Ok I'm in my older teenager years and I don鈥檛 go out much to clubs…..however last night I went out and few girl keep on looking ….checking me out…but I鈥檓 shy and I can鈥檛 dance…. However I don鈥檛 know how to chat up a girl or what to say to them I would have liked to asked to have talked to them girls….but I am regretting it now….
As one girl kept on looking at me most of the night….however the night club was over and she was standing outside looking at me talk to my friends and I didn鈥檛 want to go up to her because there was five other girls and I鈥檓 shy of being turned down and been embarrassed
Any advice ???...(I'm going out tonight with my friend again so help me)Teen dating advice…..?
Youd find it easier if you had a mate of about the same age as yourself. Try to work as a pair rather than as a lone wolf, which is always harder. If you cant dance why not ask the girl to show you how to? It would be a good opener. You will be turned down, of course, and laughed at too, but then so has she believe me. So has everyone at some time. It is nothing new. It is part of the learning process. Talk about fashions, trends, pop music, all common grounds you will both know about. Is there a local football team? Sports club? Any other popular meeting place? Ask her to meet you there.Teen dating advice…..?
If she keeps looking she's interested so unless you say something really stupid you shouldn't get knocked back. I'm shy, I can't dance, I'm not much of a talker and I've been in your position a number of times and not acted on the opportunity and regreted it. The thing is, if you don’t act you may never have the opportunity again, she may think you're not interested or even worse someone else may end up dating her. If you leave the club without trying you may never even see her again.
hehe.. Ive been in that situation (when I was the girl staring ;] ) and I really just wanted the guy to come over and ask me to dance! I don’t care if he can't dance, just give me a good time (not in a nasty way)
when you go out again just take the risk and ask a girl to dance.. %26amp; if she DOES say no don’t let it get to you, just keep your cool but don’t try to act all ';macho'; either. Just smile and she'll def. say yes :]
good luck xx
If you're under 18 don't do it. Focus on school and do dating when you're outside the house
I would of just walked up and simply said how are you then see where it gos from there
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