Gay dating advice please help?

Hi! this is a little long so brace your self!!





So yeah, i would like to explain my past weekend for you. Before i do that however i must back up to a few monthes ago. While on myspace, i got onto my friends profile and noticed she put up some new pictures of her recent vacation.





In every photo ,there was this really cute boy. He would be kissing her on the cheek, she would be kissing him on his cheek, and cute little things such as that. I was like yeah good for her, to bad hes straight. I had a total crush!%26lt;3





So fast forward it to last friday,last day of school. My friend ( who had the cute boy on her myspace) my other friend(who is a girl) had planned to go to the zoo which is 2 hours away..





The day was all set. Until my friend(the myspace one,who i will refer to as Sarah) said ';Hey, i invited my one friend to come with us.'; Now being generally easy going and always ready to meet new people i said'; Sure, who is he?';


She said'; His names Ryan....he is gay.';





Now just so you know, i am not out yet.. Only to some people but not all.





Anyway after school we head to pick this guy up from a town on our way to the zoo. We pulled up to a movie theatre where he worked(his family owned it also).





The door opens





he walks out











Its the cute boy from myspace.





Who was also apprantley gay..and did those pictures with sarah because they are best friends








I about choked on my yoo hoo as he walked up to her car.


(we took 2, he rode with sarah i rode with my other friend)





So we spent the day at the zoo having fun and what not.





Afterwords we went back to the movie theatre because he had to work. We watched a movie there and left for home..





Honestly, i was so upset because since sarah and my other friend still think im straight.. i couldnt like try to flirt or anything:(





Which really sucked because besides being the cutest thing i have ever seen, he had all the personality traits that i adore.





So what do you think of that?





But heres my question, I thought about coming out to Sarah that way i could tell her what i thought of her best friend....good idea?





Ryan lives 10 to 20 mins away from me. I dont know if he likes me or not because he was under the impression that i was straight.





Also , how could i arange more get togethers with him. without telling the whole world i was gay..





So any comments or answers about my little crush here would be great!! Btw sorry its so longGay dating advice please help?
Well, first as you know you should totally come out as soon as possible..feel me? I think that you should be able to live your life as freely as anyone else. Second, you do need to maybe confide in a couple people that you know would never let any secrets out. You need to be able to be ';real'; with someone. So, I would totally let someone know, and this seems to be the perfect situation to do so. She seems like someone who would understand being that she already has one friend who is gay..right? So, do it. But I would come out to her because you want to, not just because you want to get with her friend. She may feel like you would have other wise hidden it from her if you weren't interested in her bestie. Good luck.