Dating advice-What did I do wrong?

In short, I met a guy in my collge last year. I wasnt into him at all becoz he is 6 years younger than me! Anyway he he persuade me for few months -he was sweet and caring. So i decided to try it out and give him a chance. After that,over the months he deleted me from his Facebook,started calling me less and see me less but it was always fun when we used to hang out so I was carryin it on hoping that he will change when semester will be over. Nothing changed and one day He said that he is not ready for a relationship!!!!! my asked him what were we doing then..he said ';we are having fun';. I was shocked and I broke up with him right away.Now I am confused....did i do right or i misunderstood him from the begining?Dating advice-What did I do wrong?
You did nothing wrong.


The same thing happened to me. My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. He said he wasn't ready to have a girlfriend right now.





My boyfriend just wanted to go mess around with a bunch of girls. And not be in a relationship. And I'm guessing your guy is the same way. It doesn't mean that he doesnt like you, but he just doesnt want to be serious.Dating advice-What did I do wrong?
Men are on a different page than women.


Your reasons for being with him are different than his.


Females tend to take things more seriously than males.


We look for a relationship where guys are just checking things out,


going for the ride as far as it will take them.





You didn't do anything wrong.


Your focus was %26amp; is different~ it's a girl thing.





He is just being a guy.
Aparently he wasn't taking the relationship seriously because maybe he thought you didn't consider it serious since there was such an age gap. I think it was a lack of communication, or good communication at least.
What do you expect from a juvenile. You should be dating someone 6 years older than you if you want a serious relationship.
You made the right choice. He just liked the chase. Move on and find someone who is emotionally mature - someone who wants a relationship.
Toga, toga, toga!!!!
you need to talk more with him.


communication is always a good thing.


if you just assume or jump to conclusions, its not always the best.
He dosent understand he is way too immature for u then again most males are......





i think u just misunderstood what he was on about.
may be after you date , he feel that you are not compatible , just dont mind him , find anothe right men for yourself
he is too immature for you find a new one that would treat you better.
by go ';out'; with him, he meant outside
well all i can say is to not date a guy who is much younger than you..


date someone who is mature enough
You didnt do anything really wrong..but in a guy who goes to college's mind you did.





College is about meeting new people and having tons of fun. Since he is really young (most likely really immature) he is just looking for a good time. He most likely likes the chase(like most guys do). Once he had you hooked, then it wasn't fun anymore. there was no more thrill there for him to thrfive off of.





All in all... college boys just want to have fun and they really aren't ready to maintain a relationship in the beginning of college. So dont worry...its not you...its him.