Girls, give me some dating advice please?

Ok, i'm 16, and i'm feeling really upset:(





I'm male. I'm clean, short clean hair:)





I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)





I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i wouldn't want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...





I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)





But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!





I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...





Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????





I like this one girl, that i am close to, and she gave her bf a hj/bj, does that mean she would want to do that to me, or what?











Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...


I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...





I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??





I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.





Help me please. what are ytour opinions of me?





How old are you, have you had sedx, would you ask for it in a relationship?Girls, give me some dating advice please?
30, yes, yes, although mostly I get asked first. Guys are like that.





Pick something that girls like - or that is reasonably co-ed - and join it. Church wouldn't kill you. Neither would the Sierra Club, honor choir, the thespian society, River clean up . . . Most high schools have clubs. You are going to have to go where the girls are, even if you don't plan to be a life-long member of the organization. That, or talk a little to the girls who sit next to you in class, before and after the bell rings.





Sitting under a tree being shy isn't going to attract anyone.





Set your physical standards lower, too. Lots of nice girls your age have a pimple or two, wear glasses and are 5 pounds over weight.