Need dating advice! PLEASE HELP!!!!?

Im a freshman in high school and I still live with my parents. I've been secretly dating this guy for the past 5 months. However my parents hate him and told me not to talk to him or see him because they found out that we had been ';sex';ting two different times and grounded me twice for like 2 months. I continued dating him because I really care about him and we love each other. We were hanging out on Monday with two of our other friends at a playground when my mom showed up and found me with him. She took me home and grounded me again. Does she have the power to decide who I date? I always thought it should be mine (like she can suggest guys but its my final say in the end) and that if I make a bad choice, I should learn from my mistakes. I really hate dating in secret and only being able to hang out with him at school, but I have no clue how to get my parents to accept my boyfriend without them hating me the rest of my life! I need HELP!?!?!





How can I tell my mom how much I care about my boyfriend and that he won't hurt me without her freaking out and never letting me date ever again? I don't care how long it takes, I just want her to accept him. He's a good guy but my parents don't know him. Should I maybe get them to meet? Or is that a bad idea?Need dating advice! PLEASE HELP!!!!?
maybe your parent is protecting you from have a child while you are in high school if both of you love each other enough he can wait just few more years until you are 18.Need dating advice! PLEASE HELP!!!!?
well i suggest you ask your mum the reason of hating your boyfriend, and why isn't she letting you go out with him. i think its not a bad idea if your parents could meet him and have a bit of chat with him that way they will get to know each other.


hope your problems solves soon
Girl, you are doing the wrong thing: MY OPINION
Does she have the power to decide who you date?





Well, I don't think she should tell you who you SHOULD date -- but she has every right to tell you who you SHOULD NOT date.





She's understandably concerned about you being with a guy who was ';sexting'; you. She has a responsibility to protect you from guys who only want to use you sexually -- or maybe even hurt you sexually.





You need to understand that your mother has every right to worry about you getting pregnant, getting raped, or even ';just'; getting used by a boy who just wants you for sex.





And if a boy is ';sexting'; you instead of speaking to you like a human being and respecting you as a human being ... well, if I were your mother, I wouldn't want you seeing him either. I would want you to set your standards higher.


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