Ok here's the deal. I met this guy recently online (we happen to be have been classmates in high school). He mentioned that he liked me in high school but he was a bad boy and i was a good girl ( all true) and he didnt want to corrupt me...lol. Well we have now had 2 dates and had a gr8 time and have chemistry. The dliema is he is going thru a divorce. It was filed end of feb and is final in sept. He has been living seperate from her for 6 wks.The reason for the divorce is ever since their daughter was born 6 yrs ago she has ignored him, no affectionate, doesnt want to spend time with or talk to him, intimate 1x yr, she spends all her time with the kid and none with family friends or ever by herself.etc...they tried to work it out once and this is the 2nd time they've filed. I dont feel they will work it out, and he said hes been past it all for years now. Should I wait till he is divorced to cont to date him?
I really am starting to like him and he's changed a whole 360 since schoolSome dating advice please?
360 would be the same as he was i think you mean a 180
if he is going to get divorced for sure date him if you think he is going to go back to wife and kids leave him alone it is that simpleSome dating advice please?
If you date him, keep it quiet till his divorce is final. This could jeopardise divorce proceedings for both him and you (you could ne named %26amp; brought into the divorce proceedings)
What I would be careful of is the reasons why the marriage ended. There are always 2 sides to every story and it really does take two for a marriage to dissolve!
There is no real problem dating him in and of itself. Certainly if he starts getting a little too chummy with the ex and getting vague I would get a red flag on that ASAP.
Just take it slow realizing that the child is going to be part of your life and in some respects the ex as well.
I'd carry on and date him just be aware that he will always have dealings with his ex because of the child so if you can cope with that then go ahead.
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