Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?

So I just ended a 3 year relationship with the love of my life, but at this point their is no hope for a relationship. I needed the space...lots of it. So, a close guy friend of mine asked me out after we talked about the break up. We've always liked each other so it was no big deal. We went out on a few successful dates and he even made referrence to me meeting his family (that kind of freaked me out). We talk everyday for at least an hour but lately the conversation has stemmed away from discussing how we feel about one another. He has also been talking about his lack of money at the moment and has yet to ask me out on a fifth date. So, any clues or suggestions? I really enjoy his company and the time we spend together. I guess I'm just trying to figure out whether or not this is a change of heart or if the man is just broke.Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?
Tamara


This relationship is no good for you.


if you continue you are gonna get hurt .Relationship/Dating advice? Please help?
i guess i don't really know.. i would just be really cautious with the situation.
I would say give it just a little more time. Remain friendly, but don't call him. He might need to figure some things out.
Hi, I honestly always lookup different sites online to see if I can find any forums or blogs with info as well. See Ya
oooooooooooooooooo i read that heart is a lonely hunter i like tht too the man never found love tht what i was looking for and the book but he always got drunk and i think it had a doctor and it too it was a black doctor but he got sick and he had a daughter and i forgot the rest of the story cuz i read it one time i like to read books over and over again to get it and my head
Interesting, you start off by saying you need space, and now you're heavily dating.





Personally I think you are rebounding with a safe option (a guy who is already a known element).





I think you need to get out there for yourself for a bit- you are now free and single which means that apart from being able to date again you have no need to take another's feelings into account when you make a selfishe decision.





Are there things you wanted to do? Go travelling? Change job? do something crazy?





Go for it, and get to know yourself for a bit.