Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Need help & dating advice it's urgent. plz?

Hi, Actually there is a girl at my work place: she Nigerian and i'm an Indian guy.


The thing is i never had a date in my life(i'm 23) i have many female friends though. i have a crush wiz that girl and she is very nice to me as well. i asked her for a movie and some shopping yesterday. she came in and spend the whole day with me, we did not talk anything about love but we talked stuff about hobbies, family, studies, travel.


DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OF HOW TO MAKE THE CONVERSATION MORE INTERESTING? I NEED SOME JOKES, FUNNY STORIES OR OTHER IDEAS JUST TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING AND MAKE HER LAUGH, other than my maths jokes which she hates( i'm a maths geek), she doesn't has a boyfriend either, she sends me loads of sms abt movies, work related issues. She never told me that she loves me and me neither.


I'm not looking for sex or anything, but i like her companion, but when she is wiz me i don't have any idea how to make the conversation more interesting, longer and make her laughNeed help %26amp; dating advice it's urgent. plz?
Just be yourself. It sounds like you already are having good conversations. Nothing is worse than a guy who tries too hard to impress or girl or make themselves out to be something they are not. She obviously likes you, or she wouldn't waste a whole day with you. Ask her questions that may help you to get to know her better, or share with her some different life experiences. You are smart to not get into any relationship or lover conversations just yet. It is far too early for that.Need help %26amp; dating advice it's urgent. plz?
don't tell jokes. besides its short so if looking for extended. talk about family ,all siblings, mom, dad, grandparents is alive,and kid if any, and none about ex thats boring unless why broke up or how long but brief.,, or she will be bord to tears, especially if sport span,school or education and what your good at and enjoyed and if still interested or go. work if like or not, other jobs, friends, pets. C'om that's a lot of convo so pick 1 or 2 topics and save others for another day.
One guy I dated always had good stories. Events that happened. Something funny when he was a kid. He told the stories with such passion that it made me laugh so much. Try to think if you have any good stories to tell. She'll learn more about you and you may make her laugh.





I agree what the other guy said, it's way too early to talk about love. Stick with getting to know one another. Just because you weren't laughing the whole time doesn't mean she was bored.





Best of luck!!
You are on the right track...you shouldn't jump into love conversations...talking about hobbies and interests is the first thing to do...





Try not to try too hard otherwise it wouldn't work....take things smoothly...and you don't need to have a database of jokes to keep her interested...





Be busy, spend time with her, and work on your goals...this is attractive...but don't expect her to have the same feelings for you...
B stupid ii love stupid guys it makes me feel smart and kind of like im impowering to him say something like want to hold hands now maybe be a little more straight foward and be ike soo (tell her one of your secrets not anything really big but maybe just the most funniest food you eat or something really weird you do but not something gross jjust something weird and funny) and then be like what is your funniest food





after that do a truth or dare game if she says truth be like what do u want to do right now or what do u think of me or do u wan tto do something daring right now or what is the weirdest romance youve ever had


if she says dare dare her to kiss you or to go out with you or something funny to give you a lap dance lol or give you a lap dance to the teletubbies song or dare her to sing i love you u love me we make a gr8 family with a nic nac patty wak give yourself a bone ect. soemthing funny and some weird things that are just bizzare to make her laugh








hope i helped


good luck





i wish u the best





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