Monday, August 23, 2010

Need some dating advice please!?

Ok here's the deal. I met this guy recently online (we happen to be have been classmates in high school). He mentioned that he liked me in high school but he was a bad boy and i was a good girl ( all true) and he didnt want to corrupt me...lol. Well we have now had 2 dates and had a gr8 time and have chemistry. The dliema is he is going thru a divorce. It was filed end of feb and is final in sept. He has been living seperate from her for 6 wks.The reason for the divorce is ever since their daughter was born 6 yrs ago she has ignored him, no affectionate, doesnt want to spend time with or talk to him, intimate 1x yr, she spends all her time with the kid and none with family friends or ever by herself.etc...they tried to work it out once and this is the 2nd time they've filed. I dont feel they will work it out, and he said hes been past it all for years now. Should I wait till he is divorced to cont to date him?


I really am starting to like him and he's changed a whole 360 since schoolNeed some dating advice please!?
totaly. mostly because he'll be in stressed moods and the dates wont be as good, trust me i should know my parents are in a divorce i know how they actNeed some dating advice please!?
I would suggest taking it slow being that there is a possibiity that the marriage may still be salvagable...Do you know for sure he has filed? Congrats on giving him a chance however and realizing that people do change and grow
i would take everything extremely slow. Hang out for a bit, but don't make anything official until either the divorce is final or its getting closer. Divorces can get bitter and maybe he needs a friend to get through it all. Be there for him and let him know that you care, but under no circumstance be introduced to his daughter as Daddy's girlfriend. That right there makes everything a lot harder on the child and the divorce that much bitter. If when his divorce is final you want to try a relationship, go for it. But in the mean time, don't rush anything because it isn't just the two of you in the relationship. You also have his daughter's feelings to consider.

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