I have bulmia and i am a big girl. Ive been dating but i really struggle with a bloke being too into me. I feel trapped when they are so full on with txting me and wouldnt someone without bulmia find this lovely and not stressful like me? Also i find it such a turn off when a bloke says he likes big women. im disgusted with myself so how can i like a bloke who finds me attractive. Is this all bulmia talking or is this something other women without eating disorders feel also? I find i have to get out of the dating when they keep giving me lots of attention and compliments and im not so into them. i really would like some advice as i cant cope with dating as i get so stressed out.Bulimia and dating: advice please?
i think you need to get over your bulimia before you start dating! im an expert on anorexia and bulimia you need to get help. im not them kinda people who says get help your stupid. i know what your going through. but i don't think anythings going to work if your going to continue to feel like this when you date XD hope this helps your situation
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Need some dating advice. NOW?
My girlfriend and I have been together for two months now, and have decided to consummate our relationship. We have discussed precautions, and I feel we have taken everything very seriously.
Last night, she asked me if I would take a suggestion. We had been making out, and I was almost certain it would be “our” night. She jumped up, went into the other room, and rolled a large map of the United States, with weather-related magnets all over it (sun, “H”s and “L”s, storm clouds, etc.). She asked me to stand in front of it, and begin to give the weather forecast to her. Obviously, I wasn’t prepared for this, so I began to ad-lib it. As I progressed, she asked me to replace any instance where I might say the words “San Diego” (where we live) with “our bedroom”. For example, she asked me to say, “Today, it will be very hot and moist...in our bedroom”. The more I talked, the more obviously aroused she became.Need some dating advice. NOW?
Only some kind of a twisted freak would even come up with this idea.Need some dating advice. NOW?
You got a kinky one, there!
Turnabout is fair play - she now needs to do the full sports report nude, including the stupid sports like womens basketball.
You weren't complaining when you did this for me when we were together, stop tryng to act like you didn't like it too %26gt;:-)
i just want to know why she waited two months to bring this up...i think i'll ';borrow'; the idea...
this is obviously from the head of a psycho, a psycho GENIOUS
She is a very playful and creative woman. She's a keeper! You'll get used to it, really. That's no reason to be humiliated, it's a game. She's really into you, can you tell?
I would highly doubt she's going to want you to do this EVERY time you have sex. As long as the sex was good, I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Now...if she tries to get you to be the weather girl next time, then you may have a problem.
Next time darling - I would suggest letting your fingers do the ROAMING
Works for me anyway
Think yourself lucky you don't live in Alaska
Next time just videotape it. That way she can watch it before you guys copulate.
She likes fantasies, just let her know your not into it all the time.
Sounds hot.. can you introduce me to her?
That's slightly bizarre! If it makes you feel humiliated, you need to tell her that. I'm sure you'll work out something that is comfortable and exciting for both of you.
Just bring your Bert and Ernie costumes next time so she knows how you roll.
Just be like: I'll show your exosphere a high pressure system. And then you can bathe in my jet stream.
Last night, she asked me if I would take a suggestion. We had been making out, and I was almost certain it would be “our” night. She jumped up, went into the other room, and rolled a large map of the United States, with weather-related magnets all over it (sun, “H”s and “L”s, storm clouds, etc.). She asked me to stand in front of it, and begin to give the weather forecast to her. Obviously, I wasn’t prepared for this, so I began to ad-lib it. As I progressed, she asked me to replace any instance where I might say the words “San Diego” (where we live) with “our bedroom”. For example, she asked me to say, “Today, it will be very hot and moist...in our bedroom”. The more I talked, the more obviously aroused she became.Need some dating advice. NOW?
Only some kind of a twisted freak would even come up with this idea.Need some dating advice. NOW?
You got a kinky one, there!
Turnabout is fair play - she now needs to do the full sports report nude, including the stupid sports like womens basketball.
