hmmm so this friend whois a girl of mine is trying to set me up with her friend. I got her number a couple weeks back and asked her to do something but she said she was grounded and couldnt so i kinda took that as she wasnt interested.
But today in the hallway my friend introduced us and we didnt have much time to talk but i asked if she was ungrounded and she said yeah then i said we should hang (all 3 of us to take less pressure of her)
So tonight i text her asking to hang out tomorrow and she says she has old plans with a friend and she couldnt but we could do it another time over XMAS break. Well im going out of town most of break so i told her the only days i could do anything would probaly be saturday or sunday.
So to my surprise she said yeah. She asked me what we would do and i said i didnt care. Then i suggested dinner and a movie.
Then we exchanged about 7 or 8 good text and i think it went well.
So it is kinda my first date sooo. Any tips? I know she probaly doesnt see this thing as an official bf/gf date type thing and neither do i. But id like it to progress that way.
but today (friday) i didnt see her in the hall today cause ihad to stay after class but i was wondering if i shouldjust text her tonight to kinda confirm. Id jst say ';hey so ill call you tomorrow afternoon';
But if shes with her friend like she said she was i dont want to come across like im nagging or anything. The last thing i want to be is somewhere im not wanted. Id much rather a **** off than being strung along.
Or should i just not say anything to her tonight and just call her tomorrow afternoon?Quick dating advice???!?!?!?
Just wait until tomorrow and don't stress out about it. Your friend is friends with her as well, so you know they've already spoken about you at great lengths. Take it for face value that she was busy the other times and not trying to get out of seeing you. When tomorrow rolls around, call her and arrange a time. Dinner and a movie is a good first date because it gives you time to both talk and also sit quietly and not be pressured to talk. If she bails out on you again though, I would ask your friend what's up with her and focus on dating someone else.Quick dating advice???!?!?!?
Totally text her but be flirty. Say something like ';Im really excited to go see a movie with you tomorow! :) Do you want to do dinner first or a movie first?';
Hey Lass.
My insight....she isn't digging you. It seems like she keeps on avoiding you. That really bites, I know. But on the date, just be chill. If you are going to leave house a little earlier, go to the store and buy a single red rose. It's a very thoughtful thing to do. My boyfriend brought me one on our first date. I was incredibly flattered. I almost turned as red as the rose, but hey, that' s a good thing. If you really like her, it will show her that you care enough to make a special trip a get her something. And one more thing, dont forget to pay for it. It would be so uncalled for if you didnt.
Send her a casual text message. But dont start off by saying ';Hey';. That is an oportunity for her to not respond. If you automaticly ask a question, she will have to reply. But dont nag nag nag. After she responds, say something like ';Okay, I'm ultra excited. See you tommorow + sleep tight.Make sure to do the +. It's cute :D
well, i think you should just text her and say ';i cant wait untill tommorow it should be alot of fun. what movie do you want to see anyway?';
and also at the movie don't just sit there my ex did that and that was why i broke it off. send subtle hints like if it is a funny part look at her instead of at the screen or like look at her from the corner of your eyes , she will notice. try the cheesy yawn-arm thing i love it it is so cute and it gives girls a perfect chance to rest her head on your shoulder!
good luck boy!
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