Dating advice...please help!?

Hi there. I'm wondering if someone could give me some insight into how best to deal with this situation.





I broke up with my long term boyfriend of 5 years about a month ago, as we had not been getting on for about a year and I wasn't happy. We hardly saw each other and I had felt single for a long time, but was never unfaithful.


Just after I broke up with my ex, I met a guy who happens to be my friends boyfriend's brother. We got on really well (better than I had thought) and have since been on 3 dates together, going on the 4th on saturday. I really like this guy. He's very kind, generous, caring and funny. At first I thought he was just after a quick bit of fun, which I am not willing to jump into as I'm not that type of person.


However, over the last couple of weeks, he's been texting and calling me almost everyday, even just to see how my day was. Our dates have been amazing and he does not push for anything physical at all. He's a very sweet person. He even went out of his way to come and celebrate my birthday with our friends.





However, he's due to go away on a course at the beginning of october until christmas and we won't get to see each other in person. He has asked me to join Skype (an online video calling programme) so we can speak and see each other regularly whilst he's away. It makes me feel like this could turn into something more maybe when he comes back, but neither of us have said anything about this as I don't want to push him into thinking I'm expecting it.


I'm thinking perhaps it's a good thing that he's going away for a while, as it will test the bond between us, but I'm going to miss him a lot. I know who he's staying with whilst he's away and he said he's not likely to go out much.


I'm hoping that we do make it official when he comes back, but its still quite early days. What should I do? See how things go? What do you guys think of his behaviour?





Many thanks.Dating advice...please help!?
If you have already been on a few dates then he must like you.


calling and texting you everyday that has to mean something.


Him going away for almost three months could be hard. It all


depends on do you trust him? Do you think you like him enough to wait and start what could be a relationship? Honestley it is your decision just keep in mind everything happens for a reason but i think you could start a realtionship honestley and skype is great. Still i can't express how much trust you have to have in him.