ego is big as **** i mean come on!
First of all, theres nothing wrong with you so stop thinking that. people, including women of course, can pick up on alot of things, especialy when you're nervous, confused or whatever you are feeling..you missed out on alot when you were home during your high school years but that can be easily fixed and believe in yourself. go out to places like bars, lounges, whatever and observe how men and women interact, meet as many ppl as you can thru your current friends and when you do meet a girl you like, dont rush with telling her you like her, thats something a 16yr old does, not a grown man. forget about dates, ask someone out for coffee or movies (so you dont have to talk much), something informal, dinner and all that other stuff comes later..you need to figure out what YOU like in a girl, dont just ask every girl you meet out, ignore a few, maybe they'll come to you..but certain things happen on their own like kissing someone, that will just be natural..dont sit there and try to come up with a master plan on how to ask a girl out, just do it, and let things fall into place, there is no rule book for this kind of stuff, only experience..i hope this helps a lil, good luck..
well its okay.....but just be your self....talk/ask qutions about her ... takl about you but talk about her more to look like you like her... asking them out ask out in person it shows you care enuff and like her....act like urself you dont want to act like some one eles....if you run out of things to say tell her she is butiful or something...or ask her about her faimly..job..life.. anything thats all
be yourself, even if your not a confident person. dont try to change cuz someday youll meet someone who likes you for who you are
I don't think your doing nothing wrong, your just having a bit of bad luck that's all, let me tell you something, when I was in school everyone had girlfriends and I was the only one that didn't have one, I didn't really want one but at times I sure got lonely, but now i'm a bit older and I mean a bit and i'm living with my girlfriend whilst all my friends are going out 'on the pull' every friday night and getting drunk! I know i'd rather be me than them. Don't look for love, it will find you AND your future partner when the time is right, never change your self unless YOU are unhappy with your self, don't be a different person no matter what and just keep being who you are:)
absolutely 100% confidence. ever heard of the alpha male?? it's true, girls like guys who take charge but at the same time dont tell them what to do. i met this guy at orientation the other guy who wasnt the cutest thing i'd ever seen but still good looking, but the first thing i noticed was that he wasnt a wall flower. at the end of the day he walked right up to me and sai ';give me your phone number so i can take you out sometime'; without me giving him any signs whatsoever. i was so stunned by his power soo to speak that i didnt even reply i just gave him the number and now we are going out. amazing. be a man and girls will love you
don't date just for the sake of dating, itl bring you nothing but pain in the end.
Im 24,single,never had a girlfriend,and never kissed a girl,physically im muscular up top,and in the arms,but could shed a few pounds around the stomach area,facially i'd like to think im atleast average,if not decent looking,mentally im ';ahead of my years'; when it comes to listening,helping[even in situations i've never been in] and coming up with quick analogies to present my points,but i have a 8th grade education due to my parents homeschooling me[against my liking],i think the homeschool part is whats caused so many problems in the relationship area of my life,i think i missed out on very important years of mentally growing and learning basic lessons in friends,relationships and self-esteam,i was in a dark place from 14-18 since i pretty much was home ALL day between classes and the lack of friends[i had more friends than i could count when i was in public school up to 8th grade],i then began to start asking girls out,who i'd meet through my cousin who was a cheerleader at the high school,my only way to make friends was through the friends i'd make through my cuz,so if i met 1 person,i'd meet all there friends,and mabee lose 1 or 2 along the way,but make them just as quick,well now i have 3 friends who've stuck for awhile,so i feel good in the friendship department of life,but now i need to learn the basic of going out and meeting girls,how to ask girls out,how to act on the first date,how to EVERYTHING,when i'd ask girls out before,it was a ';routine'; i'd meet them through a friend,ask them out a couple times,and then tell them i liked them if i did,and all of them[not some,no most,but ALL] rejected me,so any girls or guys help on what i can do to fix this,and things i may have done wrong would be appreciated,thanks alot![Dating Advice] Please Help!?
you just have to be confident. be sure of yourself thats all, no matter how many times you get rejected. dont be an arrogant *** just be confident. it changes your entire aura.[Dating Advice] Please Help!?
confidence.confidence.confidence.confide鈥?