You weren't complaining when you did this for me when we were together, stop tryng to act like you didn't like it too %26gt;:-)
i just want to know why she waited two months to bring this up...i think i'll ';borrow'; the idea...
this is obviously from the head of a psycho, a psycho GENIOUS
She is a very playful and creative woman. She's a keeper! You'll get used to it, really. That's no reason to be humiliated, it's a game. She's really into you, can you tell?
I would highly doubt she's going to want you to do this EVERY time you have sex. As long as the sex was good, I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Now...if she tries to get you to be the weather girl next time, then you may have a problem.
Next time darling - I would suggest letting your fingers do the ROAMING
Works for me anyway
Think yourself lucky you don't live in Alaska
Next time just videotape it. That way she can watch it before you guys copulate.
She likes fantasies, just let her know your not into it all the time.
Sounds hot.. can you introduce me to her?
That's slightly bizarre! If it makes you feel humiliated, you need to tell her that. I'm sure you'll work out something that is comfortable and exciting for both of you.
Just bring your Bert and Ernie costumes next time so she knows how you roll.
Just be like: I'll show your exosphere a high pressure system. And then you can bathe in my jet stream.
I need dating advice badly...?
ok i'm 15, about 7 months ago i dated this guy named ';M'; ( tahts what we'll call him for now) M and I were like .. amazing together, but then we broke up... for no good reason i'm not really sure what happen. then a few months after that we ';sexted'; and got caught, so our parents hate us. now it's been about 6 months, and I'm dating this guy named ';D'; and we're really happy, atleast he is... like he's SOO sweeet and wouldnt do anything to hurt me, but he's kinda boring and obsessive.. ';M'; called me today and confessed himself about how he REALLY likes me ... and wants to get back together. but my parents hate him and his hate me.. idk what to do, breaking up with ';D'; would be devistating for him... and ';M'; would lead to problems with my family, but i like ';M'; more. i think. he's just more fun, and i'm just so dang confused. i need DESPERATE HELP!I need dating advice badly...?
well fiine someone else then break up with D and say no to MI need dating advice badly...?
i think what you should do is break up with both of them! wait and find someone that will be the best for you and remember, don't rush things!
Parents are a good judge of character at times, if they don't like M then you probably shouldn't be with him. And you need to break it off with D because you still have feelings for M and that's not fair to D. It sounds like you need to stay single for awhile! Just take some time to yourself, you don't need a man to complete you! and your so young don't worry about boys right now!!!!!!!!!
If you really like ';M'; more then go for him, cause even if both of the parents dislike you it shouldn't matter as long as there son is happy they should be happy and the same goes for your parents. so don't worry about what they have to think just follow your heart is the best thing to do i hope i helped and good luck!
i think regardless of parents you shudnt let that get in the way.
you should just break up with D and go back out with M.
clearly M makes you happier so go for him.
who cares what parents think and im SURE they dont hate you and theyll forget about that and put it in the past and move on %26amp; end up loving you both =)
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Well, I think you should break up with D, because clearly you don't like him as much as he likes you. Just say you need some time away. And I think you should see what happens with M. I don't think you should get back together with M right away.. or D will know why you really dumped him. So i say stay single for a couple days at least.. and see what M does.. and if you really want to be with him !
You like M because he is the bad boy. You like D because he makes you feel secure. Trust me, I know you hate to hear this but you are so young to be so serious. Just be single and enjoy your teen years. flirt with whomever you want(just be safe) and have fun. trust me when you get into your twenties those relationships will make you laugh.
Tell them both you want to be friends.
Your parents are only trying to look out for you-just be careful next time you are doing those things. Your parents were young once too so they know more than you think.
Your desperate all right.
Your dating a guy who is obsessive and boring so you won't be alone and/or so his feelings won't be hurt.How PATHETIC is that hon?
You and ';M'; shot your wad by being trashy and ';sexting';.No wonder your parents hate him and his hate you.Neither set of parents want to become GRAND parents!
