Dating advice about a girl at work?

Ok, need a second opinion before I take things further about a girl @ work








Theres this girl at work who i like allot %26amp; we get allong great every since I started working there, just before christmas. She started seeing this total looser (married army man who never told her he was married with 2 kids) anyways she loved him allot and then he went back to his wife. The week later I asked her out on the saturday for a bar meal/cinema treat her like royality picked her up paid for everything perfect gentlemen. Monday comes we go back to work %26amp; she apparently gone back to this armyboy. Now I was that disapointed in her I think it showed because i was cool with her... Its my fault I should of asked her out again for a second date when I dropped her off but I didnt want to rush things.





Now 2 weeks on, shes announced she's single again so the relationship has ended %26amp; I really like her should I make my feeling known by asking her out for another date or tell her over msn that I think shes absolutely gorgious %26amp; I'd love to take her out? or what should I do!





I think if I dont make my move am going to regret it! Problem is we work together so if I tell her how I feel and she turns me down it's going to be awkward. Also if she does agree to go out with me this weekend should I send her some flowers into work or even to her house the next day? She's proper hit me on my feet, never felt like this about other girls. I was talking to her the other day about if she's been put off by blokes now and she said ';not at all'; %26amp; I said has any1 asked you out yet and she said ';not as such';. So am worried ill miss my chance %26amp; maybe she knows how I feel and is waiting for me to ask her out? its a guys job afterall and I do have the car and means to take her out... Oh its a mess!





Thanks for your replies guys!Dating advice about a girl at work?
You know why she keeps going back to that army jerk off? Because women love bad boys that threat them like crap. ';spit some game'; show her your interested and be firm, quiet all that nice guy stuff. I'm dead serious the best way to get a relationship going with a girl like that is to be the boss and show her exactley what you want. She's probably alittle reluctant to go put with a co-worker in the frist place, and you odviously can tell she likes bad boys. Just be cool and confident, show her your a man and you should be up for a second date!Dating advice about a girl at work?
I have some advice for you that you may not like but it's the truth...';don't dip your pen in the company ink';. (In other words, its never a good idea to date people you work with.)
I am in a similar situation to you. I think you should go for it. I'm going to do the same tomorrow hopefully. Good luck
you should ask her before somebody else does and i think you should start by sending the flowers at work so everybody can see who sent them and thats it.
Sounds like you need to get married, join the army and have 2 kids first. That is what she likes.





Eat Funyuns.
you should ask her out again. it would make her understand that you do care. but don't forget the 2nd date( or maybe 3rd is it??)
My dad always said ';Son, don't get your bread and meat at the same store.';





Take his advice.
Of course you should ask her out! She is just sitting there in her ownlittle world and you need to help her! Go man go!
I think you shoud go for it.
ask her out for something casual like a coffee or a few drinks after work.


while on this meet up gauge her interest (ask her directly if need be)


if she likes you suggest a nice bistro/restaurant to go on to for food





but definitely ask her out - it is better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't
Yeah why not? Go for it. Ask her out. If you don't, it will always be in the back of your mind and you'll end up regretting it if you never tried at least. What's the worst she can say? If she's not interested at least you'll know. I'm sure any girl would love to get treated the way you did, like royalty. I know I would. If she does say no, then she is missing out. You seem like a really nice guy. I'm sure you can still be friends at least. Thats how I look at it.
i would ask her online, I would be like ';hey what are u doing this weekend'; just ask her to like hang out, go to the mall or something dont be awkward about it.You need to sound really confident like its not a big deal. If you guys do normal things together you can act normal around each other and be comfortable asking her out at another time.





good luck. be confident :)
you need to wait until you been goin out wit her for a while to tell her how you really a feel. it will creep her out and you prob not going to get **** lol. k ya just take her out again and just give it time go on a bunch of dates together so she gets close wit you. and try to not be too nice be kanda dick lol good luck
Don't do it over MSN, do it in person. But just ask if she'd like to have dinner again sometime, she already knows you like her if you've been on one date and then have recently asked if she was single.


Just take it casual and slow, ask if she'd like to go to dinner again sometime or go see a movie, etc... Don't worry about it being awkward at work, if stuff at work wasn't awkward it wouldn't be as interesting ;) lol


Just do what you think is best, ';follow your heart'; as the cliche goes but it's pretty much true. If you don't ask you'll never know what could've happened.
Finally a man who doesn,t rush things and takes things nice and slow you sound like a Perfect Gentleman it,s not your fault it,s just this ';Armyboy'; is obsacle in the way you want your relationshop with this girl to work.


I would not tell her over MSN as because she can,t see your face she may think your joking and won,t take it seriously.


Try asking her out for a drink or dinner or a concert etc and if it goes well at the end tell her how you feel instead of being dead thinking you may of had a chance. Think Positively! yes you work together but do you want to regret not asking her out? only send flowers if it went extremley well and you kissed. Hope it goes well!
Well to be honest with yiu find someone who is for you. Obviously this woman has used and will use you again as a back up plan. Working together and dating is not a good thing because think about it if you all dont work out or have a very, very bad break up it will never be over becuase when you go to work the next day you will still have to face each other.





If she cant see that you are interested in her that's because her head is up the army boy's you know what. And if you have any respect for yourself you would choose a better woman cause anyone who knows a man is married and still continues to date and see him then who's to say she her screws are nissing some bolts?





Let her love what doesnt love her and you find you someone that feels the same way you do about them.





good luck