GIRLS? Dating advice please?

Ok, i'm 16, and i'm feeling really upset:(





I'm male, i'm clean, and have short clean hair:)





I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)





I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i wouldn't want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i WOULD NOT want any other services, (bj etc)...





I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)





But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!





I do like this one girl, and i don't know if she likes me, we are really good friends, and she is probably my best friend of all time, and we are really open with each other about everything, but i don't really see her, so do i need to try and get myself to ask her to meet me?





I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...





Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????





Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...I'm not saying i don't want anyone thats a christian, i'm a christain, but i dont really belive in all of it, and neither do i go to church...





I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...





I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??





I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.





Help me please.





I've been told that i am good looking, by a few people, but then again, i've only spoken to a few people.





I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p





If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn, i am not looking for a relationship with anyone just to chat, if you dont wabt to, i fully undertstand





I dont know what to do:(





Thanks for your help:))





How old are you, have you had sex? Would you ASK for it in a relationship?GIRLS? Dating advice please?
First off, you're only 16 and it is not a given right or a demand in life that you have a girlfriend at that age. I know plenty of people who didn't have their first girlfriend or boyfriend until college or even after. It sounds to me like you need to mature a bit more - that was quite the rant - and figure out who you are before you go into a relationship. It is not worth being able to say you have a girlfriend if you are going to be so worried about the whole sex thing and constantly questioning if she wants anything more than what you're willing to give.





A lot of girls fall into the idea that sex is all guys want because a lot of times it is all they want...no matter the age. They often learn from older siblings or older friends, even their parents unfortunately, that it's what guys want. There are, yes, a lot who will sleep with anyone and let you know ahead of time that they are willing but there are many who also don't want to be like that and you will simply have to wait to find that one who agrees with everything you do.





Asking for someone to post their MSN on here is a really stupid idea. Sorry but not only does it make you seem like a sicko stalker but that's not what Yahoo Answers is for.





Just chill, do what you need to do to be yourself, and don't focus so much on getting a girlfriend. It's not that big of a deal that you don't have one and that you are a virgin. I was one until I was 31, when my boyfriend at the time, my first boyfriend by the way, forced it. People have no idea how important it actually is until they lose it...and to the wrong person. Be patient and 'she' will come around eventually.GIRLS? Dating advice please?
I am 22 just got married


never asked to have sex with my now husband.


it is definitely hard...but i just rather save the sex for marriage, it


makes it more special.for both...


Your young, and it is admirable that you dont think it is smart at least right now to not be sexually involved with anyone...


and to your friends that are younger than you and having sex...


well it is sad that this world thinks like this:


if it feels good, do it....


Just take your time you are still 16...


Enjoy being young and living life for now...school and your hobbies...


you'll know when you find the right one...


Best wishes!


You can email me if you have more questions


you have to lead your heart not follow it...
ok omg chill


no i dont want to msn you but your 16 not wanting sex especially for a guy is weird


just get a gf you dont have to do it on your first night and if your that paranoid wear 2 condoms or someting !!! lol


just get a gf and see where it goes from there