Dating advice, please help?

My sister introduced me to one of her friends a few weeks ago, and we've been talking since then. Last weekend was the first weekend that we actually able to go out, and it went quite well, and it ended with a kiss. After that date, we still talked regularly, the problem is that my job and my volunteering take up a lot of time, so i dont get to see her as often. While we were on the phone last night, i mentioned that i was going to be able to see again, since i was getting my glasses, and she got excited, thinking that i said i was going to see her. I told her that i couldnt, since i was volunteering right after the optometrist, and she sounded bummed. I changed the topic right after, but i have the feeling that she doesnt like me being so busy. I really like this girl, and i dont want my schedule to be a deal breaker. If she likes me, would my schedule screw it up? or is this just nothing?Dating advice, please help?
i think that you are a little busy but the things you do volunteering are really sweet and i think that if she really is into you there would be no problem you should try to get her to come along and volunteer with you so she can see what you are doing all day and you can still spend time with herDating advice, please help?
i know what its like to feel like your boyfriend doesnt have time for you. it kinda sucks. the fact that you care enough to ask strangers about what to do is really sweet and shows that you do care about her feelings. honestly though, you have a job and volunteer work, i mean i guess you could try to get a few days off from volunteering, but other than that you cant really do anything about your hectic schedule. just make sure that when you guys do hang out again, make it up to her by making her feel important,needed, and above all, wanted.
Well, I would say that if she REALLY liked you, she wouldn't leave you just because of your busy schedule. Of course, I would be bummed too if I wanted to see a guy and he was busy, but it's not your fault. If she can't accept your schedule, then maybe you shouldn't get involved romantically with her. In any case, you should talk to her about this and see how she feels. Then you guys can try to work out a solution. Hope this helps!
Man if she really likes you and wants to see you so bad, it would be good if she probably brings you lunch during breaks at work. Just let her know that you care about her, but work is more important, and if she's not buying that then all i can tell you that theres more were that came from man!
It's great you volunteer. Ask her to volunteer with you. Then you can see her while you volunteer, and even go to-and-from together. Even do stuff afterwards since you're already together.
Let her know that you really want be with her all the time n can't wait until u won't have so many things to attend. Be real with her. Tell her that u rather be with her then volunteering n working. It's obvious without saying out loud but any way girls like to hear it :)
Yes, you should get your schedule to work around her and the time you spend with her. If you really like her, and she likes you, the amount of time you spend with her will make it or break it. Its your choice.
Dude if your busy schedule is that important to you, then try to manage it and the girl. Maybe you could ask her to come volunteer with you? then you could chill with her and still get your work done.
well try to see her once a week or so.. it wont screw it up.





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If she really likes you then your schedule shouldnt mess it up. She should understand that youre busy and she should be ok with that.
if she really likes you then maybe she wouldnt mind volunteering with you
Explain to her the problem and tell her how you feel. If she still seems distant or she doesn't really care obviously she isn't that interested. Best of luck:)
what you need to do is figure out what is more important to you
Hmm... if you really like this girl, can't you make time? Even at least 5 minutes just to pop by and say hello even if you don't have time to chat? Do you take a lunch break? (not sure how far away you live). Every date does not have to be a big weekend ordeal with an entire free night... could you do a later (10pm or so) movie? Late dinner? Quick lunch? Coffee? Sounds like she would appreciate that. Would she be interested in joining you in volunteering one day? As a girl, my guess is YES, it will be a deal breaker if you are trying to date and can only see her every few weeks. If you don't have time to do any of the above things, sounds like you need to not date anyone right now. Good luck.
Personally I think she sounds like a nice girl, but there's a chance she might be a bit clingy (obviously you'll know that better than me though). If that's the case, it's not a problem - just make sure you let her know of commitments at least a day or two in advance, and when you do get free time (which you must have some of somewhere) perhaps devote it to her, to prove that you have time for her as well as your other commitments? :) After all, a few special hours can be more precious than a week of boredom

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