I've been talking to someone online for about a week whom I met from a dating site. I'm 20 and she's 28 with a kid already, but that I don't mind. We exchanged some photos and she said I was really handsome. We live within an hour away from each other, so she already wants to meet. We hit it off and I love her personality.
My problem is, I feel really ugly. I have several scars and imperfections on my face. I would call the scars moderate, not severe. I'm afraid to meet with her because although my photos may look good, I don't think I will close up and in person...Do scars on men make them unattractive? Here is a photo:
http://i483.photobucket.com/albums/rr198/dancingomus/med_gallery_58265_8471_1455.jpgSerious dating advice please?
Your scars really are not that bad. I mean...that pic is super upclose....
Plus, if you act insecure...that will be a way bigger turnoff than any scar.Serious dating advice please?
if she really likes you, your face or scars shouldnt matter. and hopefully she has fell in love with your personality as much as you have with her. take a chance and if she doesn't like you just because of that then shes a jerkk and you are better off without. just take the chance, you never know how it could turn out.
We all have flaws or imperfections that we notice more than others, and we all are self-conscious about them.
She might be just as self-conscious about how you are going to react to her kid because a lot of people don't want to get into a relationship with a single parent.
I've got plenty of scars of my chest and leg, and I still get nervous when a woman sees them for the first time. Some are bothered by them; some aren't. I'm with this girl now who is well out my league. Of course, I was scared spitless of rejection the first time she would be able to see them, and they didn't seem to phase her one bit. And, I, to this day, still don't know what she sees in me. So, you really won't know until you meet. I know, mustering up the courage is easier said then done.
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