We have been going strong for quite sometime now, and things have been going pretty good (regular dates, no fights, and plenty of smiles). However recently we both have been pretty stressed about different things in our lives. We are still together, but our attention was focused elsewhere for the moment. Now that things are kind of back to normal in terms of our daily lives, it seems that its a lot less give and take from her end. I am the one that makes the phone calls, and I am the one that schedules the dates. I don't want to confront her about it if I don't have to, but I don't want to break up with her either. We both believe that we are perfect for each other, and we have both decided on a commitment. But it is really irritating to feel like the only one to all the work. ANY ADVICE??I could use some dating advice?
You should tell her how you feel. A one-sided relationship is not a relationship at all. It can seriously make one miserable if they have to do everything.
Just let her know what's up. If she's not cool with sharing the responsibilities, then maybe this is a sign that she's not as serious about the relationship as you are.
Good luck!I could use some dating advice?
I have found that honesty and being up front is the best way to approach this. I may cause a fight, but then you can make up :)
Talk to her!
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Any advice for dating a Scorpio?
I'm a Sagittarius and he's a Scorpio. Our chemistry is amazing. We've only been on two dates and both times we were out until sun rise talking. I'm in awe, which never happens for me. I've never felt this way about someone, it's kind of intense. Anything I should be warned of? Are there any general things that turn scorpios on or off? Any advice about dating a Scorpio is welcome...Any advice for dating a Scorpio?
I have dated 3 scorpios my son is a scorpio and my babys daddy is one too iam a virgo.One thing i always notice about scorpios is they are very sensitive %26amp; any little thing has an affect on them bad temper also well the ones i dated at least.They are very loving and make you feel like your the only one.They are also very unique and diff then everyone else so hold onto him but remember that everything affects them and they are emotional and sensitive but afraid to show it..Any advice for dating a Scorpio?
Never deny sex to him unless you are physically ill. Give him plenty of affection. Never put him down or say something mean intentionally. Never push him away, always be open to communicate even when you are really upset. Expect him to be the head of the relationship because he won't have it any other way. He will be alittle selfish so expect that. Be open and willing to try things in the bedroom because he will want you to. Just a warning, sometimes Scorpio men can make you feel like your the only one when infact you are one of many. If he disappears on you from one day to the next this is why. Some can be like that.
dont try to make him jealous
or dont flirt with other guys.
that could really screw up the relationship.
prove to him hes the only guy.
There is lots and lots of stuff to unravel. You'll find out a new secret every month.facial
I have dated 3 scorpios my son is a scorpio and my babys daddy is one too iam a virgo.One thing i always notice about scorpios is they are very sensitive %26amp; any little thing has an affect on them bad temper also well the ones i dated at least.They are very loving and make you feel like your the only one.They are also very unique and diff then everyone else so hold onto him but remember that everything affects them and they are emotional and sensitive but afraid to show it..Any advice for dating a Scorpio?
Never deny sex to him unless you are physically ill. Give him plenty of affection. Never put him down or say something mean intentionally. Never push him away, always be open to communicate even when you are really upset. Expect him to be the head of the relationship because he won't have it any other way. He will be alittle selfish so expect that. Be open and willing to try things in the bedroom because he will want you to. Just a warning, sometimes Scorpio men can make you feel like your the only one when infact you are one of many. If he disappears on you from one day to the next this is why. Some can be like that.
dont try to make him jealous
or dont flirt with other guys.
that could really screw up the relationship.
prove to him hes the only guy.
There is lots and lots of stuff to unravel. You'll find out a new secret every month.
Confused as you don't know what...dating advice needed over here?
have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that w would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote ';that we can meet up
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';we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing';...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..Confused as you don't know what...dating advice needed over here?
I think this guy likes you but maybe he isn't financially able to date. Invite him somewhere that wouldn't involve money. If he accepts and you enjoy each others company you will figure out things to do together.
If he puts you off again then tell him you thought he wanted to be friends and when he figures it out to call you. Insecure people can be hard to read sometimes.Confused as you don't know what...dating advice needed over here?
It seems he's WAY too busy, or trying to avoid you. Maybe should give him some time, it might be bad timing if u ask him out at a time like this.
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';we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing';...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..Confused as you don't know what...dating advice needed over here?
I think this guy likes you but maybe he isn't financially able to date. Invite him somewhere that wouldn't involve money. If he accepts and you enjoy each others company you will figure out things to do together.
