Dating advice puh-leez! (:?

Okay, so i like the girl, she likes me, normal situation.


I've rushed many relationships, and i really dont want to ruin this.


every other girl ive dated, we no longer talk.


i dont want that to happen again, if anything goes sour.


so any advice, on like, how long i should wait to ask her out, and what not.


and by the way, we're like 14.Dating advice puh-leez! (:?
I cannot tell you for sure how LONG you should wait because it's different for every couple. Now, as you mentioned, do not rush things because then it just becomes another girl and not THE girl.





Go on dates with her and see if you do like her and if your feelings are mutual. If they are then just choose an appropriate date to ask her out (this would be when you are convinced she will say yes and that if you make her wait longer she will give up).Dating advice puh-leez! (:?
No offense, but you are 14 so 99.9% of all your relationships are doomed. From now until you get out of high school, they're not actual relationships.





You should save yourself a lot of drama and hurt feelings. Have a lot of FRIENDS, go to dances, and enjoy group hang outs but save dating until after high school. Even if you guys lasted all throughout high school, college will come and more than likely you'll break up.





I've seen it happen so many times. Every couple in the yearbook broke up. Even the couple who had been dating since 7th grade (that was 6 years).





Have friends, but wait on serious dating.
Start out with the little things like talking - on the phone and stuff, bring up that you were going to the movies and see what she says like oh I want to see that too- you can tell when someone likes you- maybe meet her at the movies or whatever and see what happens- make sure of all things that you have fresh breath - you look and smell nice- and don't push anything- start out holding her hands, putting an arm around her- let things happen- be at ease and see how it goes-
ok so you are both 14 so just talk to her get to know her and know about her interests ! let her lead the way since in this situation you dont want to rush things! so let her extend herself to you until the moment when she starts getting more personal is because she wants to be with you !


yup let her lead the way thats the key just pay attention to her and make sure you see wat she wants with you !=) hope i helped and im 16 ive dealed with this stuff already !
dude, i had the same situation until my last girlfriend.





i would always get really emotionally connected to a girl, then after the break up i never could speak to them because it was awkward or i was upset at them





all you have to do is always keep an open mind when your dating. face the facts. you're young. you arent gonna marry this girl (probably). so just make sure that your relationship if fun for the both of you, and when it is over, during the breakup just focus on how fun it was dating and not how angry you are that its over.





A good break up is the key to breaking this curse. trust me dude.
The longer you spend building a friendship with her, the better. especially because you're still young. If you have friendship as a strong foundation, then if your relationship doesn't work out, you'll still have something worth saving. Take your time, hang out in groups, talk on the phone, get to know each other's friends and family, hold off as long as possible on holding hands/kissing/being alone. If it means that much to you, you'll take your time here.





Good luck!
ok, well i think u should like wait at least 3 weeks, then ask her out, but like go slowly, the faster it goes the harder to backout it is, like start with hugging, then after like a month at least then quick kiss mayber (2 months to make sure) then after about 3 months u can make out and tht but if u go rite into it then its hard to get out of and thats when things get scewed up
My main advise is when you do take her out dont take her to a movie and dinner- I hate that its the first date and your both nervous and you just sit in a movie not even paying attention to each other, and dinner you just sit their to so nerve racking.


But about asking her out work your way into it slowly go places and hang out just as friend and let it grow on its own:)
think about what youve done to ruin the other relationships and dont do whatever it was!lol first see if shes interested in you and maybe talk to her and really get to know the real her. and just be yourself see if you guyz are alike and take it from there...just dont get too friendly and get placed in the frend zone cuz you might never get out!lol
I would wait till you totally comfertable around her, and she does around you. Give her your phone # and say, '; Hey, I'd really like to get to know you';, or '; Hi, I would really like to go see that new movie.'; Well, I hope it goes well buddy.





GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im a 14 year old girl so i think i can help.





mmkay, if i were you i would just ask her out,before she STOPS liking you. trust me she is waiting for the question. then you can take things slow. but ask her out!
any guy i meet i tell hI'm that I'm a horrible person and that im an *** but i cant help it


apologyse for what you do before you do it
jus do it wen ur ready. beleive me the girl wnts the guy to ask her out if they both like each other. so jus do it wen ur ready. jus do it soon b4 she moves on.
aww thats soo cute lool.....ask her to the movies a few times ...eat lunch with her a few times....see how it goes from there...if you think it is going well ask her out ...dont be afraid...be confident ...trust me girls think confidence is sexy:)
since ur 14, like two weeks.


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I would ask her out but I wouldn't do anything earlier.
OMG I am a and I think u and her should just hang out and once you have been out for like 2 months then ask her to the movies or go skating. I think she would like that
hmm well if she likez you back then i think you should go for it before someone else triez to get her.
just start a little slower this time...and if you really want to be friends after the relashionship ends tell her.
you should ask her out in 5 years your 14 like what the heck cause what are u going to tell your parents duh





-dejav95
it depends on what kind of girll she is





duhhh


explain the girl and how comfortable you are around her
dont try to get her in bed lol well just hang out watch movies call her to tell her u love her and be romantic...
When you think you are ready
ask her out if youve known her 4 over a month
blahhhhhblahh what do u think u should do?