My girlfriend and I (I am a lesbian; it is relevant later) recently broke up. We have been on and off for 5 months, but were really committed. slipped up and was texting another girl I knew who liked me and wanted to date, behind her back, knowing she would get mad. Yes, it was wrong and I take full blame. Along with this there were many stress filled issues like her not be able to be ';out'; like I am, especially to her family. It made our relationship difficult, but managable. Once she found out about my texts, she started doing the same thing out of spite with a new openly gay person at our school. They have since then hung out, and she tells me she doesn't see in her what she sees in me, and that she doesn't like this new girl like she likes me. She also proceeds to tell me that she is just wanting her freedom, since we kind of rushed the relationship right out of her last one. I still love her, sometimes feeling I may be in love. She says she feels the same, but how long do I wait? Would I be better off moving on? I don't know what is right, especially since it is hurting me but not so much her. Any advice?
Thank you.
-EveDating advice: do I move on or stay?
U've just found out that what goes around, comes around! Give things some time. If it's meant to be, it'll be. Just remember that how u treat others, is how u'll be treated. (God, I'm glad I'm not young anymore!) Good luck!
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