If he puts you off again then tell him you thought he wanted to be friends and when he figures it out to call you. Insecure people can be hard to read sometimes.Confused as you don't know what...dating advice needed over here?
It seems he's WAY too busy, or trying to avoid you. Maybe should give him some time, it might be bad timing if u ask him out at a time like this.
I need some dating advice.?
I'm 14 years old and I'm almost 15 (in November). I'm going to be a freshyy this year, and I brought up the subject of ';dating'; (an apparently deadly word in my house), and my parents are like ';YOU ARE NOT DATING UNTIL YOU ARE 16!!';, and I'm so pissed off. Almost all of my friends (we are in grade 8) have/had boyfriends, and even 6th graders at my school have boyfriends, so I feel like a loser. I am not being forced to have one, but me and a boy both like each other back, and when I told my mom that I liked him, she yelled at me saying that I'll have sex and become pregnant, but I know that he likes me, and wouldn't force me to do anything (he's mad nice=]). How do I convince my parents that I'm old enough %26amp;+ responsible enough. PLEASE HELPI need some dating advice.?
Try to understand your parents. They have the responsibility to protect you until you're old enough to take care of yourself. Of course they're worried, they know there are a lot of bad guys out there who would just want to take advantage of you. As a parent, I would be concerned, too.
That being said, you cannot put a certain age on maturity. I know people who are being more mature at age 16 than others are at 25. It really depends on how you've behaved in the past and how much your parents trust you. The way you tell the story, they don't seem to trust you much at all, at least they don't think you're old and mature enough to have a boyfriend.
The only way that I could think of would be to actually spend some time with that particular boy under the ';supervision'; of your parents. Now I know this sounds awkward, but you can make it less awkward if you pick an activity that all of you can enjoy. Do something casual like bowling or mini-golf or whatever you're in to. Just give your parents a chance to meet him and to see you and him together.
Hopefully when they see that you really like to spend time together, they will lift the ';absolutely-no-dating'; restriction to a ';be-back-by-ten'; restriction.I need some dating advice.?
well just be friends with benefits its the same thing with out the label ya :) iim allowed to have boyfriends just no boys over my house
Do it behind their backs..
Try to understand your parents. They have the responsibility to protect you until you're old enough to take care of yourself. Of course they're worried, they know there are a lot of bad guys out there who would just want to take advantage of you. As a parent, I would be concerned, too.
That being said, you cannot put a certain age on maturity. I know people who are being more mature at age 16 than others are at 25. It really depends on how you've behaved in the past and how much your parents trust you. The way you tell the story, they don't seem to trust you much at all, at least they don't think you're old and mature enough to have a boyfriend.
The only way that I could think of would be to actually spend some time with that particular boy under the ';supervision'; of your parents. Now I know this sounds awkward, but you can make it less awkward if you pick an activity that all of you can enjoy. Do something casual like bowling or mini-golf or whatever you're in to. Just give your parents a chance to meet him and to see you and him together.
Hopefully when they see that you really like to spend time together, they will lift the ';absolutely-no-dating'; restriction to a ';be-back-by-ten'; restriction.I need some dating advice.?
well just be friends with benefits its the same thing with out the label ya :) iim allowed to have boyfriends just no boys over my house
Do it behind their backs..
I need teenage dating advice? (READ THE DETAILS!)?
I went on a date with a girl I like. I had gotten myself really nervous about it, because it's the first time i had a date with a girl i actually really liked. Because of this, I was nervous and didn't talk to her enough and there were some awkward silences. So my friend asked if she liked me, and she said that I was too shy and quiet and couldn't hold up a conversation.
That was really bothering me so I decided to talk to her honestly about it. I explained to her that it was only a one time thing and that im normally a very talkative person and asked if that was why she rejected me and all that. She basically implied that that was pretty much the reason, and also she likes to get to know people better before taking it to the next level. So I said ';Maybe we can think about taking it to the next level if you like me and we become better friends'; and she said ';okay, or when you feel more comfortable.'; Does what she said sound like she's open to dating me in the future once we're better friends and i show her that i'm not nervous around her?I need teenage dating advice? (READ THE DETAILS!)?
It sounds like she is open to the idea of being with you, but just barely. Try to overcome your shyness quickly. When she says ';when you feel more comfortable'; it is a soft way of saying that she is giving you a small amount of time to impress her.