You need to STOP dating until your parents say it is ok and then it needs to be with a guy you date because he is a good decent human being and because you like him,NOT because you just have to have a b/f and anyone will do or date a guy because you feel sorry for him.That is so loserish.natural cosmetics
well fiine someone else then break up with D and say no to MI need dating advice badly...?
i think what you should do is break up with both of them! wait and find someone that will be the best for you and remember, don't rush things!
Parents are a good judge of character at times, if they don't like M then you probably shouldn't be with him. And you need to break it off with D because you still have feelings for M and that's not fair to D. It sounds like you need to stay single for awhile! Just take some time to yourself, you don't need a man to complete you! and your so young don't worry about boys right now!!!!!!!!!
If you really like ';M'; more then go for him, cause even if both of the parents dislike you it shouldn't matter as long as there son is happy they should be happy and the same goes for your parents. so don't worry about what they have to think just follow your heart is the best thing to do i hope i helped and good luck!
i think regardless of parents you shudnt let that get in the way.
you should just break up with D and go back out with M.
clearly M makes you happier so go for him.
who cares what parents think and im SURE they dont hate you and theyll forget about that and put it in the past and move on %26amp; end up loving you both =)
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Well, I think you should break up with D, because clearly you don't like him as much as he likes you. Just say you need some time away. And I think you should see what happens with M. I don't think you should get back together with M right away.. or D will know why you really dumped him. So i say stay single for a couple days at least.. and see what M does.. and if you really want to be with him !
You like M because he is the bad boy. You like D because he makes you feel secure. Trust me, I know you hate to hear this but you are so young to be so serious. Just be single and enjoy your teen years. flirt with whomever you want(just be safe) and have fun. trust me when you get into your twenties those relationships will make you laugh.
Tell them both you want to be friends.
Your parents are only trying to look out for you-just be careful next time you are doing those things. Your parents were young once too so they know more than you think.
Your desperate all right.
Your dating a guy who is obsessive and boring so you won't be alone and/or so his feelings won't be hurt.How PATHETIC is that hon?
You and ';M'; shot your wad by being trashy and ';sexting';.No wonder your parents hate him and his hate you.Neither set of parents want to become GRAND parents!
You need to STOP dating until your parents say it is ok and then it needs to be with a guy you date because he is a good decent human being and because you like him,NOT because you just have to have a b/f and anyone will do or date a guy because you feel sorry for him.That is so loserish.
I need dating advice!?
my BEST guy friend ( the guy i like )and i have been flirting alot lately.. everyone says that he likes me so i got his best friend which is also one of my good friends to hook us up at first the guy i like said he dusnt know if hed go out with me then just today he told his friend that he dusnt want our friendship to be ruined then he said that he wouldnt want what happened to me and his other friend who used to be dating to happen to us.. so idk what to do.. i want him to kno that i like him way more than his friend and i know that the same thing wouldnt happen but idk what to do HELP ME!?I need dating advice!?
dont kno what to say cause im in the same situation. but i guess you could just go for it. you should stilll talk to each other afterwords if your best friends.
dont kno what to say cause im in the same situation. but i guess you could just go for it. you should stilll talk to each other afterwords if your best friends.
I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
okay i'm 18 and moving to san francisco in a couple of days to go 2 school. I am very good at giving relationship advice. I give relationship advice to all my friends, it almost seems like I know men and women when it comes to relationships like the back of my hand. The thing is that I have had the worst luck with relationships and can't seem to find someone. I have been single for a year. I consider myself to be an attractive person with a great personality, I wear nice clothing and present myself in a professional mature way, but why is it that I can't seem to find a date. I always seem to attract the losers with no brains that will come up to anyone. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong!I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
6th grade dating advice?
o.k i am in 6th grade i am 11 i skipped a grade. Now when I was new in the beginning of the year i was stupid i tried to be teachers pet this guy named Will liked me wanted my cell number me avoiding him he went out with a 7th grader stupid me really liked him so now he broke up few more weeks of skool I keep dreaming about aking him out but just can't so don't know what to do he hardly ever talks to me because I was dorky now i am pretty cool I don't talk lay back dress cool but he dresses cool but can talk i cant dont know what to say older girls are mean never talk to me so what do i do? I really really like him a lot never told any1 i did though plus there is this other girl really ugly but every1 likes her cause she cries and is dramatic she now is single so i got to hurry. I am the prettyest 1 in my class 1 is an indian and 1 has zits they ar ugly so help i really really like him before other girl gets him what to do?6th grade dating advice?
