I'm almost 16, and I've never had a boyfriend. I know that isn't too unusual, but still. I've never kissed anyone, and haven't even been close to. I've never been alone with a guy that way before. I'm no stranger to boys, since I have brothers and I'm used to guys being around. I just wish something would happen. There's this guy I liked for 3 years, but now we go to different schools. I've just started a new school, and I don't know a lot of the guys, although they seem nice. I'm not necessarily interested in dating them, since I don't know them that well yet, but how can I get closer to them(like being friends) without seeming desperate or silly? Just starting a conversation and things like that. How can I make them notice me more? Any tips? Is there something you think I should improve in order to make guys notice me more? Nothing superficial though.
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Ugh, i wouldnt listen to the pervert up there ^^
i know most guys i know like sporty girls,
so maybe try out for sport or something.
be yourself try to be a little more...outgoing i suppose.
just say the first thing that comes to mind when your talking to someone haha, thats what ive done since third grade and the majority of my friends are guys :] hope that helped XDDating advice - please read inside!?
Well let's just say, you're desperate, if you come on here and ask for advice on how to get a boyfriend. (no offense I'm just saying...)
But when you see them in class, talk to a boy you might sit next to, just say hi or comment about the homework or something. And when you see him in the halls, just say hi. Do this in every class, and you'll start making more friends and get to know all of them.
First off, ur not desperate.. what a rude thing for someone to say to you. At least you are not out going with anyone who will have you, get pregnant, etc and so on. To me, that's desperate. Most guys just like a girl to have a good personality. Just say, 'hello'. Talk to a guy that's in your class and just talk about the homework or test. Find things that you have in common and strike up a conversation that way. Good Luck!!
Try to stand out in class and joke around with them. Start a conversation and it will eventually work out. I have a lot of guy friends and I got started by becoming friends with one. That guy (if he's not embaressed by you) will introduce you to more guys.
Just goof around be yourself around them
Smile at them in the halls
Help them if they look stuck or lost
Ask for homework help or something (even if you dont need it)
Say hi when you see them
Guys love girls who are themselves and are not afraid to goof around and be stupid
Hope i helped and good luck and your not stupid thats sweet x
seeming silly to a point can be a VERY good way to grab boy's attention. If you sit next to someone in class, talk to them. If theres a choice of lab partners, wait to get one of them if they don't already have a partner.
I think that you should tell the boy you like that you like him. Just do you your only 16. I didn't have a girlfriend until i was 18. Just do you your only 16 someone always comes it meant to happen.
By the way, there's nothing bad about that. But are you a bit of a tomboy? Maybe change you appearance? Wear more perfume/makeup. Boys love straight, breast length hair, with a side fringe. :)
wear a low cut shirt and a short shorts then alot of guys will notice u lol
show them your boobies and they will notice you...
It's Okay To NOT have a relationship at that age and that doesn't mean your a loser,But if you do want to have a relationship that doesnt mean you have to rush it if you do rush it because you want something to happen that is what will make it seem like your desperate just let it happen be calm about it,dnt sit with them at lunch and talk with them the hole period aboutyourself.
1. talk to them when you can like asking them or answering a question for them.
2. dress to impress im not saying buy a $400 dollar suit and 30 pounds of jewelry just do what you would do if you were going on a job interview that doesnt mean dress fancy just take a shower in the morning brush your teeth put on perfume and iron your clothes thing's that don't make you look like you just rolled out of bed make it look more like you put some effort in to your look also put a box of breathe mints in your purse and avoid smelly foods like garlic and avoid not having breakfast at all because the smell of breath that didnt brush theyre teeth or have breakfast is what could make him hit and run!
3. Be Confident -As You Talk to him warm up to him ask him if he has a myspace and start off from there dont ask for his number right away if he ask's for your number give it ot him if you can talking to someone in myspace is easier because you dont have to worry about breathe or anything like that . When You talk to him make sure to pop a breathe mint in your mouth make sure you chew and swallow before you go up to him because that way he wont see you eating and talking at the same time.
4. DONT sell yourself you should always remember your are the seller and the buyier and dont ever lie thats the worse thing anyone can do that could later comlicate your relationship.
I hope you do great and remember to dress for success and dont be afraid to put on some make up and pluck those eyebrows if you havent pet girls always have to be groomed!!!!! Hope i helped and give me the end results and if it didnt work i will help you regain what ever you lost.
peace!
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