Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need dating advice! please please please help!?

ok so i have this friend. actually best friend. and the other night we hung out for a while just the 2 of us. he was kinda flirty i guess. then we met up with some other friends. after, when wed all gone back to our own houses we were texting and asking each other ?s. %26amp; he asked me who i would make out with. i jokingly said umm.. probably you. ha really though idk. and he was like really? cause ... nvm. and i was like what? you have to tell me! and he said he would m/o with me too. so i asked him what this meant for us. and at first we talked about how whatever we did we would do it in secret, because we didnt want people talking about us. and then he said ';i think it would be good bcuz we both wouldnt tell anyone %26amp; weve both never madeout, so thats why i said you'; then we talked for a little while more and the conversation ended with him saying well i guess were just friends for now. %26amp; we havent talked about it since. what does this mean %26amp; what should i do?? please help i really like this guy!





+ dont be rude!I need dating advice! please please please help!?
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Well that was really cute of you both, it is nothing else but a blossoming relationship in the future. It is just that you guys like each other from inside but, don't want people from outside to know because they have bad reputation on you guys. Just be good friends with him and do whatever he likes and when time comes don't miss your chance of feelings for him. Tell him the truth in your heart.
Aww, well it sounds like you both like each other. I dont mean this in an insulting way- but you also sound very young.





I would advise not talking about it too much- that will make it seem awkward and forced. I think that you should just continue seeing your best friend and see where it leads. Maybe you'll get a kiss, maybe not, but at least you know that you have a great friend.
All I got out of that was that the two of you want to make out and keep it a secret. I am not being rude, just truthful of what I got out of that. I will say, though, if the two of you want to get together, then you should. And it looks like he wants to as much as you want to, so go for it.
just take it one day at a time...dont overthink the relationship becaused if it doesnt work out you dont want to ruin your friendship. just continue being yourself and let him make the moves. if he really likes you though he want wont to make it private and you shouldnt either....if you two like each other you shouldnt have anything to hide from anybody!









He was saying that he wants to make out with you. He said the friends for now because at the time you had not done anything yet. If you really like him txt him and tell him that you like him and want to persue the relationship further. Its that easy.
I have been this the same situation!


And personally it was better for me and my friend to stay friends.


If you think about it friends are forever and boyfriends are only a month.


But ultimately its your and your friends decision.





Hope this helps and every thing works out!
this means he likes you and you like him. if i were you i would ask him out or start dating because whenever a guy secretly does stuff with a girl the girl gets attached and the guy leaves her. most of the time that is.





good luck; i hope i helped :)
Hmm. He ended the conversation with ';I guess we're just friends for now,'; so it means, you are just friends. Wait until you are alone together again and see what happens.
you and him are friends just for now which means that it can grow into something more so have patience and see where this friendship leads to it might lead to u and him being together as a couple
He doesnt want to step past that line just yet. Maybe he's not ready, or maybe he just doesnt want to ruin the friendship
just txt him be like i think i might like you but if u dont like me then ttly ignore this cuz we have lots of fun being friend.:)
he isn't ready.





coax him to get to that point
Well guys are tricky and I know what you mean I hate it when guys dont make a move by asking you out....but if you really like this guy than try and keep bring it up in subtle ways like flirt more and just keep on talking to him....and wait....if you really cant wait any longer than ask him out but if your old fashion than it is fine just wait it will happen trust me.....just be there for him and listen to wat he is saying and look for hints that he likes you too......let me know how it works out by emailing me at caseycas103


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that's sweet. well making out is something that just occurs and is one of the best romantic gestures. notice that i said romantic. sure you can m/o for other carnal reasons, but it will not be he same as when you do it backed up with intense love. if you do m/o don't do it just to do it, do it because you feel strongly for this particular person. come on its your first time and you'll always remember it. it may lead to something greater. talk to him. guys understand. we are not the jerks that we are made out to be. just be straight to him, don't beat around the bush as the saying goes, for that will make most guys mad. and when your m/ o you'll know what to do. don't worry. it's ike it is programed into our genetic make up.

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