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Mormon dating rules.?


My boyfriends and I are intimate and mormon.I converted to Mormonism 3 mnths ago and he has been religious his whole life.Although we are facing difficulties,we plan on facing our difficulties and finding a way to follow the straight and narrow path.He is going on his mission soon I refuse to give up hope that we may strength our relationship with God together.Yesterday we had family night with his mom, discussing scriptures and seeing him being so diligent and as a Man of God...I know God does not face us with challenges that are more than we can handle...And I love him and Our Saviour.I came back from a religious program a couple days ago and I don't plan on taking what I learnt and not putting it to good use.I've been praying,reading scriptures but I want more advice on the rules of Mormon dating and what I can do.My boyfriend does not want to go to the bishop and we plan on facing this together in the eyes of God, by other means which i'm sure alot of you disagree on but I believe that We Can do this.Please help with mormon relationship advice and rules.Both Mormon,dating advice?
Going to the Bishop is the only way to get the correct answers. It seems your boyfriend doesn't want to do this because you have already been intimate. You may not understand the Mormon ';consequences'; of of intimacy outside of marriage, but he does.Both Mormon,dating advice?
So you want to repent, but you don't want to go through the bother of the repentance process???





Go see your respective bishops.
You would get better answers if you put this in the religion %26amp; spirituality section love : )
prayer n bless you for being strong
it's not even a real religion..... just do what you want
I'm Mormon, and I served a mission. Here is my advice to you both:





--How can he think that he will have the spirit to help him in his mission if he has a sin that needs to be repented of? He will be under more condemnation from God if he goes to the temple unworthily, and if he goes on a mission unworthily. This is a case of him ';fearing man more than God';. He is more worried about what his parents will say, or his Bishop will say, than what God thinks about all of this. I say RUN, don't walk, to the Bishop and start the repentance process.





--You can't repent of this sin by yourself. The Lord has made it very clear that in order to repent, this sin has to be confessed to the Bishop. If you don't do that, it can't be forgiven. It doesn't matter how many people you tell, or how you justify it, you can't be forgiven unless you follow the rules the Lord has set.





--Mormon dating rules:


1. Don't date before 16


2. Don't single date until 18


3. Don't ';makeout'; or ';pet'; Pet means to touch each other in private areas.


4. Don't have sex before marriage.


In addition, I suggest that you never lay down together.


You can read more by going to the LDS website and reading the ';For the Strength of Youth Pamphlet';





Let me just be really honest here. You guys are in deep doo doo. :) You both need to talk to the Bishop, and he probably will not be allowed to serve a mission. Your very membership could be in jeopardy if you don't follow this advice. I know that sounds harsh, but the Lord wants missionaries who are clean, and who obey the commandments.
Even tho I am ex-mormon I would say if he is not a jackmormon he has to go to the Bishop an dyou have to STOP being intimiate ASAP! He cannot go on a missiontrip like this, if he runs into a female that opens th edoor in her nothing ness his mind will not be clean and on the mission at hand I can guarnatee you! and some women think its a joke to open the door to the elders wearing little or nothing.


My brother incountered this and they were stupid enough to stutter thru a lesson while the women was half naked.


You cannot go to the temple and either can he, unless he plans on lying.
mormonism is a condradictory of the actual bible, do yourself a favor get out of that stupid religion, and even better become an atheist because there is no god no angels, there is nature