Saturday, July 31, 2010

[Dating Advice] Please Help!?

Im going to be as real and open as i can,though i dont like admiting my flaws to others,please tell me what im doing wrong,what i can do better and what i should be looking out for with girls.





Im 24,single,never had a girlfriend,and never kissed a girl,physically im muscular up top,and in the arms,but could shed a few pounds around the stomach area,facially i'd like to think im atleast average,if not decent looking,mentally im ';ahead of my years'; when it comes to listening,helping[even in situations i've never been in] and coming up with quick analogies to present my points,but i have a 8th grade education due to my parents homeschooling me[against my liking],i think the homeschool part is whats caused so many problems in the relationship area of my life,i think i missed out on very important years of mentally growing and learning basic lessons in friends,relationships and self-esteam,i was in a dark place from 14-18 since i pretty much was home ALL day between classes and the lack of friends[i had more friends than i could count when i was in public school up to 8th grade],i then began to start asking girls out,who i'd meet through my cousin who was a cheerleader at the high school,my only way to make friends was through the friends i'd make through my cuz,so if i met 1 person,i'd meet all there friends,and mabee lose 1 or 2 along the way,but make them just as quick,well now i have 3 friends who've stuck for awhile,so i feel good in the friendship department of life,but now i need to learn the basic of going out and meeting girls,how to ask girls out,how to act on the first date,how to EVERYTHING,when i'd ask girls out before,it was a ';routine'; i'd meet them through a friend,ask them out a couple times,and then tell them i liked them if i did,and all of them[not some,no most,but ALL] rejected me,so any girls or guys help on what i can do to fix this,and things i may have done wrong would be appreciated,thanks alot![Dating Advice] Please Help!?
you just have to be confident. be sure of yourself thats all, no matter how many times you get rejected. dont be an arrogant *** just be confident. it changes your entire aura.[Dating Advice] Please Help!?
confidence.confidence.confidence.confide鈥?





Thats all you need:]
Go out. Meet people.
youre gonna be a 40 year old virgin... sorry bubs!
well being a guy that's kinda sad, but you should try online dating and if that does not work out just go out there and go to like singles clubs and stuff to meet someone and if that does not work then. your a big boy you can leave and go out and make up for what you lacked on in your child years and if you need help on the first date email me.
personally i think that homeschooled guys are kind of cute because their so innocent and they haven't been exposed to that whole idea of the ';need'; to get laid before they reach a certain age. if you just play up the romantic nice guy side of you and just be very comfortable and confident but not cocky, im sure you'll get a girl. just dont rush into it as soon as you meet her bc some girls find that weird. just play it cool and collected. that's the key. you can also go online and get some tips from the pick up artist. he's a genius.


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stop trying to focus on finding a woman, if you need a woman that bad go to las vegas and check out the brothels, otherwise focus on yourself and discovering who you are because you will never make someone else happy unless you first are secure with yourself.





trying to find someone to complete yourself is like chasing after the wind.





homeschooling is not to blame for lack of self esteem and such. you will not learn these from homeschooling. if you chose not to apply your mind to learn then you have no one to blame but yourself.





there are no classes for relationships, friends or self esteem.





stay cool, woman are not going to disappear any time soon
CONfused face %26gt;:)
well damn your ego is big as **** i mean come on!
First of all, theres nothing wrong with you so stop thinking that. people, including women of course, can pick up on alot of things, especialy when you're nervous, confused or whatever you are feeling..you missed out on alot when you were home during your high school years but that can be easily fixed and believe in yourself. go out to places like bars, lounges, whatever and observe how men and women interact, meet as many ppl as you can thru your current friends and when you do meet a girl you like, dont rush with telling her you like her, thats something a 16yr old does, not a grown man. forget about dates, ask someone out for coffee or movies (so you dont have to talk much), something informal, dinner and all that other stuff comes later..you need to figure out what YOU like in a girl, dont just ask every girl you meet out, ignore a few, maybe they'll come to you..but certain things happen on their own like kissing someone, that will just be natural..dont sit there and try to come up with a master plan on how to ask a girl out, just do it, and let things fall into place, there is no rule book for this kind of stuff, only experience..i hope this helps a lil, good luck..
well its okay.....but just be your self....talk/ask qutions about her ... takl about you but talk about her more to look like you like her... asking them out ask out in person it shows you care enuff and like her....act like urself you dont want to act like some one eles....if you run out of things to say tell her she is butiful or something...or ask her about her faimly..job..life.. anything thats all
be yourself, even if your not a confident person. dont try to change cuz someday youll meet someone who likes you for who you are
I don't think your doing nothing wrong, your just having a bit of bad luck that's all, let me tell you something, when I was in school everyone had girlfriends and I was the only one that didn't have one, I didn't really want one but at times I sure got lonely, but now i'm a bit older and I mean a bit and i'm living with my girlfriend whilst all my friends are going out 'on the pull' every friday night and getting drunk! I know i'd rather be me than them. Don't look for love, it will find you AND your future partner when the time is right, never change your self unless YOU are unhappy with your self, don't be a different person no matter what and just keep being who you are:)
absolutely 100% confidence. ever heard of the alpha male?? it's true, girls like guys who take charge but at the same time dont tell them what to do. i met this guy at orientation the other guy who wasnt the cutest thing i'd ever seen but still good looking, but the first thing i noticed was that he wasnt a wall flower. at the end of the day he walked right up to me and sai ';give me your phone number so i can take you out sometime'; without me giving him any signs whatsoever. i was so stunned by his power soo to speak that i didnt even reply i just gave him the number and now we are going out. amazing. be a man and girls will love you
don't date just for the sake of dating, itl bring you nothing but pain in the end.

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