Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?

i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to the HOOD





and i really wanna start dating there





i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings





and i was wondering if guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me/ TALK to me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them





if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at all





please don't be offended....i'm not trying to offend anybody





don't stereotype and also don't talk about me needing to focus on school (I get straight A's)





oh ya and i don't know if this matters or not but here's my appearance and personality:





so this is how i look-----





i'm Iranian (Persian)


long wavy dark brown hair


light brown skin


dark brown eyes


thick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)


and i have a more hour glass body shape


oh ya and i wear hiphop glam clothesDating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
dnt try too hard wit da hiphop ting, u oviosly not frm tha ghetto, so ppl will sai ur tryna act black or woteva n h8 u, u shud jus be urself xDating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
I dated a few girls who lived in the ghetto different parts. I very much regret it. Ima stick to the ole suburban ladies, cause most inner city people are to into the hip hop fad and thats just not me. Plus some act way to ghetto and dont know how to act in a calmer setting, sucks cause some are very beautiful but personality wise suck. Yea I lived in the ghetto for a lil min. But moved back to the burbs. Lovely quiet burbs lol
UMMM THATS KIND OF AFFENSIVE....





AND GUYS IN THE HOOD ARE NOT DIFFERENT THAN GUYS IN THE SUBURBS.





IF A GUY LIKES YOU THEN HE LIKES YOU. TRY GOING OUTSIDE AND YOULL SEE
I'm offended HOOD? GHETTO?
lol woo the hip hop glam thing


that just made me laugh


yeah....maybe sayin THE HOOD, THE GHETTO wasnt a good word choice but just work on that a lil


but girl


all i gotta say is no matter where u at


pick a good one


i know u smart enough to know that so yeah


i mean he shouldnt be on or sellin drugs


he should be in school


have a goal in life BESIDES the NBA cuz every boy i know including my cuzin wants to be in the NBA and it's not possible for all of em ta make it...which is unfortunate for their wee lil hearts


anyway


he should treat u like a queen and respect u


shouldnt force u ta do nun


and NEVER fall for the ';ooh girl im in love wit u....i want u ta be my baby mama...'; then he leave...most likely


no baby mama aint nun...go for wifey and look out for sideline hoes cuz u dont want no dude cheatin wit sum skank on the side....


oh and i mean, with me, i always look for a guy that will go to church with me...





hmmm....he dont even need ta be fine...his love should be enuff...but i mean u gotta be attracted to him a lil...but not ta be havin sex or anything..


basically he should be a guy u can be proud of and take home to ur family


i think that's all


hope u find mr. right
I live in the ghetto. Trust me, there is no ghetto-er city than mine, look it up, Union City, NJ. Anyhow, if the guys are hitting on you, oh you will know, they will always pretty straight foward, like ';Hey. So you are hot!'; or something like that, so thre will never that doubt of ';does he like me?'; But if you don't like the guy, they won't go away easily, they will continue teasing you around trying to get some with you, so yeah they are, we are, kind of annoying.





Good luck!
I don't live in the ';hood'; as you put it, but its pretty close lol. I guess the best advice I can give to you is that there will always be a variation of opinion here. Some guys will like you, some wont. But from what you say, you sound pretty attractive to me. I'd probably be very comfortable around you, because I also get good grades (at least I try lol) and you seem like you are concerned about making a good impression, which isn't all that bad of a thing. Here's my point: people will see you differently than others, so no matter what, don't change yourself, be careful of the guys you choose to date, and be yourself.