Need dating advice. Opinions from girls especially appreciated?

I think I'm starting to feel lonely now. I'm 19 and I've been single all my life. I mean I'm not intimidated by women I think I was too independent and busy with studies and work that I gave no time to dating. Like I did not see a necessity for relationship. Now I'm feeling alone and lonely. And I think I don't have game.





I mean I'm attractive I know that girls do like me but I just don't know what to do in response to them. What should I do? I also have this fear of rejection so IDK.Need dating advice. Opinions from girls especially appreciated?
Sweetie, everyone has a fear of rejection. Sorry, but you are not alone on that one. The secret is to be able to hide it so that not everyone you encounter see's it in your eyes.





At 19, you have plenty of time to sow the seeds that will reap the best relationship for you. Please do not allow your loneliness to sucker you into a troublesome romance.





Get out to places where the women are. Have friends to introduce you (not hook you up with ie: blind dates) to women who are also looking to meet someone for a relationship. Talk to them...and listen to them when they speak.





If you show genuine interest and concern, a woman will open up to you and make it easy to move into a deeper relationship. Make her laugh. Treat her with dignity and respect, even the ones you are not interested in dating.





I assure you your future wife is just as afraid of rejection as you are. Meet women and make friends first, the pursue the romance.Need dating advice. Opinions from girls especially appreciated?
okay sorry hun but your going to have to get over that fear of rejection thing. Look at it this way the worse they can say is no and them saying no leaves room for someone else. No isn't that huge of a word for the normal human we all hear it at sometime in our life. just be yourself, and i know that sounds cliche but really, if a girl approches you ask her how she is, what her interests are and just try to get to know her, don't leave the house trying to go look for a girlfriend or else you will be disappointed everytime the more girls you meet the better the chances are of you finding that someone special
Everyone has fear of rejection, it's just a matter of plucking up one more once of courage than you have of fear and going for it. I almost see it as an advantage that you've never been in a relationship, it might be easier for you now to understand what you're looking for (versus most of us who have just dated the wrong people to figure that out). Like you said, girls like you, just be yourself and don't get too worked up around them and I'm sure you'll find someone in no time!
Unless they have the biggest ego in the world, everyone has a fear of rejection. Girls too. But think about it - what's the worst that could happen? Even if she does say no, unless she's a total b*tch (in which case she's not worth your time anyway) she's not going to bite your head off. However, based on what you've said there, it sounds like that shouldn't be an issue.





My suggestion would be if you like a girl, ask her to do something with you, just a really casual thing as friends like a movie or dinner. Go out, have a good time, talk. If it goes well, plan something else together. Get to know each other a little, and then ask her out. This works, just ask my boyfriend. :)
It's understandable that you didn't give much time to relationships in high school because you were focused on your studies. Are you in college now? I say join some clubs, talk to people in class. Study groups are a shoe-in to meeting people.





Just be yourself and don't seek out a relationship because you're lonely. Make friends first. The right relationship usually happens when you least expect it. Sure you'll be nervous, but that goes away.
Go up to a girl and be yourself, just start talking and confidence always comes off good. Don't brag or anything and don't be a creeper just be yourself and things will workout. Good luck! :)