let me lay u out on somthin i herd that if u go up to a boy kid and hes talking to his freinds u can ask them or if that dosent work you can be really flirty is he in ur class if so u can go up to him and act all flirty if that dosent work just call me or just email me!6th grade dating advice?
You are kinda self absorbed... That may be why he doesn't like you. other than that I couldn't really understand what you were saying.
you should try to talk to him more like on aim or something and get to know him better. make sure he is the one you have been looking for before you try to ask him out. boys are immature and it takes a while for them to mature and change. at first when you didnt like him and he knew, he moved on and went out with someone else. boys are like that. but yeah, try talking to him more and be a little flirty so he'll get the hint that you like him again. best of luck to you =]
let me lay u out on somthin i herd that if u go up to a boy kid and hes talking to his freinds u can ask them or if that dosent work you can be really flirty is he in ur class if so u can go up to him and act all flirty if that dosent work just call me or just email me!6th grade dating advice?
You are kinda self absorbed... That may be why he doesn't like you. other than that I couldn't really understand what you were saying.
you should try to talk to him more like on aim or something and get to know him better. make sure he is the one you have been looking for before you try to ask him out. boys are immature and it takes a while for them to mature and change. at first when you didnt like him and he knew, he moved on and went out with someone else. boys are like that. but yeah, try talking to him more and be a little flirty so he'll get the hint that you like him again. best of luck to you =]
I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
hahaha. But, seriously, I need some help with something.
(there's kinda of a LOT to read but just please read it all)
Okay, I just started high school about a month ago. I met this girl that I had noticed once in June (when I was taking this other class), and I started to like her. She's very cute, shes a great taste in music, and a cool style. Well, I asked her out (on Facebook, yes I'm a dumbass) and she said yes. So, I'm all happy about this, and then a week later we go on a ';official date';. Well..... It doesn't go great, and the problem is that we didn't talk enough. So, that night (again: on facebook [lol]) she tells me that maybe we should just be friends for a little while to help get to know each other better...... that was two weeks ago... we're not dating. So, it's not that we haven't been talking like at all! but, it's just like.... I don't know if she likes me, and I don't want to get to hung over her. So, what should I do to really figure this out? I still like her, but I don't know if she does.
Please help any way you can. :)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
Just take it easy and get to know her. The best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Just be there for her and she will eventually come around. =)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
well, all you have to do is just ask her if she likes you. flirt with her. text her cute text messages.
:)
if she doesnt like you, THEN, there is other fish in the sea. (;
(there's kinda of a LOT to read but just please read it all)
Okay, I just started high school about a month ago. I met this girl that I had noticed once in June (when I was taking this other class), and I started to like her. She's very cute, shes a great taste in music, and a cool style. Well, I asked her out (on Facebook, yes I'm a dumbass) and she said yes. So, I'm all happy about this, and then a week later we go on a ';official date';. Well..... It doesn't go great, and the problem is that we didn't talk enough. So, that night (again: on facebook [lol]) she tells me that maybe we should just be friends for a little while to help get to know each other better...... that was two weeks ago... we're not dating. So, it's not that we haven't been talking like at all! but, it's just like.... I don't know if she likes me, and I don't want to get to hung over her. So, what should I do to really figure this out? I still like her, but I don't know if she does.
Please help any way you can. :)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
Just take it easy and get to know her. The best relationships are the ones that start out as friends. Just be there for her and she will eventually come around. =)I need dating advice, I'm a stupid teenager!!!?
well, all you have to do is just ask her if she likes you. flirt with her. text her cute text messages.
:)
if she doesnt like you, THEN, there is other fish in the sea. (;
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