Dating Advice?? Am I being too clingy/needy??

Okay so I have kinda been seeing this guy for about a month or so now. I realllllllly like him alot. But sometimes I feel like I call him too much or like I'm ';too available'; if that makes any sense?? Sometimes when I call he doesn't answer my calls and I won't hear from him for like 2 or 3 days and it drives me crazy...cuz i have always dated guys who would call me everyday... he says he is really into me, but i feel like i'm getting different signals, or maybe i am just reading him the wrong way.





So yesterday I made plans with a g/f for lunch today and last night I called him and he wants to go to lunch today as well...i told him yes and was thinking about cancelling with my g/f to hang out with him today b/c i haven't seen him since thursday.





Should i cancel lunch with my friend or should I just not call him today and go have lunch with the g/f? or let him kno that i'm busy? also, what can i do in the future to not come off so needy?Dating Advice?? Am I being too clingy/needy??
Play it cool. Let him come to you. You have to make him work a little to win you over. There is nothing more intriguing to a guy than a girl to chase.Dating Advice?? Am I being too clingy/needy??
compromise and meet for coffee after lunch instead, say you have plans for lunch but would love a coffee or something afterwards
well call your bf back and ask him to have dinner instead of lunch say you forgot about having lunch with your friend to not come off so needy wait for him to call you next time
Keep your lunch date with your girlfriend... there the ones that hang around when the rest leave you flat
Absolutely do not cancel any plans to hang out with him. Remember you are fabulous and he has to fit himself into your schedule.


Men love to chase and you are not letting him. You are being too availiable and I can assure that he WILL lose interest.


It is like the more you dont' call, the more he will!


Back off - become more hard to get in touch with - and NEVER call him!!! Let him call you and wonder what you are doing and where you are!


It WILL work, you just have to find something or someone else to occupy your mind and time for a minute since you already like this guy so much.