Dating advice needed?

Okay im almost 17 years old and there is a girl that I'm really into and she was really into me until she found out that I had a kid, she still really likes me but doesn't really like the whole deal with me having a kid. She said that if we went out it would just take time for her to get used to the idea. She said she wanted to be with me but I don't know how long it will be before she likes my kid. Should I persue another girl who likes the kid or wait for her. I just don't know what to do I mean should I go for the girl that has been there for me and my daughter she she really likes my girl and my girl seems to like her. I really want to find a good female figue for my little girl since the mother is out of the picture. I am more into the girl who doesn't like her than into the one that does. But I am told to think of the kid what should I do? Work it out win the one girl or not?Dating advice needed?
If you wanna be happy and you want your kid to be happy dont wait for this girl 99% of the time youll be dissappointed if you doDating advice needed?
how old is the girl? i think you should follow your heart. but you also want a good women figure for your daughter which you obviously love. i can see how the girl is weirded out and scared she doesnt want the little girl to call her mom but the one that loves yor daughter must be okay with the idea. if you like the girl that doesnt like your daughter there might be some issues in the long run. i hope i helped if not you can email me!
that so sweet


ok just stay friend and if you and her go out anywhere as friends


take your little girl ^_^


that way she get to know you and your kid at the same time


go to the mall or some where you think you to would have fun


and is a same area for your daughter
17 with child?





I commend you for being a man, and fulfilling your parental duties. However, your child should not b meeting any of your female friends - period. Wait until u have had the chance to see life a bit, so as to settle on stability in the form of a wife. That is the hope anyhow.





Xo.
i think you should try the girl who likes your kid. because the chick that doesnt like your child is not accepting all of you. If you an the gilr who accepts your child got serious you knows that there would not be conflict between the 2.
What you should do is show her how good you are at taking care of children. Keep going out with her, and try to do fun things that involves you, her, and your child.
Do what is right for you and your kid. You can give her a chance, but if she doesn't change, then forget her.


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I think if your gonna be 17 and you have a child, your priorities shouldn't be dating. they should be your kid.
just let her go move on


you have to find someone more grown up


and most important someone that can love and accept your child


and things that you did in the past.
If she really liked, you she wouldnt care about the kid
dont care bout the girl take the kid!
go 4 the girl YOU like .... and let her get to know da lil 1 n hu knows , kid live wit u ? or u pay c/s?
um my advice would be to find a grl that likes u and the little grl...


good luck :)
yes you should think of your kid but you should also think of yourself too. ideally, what should be good for you should also be good for your daughter. but don't go for a girl just because she has always been there for you and gets along well with your kid. she can stay a friend. you must be truly, deeply in love when you commit because you are going to give up a lot for that commitment. besides, for as long as you remain sensitive to your daughter's needs you shouldn't feel compelled to provide her with a mother figure in her life just because ...she will get that from your close relatives and friends, as well as teachers.


and please, you're only 17! time enough for that later. right now focus on empowering yourself so that you are the father your daughter needs.


get on with your studies. hone and add to your skills. widen your horizons....
I think you answered your own question in a way. You're a 16-year-old single father, if I understand correctly, and you're looking for a woman to help raise your child. That would scare the crap out of any teenage girl. It's likely that that girl won't be the only one to show hesitation. I'm seeing a woman right now who has a 2-year-old son (I am 22, she is 21), and even now it's a little unnerving. She is looking for a father for her son, and that's really not something I planned on becoming for a few more years at least. So what's the answer? Don't pressure your girl(s), let them adjust slowly to the situation, and if they bail, respect their decision.
FIRST OF ALL I THINK YOU ARE A HIGHLY INTELLIGENT AND SMART 17 Y/O.





You are a father at a young age, but you sound like you want to handle the responsibility.





Unfortunately, you will meet young people who are not parents and cannot understand the responsibility you have.





I say just be friends with this girl and allow her to become part of your life rather than jump into a relationship, esp. a sexual - because that could cloud your judgment and the last thing you need at the moment is another child - it is a huge responsibility.





The average parents spends about 52,000-60,000 a year on their child and the parents that do not make nearly that much have a hard time raising their children and spending time with them because they are working 1.5 to 2 jobs a week.





Go back to her and let her know that you just need a friend and hope that she would like to learn about you, and give you the opportunity to learn about her. And since you are a man/child - do not RUSH into a sexual relationship - you will become your daughters HERO - and I can say this because I was raised by my single parent dad. I love him more than words could express and so happy he took on the hard task of raising me.
I don't see that she said she didn't like you child, just that she wasn't sure how she felt about you having one. Let's face it ... guys or girls .. having children at such young ages will have an affect on your life and relationships. Since you're still children yourself (in the eyes of the law) it's shouldn't be any surprise that those you're trying to date may find it somewhat uncomfortable with children being in the picture ... you may be a parent, but that doesn't mean they're ready to be one 17. Go with your feelings and date who you feel you could be interested in .. and let things progress naturally.