Parents and Dating Advice?

everytime i want to go out with someone my mom starts asking all these questions. and being all over-protective. she says i shouldn't go behind her back but she's forcing me to. im at the end of 7th grade. and she's giving me a hard time about dating. wtf? everybody else i kno says there parents have no problemo with it. and why is it such a big deal. but she wont even see it through my point of veiw.


she takes things so serious. like we're having sex or something. but its not even like that. maybe we will want to go to the movies or or to the mall or sum. but im not stupid. im not going to do anything over the limits. or let anyone do anything to me that im not comfortable with. i have tried to explain this to her but she wont even listen. she thinks im trying to be ';fast'; or ';grown'; but she wont even let act like a normal pre-teen. im soooo upset that i have to sneak and do stuff. i cant even tell her anything!Parents and Dating Advice?
well maybe its cause she knows how yhu roll lolzz..jp bhutt yhur moms loves yhu and only wants the best..she dnt want yhu to be like all tthese fast lil girls with babies in the 7th grade..she just showing yhur her love..bhutt maybe you should talk to her about and work out an agreement! lubb ya boo!Parents and Dating Advice?
Maybe it's because your still in middle school. She should start to trust you when you enter high school. But any way she's a mother, alright. It is her job to look after her kids and to make sure they don't get into any trouble. Also things arent the same as they are now, she's probably been in the same situation at one point. I suggest you talk to your mother about this, and try and work something out.
She's just overprotective of you, and doesn't want you to do something, and regret it later on. She's just watching over you. Or it's possible she doesn't trust you. I'm a freshman, and I felt the same way, whenever my mom told me stuff like, ';You can't have a bf, you're just gonna end up getting pregnant,'; and my reply was always, ';I'm not! I'm not stupid...'; But to be honest hun, I have a boyfriend, and my moms okay with it now, and we've been together for 6 months, and we talk about sex all the time. Although we're not ready for it now, as you grow up, you'll hear this and that about him and her not being virgins, and you'll feel pressured about it, and rushed to start doing it. I don't plan on doing it anytime soon, but there's a slight possibility, that when there's a coecidal (sp) chance, we just might end up doing it. But , like I said, your mom just cares.