URGENT! Dating Advice, Please Help Me! (Thanks in Advance)?

I met this Girl a couple of weeks back. I got her number on the first meet after her and a friend approached me. Then a week later they admit ';they both thought i am hot';


I must admit I am not very experienced with women and thought you guys/girls may be able to help.





I like this girl and Friday Nite sent a text saying something like:





Me: Alrite Louisa How are u? u got any plans 4 the weekend? What u up2 2nite (i dont wanna here it if its dirty. Lol) + do drunk I love yous count?





To which she responds. Can't remember what though.





So we then continue to text through Saturday





Then Saturday Nite, just before 11, she sends.





Her: I Love u!





Me: Really?





Her: Yep





Me: An I am drunk i love u? or serious?





Her: I Love u





Saturday Morning:





Her: What u up2 2day? So what u said ';I am drunk i love u'; last nite True? or False?





Me: (respond True in a roundabout way) and ask what she thinks of me? (Probably really AFC in PUA terms i Know)





Her: Unfortunately No response (so i text her again)





Me: Ok Cool, I get the Message. Blah Blah Blah (something about my plans for the day)





Her: Sorry Babes, was in the bath. Your where? (in my book a lame excuse) Thus still not answering my question ';what do you think about me?';





Also after she text me Saturday nite with ';I love u'; for the second time.





Me: Do you want to take this further?





Her: (Again no reply to the question asked, but she did reply) Hows ur Nite?





Due to my lack of experience with women. I do not know if this is serious or mind games. Please Help!


Note: I played mind games to begin with 2 show both interest and disinterest. In order to look unneedy.


Also Note: I have found it hard to get to talk to on her own (in person) she is always with a close female friend of hers (making me kind of uncomfortable). Which I think is ruining are progress. Again Any Advice Welcomed.





Am i not being Dominant enough? Should I be pushing the relationship forward? with out asking silly questions like:


';what do you think of me?';


and ';do u want to take this further?';





These girls want to keep seeing me. So there must be some interest.





I havent done much Kino (touching) or kissed. Not used to this. Should I be making these moves to check for her compliance?





I am confused she is sending me mixed messages and I don't know what to do next. HELP!





Sorry for the Ranting Post. Any Advice would be greatly appreciated. Many ThanksURGENT! Dating Advice, Please Help Me! (Thanks in Advance)?
theres more than one way to interpret her texts.


personally i think shes teasing you to see your reaction and provoke you to say something silly.


but even if she isnt, theres no way a guy should try to be 'dominant'. sure, i think the guy should ask out the girl if he really does like her, but too much dominance can make a girl feel disrespected, unappreciated and inferior. girls like to be made to feel special, but it has to be genuine, we can tell if it isnt. if i were you, id get to know the girl better as a friend first, so you know you're making a good decision. i wouldnt kiss until you're a little bit into an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. dont worry too much about kissing cos if thats all she wants from you then she mustnt genuinely like you. make sure you arent being used, that she doesnt just want to show you off or use you as an 'experiment'.


i hope this helps! :-)URGENT! Dating Advice, Please Help Me! (Thanks in Advance)?
Sorry - I got confused half way through your mail - maybe shorten it and make it a bit clearer
ask her in person.. its harder to dodge the questions and easier to see reactions :)
she's playing you! sorry but it's true, don't text her first let her make all the effort towards you and see how it goes x
girls are funny creatures :P


from a girls perspective, i really don't think shes looking for a relationship, i think shes just looking for attention. Like she's saying she loves you but then when you question her about it she gets quiet, sounds like shes just flirty or maybe its just a friendly gesture, i know i have sent messages to my friends that say i love you but its just as friends, maybe this is how she means it but doesn't want to tell you otherwise. Just see where it leads, you may need too talk to her about it in person, it might be easier than just through texts





hope this helps :)