so i have this guy friend. we've been friends for 3-4 years now. hes always been a good friend to me, giving me advice %26amp; standing up for me when my ex bf wouldn't. we've actually even dated before, for about a month or two, about 2 years ago. when i dated him back then though it felt a little weird, i think because we were such good friends. he liked me a lot though.
well we still hang out, still friends. the other night i was at his house drinking with some friends and one thing lead to another and we almost had sex. we would have if he had a condom. anyways i think i might like him more than a friend, but im not sure. hes not really someone i can see myself with. im just so confused right now. this may be a stupid question for a 22 yr old to ask haha, but i just need some sort of advice! its tough dating a friend too because of the risk of losing them. i just dont know. help.!Friend/dating advice please...?
It sounds plutonic. You should sit down and re-evaluate your feelings, and if you do like him go for it, but if you still can't see yourself being with him, then don't get together.Friend/dating advice please...?
Well i don't think its a dumb questions at all. Im 21 and i have a guy friend that i have known for 21 years (we grew up together) and he was the same way your friend was to you always there, standing up for me.. everything. Well i started to get feelings for him but i never acted on it. One night why drinking and hanging out with a group of friends i told his best friend how i felt. Later he ended up finding out and he said he liked me too but nothing really become of it until one night we were drinking and started making out, nothing else. And it happen a few other time but we had always been drinking when it happen. Well one night while hanging it just normal we started making out and i felt weird about it. So i think if u guys have tried and it was weird for you then i think it still will be weird, just stay friends.
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