Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?

My boyfriend of two months says all these sweet things to me all the time and he's a sweet guy and everthing but i don't think i fully trust him yet...what can i do to start trusting him more because he's never given me a reason to not trust him i have trouble trusting people. He talks of marriage and how for his birthday he's going to give me an engagement ring because he says he doesnt need a present hes got me....i'm so confused of my feelings...is it too soon for him to have already said he loves me??Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?
Your man might be trying to control ye woman. Thoust should let not get too emotional i would ever so suggest.Is he serious?? Marriage Advice..../dating advice?
trust your instincts first. i think there might be something up with him. maybe he doesnt know what true love is, but my friend's parents dated for a week before marrying. now they have been together for 20 years .
He's not serious. He's saying what he thinks that you want to hear so that he could have control over the relationship. Politely but firmly tell him that it's too soon to be taking about marriage and that this relationship will go slow. You are confused about your feelings and you don't trust him yet because your instincts is already warning you that this guy is trouble. If he doesn't want to slow down or if he pressures you to do anything, get out and don't regret it.
Yes it is way too soon to talk about love and marriage. Trust takes time as does love.
He might actually love you. And if he does that's fine. But trust your feelings. Your intuition. I believe trust is earned, its not given away. Take your time - marriage is suppose to be forever.
There are people who have been married over ten years that the guy popped the question on the second date. Gene Simmons of the rock group Kiss has been living with a woman for over 20 years and has several kids with her but they're not married.





Length of time before you know someone as far as getting married is not really relevant to whether or not it's right, what typically counts is whether things do seem to be right. Personally I think that before two people get married they should live together at least six months. This gives them an opportunity to discover what the other person is like. It can take up to six months for people to 'drop their shields' and you then find out what they're really like. (It's almost impossible to keep up a facade that long, which is why the 6-month period is recommended.)
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