Thats all you need:]
Go out. Meet people.
youre gonna be a 40 year old virgin... sorry bubs!
well being a guy that's kinda sad, but you should try online dating and if that does not work out just go out there and go to like singles clubs and stuff to meet someone and if that does not work then. your a big boy you can leave and go out and make up for what you lacked on in your child years and if you need help on the first date email me.
personally i think that homeschooled guys are kind of cute because their so innocent and they haven't been exposed to that whole idea of the ';need'; to get laid before they reach a certain age. if you just play up the romantic nice guy side of you and just be very comfortable and confident but not cocky, im sure you'll get a girl. just dont rush into it as soon as you meet her bc some girls find that weird. just play it cool and collected. that's the key. you can also go online and get some tips from the pick up artist. he's a genius.
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stop trying to focus on finding a woman, if you need a woman that bad go to las vegas and check out the brothels, otherwise focus on yourself and discovering who you are because you will never make someone else happy unless you first are secure with yourself.
trying to find someone to complete yourself is like chasing after the wind.
homeschooling is not to blame for lack of self esteem and such. you will not learn these from homeschooling. if you chose not to apply your mind to learn then you have no one to blame but yourself.
there are no classes for relationships, friends or self esteem.
stay cool, woman are not going to disappear any time soon
CONfused face %26gt;:)
well damn your ego is big as **** i mean come on!
First of all, theres nothing wrong with you so stop thinking that. people, including women of course, can pick up on alot of things, especialy when you're nervous, confused or whatever you are feeling..you missed out on alot when you were home during your high school years but that can be easily fixed and believe in yourself. go out to places like bars, lounges, whatever and observe how men and women interact, meet as many ppl as you can thru your current friends and when you do meet a girl you like, dont rush with telling her you like her, thats something a 16yr old does, not a grown man. forget about dates, ask someone out for coffee or movies (so you dont have to talk much), something informal, dinner and all that other stuff comes later..you need to figure out what YOU like in a girl, dont just ask every girl you meet out, ignore a few, maybe they'll come to you..but certain things happen on their own like kissing someone, that will just be natural..dont sit there and try to come up with a master plan on how to ask a girl out, just do it, and let things fall into place, there is no rule book for this kind of stuff, only experience..i hope this helps a lil, good luck..
well its okay.....but just be your self....talk/ask qutions about her ... takl about you but talk about her more to look like you like her... asking them out ask out in person it shows you care enuff and like her....act like urself you dont want to act like some one eles....if you run out of things to say tell her she is butiful or something...or ask her about her faimly..job..life.. anything thats all
be yourself, even if your not a confident person. dont try to change cuz someday youll meet someone who likes you for who you are
I don't think your doing nothing wrong, your just having a bit of bad luck that's all, let me tell you something, when I was in school everyone had girlfriends and I was the only one that didn't have one, I didn't really want one but at times I sure got lonely, but now i'm a bit older and I mean a bit and i'm living with my girlfriend whilst all my friends are going out 'on the pull' every friday night and getting drunk! I know i'd rather be me than them. Don't look for love, it will find you AND your future partner when the time is right, never change your self unless YOU are unhappy with your self, don't be a different person no matter what and just keep being who you are:)
absolutely 100% confidence. ever heard of the alpha male?? it's true, girls like guys who take charge but at the same time dont tell them what to do. i met this guy at orientation the other guy who wasnt the cutest thing i'd ever seen but still good looking, but the first thing i noticed was that he wasnt a wall flower. at the end of the day he walked right up to me and sai ';give me your phone number so i can take you out sometime'; without me giving him any signs whatsoever. i was so stunned by his power soo to speak that i didnt even reply i just gave him the number and now we are going out. amazing. be a man and girls will love you
don't date just for the sake of dating, itl bring you nothing but pain in the end.
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