So there is this chick I had liked since I met her last semester. I am your loud and talkative average guy, who is really actually a lone wolf most of the time. However, I have gotten tired of this role, and have been trying to broaden my horizons.
So 2 nights ago I went out to a club for the first time in my life. She happened to come. You could probably imagine I looked like an idiot on the dance floor, but before I knew it, there she was grinding on me.
Granted, I had never grinded before, but I tried to go with it. She ended up switching around to the front a few times, and I won't lie by saying I didn't enjoy it in the least. :)
So anyways, after the evening is done, she texts me and we plan a coffee date. I met her today and it turned into lunch. I paid like a perfect gentleman of course. We just talked for a hour, and it seemed like we had a good time.
She hugs me when we part now. Where do I go from here?Dating advice (college)?
Give the standard friendship role a few weeks. If she hugs you goodbye every time now I'd imagine you have good chemistry. Just enjoy that for now, you don't need more immediately. Do it that way when there's no romantic pressure and she might be more likely to want more later on. Your instincts are correct. Get greedy and you lose what you want.
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