Dating advice needed!!! Is this girl really worth it?

Alright, I'm going out with this girl. She's got all the qualities that any guy would want in someone. She's got a great career, intelligent, graduated from a good school, outgoing, and attractive. The only problem is.....I CAN'T SEEM TO FIGURE HER OUT!!





In a nutshell she's beautiful to look at, fascinating in some ways, but puzzling. I tend to be more confused each time we go out (then again, a lot of things confuse me). She'll be chatty on the phone then hardly give a word in person. She'll say we should get together then seem indifferent when you do. Maybe it's b/c she gets a lot of attention from men so she doesn't have to try, maybe she's indecisive, or maybe she's just playing me.





Can somebody tell me if this girl is worth dating? I'm too confused over her!Dating advice needed!!! Is this girl really worth it?
is she tired? go lie down with her and rub her back shed appreciate thatDating advice needed!!! Is this girl really worth it?
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maybe she become speachless when she look at u are shaky/ nervous when she see you are talk to you because it might feel arquard or weird
No. If you are finding this relationship difficult, leave it. But seeing that you care enough to ask which is uncommon for guys is nice. So good luck!
Every girl you meet is worth dating (or at least one date). If she sounds like a good thing, than go with it. Stop over reacting to something thats not there. Maybe she doesn't talk much in person because you've already talked about things over the phone. Sometimes its just nice to be around each other blah blah. She seems indifferent because its probably a place that doesn't seem special. Try to make a few places special in your own ways etc so she remembers those dates. Also she could be indecisive but I don't think shes playing you.
To be honest, when I first met my current partner I was a lot like that, but it's not because I didn't want to make an effort. It was more that I didn't want him to think that I was stupid when talking to me when before he had me down as some amazing person - i just didn't want to disappoint. When she gets more comfortable with you then she'll open up a lot more.





Try doing an informal movie night or something, which will avoid awkward silences, and then you've got something to talk about as well.





I don't think you should give up just yet. Give it a few more dates and see if she opens up any more, then readdress the situation!





Hope it works out for you!
Sure she is worth dating. You are being personally tested. One of which, she is not being the way you would like her to be. Once you give up ';confused'; you will be happy you passed. the test.
Give it a few more weeks, try to get to know her and after that if she is still too hard to read, kick her to the curb and look for someone more in sync with you.
Perhaps, you should sit her down and ask her what SHE wants out of this
maybe she wants a sense of mystery to start the relationship, watch how she moves, it sometimes helps, like if she has her arms wrapped around herslef she might be shy, but if she uses her arms alot in conversations start to ask





say she says, i like drama movies.





you get her to dig deeper like what do you like about drama movies?





then she will keep talking and add in some details during the conversation it wil help your connnections alot
You over analyze everything just like i do haha. I totally understand where you're coming from but you need to stop analyzing everything and just try and take it at face value. If it really bothers you this much you should talk to her about it. And only you know if she's worth spending that much effort on, but if you're questioning it then maybe you're looking to move on.
She's not worth it if you can't figure her out. A girlfriend is supposed to be interactive and engaging with her boyfriend, not indifferent and cold.





Dump her and move on to another, prettier, friendlier girl.
give it some time, you'll know if shes worth it
This happens when a girl really likes a guy. When she's around the guy or face to face she starts to feel kinda shy, but when she can't physically see him she's her regular self.
just talk to her tell her how you feel
Get to know her better before you decide on anything. After getting to know her better, talk to her. She may just be shy. Personally, I can talk a lot more when I am writing someone, but when I am face to face with the person, I struggle to find things to talk about. If you get to know me better, I talk a lot more. Until that ice is broken, I find conversation hard, and it may take quite some time to break that ice. She may have the same problem that I do. Don't give up on her know, she just may need more time and then you two may hit it off. Don't leave this at a What if? See if she will talk to you more as time goes on. Hopefully she will be more responsive as time goes on.





Good luck.
ITs either she thinks that she is TOO good or she is thinks she is too hot%26lt; EITEHR way, as long you put in a honest effort and yoru a good guy in generel, if she keeps messing with you, tell her that you like her and want her BUT YOU DONT NEED Her and then walk away
She sounds like she is shy... you just need to give her time and get to know her try to make her really comfortable around you. Sometimes girls also like to seem mysterious so that could be it, just give her a little time she will loosen up:)
Can you not see that you have answered your own question? Get out of her web and move on you stupid kid ;-)
she is shy
u should only ask her out if u really like her or u are intres in her personallity


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I do that, I think she's just shy. That's how it is with me.
Honestly, she's not worth it. Girls may be confusing, but you also want to be with someone that you like, and don't have to think too hard about. She shouldn't ignore you when you get together... and if she wants to keep you, then she should at least try. So the question is, do you really like spending time with her? Or is it just about attraction?
i think she comes across as confident but maybe is a bit shy when coming face to face- doesnt know exactly what to say or do because lets face it , things are alot easier to say over the phone than in person.


I think she may of only had 2 or 3 proper bfs that may be why shes a little erm, hidden