Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?

Im 17, I used to be over weight as a kid, and ever since highschool, ive had quite a transformation, i used to be the girl, people had crushes on but wouldnt admit it, now i'm the girl, thats ';hot and intimidating'; so they stay away people usually think im dating someone, well thats what guys i've lucky gotten close to tell me. Anyways, i met this guy online, and we texted for quite sometime, decided we would hang out, and we had alot of chemistry,he told me he liked me, and i did as well, so he calls me baby, and cute things like that, meets my mom, asks me to homecoming, and one day we made plans, he was supposed to call at 2, ended up not calling for a week, he was ';grounded';. Next we talk on the phone again he ';misses me'; and hangs out with a friend of mine, tells her he's falling for me, and she confesses to me he's had a gf this whole time, he's just ';using her'; and what he really wants is me. what would you do/say, ialready confronted him and he said sorry for not telling me.I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?
I think you should be careful because if he could play that girl, he can easily play you.I need dating advice, what would you do, if he did this? (teen)?
It doesnt matter what you do. It's highschool. You won't remember this in ten years unless he knocks you up and you end up stuck with him. Use protection.
Kinda scary he might have been falling fr her at first than changed to u. He could do that to u. (btw- dont find people on line it isnt to safe) But he might actuallt be in to u. but will he find someone else?
.Real bad start for a relationship
Dump him. Who's to say he wont cheat on you? If you have problems meeting someone in your school then your probably not showing interest in them.
he's an *** hole for not telling u





hes not worthy of u and if he's ';using'; his gf what makes u think he wont ';use'; u
Forget about him! -- I know this may hurt but -- He does NOT care for you!! Why else would he be with another girl?? -- He is just bored and is a low-life rat. Plain and Simple.
he is a two timing lier dump him and move on million of guys out there need a good girl ..
Once a cheater always a cheater. You are young and you have MANY MANY years to decide on a guy. dont get hung up on one loser that you dont even seem to ';love'; yet.
That's not right. You should stop dating him. I know he may use pretty words and huge apologies to make you feel like he's REALLY sorry, but it's most likely fake. Even if he likes you a lot, he shouldn't have been cheating on you no matter what. And if he did it once, he could do it again. The choice is yours, but be prepared, because there's a possibility you could get really hurt. I don't mean to put you down, or sound hateful toward him, I just care and from what it sounds like, he's not the one.





Best wishes,


Serena =]
Dump the jerk. If he's been lying about having a girl friend for this long of time in which he was trying to get you as a girlfriend then he's TROUBLE!!!!! He's just playing dangerous games and you should be not part of it.
';hot n intimidating'; gurl dont need stupid boy like dat..just ignore him coz if he meet wit someone whois hotter maybe he'll do it all over again..he telling your friends about his gurlfriend is all part of his plan...he's a player...y dont u brake him in his own game..
sounded like a great guy until you mentioned ';using her';. remember, if he could do that to her, he could do that to you too. because you've met him online, and don't know him well in context of his life, school etc, you should be careful about him. if he liked you enough, he could've just send you an email or SOMETHING during that whole week he was 'grounded'.


i guess you can take a chance with him, but if he starts being flaking and pulling excuses again, drop him!


just remember, if he did it once, he could do it twice - or more.





good luck and be safe!
Do whatever you think is right. Don't kid yourself though, if he's already lied once he may do it again.


You may need to wait while he ties up loose end with his current girlfriend.


However you two want to be together, go for it.
鈾ump him because that is so mean to do to the other girl! 鈾?br>

He sounds hot though! :)

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