Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Dating advice, can someone help?

Hey, I was wondering if it's a bad idea to date the people you work with because of all the drama that may surround it just incase things don't work out. I was interested in this guy from work and I recently found out from a co-worker he's asked about me in a few of their conversations before. He seems a little shy and probably won't make a move to show his interest in me anytime soon. Should I wait for him to make a move, or should I try to myself? Would it cause any problems at work? And I'm scared to be rejected because of all my past experiences with guys. I know I sound like a loser! but do you have any advice?Dating advice, can someone help?
there is nothing wrong i think with the girl asking a guy(making the first move) .. how bad could it go, and if you do feel like it would not work good, just stay friendly with him.. and it wont be a problem.Dating advice, can someone help?
Work relationships are awkward. You will be the subject of workplace gossip as you are dating and when you break up. If you work in the same department, one of you will feel obligated to quit when you break up.
it might cause problems at work if it doesn't work out... it will bring ';awkwardness'; into the work place lol but if you feel good about it, go for it... or you can wait for him. if you take the first step and get rejected, lets say, it might cause awkwardness... so waiting for him might be best but make him somewhat aware of how you feel about him without putting yourself out there, ya know? sort of..
Dating a co-worker is fine, as long as you two can be professional if it doesn't work out. Also, if you two are atdifferent levels, probably not because it can cause tension. If you like him and he won't make a move, go for it.
Relationships with a co-worker can cause a lot of problems so it might not be the best idea.





Your boss probably won't like it in general unless you can convince him it's a good thing or show no affection for one another in the workplace. It also causes tensions in the fact that you basically can't do anything in the workplace or you're risking your job. Lastly, if something goes sour in the relationship a lot of issues can arise that may get you both fired or make you miserable at work.





If you think it's worth it though, it is fine to do it. I know a few people who are in relationships or married to co-workers and it works out fine.





The main thing to remember is just don't do anything when you're at work.

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