Need Dating Advice!! NEED HONEST OPEN ANSWERS PREFFERABLY GIRLS?

Ive been told i look good by several of my friends n these girls from my school. I;ve had a few girls come up to me and ask me out but i just can't seem to hack it. I stumble in front of them and get nervous and once this girl tried to kiss me n i freaked n just ran away!!


How can i remain calm n composed n increase my confidence.





Id prefer advice and answers from girls





I also look alot like my avatar, no sriosly alot of my friends ave told me this





Im currently 14 years of age and am 179-180cm tall


Plz help meNeed Dating Advice!! NEED HONEST OPEN ANSWERS PREFFERABLY GIRLS?
you need to loosen up and be cool. a girl isn't going to bite, kill, or give you kooties.... just think of a girl that you might like, as one of your buds... just be yourself around them an you should be ok!Need Dating Advice!! NEED HONEST OPEN ANSWERS PREFFERABLY GIRLS?
think is is a girl friend that u have been going out with years and u are common with this








hope this helps
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The way you feel about yourself is the key to improvement. The things to say to yourself in your own mind is where your own self confidence lies. If you tell yourself you can't do something, then you never will. If you tell yourself that you can do something, then you will make sure you learn the skills to actually do this. Either way, whatever you tell yourself, you will always be right. The secret is to develop the skills of positive thinking, so that the voice in your head tells you that you can succeed. In the end you are totally in control of the person you become. So -





Like yourself. Like the way you look. Like the way you think. Like the way you behave. Until you can do this you will never be confident.


Respect yourself. Look after your health. Look after your life. Look after your money. If you don't respect yourself, then nobody else will.


Love yourself. If you can't love yourself, then you can't really love someone else, and nobody else can really love you. This is a key part of happiness that we all deserve.
i just typed suchhhh a long answer for this question, when you asked it like 10 mins ago, soooo. yeah.


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why ask again?





but here's my answer that i wrote to you before:





Well, confidence all depends on how you feel about yourself. If you tell yourself your're cute, funny, charming, whatever it is, then you'll most likely give off those same traits. I don't know how old you are, so that makes a difference. But coming from the point of view of being in highschool, I usually like guys who are confident, but also are willing to show their weakness. So if you stumble in front of them? Don't stress, laugh it off and don't take it so seriously. And just make girls feel liked; to be liked, others must feel you like them first. Compliment them, and keep things light, so if you get embarassed, you can just make it into a joke. Also, dont worry so much about what you're saying, as long as you arn't obnoxious then just talk and joke with them like they were you're friends, but more respectfully. I find that if someone, especially a guy, intimidates me, I make a point to meet them, and I get to know them by being friendly and I guess flirty. After that initial moment of uncertainty, it becomes really easy to talk to those people who made you nervous. Just think to yourself how great you are and how much they will like you, without being arrogant, DO NOT get conceited, just confident.


Hmmm, I guess that's it


hahahah hope that helped


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heya hon, its totally normal for you to be all nervous and whatnot...think about this... the girl is just as nervous as you, she may not be showing it..but i'm sure of it.. i was once 14 lol...its a whole new world opening up for all of you at that age...just take things slow.. try hanging out doing things you like to do with some girls, if ur comfy playing ball or something, ask them if they would like to go play it with you. or roller blading, whatever.. maybe movies.. if ur comfortable in your surroundings, it'll make it easier to be comfortable around her.. find some kind of 'check yourself' words you can recite to urself in your head... just be like' be cool' or idk, something.. i always like 'don't panic' from that movie..good luck.. and remember, u have plenty of time.
sheesh.. i'm 14 and i'm only 159 xD STOP GROWING.





i'm not really sure what you should do, just DONT become one of those snobby guys who think they're SOOO hot and can do anything. :)
just go out with me :)





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Its fine to get nervous.


Just freaky that you would run, seriously.


But you know its fine, because you're only 14.


girls should understand...


Hey you will learn all this stuff pretty soon...


and if you want to learn it now.. you need experience... so.. don't be a coward!


you should go out and have fun.


Just remember don't play... you will lose.