Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Who has dating advice? easy ten points :)?

I'ma make this short cuz i know i hate reading things when there long. lol.





but i have to get advice.


if you have it.





I dated this boy for like 5 months on and off.


and then we had hung out a while back,


and then yesterday he came over.


we had an amazing time.





and i thought he liked me, or whatever.


but then i dropped him off, and later that night we were talking on the phone.


i asked him out, and he said that I lived to far away.


and i only live like thirty miles away from him.


and he doesn't seem like he likes me more than a friend.





what's the deal?





augggh.





i like him alot!!Who has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
he dusnt want a relatiionship he prolly jus wants sex


stll hang withhim tho u neva knon if hell change his mindWho has dating advice? easy ten points :)?
Well first off, who broke up with who usually? If it was you who broke up with him, perhaps he is afraid to go back out with you because he is afraid of getting hurt again. He is afraid of spending more time with you, because each time that he spends time with you, he starts to care about you more and more, and he thinks that is only setting himself up to get hurt.





However, if it was he who broke up with you, it sounds like he is searching for an excuse to kindly say that he does not like you. If that is the case, I know it is hard but it is best to move on.
You asked him out??? Is he gay? What was the reason that ya'll broke up in the first place? Maybe he's not interested. Ask him what's the deal? Why doesn't he act like he's interested if you and him have an amazing time together/ good luck
it sounds like to me that he's over you and just wants to be friends or/and he's leading you no which trusst me that isnt good and it doesnt feel good either. just ask him straight up ';do you like me?';
Sounds like he was just being honest with you. He enjoys your company but wouldn't want to drive 30 miles every time he wants to see you. At least he's not leading you on.
if he seemed like he liked you maybe he really ment it when he said he lived too far away. or maybe he likes someone else
Get rid of this scumbag.
He's lazy.
pretty clear he doesn't want to date you. He just wants a friendship.
look heres the easy way to say it. If a guy likes you its OBVIOUS you dont have to guess. You should only try to be with a guy if he constantly tries to talk to you and hang out and all that. He pays you compliments and is a real gentleman. If a guy doesnt act that way and you feel you have to guess then hes just not that into you. Many women make the mistake of coming up with excuses for guys not acting that way when in reality 6 months down they line in hindsight the guy obviously wasnt into them. Plus they guy you want to be in love with should do all of the above things right away anyway dont you think?
The first and best dating advice is to avoid getting stuck on someone that doesn't like you for real. You will have to figure if that is the case or not yourself though.





Second, get to know how the person is (their personality) before you take it to the bf %26amp; gf level, don't rush. You need to know if this person is right for you first.





Third, I know people say that opposites attract, but that's BS sometimes. If you can find someone that has similarities with you and that you also like, then things will go much better. Friendship is important for a long-term relationship, and if you 2 are too different personality-wise that will bring problems sooner or later.





Figure out what type of guy you like or what qualities do you want in your guy (I am talking personality traits here) AND try to talk to single guys that might be like what you want. Refer back to #1 above if one of these guys shows no interest though. There is nothing worse in the dating department than wasting time on someone that doesn't like you.

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