That was really bothering me so I decided to talk to her honestly about it. I explained to her that it was only a one time thing and that im normally a very talkative person and asked if that was why she rejected me and all that. She basically implied that that was pretty much the reason, and also she likes to get to know people better before taking it to the next level. So I said ';Maybe we can think about taking it to the next level if you like me and we become better friends'; and she said ';okay, or when you feel more comfortable.'; Does what she said sound like she's open to dating me in the future once we're better friends and i show her that i'm not nervous around her?I need teenage dating advice? (READ THE DETAILS!)?
It sounds like she is open to the idea of being with you, but just barely. Try to overcome your shyness quickly. When she says ';when you feel more comfortable'; it is a soft way of saying that she is giving you a small amount of time to impress her.
Please help me, dating advice needed!!! (guys: reference on how NOT to act)?
so i like this guy. we have a long history, i think weve always had a little crush on eacho ther but recently weve been talking alot more, mostly on aim. sometimes the conversation stalls but the other times we just seem to be flirting. he is known to be the player type and im mos def not that, but he first time we hung out he tried to kiss me but i wouldnt let him he has asked who i like and if i want to go to the movies or hang out again several times and ive always said that it sounds like fun. he also told me to save a dance for him at a dance we recently had, but never asked although he walked right by me. we have talked since, and he asked who i like and i said idk, he said no one, then asked what i was looking for and we both said prolly not a relationship, although i am looking for one, so i prolly should have said i was but i didnt, anyways, he is really confusing me and if anybody could help me understand this i woulld REALLY appreciate it. THANK YOU!!!!!Please help me, dating advice needed!!! (guys: reference on how NOT to act)?
I think this guy is just as confused as you at this point--he just might not realize it. Sit him down and say ';we're figuring this out now.'; Tell him you're confused and you want to know what's going on (because you have a right to know what's going on).
I think this guy is just as confused as you at this point--he just might not realize it. Sit him down and say ';we're figuring this out now.'; Tell him you're confused and you want to know what's going on (because you have a right to know what's going on).
Help: i need dating advice in college!?
im a male freshman in college, and i met this girl who is very pretty, but i definitely believe that personality is wayyy more important than just looks.
so i want to get to know this girl better.
the way our first time hanging out goes like this: I told her i was stressed out from school/ home, which is why i havent saying hi to her when i see her. her response, much to my surprise, was that '; i can help you with homework if that makes you feel better :)';
soooo, as a result, we hung out last week doing homework for a little bit.
and this weekend we are doing the same, because i have a test coming up in a class im bad at, and she said she would help me study if i want her to.
the thing that gets me is, we RARELY see eachother, and when we do, its only for like 10 seconds in between classes, b/c our schedules are different, so its not like we know that much about eachother, and she has plenty other guy friends, but she has agreed for now 2 times to do homework with me.
why do you think that iS???Help: i need dating advice in college!?
Seems like you have found yourself a nice girl to spend time with. you should tell her that you feel great that she is ';helping'; you out.
Maybe she is offering you help because she is a nice person, or maybe she enjoys doing HW with you.
Looks like you are rushing it a bit fast. Get to know her more.
Ask her to lunch or even grab a snack on campus, something fun with her other than your HW. try it.
so i want to get to know this girl better.
the way our first time hanging out goes like this: I told her i was stressed out from school/ home, which is why i havent saying hi to her when i see her. her response, much to my surprise, was that '; i can help you with homework if that makes you feel better :)';
soooo, as a result, we hung out last week doing homework for a little bit.
and this weekend we are doing the same, because i have a test coming up in a class im bad at, and she said she would help me study if i want her to.
the thing that gets me is, we RARELY see eachother, and when we do, its only for like 10 seconds in between classes, b/c our schedules are different, so its not like we know that much about eachother, and she has plenty other guy friends, but she has agreed for now 2 times to do homework with me.
why do you think that iS???Help: i need dating advice in college!?
Seems like you have found yourself a nice girl to spend time with. you should tell her that you feel great that she is ';helping'; you out.
Maybe she is offering you help because she is a nice person, or maybe she enjoys doing HW with you.
Looks like you are rushing it a bit fast. Get to know her more.
Ask her to lunch or even grab a snack on campus, something fun with her other than your HW. try it.
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